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Dating issues because of therapy 2016-05-28 01:31:00 Post No.17190433
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Dating issues because of therapy
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so i made the mistake of telling a guy that i go to therapy and while we still go out he is now super cautious of what he says.
any way i can fix this? it isn't the first time this has occurred
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>>17190433
Did you tell him what kind of therapy? If not just say its physical for when you broke something as a kid.
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>>17190433
Seriously, who -doesn't- go to therapy these days. If he can't hack it, don't sweat it OP. What are you going for?
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>>17190500
BPD but i didn't tell him that
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Hey /adv/, i come with an issue that's burning through my mind lately. Im a 26 year old male and I bought a red Mazda2 last year, which I enjoy driving so much, yet only recently I have been considering if its too gay or girly for me to be seen in. I put racing rims and a cold air intake in it, so there's that.
Ive thought of repainting it a darker color, wrapping it on a darker color, trading it in for a conventionally manlier car or just not caring about it. What should I do?
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>>17190431
You fucking idiot should enjoy the fucking car if you like it
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>>17190431
Don't be so stupid, OP. You're 26 and have a decent car. You're already ahead of the game. Worry about something important. You're not in high school anymore.
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>>17190431
lol when i looked at the pic i thought it was a car that girls would drive and then i read your post lmao
honestly you shouldnt worry though man, nobody cares what you drive
captcha was an identify cars captcha
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changing steam account name 2016-05-28 01:26:29 Post No.17190425
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changing steam account name
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So I spent 4 hours looking up online about changing your steam account name (the one on the top right corner and later found I couldn't but if I could access dev mode I could do it myself.) I'm kinda thinking of beating my head cause I've spent over $230 worth of games on my account this thing is killing me. I know that nobody can see it publicly but I hate seeing my account name different that from my current username. What should I do anon?
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Isn'the top right thing your account log in, which should be kinda secret?
Is it visible to other people?
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>>17190430
Yeah its secret but this is a picture off a google image search when i type in steam account name for this thread.
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>>17190435
If it's secret, the less it has in common with your public data, the better, right?
A girl that I like takes so long to text me back and idk why, what should I do?
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How long does it take her on average? I wouldn't think much into it, she's probably busy
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>>17190395
Calm down & realize that not everyone has their cellphones attached to their ovaries.
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The girl I like tends to text near instantly after reading it atleast. Even then no more than 10ish minutes
Just wait
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Alright /adv/, I've recently come out of a long term relationship and have seen this girl I met online a few times. She said i should message her when I'm next off work and we can do something and maybe get a room. She's a bit mental and a hardcore stoner, not long term i don't think but i want to get laid. So my issue is with the weed, I'm 24 and have never done it before and have heard stoned sex is awesome so i kind of want to give it a go. My ex was quite a drinker but i wasn't, I always knew when I'd had enough. So with the weed I don't want to over do it, I have family members that rely on it and it saddens me and has always put me off it. I just want some general first time weed taking advice really.
Cheers
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Bewmp
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make sure you go into it with a positive attitude, if you go into it bad of course it won't be fun. also you should try it before doing it with the girl so you know what to expect and won't do something off the rails. I only answered you question because you used a picture of john. <3
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>>17190367
How long did it take to meet her from when you started online dating?
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High Number of Hookups 2016-05-28 00:54:07 Post No.17190344
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I am almost setting into a relationship with a girl, but there is ONE thing on my mind.
She has had a high number of hookups. I don't mean sex. I was her first. She hadn't even done anything sexually before me. But just kissing, making out and stuff, at parties and such.
Should I be bothered by this considering the circumstances?
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>>17190344
Why?
Even kids kiss from what i saw as a kid
Making out is a thing at 12 or whatever ita nothing special
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>>17190344
God you must be jokeing
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Promiscuity is a red flag
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Ok /adv/ I come to you with a petty problem.
At work, I keep a small container of gum under the desk. I need gum habitually because I have halitosis. Like you don't understand my breath is horrible all the time, no matter how much I floss, brush, or tongue scrape (yes I do these at work too). I am ok with sharing it with the 3 other people in my department. I know that only one of those three chews gum enough to make it any sort of habit. The other 2 people don't chew gum much. The gum goes down in alarmingly fast levels, too fast for just me to go through with the occasional nab from the coworker I just mentioned.
