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I've thrown ever ball I can at this guy, and he just won't respond to me. I know he's single, he doesn't drink, he doesn't smoke or do drugs so he's kinda boring, but he's got these amazing blue eyes and he's a great actor and I saw him OHKO a big black dude who tried to bully him, so I know he's not a bitch. But I've done literally EVERYTHING I can think of to try and get him to ask me out:
-Wear cute/revealing outfits and ask his opinion on them;
-Ask him how he's doing, what his plans are after (college) classes during the week;
-Complimented his looks or something he does;
etc. etc.
I just want to date him so badly, I hear he's a virgin too, so it would be great to take it from him, but how do I convince him to ask me out? I think I'm laying it on too thick. It's getting to the point where now he's avoiding me and refusing to say hello. But how else am I supposed to signal I want him in my pants?!
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If you're so interested in him, just ask him out. Some people don't catch on to hints at all, so just put it out there
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>>17232108
>get him to ask me out
something is wrong here
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>>17232108
He's just not interested.
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So Ive been with my gf for 2.5 years, Im 28 and shes 23. She is quite manipulative and controlling and does seem to like making belittling comments. Last night she said that I need to "grow up" and "i'm younger than you Im aloud be immature" and I could figure out why she was saying this.
The events before she was saying this we were simply just sitting reviewing our college work. After she said those comments she said that "maybe we need to break up, i might be to young for you and your turning into a kid brain" meanwhile she is the most immature person me and everybody around our relationship has also said.
For some reason I dont usually care what she says and let her decided what she wants for her life (after other things she has said and done in the past), im curious as to what her motives are I guess....just confused
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>>17232106
She's keeping you in check by putting you below her so you don't leave her. She's projecting her shit onto you.
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>>17232125
wow pretty powerful, any chance you could go into more detail?
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>>17232139
Granted I'm just making assumptions, but I observed a very similar thing with my friend and his ex. He had (still has) his together: Going to school, making good money with two jobs. Good money. His girl was a bit younger than him, 19, worked the deli section of a market and didn't have any ambitions at all. She goes to work, comes home to watch Netflix and fuck my friend. Occasionally she would make the same exact comments to him that your girl is doing to you. Same exact shit, though she added in things like "you're lucky you have me I mean who else would want someone so immature?" Then she would flip the switch and get all lovey dovey at times.
Turned out she was cheating on him six ways from sunday. Now I'm not saying your girl is cheating on you though. Maybe your girl is ambitious I dunno. I do know she's insecure for putting you down like she is.
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She cheated on me last year and I ended it. I got over her quickly and have been working on self improvement (lost 30kg, got a better job, started saving money).
Last night I had a sex dream about her and now I can't get her out of my head. Would masturbating to her be self-derogatory in any way or am I just being autistic?
Pic semi-related, looks like her.
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no one cares what you think about while you masturbate. as long as you don't walk up to her and tell her that you were jerking off to her last night, it's okay.
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How can someone be so neurotic as to actually ask this question?
Jerk it to her, don't, whatever man
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>>17232032
Do what ever feels right to you.
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Hey /adv/.
I have a daughter who is 16 years old. She's outgoing and popular around her friends. She is friendly to familiar people and is often described cheery and lively by my neighbors.
Now my problem is that every since puberty hit her, she no longer really cares for me. She used to be very sweet around me as I did my job of taking her to places (like Disneyland and other amusement parks) and bought her the necessary things she wanted. I have never once hit her or was negligent towards her, although I have reprimanded her due to education some times.
I thought that once puberty was over, she would at the very least, start showing her care for me and show some response when I called out to her. But that day never came. Every time I'm with my daughter, whether it is just us two alone or with the rest of the family, she doesn't talk to me or look at me. She never asks me for anything (in case she wants to buy something like a purse), instead she asks her mother. I have spoken out to her a couple of times regarding her irrationally cold behavior, but she would ignore me or avoid the conversation altogether.
In my opinion, I have done nothing wrong to make her this way? Where have I/she go wrong? How do I fix this? Please help me out /adv/. I love her but I don't know if I can tolerate this situation continuing any longer. I'm getting depressed and concerned for both me and my child and so is my wife.
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>>17232025
Cant help you with that so have a bump and good luck man,dont get depressed.
