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I moved to NYC for a job around 3 months ago and holy shit are all the women here dogs. They seem to fall under one of the following:
1. Boring, privileged white chicks who grew up in NJ or CT, went to a private college, spend 2/3rds of their paychecks on rent, and have no interests outside Beyonce, reality TV, and getting drunk with their guuurrrlllz
2. Hoodrats
3. Hasidim
4. Disgusting hipsters
5. Single 30- and 40-somethings who try desperately hard to act younger than their age
Anyone suggestions for meeting non-shit-tier women in this fucking town?
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>Hasidim
What in the flying fuck is a "Hasidim"?
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>>17186879
Religious Jewish women.
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>>17186886
Oh. I've always heard bad things about NYC women. I don't think anybody can help you. They seem to be universally hated even by NYC dudes.
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Since I fucked up in high school (2.8 GPA, no activities, 24 ACT) how feasible is it to go to community college and then transfer to somewhere like Princeton, TCNJ, or NYU
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Pretty feasible for the first part. First off, you can easily get into community college with that GPA.
Transferring though will be harder. Get a 4.0 as best you can, get involved, and pray to the heavens you get in.
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>>17186774
What about applying to actual Universities doesn't have to be the best one and my guidance counselor said people with worse GPAs and test scores made it into schools like Rutgers (Newark) I'm also considering Montclair state
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>Princeton
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahah
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Instagram ruining my relationship 2016-05-26 23:25:34 Post No.17186535
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Instagram ruining my relationship
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Long-time girlfriend recently got on instagram. We're in our mid 20s, and currently long-distance (about 1 hour). She got featured on some popular modeling page, and blew up in followers. Now she's swamped with hundreds of likes and comments on all her photos, and she's posting nonstop.
I told her this made me uncomfortable - I don't like even the idea of her getting so much male attention constantly. She doesn't state she's taken anywhere and refuses to put a picture of us together on her page. I think constant attention can change a person negatively over time. She herself has been concerned about me "getting hit on" because I looked nice one day going out for lunch, so I feel like she should understand where I'm coming from... She finished by saying "well i'm having tons of fun on here". She showed me her DM inbox - it's flooded with hundreds and hundreds of messages from guys.
I told her I don't want any local guys on there, and don't want her giving out her snapchat or phone number, to which she fully agreed. The only guys she follows back are body-building models. One of them commented about having a photoshoot with her in the future. I look on his profile, and he's from close-by. She had liked all his shit. I confront her:
>Who is that and why is he saying that?
>Idk, he asked me out, I said I was taken, he blocked me
>Did you give him snapchat, phone number or personal info?
>No!! I didn't give him my number! I don't wanna talk about this anymore
So I fucking messaged the dude, and he sent me a screenshot in which she instantly gave her snapchat when asked. Dude actually sent me the whole convo unprompted, and she did in fact refuse to meet up or give him her number but had been very flirty.
When I showed it to her and asked why she gave him it, she became extremely angry instantly, and said "OMG I can't believe you messaged him!!! Don't text me or talk to me today". And ignored my question.
WTF? Wat do?
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your girlfriend wants more than any one person can give her and doesn't value honesty. She thinks appearing single by brushing your public presence as her boyfriend under the rug is "tons of fun".
I vote dump. When she comes running back to you just tell her it should be tons more fun for her now that she doesn't have a boyfriend to hide anything from.
I vote dump.
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I'm most disappointed that we set the ground rules (no snapchat) and she broke it without even a second thought. She wholehartedly agreed to them when I brought them up. Also that the guy was close-by.
It's just irritating. I don't think I'm being "insecure" (she doesn't know what that means) here, as the guy was close and very real. She has dozens of "omg so beautiful" and "follow me back gorgeous" (to which she does if they're a body builder) etc. Fucking infuriating.
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Fuck one or two more times and dump asap srs
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How to tell if people want me around? 2016-05-26 21:58:13 Post No.17186275
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How to tell if people want me around?
