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I am a girl from Germany who will visit he states this summer, the country where my male online friend lives in. Known him for 2.5 years and have video skyped with him. I want to meet him irl for the first time when we are there, but he doesn't seem to want to meet me. The reasons? He thinks his family members will distrust me a lot because we met online and he doesn't want people to think that he was online dating me.

He is an 18-year-old who just graduated from high school when I will turn 20 soon. He doesn't seem to want to meet me (although he said he will "try his best" to get things sorted out). I feel really disappointed - I can't help but think I value this friendship much more than he does. I be like flying to another continent which happens to be his homeland and he be like "we're not meeting as my family members will distrust you".

What should I do about this situation and how to feel better about this?
>inb4 you were catfished
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Komme bei California fraulein ;)
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>>17232795
My friend lives in New York and I will only visit the East coast
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I... Wow, girl, I'm sorry you gotta go through this. He's probably just immature and really afraid about what his family will think. Maybe he hasn't told them anything about you, and if he did it would be a big shocker.

>Uh, mom, dad, I gotta tell you, I've had a friend in Germany for over 2 years and she wants to come visit me

Tell him to tell his parents you exist first, THEN let him tell them you're going over.

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hello

the police recently seized my laptop and phone in a warrant because im stupid. i have good amounts of pirated music on both devices, should i expect trouble?

to clarify the warrant was not related to piracy
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>>17232739
They can't arrest you for something they didn't have a warrant for, but they may try.
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>>17232739
Cheeze pizza arrest in progress, nice.
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>>17232755
if there was cheese pizza i certainly wouldnt be worrying about other shit nahimsayin

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is my boyfriend playing me if he says he wants to marry me?

he says it to me a lot and has since kinda earlyish (earlier than most people) in our relationship..i don't remember exactly but maybe 4-5 months in. we've been together for a year and 3 months now.

sometimes I feel kinda weird about it and think maybe hes just playing me or saying it to lock me in? ive met most of his family/friends, and hes told some of his friends hes thinks I'm his future wife (ive seen convos with them).

could he be playing me or legit? he's 23 and i'm 24.
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He's definitely not "playing you" lmao. My bf and I did this. He told me he liked me by saying "you know I'm going to marry you one day". We've talked about it at length, and have been together two years now. Talking about marriage doesn't have to be some huge deal, it just means he really likes you and as of right now, wants to spend the rest of his life with you.
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>>17232682
are you guys married?

and yeah I'm like super paranoid and stuff haha. plus I'm like 24, so I don't wanna waste all my young years. like I really do want to get married at about 27.
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>>17232688
Most women want to get married around that time. You're not being paranoid don't worry - it's natural to feel that way. Just relax

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>be me
>good university
>work part time
>church every week
>dont smoke/drink
>not a degenerate like most people my age
>red pilled
>vote conservative
>never had a girl friend in my life
>always see girls going for shitskins/niggers
>example: meet qt non-degenerate white blonde girl first semester
>these sub humans arabs give her drugs at a party
>all of a sudden she skips class and just uses me for notes
>apparently she's a whore now too

What the fuck. I try to life good and non-dengerate and nothing good happens

Our women are race traitors. What the FUCK do I do? I'm sick of it, I refuse to settle for for women like this...
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>>17232645
Focus on yourself. The opportunities for good women will present themselves to you as you go on.
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>>17232645
Can't you date other races?
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>red pilled
Probably this. Girls don't like guys who buy into bullshit like this

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He's a complete mess, and has been for a while. Very bad alcoholic. At his worst when he was living with us he drank a 5th of cheap, nasty vodka every single day. Then he went to rehab and has hated us ever since. No idea how much he's drinking now, but after getting back from rehab he managed to break two separate gas stoves here without even living here. The first time he was coming down from meth and was mad at me so he threw a chair. Second time he was over here with his gf while I was in class. His gf calls me crying and I left my lab early to go over there, and the cops were waiting. Neighbors called I guess and there was broken glass and a huge mess.