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You have a teenage daughter. This is how teenage daughters act. You're Cape Canaveral in 2030, she's a shuttle you're sending to Mars, and you're praying to God that she's going to make it there with all your preparation for her flight plans. But what's horrifying is that now she's launched, you can't do a thing to fix her problems, you can't get any communication, she's long and gone into that dark void, and your heart falls into your stomach because you're afraid all that work and dedication is going to be long and gone.
You've got to be at the control boards, waiting, praying, hoping that one day that shuttle of yours is going to send signals back that it's awake and aware and appreciative of everything you've done. But it's going to take years, anon. Maybe just a few, maybe several, but time will pass, and then one day, she's going to come back home to you.
This is your child growing up. If you did everything right, and you know you did everything right, just be calm and patient, and wait for her to come back home to you.
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This is an unfortunate side effect of being a parent that afflicts some parents more so than others.
I don't know about you but when I was a teenager I was a little shithead. I'm 30 now and in retrospect I can without a doubt tell you I was a shithead despite my parents being incredibly patient, caring, and understanding and loving. I was terrible to my parents from about 15 to 19. A big part of it was the drugs, but that's another story. Anyway, point is it's a phase for some kids.
You can be there for your kids all throughout their upbringing but when they get to a certain age, the teenage years, they can lash out. A part of it sometimes is their social circle or really just their social life in general. As easy as life is, when you're a teenager you blow everything out of proportion.
You just gotta be patient and ride it out. She'll grow up in time. Just always be there for her in the mean time.
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This may be kind of a broad question, but how does one find a purpose in life? I see people who are into sports, into art, into science, and they are passionate about what they do.The thing is, there isn't anything that I feel particularly passionate about. How can I find something to dedicate myself to, to put all of my effort into? All I do all day is watch anime and basketball, lift, and play video games
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>>17232023
Help other people. However you want to.
The world will never have too many people making other people smile.
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You just have to try everything you can.You WILL find the right thing,it's just a matter of testing the water.I was in the same boat as you,anon.Up until the age of 14 all I did was play video games.My only "hobby".My brother was musical so I thought "fuck it" and I got drum lessons.Pretty good but something missing.Tried bass guitar.Bam.Been playing in a band for 6 years.Those people you see with passions had to find their calling.Get out there and find yours.Good luck
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Try getting into programming. It's relatively easy at start, and can stay as a fun hobby or get you a cool job.
Protip : start with Python.
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I feel like I'm too tall. i'm a girl, 5'5" and I feel taller than most girls. it sucks, especially because I get the vibe that my boyfriend has a fetish or something for really short girls, like 5'3" and under. my idea height is like 5-5'3".
when I was younger, I was the shortest in class like in middle school and high school. I wished to be taller because that's how models are, and I wanted to be like them. now I hate my height. I'm know I'm not an awkward girl height, but it still bothers me, eseially since I feel like a lot of girls/guys are shorter these days... like I'm the same height as my boyfriends best friend.
also, I LOVE heels to pieces, but I never ever wear them because when I do i'm like 5'8". and then I'm taller than A LOT Of people.
help? :( do all guys only like really short girls mostly? like I know other girls of different heights can be a attractive, but I get really jealous around short girls even if theyre uglier than me. like my boyfriends best friend is dating a girl who's like 5'2" or so and her face isn't pretty but I hate when she talks to my boyfriend/is too friendly with him because I'm jealous of her height..
help meeeeeeee =[ should I find a different boyfriend? I know mine is attracted towards me, but I feel like I'm too tall for his ideal preferences and id be more comfortable with another dude who preferred my height girls..and my bf is like 5'11" or something (I think hes like 5'10" but he says 5'11")
help me:(((((((
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There are plenty of guys who like short girls and plenty of guys who like taller girls.
> I get the vibe that my boyfriend has a fetish or something for really short girls
> I feel like I'm too tall for his ideal preferences
As long as you don't know, and only have a vibe or a feeling, you're worrying yourself sick. If it bothers you this much and you love him enough you'll bring it up. Otherwise you're making yourself worry with this thought of him not liking your height.
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>>17232001
I mean... I just like know. I can tell. and all of his past girls have been REALLLY short.. like 5 feet. and I can see how he acts towards/around shorter girls, like I can tell hes attracted to them.
he said i'm the perfect height to me many times, but I just felt like he was kinda saying that.
like I feel like he likes everything about me except my height, but I don't think he finds me as too tall to not be with like as a dealbreaker, I think he just prefers shorter girls. kinda like being in a relationship with a blonde when you prefer brunettes sorta thing, you know?
but I'm also self conscious about it... and also maybe I'm prokecting because I feel like my bf isn't tall enough?? like I feel like for my height, I need someone who is ike 6'3" jus tbecause if I wear heels, I'm like 2 inches taller than my boyfriend and its SOO WEIRD I don't like it, so I cant even wear heels and I love heels...