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So how can I tell whether someone deeply enjoys my presence and loves talking to me, or is only putting up with me out of politeness/pity/etc?
I can only figure it out when they tell me directly and genuinely, eg "i love talking to you, it makes my day" or "stop following me around, find some real friends". Is there a way to get people to do that faster? Asking them directly usually gets me some polite platitude like "oh it's fine, don't worry".
The worst part is that everyone seems to have the same problem with me! During practically every conversation they constantly ask whether they're bothering me, disturbing me, that i don't have to talk if i don't want to, etc.
Drives me fucking nuts since i genuinely like just sitting there and listening to their problems for hours, that's why i'm on this board so much after all (if i could understand people i'd probably make a decent shrink).
Got any ideas?
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If they only respond when prompted, they're not enjoying the conversation or have other stuff that to them is more important. If this happens consistently rather than just occasionally, the person probably isn't enjoying your company.
If they actively engage you, especially if they're involving you rather than just talking at you, then they enjoy your company and the conversation. The more often this happens, the better the relationshop between you two.
There's exceptions to these, but this is a good guideline.
You can also see how the person behaves with others. If they're friendly with everyone, or if they're reserved and distant with everyone, you need to look harder to make sure. It's easy to figure out if you're the exception.
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If they ask you questions about yourself, and not just those basic "How are you?" or "What is your major?". People who are truly interested will want to know more.
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>If they only respond when prompted, they're not enjoying the conversation or have other stuff that to them is more important. If this happens consistently rather than just occasionally, the person probably isn't enjoying your company.
This doesn't exactly work with socially awkward people, eg the autistic and anxious. O can figure out if someone's autistic fairly easily, but when it comes to girls, most seem to be anxious, at least around me: how can i tell whether this is due to me being creepy/strange (not knowing how to get away from me?), intimidation/fear, attraction, social anxiety in general, or perhaps my social ineptitude rubbing off on them?
>You can also see how the person behaves with others.
The problem is that most people seem to be the same in this regard: they are friendly with their friends, and reserved with other people. The only exceptions seem to be flaming extroverts and traumatized kids/social outcasts.
Also, using this metric has led me astray in the past: i assumed that since people chat freely, gossip, and laugh with their friends, yet are more guarded around me, that means they don't like me. But apparently it really just means that we aren't friends yet, only the aforementioned flaming extroverts are as talkative and giggly with acquaintances as with friends.
I could watch them with various acquaintances and see how they interact differently with the ones they like and don't like, but this seems a little excessively creepy and stalkerish. Is it?
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How do I distinguish this from pity?
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What the fuck is this white shit?
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Hurts a bit. Like its dry or something.
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tonsil stone. get a q-tip, press on the side of it. it'll pop out and be disgusting.
brush your teeth and clean your tongue better you filthy animal
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>>17185906
I had my tonsils taken out though. Like 5 years ago
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ITT: Ask the Opposite Gender Anything 2016-05-26 04:04:01 Post No.17184077
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something that cannot be explained. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online. Don't complain that this isn't helpful; stupid questions deserve answers like this.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>Brandon, that one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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Guys, would you be comfortable in a relationship where the woman was the primary income earner? If you had kids, would you be a stay-at-home dad?
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The income isn't a problem. It's my desire to pursue a career that would make me feel uncomfortable.
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>>17184093
Yes and yes. In some ways it goes against what I normally do, but I would love to be a stay at home dad. Right now my girlfriend is still a student in college so barely has any money so I pay for most things for her
Where do I get a qt clingy gf?
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Psychiatry ward
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Domestic violence shelters.
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Your local junior high school.
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Right now I saw this white lady in a nice dress asking g for money under a bridge I gave her some money, and I feel so horrible, it makes me feel miserable knowing ppl are suffering and I can't do much and it frustrates me and it just ends up making me feel worse it's not the first time that happens idk how to deal with it or what the hell to think
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>suffering
You just paid her to sleep under a bridge. I'd kill for that job if I didn't have pride.