One night he showed up cut and bleeding all over and I had to take him to the ER. His gf stabbed him and he made me drive by their place to see if she slashed their tires like she said she was going to. It was horrible.

Then he lets us know a few months later that he needed surgery because he "cut himself picking up broken glass". Turns out a tendon in his wrist was cut and he now has permanent nerve damage in his dominant hand. I bet she stabbed him again but we'll probably never know.

His gf is just as bad, if not worse. She's a crazy fucking bitch and they hoard animals while chainsmoking in their tiny apartment. Air quality is terrible and I feel so bad for their several cats and dogs.

Neither of them can keep a job, and I have no idea how they're managing to pay rent or anything. He won't listen when we try to talk to him about any of this. He's on this awful spiral of self-destruction and his gf just feeds into it. From the way he looks I'm pretty sure he's back to using meth and I know he's drinking a lot still.

It hurts. Hurts me, hurts my parents. Hurts him of course. We don't know what to do. We want the best for him but there seems like no way to get him to listen to any semblance of reason.
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I check the newspaper everyday to see if he's been arrested recently (already has 2 DUIs) and worry about him dying.
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realizing now that the image i picked is not really appropriate for thread. just picked one at random :/

does anyone have advice for me?
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is it not possible to bump your own threads now?

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Thoughts on uncircumcized cocks, ladies? I am debating if I want my future son to have the mark of the jew or not.
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>>17232563
Don't circumsize him unless he has painful phimosis.

1) Sex is better
2) It looks better
3) Your son will not lose nerve endings which are supposed to give him pleasure
4) why cause damage and trauma to a goddamn infant of all things for no reason?
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I live in a place where it's not common for a guy to be cut. I don't understand why you'd do it if you're not religious and there aren't medical reasons to do it.
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>>17232563
Why would you let someone mutilate your child?

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What is with this board becoming so bitter recently? We use to have the odd dick but it seems like lately we are being taken over by them.
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all the boards are being shitted up recently because the summer kiddies just got their allowance money, wait a while
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>>17232430
It seems like every thread I go to help these people shit it up. There answer to helping someone with sevre mental disorders is "stop being such a bitch". I feel bad for the people coming here they prob do not open up about their disorders and ate trying to seek proper help and do nor know how to go about it and these dumb fucks are settin them back in progress by making stupid uneducated posts. I want to nuke them.
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>>17232424
>We use to have the odd dick but it seems like lately we are being taken over by them.
This is not your imagination. We are being raided by /r9k/ and /pol/ (mostly /r9k/).

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Is it better to have a shitty tattoo or Remove it and have a shitty tattoo scar?
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Maybe cover it with another.
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>>17232443
I don't think I really want another tattoo.
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What is it a tattoo of?

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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:

>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.

>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.

>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something that cannot be explained. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online. Don't complain that this isn't helpful; stupid questions deserve answers like this.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing

>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>

>Brandon, that one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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How inappropriate would it be for me to ask a girl with big breasts to feel them? I just really love big breasts -- I could care less about sex -- and I would imagine a girl would enjoy being appreciated for being genetically selected FOR instead of AGAINST.
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>>17232399
*couldn't care less
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>>17232420
That's what I needed to hear. I used to ask black girls all the time, but now I want to ask white girls without being accused of rape.

I know i know... he killed a bunch of people, but... what do you think of him? im fascinated by his Manifesto(i just finished reading it), i feel just as he does, im 18 atm, im scared to reach his age feel as pathetic as he felt.
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>>17232357
rip sweet prince.
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Mixed-race children do not cope with reality unless the world panders to their needs. Without an ancestry to have resonate in their soul, they require external validation to feel inherently valuable, and in Eliot Rodgers' case, he had people talk down to him rather than boost him up, like other successful mixed-race individuals.

If you are white, I suggest lifting, getting an understanding of esoteric traditionalism and Hermeticism, and focus on the self.

If you're non-white, I suggest joining a gang or whatever blacks and Mexicans do to feel validated.
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>>17232357
Just don't blame others. I had a similar past but you can't blame others, it's no one else's fault how your life turns out. That was his problem, his entitlement and blame instead of looking within. I was fascinated by his manifesto too though, but 23 now and never any homocidal urges, don't turn into a rageful cunt because of how your life is.

