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Say this nonsense to you human resources department so they can kick you out and find someone not mentally ill

>>17233692
How does wanting to protect my privacy make me "mentally ill", I've dealt with some nasty characters in the past and I wouldn't put it past them to cause trouble again if they find out where I now live/work. With how polarised the political climate is ATM, if I utter some wrongthink to a mate outside of work and some SJW overhears it, there could well be a mini harassment campaign against me/my place of work. Also, in general I'm just not comfortable with any old Tom, Dick or Harry looking up the information I'd be asked to divulge.

Also, the job I'll be performing doesn't require me to have an online presence.

>>17233689
I should also mention that this is a placement job for my uni course. I haven't actually started yet.

stop doing pills and do real drugs (acid, mxe, coke)

opiates high is just a very comfy bliss

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>>17233650
do heroin. It will surely improve your quality of life.

>does shitty pills
>HURR ALL DRUGS SUCK

>>17233620
Well you better be ready to put out, it'll be hard enough to pursue a meaningful relationship with that age gap if you go vanilla.

>>17234768
Is four years even a big age gap? Or are you just shitposting

>>17233620
Politely ask if you can suck the cum out of his dick.

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>>17233608
The unsent message says
>But the thing i want to ask is do you want to keep talking? I don't want to force you to. I want to keep talking but I'm not sure if I can or should ask what I want to.

Should I send it or wait for a response

I think if you're up to the point where you have to ask that question it's already over

These kinds of confrontational messages never end well. I'm speaking from experience. It's awkward and forced.

Because some of them look good, but its reaaaaally hard to pull of.
If a beautiful girl cuts her hair really short she becomes stunning and unique, if an average girl do it she becomes just ugly

>>17233584
>>/b/

Why do men keep falling for the man bun meme? Do they not realize how utter shit it looks? No girl wants a full on hipster.

I don't think keeping that stuff with you is very healthy, 'strong chemical life odor' is almost never a good thing.
You can try dismantling and cleaning it

>>17233566
I meant chemical-like, not chemical life, but yeah it doesn't smell like it's something I'd want to breathe in much. I'm throwing out the plastic bin but I really don't want to throw out my consoles.

I'll try dismantling them today I guess.

That's just the Smell of all that plastic. Perfectly normal and not dangerous at all.

being ignored is different from being hated

if you are ignored chances are you just need to meet different people who connect with you better

if you are hated by everyone you're probably a huge asshole

Start changing things about how you behave, talk, dress, etc.
Just look it this way
>the way I'm doing things is causing X, let's slowly changes things and see what is causing it
For me at least, it was how I didn't look people in the eyes and wasnt' expresive enough

OP, this is the wrong place to ask that question. None of us know you or know anything about you so obviously we could never answer that question.

To find out, you need to talk to someone who knows you and ask for their brutally honest opinion

As you say, she's not the only one you've been with either. How do you reconcile that without hypocrisy?

You're right OP, people who don't get it right the first time are basically worthless and less than human. Practice and experience are made up words.

>>17233545
>>17233553
Nice samefag you've got going there, but even though I know you're not reading into the story, but instead flustered for whatever reason I'm still going to spell it out to you - There is a fundamental disconnect happening when one partner views sex as an amusing recreation, and the other as a sacred and commitment action - it's not about "getting it right" it's about your whole attitude towards it - she has stated promiscuity doesn't bother her as a human trait - and that some of the people she slept with were people that were close to casual encounters or people that she was trying to help with sex.
But, again, I don't expect you to look into what I'm saying at all and trying to understand where I'm coming from with that shitty set of responses.
This isnt the place to make yourself feel better.

>>17233515
MAKE a card. Take some paper and some crayons or pens or whatever. Write some shit about how much she means to you in it, go outside, find a leaf or a fucking flower and press that in the card with some books or something (bitches love nature) and use your kids feet to put little footprints in it, too.

Costs nothing.

Super "thoughtful".

You're welcome.

>being married if you are poor
Why

>>17233515
Get her a small trinket and give her a nice massage, let her relax and take care of the day's errands for her

I feel the same, and I am afraid there is nothing you can do but living with it.

Get chekek'd forMS

>>17233494
1. Sounds weird, I used to get this but I used to drop LSD a lot a couple of years ago so it might be flashbacks. If you go to the doctor expect it to take a long fucking time to get a proper diagnosis because hallucinations can be caused by all kinds of shit.
2. You need to practice more, talk to people more and learn to 'link' answers to more questions. Read 'Models' by Mark Manson, it's a pick up book but has answers for your problem

>>17233489
Live with the guilt until it consumes you or tell your partner and destroy your relationship. There are no other alternatives.

>>17233499
Or just keep shamelessly cheating because you have no empathy then turn it around on your gf to make her out to be the bad guy when she finds out.

>>17233489
Are you gonna move out there and be with this internet woman long term?

Was this just a one-time fling?

Do you plan to keep fucking around with other women?

Just go back to your life and pretend it never happened. Whatever. What she doesn't know won't hurt her.

Also, you're a bad person.

>>17233383
Shes clearly insane

>>17233565
Fuck off /r9k/

Op do not listen to this guy we have been flooded by them non stop. People deal with stress differently. Picnic sounds like a nice idea. Check to see if you can have a fire on the beach that would be nice. Maybe biking on nature trails if you both have bikes.

>>17233570
I'm not sure how much I will get to see her, but I'll try my best for it to be often.

But yeah, something like that sounds good.

>>17233386
Well, anything useful?
Should I even ask him if he thinks of me as a friend or what and be honest about how I feel?

hey

Look its not easy for guys to keep a friendship with a girl, we fell in love really quick and its confusing at times.

Its obvious that he has feelings for you and its mutual from what i see.

Now the problem is that he is to young, simply put it he is afraid.

The reason he doesnt want to tell his family about you is because he knows they will not understand why this is happening.

Ask your self, imagine you are a mother and your 18 year old son comes to you and says an older woman from germany is coming to meet him for the 1st time.

He doesnt want to hear from his family that what he feels for you is wrong, because that is probably what they will say.

Right now i imagine that he might be suffering trying to coupe with the decision of wanting you to go or not.

>>17233398
>Its obvious that he has feelings for you and its mutual from what i see
I confronted him about this and he said that it is all platonic

>Right now i imagine that he might be suffering trying to coupe with the decision of wanting you to go or not.
I know, but still, what a fucking bastard!

>>17233331
They forced this months and months ago didn't they? I hated it too but seriously not worth griping about.

>>17233354
Did they? It was working fine yesterday.

>>17233378
I was forced to change to the messenger app at least 6 months ago, the facebook app refused to let me use the message side anymore.

I have a pretty new phone with all the stuff that entails though, so maybe newer phones are forced to upgrade sooner? Or it's a location or OS based thing.

>>17233287
Some people are just like that. Nothing wrong with it. Doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Don't force this on them.

>>17233315
But he hugs other people, that's the thing

Stop being a fag