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>>17192066
So there's this asshole thinking he can give advice by being a douchebag... what do

>>17192073
That pretty shit, you don't have any real problems if some guy on the internet is the source of your woes. My advice is quit being a bitch.

i just prolapsed from anal sex wat do

Smash them. And do it hard. Don't let those fuckers get in the way of your hard earned cash. Is there a written agreement that you can lie back on as proof of the agreement you made with them?

>>17192069
there is nothing written because we are all students,but they are too dumb to understand to code i've written to make the application (JAVA,JEE),so i have more than one proof that i'm the one who did the job.besides in educational system in my country,universities don't tolerate the kind of shit-cheating they did(bringing an application made by someone else) so in all cases they will get fucked too hard

Why did you give them the rest of the app? You could of held it for ransom. I would just let them fall honestly. They knew what was coming for them if they didn't pay you. If you have not threatened them yet or blackmailed them. Don't cause that could lead to legal shit. Just get your money's worth of laughs and be on your way wiser than before.

>>17192035
Join the military.

>>17192039
my dad was a navy seal (legit) whole family was in the military..

>>17192039
i only have a ged and a year and half of college . i was supposed to start classes in the fall but not sure yet

>>17192034
this is my life story. most people dont really give a fuck about self improvement. i assume you're young too from the sounds of your friends? im 22. once people actually start working full time, they dont rarely have time to improve themselves, especially when they have kids to look after. its hard enough to study philosophy on top of uni. The only time people really have the time is when they our around age, normally a bit younger and that is obbviously only due to the labor of their family who provides for them. The other problem is that most people cant comprehend how important self improvement is at a young age. i suppose this relates back to the philosophy of slavery that Nietzsche spoke about, you know if other people do labour for us, we can become great and spend time improving. not saying i believe in slavery, just expressing the justification advocated by different philosophers behind it. so yeah, in all, its incredibly difficult to find people who care about self improvement unless you are nobaility/high class. try joining some sort of society, or group. all my friends do i play video games.

>most people cant comprehend how important self improvement is at a young age
>philosophy of slavery

One silly thing I believe in is "hereditary spiritualism" - i.e. if your ancestors were slaves you have the spirit ("spirit") of a slave. I come from a family of nobles and feel like I'm a natural leader, which gives me confidence in my abilities and nurtures my success. This is obviously not true but a nice esteem mechanism. Looking at my friends and other peers, it dwells on me that the "slave"-folk tend to have little to no desire to rise above hedonism. Philosophers and scientists do have that motivation, though put it towards a single facet of their lives (their intelligence). "Noble"-folk are hard to come by, or hard to spot at least for me. I have met few people that were as interested in self-improvement as I am.

And that's the worst part - we're breeding shittier and shittier people day after day. The standard is going down because we have all this bullshit technology that'll make you a lazy, omnipotent genius. Take it away and you have a worthless, vapid individual self-absorbed in the sheep-mind box specially built for them by the Fortune 500 companies. We need to start placing time in ourselves, not our meaningless materials and corporate-driven conceits.

>>17192094

Society HATES exceptional people, and will do anything possible to tear them down to sea level. You'll learn this more and more as your life goes on. Give up on the idea of having "friends." Your best relationships will be with business partners and collaborators.

RIP. Better start writing your will.

How does someone accidentally swallow one of those? Do you just inhale your food, barely bothering to chew?

You'll just shit it out. I occasionally forget to take the little sticker off of apples and other fruit I eat and end up seeing it in the toilet. I believe I may be retarded.

>>17191997
>I don't have a reason.

>I don't love my husband
>We don't have sex much
>I honestly don't feel romantically about him at all

lol

you seem to like having a roommate, i don't see what the problem is.

Sounds like he's introverted and you're an extrovert. This situation can usually be worked out by making a compromise. Sometimes do what you would like, sometimes do what he likes. If mutual respect is there, you can make it work. However people usually don't change in their preferences. How come you got together with a guy like this so different from you?
The problem with dating is that it's unpredictable. You have no way of knowing if you find a guy who you for with better especially if you are not 18-25.

My problem is he doesn't like to do anything other than play games. He collects some things too. This is part of what we enjoyed together at first, but I have other hobbies. My solo hobbies are obviously not something I expect him to care about, and he will do things I want company on, like just the two of us paddling trips or travel. But it's pretty clear he's just there for me, and doesn't really appreciate it even if he overall enjoys it. It's clear he would rather be inside our small apartment following walkthroughs and skipping cutscenes.