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Volunteer. Work at a soup kitchen, tutor children who are struggling in a subject you did well in, become a social worker/ therapist, find a particular area you feel qualified to help with and help. You can't save everyone, but you can do a lot to help others. Find a way that's meaningful to you and do it.
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I want to volunteer in a soup kitchen but I don't even know if there is any near by from where I live. I need to do something, talking about it and getting feedback made me feel a bit better thanks.
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12-year-old brother caught smoking 2016-05-27 16:34:07 Post No.17188938
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12-year-old brother caught smoking
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My twat of a brother was recently caught smoking an e-cigarette by my mother. I don't want to make a big scene out of it, but I also don't want him going down this path. I feel like I should teach him a lesson in some way, but I obviously would rather not resort to violence to teach him that. I just really don't want him turning into a scumbag during his teenage years. What can I do, /adv/?
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Make him smoke your dick.
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>>17188943
Better yet, make him smoke both your dicks.
Also, you can't stop him from smoking, best thing you can do is teach him moderation.
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>>17188952
Is smoking fags in moderation really even a thing? Everyone I know who's tried that has gone on to smoke them all the time.
My girlfriend had sex with some guy from my school before we were together. She told me today. I see the other guy almost everyday as we have courses together. How am i supposed to react? I'm really angry right now
I don't know what the fuck I am supposed to do because I never had a girlfriend before
help me /adv/
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Grow up. People have had sex. You're not supposed to do anything, because that's the past. Stop being a robot
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I love to slut shame girls for no reason as much as the next guy, but you're kind of exaggerating now. Being mad at her or at some guy because she had sex with him before you 2 were together is kind of ridiculous.
2/10 bait, I replied anyway
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Kill yourself... Please.
You have no control over her or any other persons past.
Fucking pleb degenerate.
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My girlfriend tricked me and told me she was 20 and I'm 25. Shes actually 16 but our feelings for each other are really strong and we stayed together. Recently her family found out she has a boyfriend but they dont know about the age difference and havent met me yet. We dont know what to do about all of this. She wants to lie and say I'm 19 which I could pass for, and then tell them the truth when shes 18, but I dont really think thats a good idea. I'm also extremely scared about her family potentially finding out and calling the cops on me. Going to prison and having to register as a sex offender is obviously going to destroy my life and our life together. She assures me her family won't but she really doesnt know either. We really don't know what to do in this situation at all. Is there a way to guarantee or at least give us a better chance with her family?
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Don't lie, it'll come back to bite your ass later, very hard.
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Break up
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Let it go son.
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Holy shit fuck titters what the fuck do i do? Pic related. Cat "played" with bird. Its still alive but it has feathers all over my bathroom.
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Clean bathroom, dispose of bird
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P. S.:punish cat
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>>17188792
So what i gotta snap its neck and shit. Its alive and seems rather calm.
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Advice on building computers. 2016-05-27 15:16:07 Post No.17188732
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Advice on building computers.
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>How did I do???
>It's already bought and being built as we speak.