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You're the average height of an American female. Is your guy short? Maybe he's insecure about his own height because being short usually make men feel less masculine. Short girls have short stubby legs and arms. Men love long legs. The few I've known to care much about a girl's height were insecure they were short. If that's the case, don't let HIS insecurity become yours
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How do you tell the difference between when your woman is really horny vs. she's taken another dick?
Something happened with my girlfriend recently that's got me scared. I put my dick in her one night when she seemed really horny and it went in like smooth butter. This has never bothered me before. It didn't really bother me then except to tease her for it.
But then, a few weeks later, I fucked her out one night and then fucked her again in the morning. .... It slipped right in in the morning like butter. A light bulb went on in my head.
Either way it concerns me. I used to think I would at least have an idea that someone else had been in my girl, especially if it was without a condom. ... but now I'm confused because either she took extra dick before I fucked her OR women really can be super duper fucking aroused to the point where they're too wet and it goes in like smooth butter.
I don't even care if she's taking other dick; I care if she's lying to me about it. I could make phone calls right now and have other women sucking me off. She had better not be sneaking dick without me getting mine too.
I'm just confused because if she managed to cheat that entire week... I would be extremely, extremely impressed. Like, logistically. I would be very impressed. But she either cheated OR pussies really do turn into wet caves when they really want cock.
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pussies are supposed to be lubricated like that. if you have been sticking it in before without that level of lubrication, it means you did not do enough foreplay.
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The writer has severe mental issues. Nice prose, though.
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>either she took extra dick before I fucked her OR women really can be super duper fucking aroused to the point where they're too wet and it goes in like smooth butter.
I will solve that riddle for you. Vaginas can be naturally wet. The lubrication of of your girlfriend's vagina cannot reveal to you whether or not she is cheating. It is a very silly idea. It is hard to believe that someone past the age of 18 years old could even begin to think something like that with a straight face.
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So i've installed Tinde and I've got a match with this really cute girl and I dont want to fuck up as I would probably gonna do so I came here for advice.
I dont know how to start the conversation because I usually just say dumb things and see how it goes but this girl doesnt seem into that too much.
Also any advice and experiences that could help me are more than welcome.
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>>17231797
Hlp
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>>17231797
Read her bio to see what her interests are then strike up a conversation based on her interests. If she doesn't have any listed, say hi or hello then ask her what are somethings she likes to do for fun.
Its not hard OP just don't over think it or be autistic.
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Just curious; to the guys on this board who use tinder, are you looking for hookups, relationships, or just to meet people? I wonder what people use tinder most often for
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How do i get over a girl?
We we never really in a relationship but weve gone on two dates.
we just had a , idk, heart to hear, and she said "I'd just really rather be platonic so I'm not sure what to say" .
i know what this means, im not gonna pester her to be my girlfriend , its just that ive sunk 2 years into this girl from the day i met her. I almost would say i love her. it literally just happened like 20 minutes ago , and im just preemptively dulling some of the pain. I just want to cry but i dont want to become a wreck sitting in bed all day.
typing this out helps already, but it still hurts really bad
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The best you can do is to get your mind off of it. Go out with yours friends, socialize, etc. Most importantly, try meeting other girls and next time don't fall into the same trap of tricking yourself into thinking you love a girl just cause she showed minor interest.
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As someone who always falls too hard for a girl and then takes forever getting over her (like a year+) I've found that the only way to get over a girl has been to find another that I am more interested in. All the time in between you just distract yourself. I personally am a workaholic and that helps me keep my mind busy. This was useful until the last time, because I became depressed about the whole dating situation in general. I don't catch feelings for a woman often, and when I do I now just remind myself not to get too attached because chances are pretty high that I'm going to get rejected. When I'm not attached to someone I just don't feel very motivated to put any effort in to the relationship. I have no idea how people are supposed to get and lose feelings so quickly or how they're supposed to find the motivation to actually date one another when they barely care about the other person. It's all very isolating. Overall I would recommend only using workaholism as a last resort, and instead do something social like a previous anon suggested, because it will help stave off the feeling that you can't and never will connect with someone romantically. It also helps you to meet other women more frequently.
