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>>17192472

No.

You're welcome;

umm yes as well. The answer is they can. You just have to face facts that it will suck.
The truth is this, if a couple breaks up because of distance, it wasn't really the distance that broke them up.

/adv/ quality relationships - no.
actual good relationships - probably.

You wont hear the good stories as often as the bad ones. Especially since 4chan is full of retards who'll have been burnt.

she will wreck your shit.
Please NO don't do it.
Clingy is so bad because you will end up trading your happiness for hers and she will manipulate you into feeling like you're the bad guy in most situations.

>>17192451
Most girls are pretty clingy/dramatic/crazy at that age.
If in a couple of years she grows up, stay with her. If she doesn't, dump her.

you see OP the dumping part isn't as straightforward as it sounds. Please listen when I say you can get trapped emotionally in relationships that hurt you, because these clingy girls will rely on you a lot, tell you they can't go on without you and you can't seperate yourself from them, because they make you feel responsible for their happiness and it hurts bad. You can't just walk away from a clingy girl. Clingy people are just people trying to start relationships to fill gaps when the most healthy thing to do is fill gaps before seeking relationships

>>17192425
(cont)

The only precaution is having first aid at the ready for any insect bites, or if someone falls and scrapes themselves or worse. Then having good amounts of food at the ready, and while driving, making sure everyone is hydrated and awake (or at least the driver). We all have Camping experience, just not really hiking experience.

This is probably the one time that this trip could work out, but my parents are REALLY hesitant. I really want to go, but if it's just my young-adult mind saying "i'm invincible!" when in reality it's a dangerous trip, then let me know.

Is it dangerous? Yes. Is it too dangerous? Doubtful.

You do need to be MORE than prepared though, so look at making sure you always have a working form of communication to the nearest emergency service (if that means pooling together to buy a satellite phone or something, then do it.) Take more food and water than you need (as much as you can carry, ideally) and make sure you have some serious cold weather gear in case the worst happens and you get stranded for a night on a hike.

Honestly you should be fine, but being prepared is never a bad idea. All it takes is one of you taking a wrong step, breaking a leg, and the whole trip could turn nasty in an instant. Safeguarding against that is a very good idea.

Also, bone up on survival tips. And check hypothermia/exposure information, and for any potential wild animals (Canada was reasonably safe if memory serves, but just in case.)

I mean, it should be safe enough for any group of adults, but you never know. (Frankly you have a good plan but taking extra measures will A) make you safer and B) make your parents feel you are responible and will be safe.)

Where in Canada are you referring to? BC is different from Ontario., we have a lot of climates and topographies up here. Also if you're 20 remember it's legal for you to drink here so pack some brews.

OP here The bend is about 30 degrees I'd say.

Calm your tits. Your dick is normal. Also are you underage B&?

>>17192344
in junior high somebody found out this mexican in our class had a curved dick and for the rest of his school years he was known as candy cane dick

Run out of money, it's for life

- Never start.
- Learn statistics.
- Learn about investing, risk etc.

Stay away from places that allow you to gamble.

>>17192293
Often ask myself that, mostly at random times. But I would advice avoiding this dumbass negativity scenario plays in your head. Just live. LIVE.

And why does it matter the number of people who come to you burial.

I don't care, I'm not an attentionwhore. I live for life not for others attention.

My family, my friends

probably around 30 people

how old? occupation?

>>17192405
18
I flip burgers

have any goals if yes what are they?

Try it with guys.

stop masturbating

>>17192265
Like for good? But what if the nerves are fucked up or something? How do I fix that?

What's the explanation for not feeling the inside of a vagina?

>>17192243
Fuck.. I'm the opposite mate.
Definitely not boring, easy on the eyes and smart.
i struggle just getting to a first date.. Most of the time chicks will just stop talking to me for reason and stop replying.
Maybe I'm boring to people who can't put in the time to see into me. The few women and friends that try to understand me adore me.

Anyway, looking for proper responses to you. Maybe I can apply the reverse to myself?

Try hobbies, or find something to be passionate about. I may be a massive nerd, but without those nerdy obsessions I would be the most vanilla and boring person imaginable. Even my sense of humour is informed by my interests, which shows how integral my choices and interests are to my personality.

You would be more attractive as a complete nerd who has passion than a vanilla nobody that does nothing of interest.

Take it from a guy in a steady relationship, being someone interesting will attract someone. Being nothing attracts nothing.

>>17192253
I think it's partly cause I have weird interests. I really like politics and trolling shit, as well as really bad movies but most of it does not even interest them

Stop holding on to the past

Go smash some new pussy

I think we owe it to ourselves to at least enjoy our time together instead of just calling it quits. OR "start over" and really appreciate each other. We have never had the type of relationship conversations that we just did and i think Coupled with the pressure of the limited time we have together I think really trying to appreciate each other could make the relationship work in a long term sense opposed to just a college relationship.

so should i try to move on and just be friends with her in the future or should i keep fighting for her? (my gut tells me i need to keep fighting but im just looking for advice/insight)

Chasing her will only push her further away.

Get her to chase you. Cut all contact, disappear from her life.

In a few weeks she'll start to miss you and will start chasing YOU. She might even message you in five days of not hearing from you.

But you can't convince an ex to get back with you. If you do, you'll just break up again very fast. You have to get her to want you back.

Do. Not....chase...


No contact is the #1 rule of getting your ex back.

Little bit drunk so forgive typos

>>17192177
by commiting suicide.
do it.

This board blows massive amounts of ass.
>>17192180
Look at this idiot.

I'm not saying he should kill himself, but being non-specific is the lamest attempt at humor.

It's also the lamest attempt at being helpful.

Be specific.

Are you Doctor?

Why did you get it prescribed then?

>>17192205
>>17192190
I didn't. Doctor gave it to me and I never did once mention I'm depressed, just had issues sleeping. I heard Prozac or ADs really fuck you up in the long run.

no and probably not. Go see a doctor

>>17192161
Not normal. Something's wrong. Is this a genetic thing in your family?

>>17192161
Are you under a lot of stress? It can cause premature greying.

>>17192149
Maybe she has some sort of anxiety problem? That doesn't read like a typical blowoff to me.

We're not mind readers, we can't tell you exactly why she's doing it. She might just change her mind, she might find something better to do, she might enjoy fucking with you, who knows.

What we can tell you is that if someone does this regularly then they're a piece of shit and you shouldn't hang out or talk with them.

>>17192149
Fucking cut that bitch off

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>Have any of you anons ever gotten into something quickly? Did it work out?

ROMEO

O, let us hence; I stand on sudden haste.

FRIAR LAURENCE

Wisely and slow; they stumble that run fast.

>>17192123
This made my smile. Thanks anon.


Wouldn't running fast lead to a positive end goal faster?

>>17192082
Wait. Make sure you really know the person first. Make sure he's not an asshole who is just infatuated or is just looking for fuck