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I swear to god OP if you don't do everything in your power to make him drop this bitch...

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>>17193580

Either learn to live with your best friend's wife or lose your best friend.

He won't choose you over his wife.

Doing or saying anything will only hurt your relationship with him. If he asks for advice, tell him the truth without being an asshole about it. Don't let your hate for this woman overcome your concern for him. Your objective in this situation is helping him, not punishing her.

Trying to shake sense into a delusional person is just going to turn them against you, so if he doesn't ask, keep your mouth shut and just make sure you're there from him when he realizes he made a huge mistake.

>>17193580
This sounds like bait.
If he hates her, why the hell is he getting married?

Is she forcing him to marry her?

Should've told her, "I'm only interested in using your body for sex, you down? "

Then you wouldn't be in this situation.

>>17193548
be straight and clear things up before something worse happens

She hold the sexist notion of men as providers. Instead of making personal efforts toward the goal of emotionally seducing you or another man she internally blames you for not giving her what she wants. This is something you should talk about, and most likely break up over, since you have grown incompatible.

let her go

>>17193525
Willpower

>>17193543
>>17193544


Damn you guys suck today.

Go ahead, make yourself look like the desperate orbiter that you are.

>>17193503
Leave it. Dont overthink this shit, she doesn't want anything with you and there is no need to make a fool out of yourself

>>17193503
Just message multiple girls, so if one doesn't respond you can focus on the others. Also don't be so desperate.

Lmao I went to Berkeley. CS had something like a 2.5 GPA requirement in order to declare the major.

Now its like 3.5 with lower division classes having 2,500 kids in it.

>>17193480
>What's the go-to major nowadays for "fuck off i just want a job"?
Not getting a degree at all and just working.

>>17193487
University of Washington's CS department has gotten so competitive you basically need a 4.0 to get in, and even that's not a guarantee.

Which led to tons of rejects applying to Applied Math, so now you need a 4.0 to get into that.

Which led to tons of rejects applying to Electrical Engineering, so now you need a 4.0 to get into that.

In all, about 5-6 majors have become competitive-admissions solely due to CS rejects, including applied math, regular math, EE, information sciences, and even fucking physics.

Oh, and the satellite campus UW-Bothell had its CS program become competitive too. And Western Washington University, which is about 2 hours north and usually an in-state student's second choice after UW, now has its CS program overflowing with people in its intro classes and people are taking 6 years to graduate due to lack of space for upper-division shit.

Shit is fucking hilarious. When I graduate with me MechE degree I'm gonna buy a pack of cigars and smoke them while reading bitchy reddit posts about not getting into ANY of these programs.

She's not into you. She wished you a happy birthday to be nice, but no real feeling of needing to reconnect with you

>>17193495
Is there a way to salvage the relationship? Don't get me wrong, I still go out and look for other women but she is literally non degenerate and has great values.

Maybe she isn't interested in me because she is older, has a master and surrounds herself with lots of successful people. I didn't go to college but my job involves saving lives on a daily basis so maybe she is way out of my league. We did go out and eat together back then but since I asked her if she was interested into knowing me better, she has been a little more distant

>>17193520
>relationship
You don't have a relationship, what are you talking about?

Only when I'm looking for a one night stand. I'd go insane if I had to filter my words around someone with whom I'm in a long term relationship.

>>17193475
Yes, I filter my words around women. I am a woman. I curse less to fit in.

However, I don't filter my words around men. Not sure if it's a good or bad thing.

>>17193475
Only thing I won't say is nigger and nigga, also I won't talk about my interest in the Syrian war or history. Other then that it's no hold bar

>>17193470
Read and talk to people smarter than you.

Stop posting on 4chan for one
Secondly go modify your genes and relive your childhood

>>17193470

Read more. Srs, and I don't mean the avg shit on this site. Pick up critically acclaimed books, preferably psychological thrillers. They'll sharpen your mind and expose you to so much more sophisticated language.

An easy book to start with is the Da Vinci Code

It saddens me that people take school this seriously. More so that they have to if they want to be "successful" in life. Keep in mind, a degree comes with no gaurenteesof anything because at the end of the day, it's just a piece of paper.

If you can manage a job that supports your lifestyle without a college degree, you should.

Let me put it this way: a degree along won't get you a job and employers will always look more favourably on someone who worked while they were studying than someone who didn't.

Plus, having money is always good

>>17193500
>a degree along
*alone

Masturbate.

>>17193444
we live (and sleep) together, in fact right now neither of us have jobs (on purpose, we have savings and want to be together), so I am rarely alone
besides, he's the one who turns me on so fucking much

buy sex toys like dildos to keep yourself busy i guess

and distract yourself so you don't feel horny. Play some games like tetris. Okay im kidding about tetris, but games in general. Tv shows or movies i can recommend but dont choose the shows that has sex in it. Or do hobbies nd shit.

I have a high sex drive too, but i just keep myself distracted

If you can't even think of a way to make money fast, you're going to fail at any idea we give you.

Construction.

You will not make that much money selling drugs unless you're moving weight which requires a lot of planning and awareness to make sure the feds don't roll up on you.

>>17193424
Just want some ideas m8 take your condescending bullshit elsewhere

ask her on a date

>>17193409
> Hey, would you like to grab a coffee some time?

Tell her that you would like to spend more time with her and then suggest an activity where you could spent more time with her.

You simply state you're not looking for a relationship. It's up to her if she still wants to fuck, or fuck if you're her boyfriend.

Just curious as to why you don't want a relationship with here? Also, if she's giving strong signals just be honest with her, and I mean bluntly honest. I had a friend in the exact same situation, except the girl definitely liked him. He basically told her that he'd fuck her, but that she shouldn't expect anything of it. Sure enough they were fucking upstairs within the next 30 minutes. Look at it this way OP, if a girl you wanted to date was willing to have sex with you but not be your girlfriend, you'd probably still take her up on the sex, because that's a win-win for both parties.

>>17193410
i agree with anon OP
but don't get upset you dont get to fuck her. Also what kinds of signals was it if i may ask?

>>17193305

Stop being angry, bitch.

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>>17193305
Well for starters, what makes you so angry that you lose control? Past trauma or something?

What makes you happy, or calm?

>>17193305
See a professional. Cbt most likely is a good way to find out what causes your anger, but with treating such grave problem, someone with the knowledge helping you through is always a plus.

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>>17193292
YouTube?

Is TitsnAss taken?

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