BLKFRISALE1: CYBERPOWERPC Skorpion K1 Mechnical Gaming Keyboard w/ Kontact Blue Switches and Programmable Blue LED
CAS: CyberPowerPC X-Sentinel MID-Tower Gaming Case w/USB 3.1, Side Panel Window (Black Color)
CD: 24X Double Layer Dual Format DVD+-R/+-RW + CD-R/RW Drive (BLACK COLOR)
CPU: AMD FX-8320 3.50 GHz Eight-Core AM3+ CPU 8MB L2 Cache & Turbo Core Technology
CS_FAN: Default case fans
FAN: Asetek 550LC 120mm Liquid Cooling CPU Cooler - Extreme Cooling Performance (Single Standard 120MM Fan)
HDD: 1TB SATA-III 6.0Gb/s 32MB Cache 7200RPM HDD (Single Drive)
IUSB: Built-in USB 2.0 Ports
MEMORY: 16GB (8GBx2) "RAM" DDR3/2133MHz Dual Channel Memory [+59] (ADATA XPG V3)
MOTHERBOARD: * GIGABYTE 970-Gaming SLI AMD 970 ATX w/ USB 3.1, Intel GbLAN, 1x M.2, 2 PCIe x16, 2 PCIe x1, 2 PCI
MOUSE: CyberpowerPC Standard 4000 DPI with Weight System Optical Gaming Mouse
NETWORK: Onboard Gigabit LAN Network
OS: Windows 10 Home (64-bit Edition)
OVERCLOCK: No Overclocking
POWERSUPPLY: 600 Watts - Standard 80 Plus Certified Power Supply - SLI/CrossFireX Ready
RUSH: Standard Process Time: Ship within 7 to 12 Business Day
SERVICE: STANDARD WARRANTY: 3-YEAR [3 Year Labor, 1 Year Parts] LIMITED WARRANTY PLUS LIFE-TIME TECHNICAL SUPPORT
SOUND: HIGH DEFINITION ON-BOARD 7.1 AUDIO
VIDEO: AMD Radeon R9 380X 4GB 16X PCIe 3.0 Video Card (Single Card)
XWNC1: TP-LINK 802.11AC Archer T2U AC600 Wireless Dual Band, 2.4GHz 150Mbps/5Ghz 433Mbps USB Adapter [+24]
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>>>/g/
I know they say they aren't tech support, but they'll tell you how you did. Go to their battle stations or QTDDTOT thread.
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>>17188732
Should've gotten nvida
What kind of monitor did you get?
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>wasting money on having someone assemble your legos
>AMD
>"Gaming" peripherals
The list goes on. Try /r/gaming OP.
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Is it some kind of universal law you just have to deal with that your girlfriend's sister is hotter than your girlfriend? I just met my gf's little sister (legal age) and my god...
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looks arent everything
and they sure as hell arent forever
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>>17188688
More a law of probability. If your girlfriend had bee the hotter one, you wouldn't have had a chance on her.
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>>17188688
My wife had 4 sisters and she was the hottest of the bunch.
Her fatty sister always flirted with me, though, and would talk about her boobs and butt, and would confide to my wife that she had a porn habit and my wife would pass that on to me.
So you just need to understand that you can't fuck ALL the bitches.
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None of you are real and neither am I. We aren't real people and that's why I'm such a fucking idiot. Is because I've spent the last five years of my life on the internet trying to get someone to care about me and I never realized that once it gets to the point where you care 1 percent about what anything on a screen means you've ceased to be a real person and you're just a digitized automaton from there on out.Everyone IRL is just waiting for an excuse to become a robot. Because humans are waiting for a chance to become non-humans, to not have to worry about what it means to be somewhat decent.
This is why the internet is so popular now. People are becoming full blown non-humans in drove, we are reaching a point where the human will cease to exist as anything other than an outline of virtual entities that are self-contained orbs all bouncing off of each other.
Considering this, should I just kill myself?
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Relax playboy. I wouldn't kill myself just get. How about you just not kill yourself and do something cool IRL?
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>>17188689
That's the point. There is no "Real Life" today. Perhaps there never was but there was at least a spectre of such. Now it's all illusion all the time with no relief of reality. Now you either accept your fate as a pointless phantasm or die.
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Don't kill yourself..... For all you know, the afterlife could be a terrible black void of nothingness or it could b sitting there listen to Jesus talk about affirmative action towards black people.
Now if you had like a terminal illness, like ALS or cancer which is causing you nothing but severe pain, then I can completely understand someone taking their own life, but don't do it just because you feel blue today. It's not worth it buddy.