Man I feel hollow inside now.
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I'm not trying to minimize your feelings but look at it from another perspective. If nothing happened in two years you've been lying to yourself or something.
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Hello. I'm dealing with depression caused by early balding. I'm 20. My thinning hair gave me major anxiety and exacerbated my BDD. Shaving is not acceptable in my social circle, nor closely cropping. I'm scared of finasteride but sooner or later I will take the plunge and get a prescription. Anyone with advice and/or in my same situation?
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>>17231555
What kind of a social circle doesn't accept shaved or buzz cut men?
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Go for the Christian troy on Nip Tuck look. Its a classy/sexy look for receding hair
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>>17231582
This, what's wrong with your friends OP
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My sister is 30 and still lives with her dad.
Has no prospects of a job, future, education, or anything.
Isn't even the depressive NEET type "i'm trying but i can't get a job etc etc". Simply doesn't give a shit. Doesn't feel remorseful for her current situation or anything.
Keeps guilttripping my father to do stuff for her since he "mistreated" her in the past, which makes me feel bad for him. The amount of money he throws at her is incredible. Probably does it so that he can convince him he's become a better person. She's become his moral mirror of sorts.
I'm worried for her. She's very beautiful, and this isn't some kind of brother bias. Beauty runs out by age 30, which is the cause for my worry. A marriage could save her.
I'm telling her to get married, but she doesn't listen. She gives me that "i'm a free spirit" type of shit, you know what i'm talking about.
She's really going to be fucked if she doesn't move out soon. My father will also suffer with the toil of having her, he's on his 60's.
What must i do to put some sense into her? She's extremely against any form of criticism.
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Post pic. I'm 33 and financially stable. I might consider taking her off your hands
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>>17231553
>Post pic
Nah, not doing it. Too afraid of shit going garrity to do it.
Rest assured, you'll have to believe me.
Her beauty will only last for more five years at most, anyways.
And she probably lives away from you. Are you south american?
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>>17231568
American born of Asian immigrants.
I rescind my offer
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>>17224909
Has inspired me.
As a 21 y/o female who's had sex with approximately 100 men and 25 women anything.
Pic somewhat related.
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Do you believe that Shannon Noll was robbed of the Australian Idol win in 2003?
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>>17231526
No. I was pulling for Ruben Studdard.
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How many magikarps used splashed on you
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Theres a very cute girl who works at the el pollo loco drive through and I want to ask for her number. But they're always busy and I can tell she gets frustrated (though shes still sweet to me, she even told me "be careful!" as I pulled my car forward). I don't want to get her in trouble because shes always making little mistakes so she might be on thin ice with her employers, and I don't want her to get annoyed with me for trying to flirt when shes so busy. I was thinking of writing down a note and just passing it to her through the window so she can write her number on it really quickly and pass it back, but that'd probably be autistic right?
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Just give her your own number and let her decide etc. That means she doesn't waste time writing her number.
Seems sorta sweet, but could be seen as autistic I guess.
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>>17231405
>Just give her your own number and let her decide
how though? Just give her the paper and speed away? Do I say something as I hand it to her?
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>>17231414
Tell her you think she's hot and that you'd like to get to know her and hand her your number. Just be confident and chill about it...
i have a small jaw, what should i do ?
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>>17231326
Are you slavic?
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>>17231326
how is that a small jaw
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>>17231326
Have you considered the usage of a large caliber fire arm? I hear that does wonders for your jaw
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How to increase one's energy?
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Take your vitamins and get plenty of sleep (but not too much)
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Just to clarify, I'm on mobile, a newfriend and seemingly mentally deficient.
So, I've been struggling with minor mental health issues for pretty much all my life. Social anxiety, inferiority complex and dysthymia; that kind of shit. Recently I've been seeing a shrink, my anxiety is practically gone and my mood has stabilized a lot but I still don't feel like doing anything, or rather, there's nothing I'm really passionate about or look forward to. I'm kind of detached all the time, I'm permanently exhausted, so I spend time on my PC instead of doing things that would improve my life. But I don't really care about what happens to me for some reason.
Tldr: Basically, every aspect of my life is suffering because I'm a lazy twat and I don't know how to fix that.
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>>17231167
Stop making excuses.