I have reason to believe it's not a customer who is stealing my gum without permission, because customers generally never go under the desk at my department (I work retail). I think it's an employee because
>customers know what's "ours" and what isn't
>the gum is vanishing in a consistent fast rate
>customers probably don't even know nor care I have gum, and so don't even look
>however other associates often go under the desk at my department to nab supplies
>they must be very sneaky to manage this because I'm usually very close by at all times
>Today, notice gum is down to 3 pieces total down from a whole bunch yesterday
>pissed. Buy some more, this time cheaper and a different kind/flavor. This is at 1pm
>work my ass off, forget about gum
>3 pm, want some gum. Notice the package was not even opened the correct way
>It was minty trident, in the rectangular package, and someone opened it at the "end", not the real opening point, like a barbarian
>So in the span of 2 hours someone nabbed my gum. This is very alarming. This someone actively knows I "supply" gum
>So this person must have been present when I am present (e.g: not overnight shift)
I'm mad because, they can just fucking ask me for a piece. I am one of the most caring, gentle, empathetic people you can meet. I won't hesitate to help. But no.
/adv/ how should i go about this? Help
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>>17190310
one day just go (you can pull it off in a flippant, joking kind of way) "who the fuck keeps stealing my gum?!"
Do it when everyone is around and see who owns up or read people's body language to try to get a hint on who's doing it.
Also, why the fuck are you keeping it in your desk? just put it in your pocket or something, jeez.
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If your breath really is that bad constantly, then you might have some sort of health problem. That, or you only think it's worse than it really is. As for the gum situation, the solution should be obvious.
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>>17190345
Because my uniform's pockets are too small to take it with me (as the whole container). The gum i usually buy is in a round-ish container, about the size of the cup holders in your car. It won't fit in my pocket.
Also I like sharing gum with people of my department.
Anyone have an idea of why this person just doesnt simply fucking ask me for a piece?
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>Moving to a new place
>this month have had to pay 4 months worth of rent because of this
>Paying movers
>Paying for brother's graduation shit
>extra $500 on deductible of gf's car I fucked.
Ok give it to me straight...
How do I live on $30 for the next 6 days?
Everything goes back to normal next Friday when I get paid, until then I need your assistance. Food mainly.
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Bread
Thats it
You can try eggs or butter or something
Also why are you paying for your brothers shit?
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>>17190296
He's living with me and I take care of him.
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>>17190297
Damn
Well like i said
You could also borrow some money too
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Am I the only one who doesn't enjoy texting on facebook? I am bad at it, unless I know a person very well, and none of such people uses fb, duh.
The whole "sending funny or cute pics to people to bond" is beyond my understanding, I don't get it. Those people who send the same cute pic to 50+ of their friends to start conversations. How do you reply to it, it's like the sender is checking if you want to talk with him and that's it.
Gosh, i lost my school friends, because they never talk about real things, only send links, kitties, crack meme jokes. Is it everywhere?
Then at night they are crying to their friends about how lonely and abandoned they are, I know it.
The only "social network" I used for a while was infamous tumblr, because it was about stuff you like and nothing else.
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>>17190261
You're right. At least you recognize that it's all crap.
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>>17190261
I use fb to talk to friends i cant meet always to set up shit and to spam shit posts and pics with my sis and friend
I hate texting in general and i hate how people get pissy if you dont reply in a minute
But if we're talking or making plans and you dont reply while we're losing time its a dick move
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>>17190270
Huh, plans, studies, other important things are the only things i have facebook for.
It's important, yeah.
What's with shitposting (and) pics, i have no idea why people love it so much. Especially if it's an acquaintance unloading 9gag feed into your inbox and 30+ others.
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How can I overcome a hatred of my parents, but mostly mother. 2016-05-27 23:50:39 Post No.17190211
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How can I overcome a hatred of my parents, but mostly mother.
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I have this seemingly natural hatred of my parents...mostly mother. Its almost like a default emotion when I think of her..I love her...but like I said my default responses are cold and mean most of the time...I rarely have a nice quality to think about her and it takes me a while to even come up with one
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I feel the same way and have no idea. I have reasons for it though, they did some shit I probably haven't gotten over yet. They basically took me out of school for a week and put me in a psych ward to try to turn me into a check. I didn't check out as crazy and they wondered why I was even there.