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How do i become that fun guy girls want to be around
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show them your pic related and they'll be impressed by your selection of quality 3d images
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>>17232288
Be less gamer and do more outdoor activities
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become funguy

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In my 5 years of not having friends I've gotten into the flat endless earth, Mandela effect, Jews ruining the world and the we wuz kangz theories.
My mother moved us all away from our family, I got no way of meeting anyone, my life's just empty. Plus virgin in my 20s and live with my mother.
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Get off 4chan.
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>>17232239
Guess I would be here

Realhistoryww.com
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>>17232480
>Realhistoryww.com

thanks for the link anon, this is really intresting

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I grew up in a female-dominated divorced household where all of my relatives, including extended family, are girls. The family has a history of severe psychiatric problems, especially bipolar, and even before starting puberty I was repeatedly emasculated and humiliated.

However, unlike movies, I didn't become a deranged paraphilic psychopath because I'm too good-natured. What has ended up happening is that I'm extremely terrified of being in a personal relationship with women and of having sex in general, and being the only son in the family I'm feeling an extreme amount of pressure from my father to start dating now that I'm 22.

How am I supposed to learn how to not be afraid of girls so late in life, where everyone else has had a solid decade of real social situations over me? Not only that, how do I explain to a girl my fears without sounding like a weak failure?
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22 isn't even that old yet.
You can still date a few 18 year olds who are late bloomers and experience a first relationship together. It's not until your 24 that dating 18 year olds gets creepy and the only girls available will be expecting a lot more experience.
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>>17232205
I'm on your boat.

I have zero idea what to do, how to do it, except I came from a highly sheltered upbringing and it really hasnt prepared me
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I think you're being hard on yourself. You call yourself a weak failure but it's not necessarily true, it's not necessarily how others will see it. However it is what they will think if that's how you describe it. The first step is to not put yourself down. You need to respect yourself before others can respect you. Don't describe yourself as weak, don't describe yourself as a failure, don't equate a lack of experience with an inferiority complex. Explain the situation fairly and let others decide for themselves if you are indeed a weak failure or if you are someone who wasn't given a fair chance in life.

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>We talk daily on the phone before bed.
>Last Summer we'd talk for hours and hours
>Last two weeks she'd hang up really abruptly
>Just simple stuff like "Oh it's 10 bye" *Hangs up*
>She went off about her lack of confidence and how people want her to model now.
>Didn't bother asking about me just talked about her life and how people now find her attractive.

I don't get what she's trying to tell me. Things just feel odd. Like my stomach gets in knots when she hangs up like this. I know we both love each other but I can't explain her odd behavior lately... I tell her I love her and that she's beautiful but she still seems to be insecure...
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>>17232204
She's cheating on you. Drop her ass.
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>>17232544
This is the truth
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>>17232204
Who talks on the phone for hours at a time? Are you in grade school? Chances are she is looking for a reason to end the conversation because it is getting boring.

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>met a girl month ago
>we meet once few days
>talk to each other

But it has been a month and I have absolutely no clue if she is interested in me or not. I am definitely getting over if she tries to keep me as friend and start searching for another girl so my question is. How to ask her subtly if she is interested in me or not? Our compatiblity was pretty good.
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Why would you be subtle?
You need your intentions to be clear or you'll land yourself in a "friend" date and look totally retarded when you try to make a move and ruin the day.

Just ask her out bluntly.
If she says anything other than "Yes", take it as a no, laugh it off, and change the subject; don't be an asshole.
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Simply because it is easier to answer subtle question. If I ask her bluntly she will probably say that she needs time to think about it and stuff like that.

It would definitely ruin the day. I want to ask her subtly, not directly..
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>>17232365

Not this guy: >>17232216

But what are you even doing? Why do you need to be subtle about it? She will respect you more if you just ask it and get it out of the way instead of playing games with "subtleness"...You're afraid of getting your feelings hurt but get over it, you barely even know her.

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