I'd actually say we are both pretty introverted...he actually calls himself a shy extrovert. I spend most of my time inside and don't do group activities. He is my only friend. He just doesn't do shit. Not lazy, he just has no real interest in anything and doesn't care to discuss things that are topics many people have I speak with, men and women, seem to have some opinion or personal story about. He just doesn't give a fuck about anything. He has opinions, but he doesn't discuss them or get passionate about them. He is happy to listen to me ramble about anything, but it feels terribly one sided. He is very open so...I no longer feel it is an issue of trying to open him up. I did, and there is nothing inside.

However, this means his interests never conflict with mine, he never fights me, and he is zero drama in a way I really like compared to just about anybody else I've met.

>>17191996
Get a big dog that barks alot and is scary. I'd advice a German shepherd. They're protective of there masters and territory. I had a problem with neighbours swinging on my fence. Not anymore.

plot a little sign in front of the strawberries saying please stop taking them *insert neighbour's name*

>>17192005
It's sort of a small plot of land and we live in a urban place without fences so a dog would have to be on a leash but it's just too much work

>Now I live at a really busy street with cars and trams passing by: does that cause so much dust to settle in my room?
Correct

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Buy an air purifier

>>17191978
so if I keep the windows closed it'll gradually reduce the amount of dust in my air?
Also what about nights when cars don't pass by so often?

>>17191981
Not worth it since I'm leaving soon

It's called depression. Get ready because it's going to consume you just like it consumes the rest of us.

>>17191953
with that attitude, yeah.

It was scary. I was even wondering if I was autistic and no one wanted to admit it to me at one point. Psychotic break?

therapy mate

>>17191927
male or female? either way what are we workingh with? what do you hate about yourself?

>>17191927
How? Have you tried but couldn't get it up?

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keeping this thread alive

>>17191914
girls like when a guy makes them feel special, like they're the only girl they wanna date, your breaking it off the moment another opportunity came along completely destroyed that chemistry and now she feels like she's plan B and that it just didn't work out between you and the new girl so now you're crawling back to her because you're lonely.

it's gonna take time, but keep pushing to hangout, even if you have to text her first every damn time and have to setup and pay for everyone hangout. you messed up severely and it's going to take time to repair that.

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>>17191943
I know that is the impression I give, but I really want her back because I think she is special. Since we broke up there have been other girls that came on to me and I had no interest in them, because they weren´t her

Pt2

Lastly, a personal isssue that I am not sure I should stick my nose into or not... But my biological father (now dead, and good riddance, he was not a nice person for the most part) was probably the one who passed this onto me. Now I could care less about him, as I haven't seen him or anyone on that side of the family in years (mostly by choice.) But he got married after my mother left him, and according to an uncle, had two more sons. I warned the uncle that they might have Dyspraxia, and practically begged him to make sure they got tested, but I have had zero contact with any of them since that email. I have a gut feeling that they will have just ignored me, and I really do not relish the idea of contacting any of them (if I had my way, i'd never hear from any of them again,) but I feel responsible for making sure those two boys get tested (no matter who their father was they don't deserve to suffer in ignorance.) So should I force my way into their lives, potentially stir up a hornets nest, only to disappear later, or should I just abandon the idea, potentially leaving them ignorant of why their lives might suck worse than most?

Any insights to these problems would be much appreciated.

I guess a TL;DR might help here, so:

1) Should I get a formal diagnosis for a disability as an adult even if it might be more trouble that it's worth?

2) Is it morally wrong to risk screwing up a child by passing on my disability?

3) Should I butt into a family I basically don't know to try to get other people diagnosed for the disability I have?

Anyone?

>>17191894
By gamble i mean having a kid that may turn out to be a shit. Neet/gay/whore/thug

If you have no desire to have kids, simply don't.

Look into a vasectomy, if you can go through that without second thoughts, then you know for a fact you don't want kids on any level, and you have the added benefit of never having an accident.

>>17191907
Im already in talks of doing that. Im just sick of everyone around me trying to pressure me into a family, i know how i am and i know im a short fuse when it comes to dealin with kids. But everyone around me is "children are a blessing" or "they are alot of hard work but they are worth it" i live a pretty comfy and easy life, i dont want none of that in my life. I guess it more of how do i get it through my friends and families skulls that i simply dont want a family? They all brush it off as "you'll be ready when you find the right woman"

The right woman for me is someone who also doesnt want kids

>>17191758
write the songs down onto paper? write how you feel when this is happening?

I have heard that sometimes when you write down stuff that is going on in your head, it sometimes makes life a little easier.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QwmocPJp-Q

what's wrong with music OP? perhaps you should get into making music?

>>17191763
Will try this, thanks.
>>17191859
Nothing really wrong with it, just a little frustrating at times.