I was too young to understand what the fuck was going on but that ain't the only thing.
Maybe that is whats going on with you?
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>>17190211
A male who has strong emotions regarding his mother. If only psychologists wrote books on the subject...
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I feel the same way about my mom but i know why. Its because i think too quickly compared to her and we have nothing in common. She takes way too long to explain things to me. She always "ums" when shes telling me something and i preferr to talk to people who know how to speak. And like i said we have nothing in common so its rare that we do anything together. I love her and appreciate everything shes done for me but yeah
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My girlfriend and I suspect that she's pregnant. Based on her calendars and charts, we have to wait until Monday for a pee test to be remotely accurate. As this point I'm just accepting my goddamn fate.
Girlfriend:
> My age (Late 20s)
> Good sex, total freak
> Cooks well, total housewife, breakfast in the morning before when I head to work
> Kind of a nerd, we agree on most things
> Great face, meh body ("baby weight")
But
> Has two kids, dad is threatening to start custody shit
> No consistent income
> Personally Anti-abortion
Me:
> Just moved to the state
> Got my dream job
> Got my own apartment
> Great credit, good car, life in order
But
> Apartment I just signed a lease for will never support 2 adults and 3 children
> My pay cannot support 2 adults and 3 children
> Parents will fucking kill me when they find out I knocked up a girl I just started dating
> I can't afford to give a decent wedding/life to this girl, let alone these kids
I'm genuinely afraid I'm going to spend the rest of my life struggling in the goddamn gutter, hovering just above poverty or beneath it.
Can anyone share their "first kid" stories or just generally assure me that these "pregnant and getting hitched" situations are going to be okay?
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get used to the idea of paying child support. it'll be a lot cheaper than paying for some used up bitch with 2 kids
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What contraception were you using?
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>>17190199
We've been using condoms. We were watching her cycle, too. We didn't fuck around on her ovulation days.
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Hey /adv/
I have a problem speaking in group presentations. My voice gets shaky and my palms sweaty. It's funny because I do way better if I'm doing a speech or something. Is it a matter of preparedness?
Thanks.
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Hmm.. I know what you mean? Do your knees also feel weak, and do your arms go limp as if they were spaghetti as well friend?
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>>17190127
Yessir.
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Practice practice and anybody else can suck your @$#/×. No. For reals it all comes down practice and know your stuff and it will get better. Mrathon not sprint practice.
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I finally found interest in harming myself. When I feel really shitty I claw on my fist, usually on the bus.
How else can I similarly hurt myself without cutting? A way of that I can kind of conceal would be best.
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>>17190117
Don't start doing this, OP. It's a shitty coping mechanism that only makes adult life harder down the line. Find a therapist through your doctor or school/work.
Good luck in life.
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Hold an ice cube, it hurts so much, seriously, and it is not so dangerous. Also no scars
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>>17190128
I'm seeing a therapist and I'm taking medication already.
>>17190135
Funny but true
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So, my ex girlfriend's mother just died.
I am not in any form of contact with her for over a year, and am in a quite serious relationship with someone else now.
I just happened to see it on Facebook. I am not Facebook friends with her anymore but I saw something posted by someone else.
We had been deep enough into a relationship that I had met her mother, and got along well with the mother.
Am I a shitty person if I don't contact my ex and say, like, "sorry about your mom"?
pic unrelated, is just the first google image result for "ex girlfriend"
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>>17190053
Depends how she's grieving. Some people don't like to air that shit out on social media. But if she posted about her moms death herself, she probably wouldn't mind a thoughtful message. If you don't feel like doing it though, don't force anything.
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>>17190053
Just leave it. What would be the point? To let her know you're thinking of her?
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>>17190053
Offer to reunite her with her mother.
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I found out a guy who molested my sister and took advantage of my mentally ill mother is now the principal of a high school.
What can I do about this?
Pic related, he's on the left.
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>>17190013
Isn't that richard mongler?
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>>17190020
Worse. His name's John and he is a disgusting piece of shit.
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Gather any evidence you can and sue him shitless lmao