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Break up with her in a public establishment, where she cannot physically abuse you without witness. Inform your friends and family about the situation and the possibility of future stalking or assault. Inform the police immediately if she does stalk you, or if she shows up at your door and refuse to leave. Document everything. If she can't get the message, get a restraining order. Good luck my friend. Abusive partners are a terrible thing.

>>17236337
Never do it by text, whoever does that has no self respect, lacks courage and responsibility. Be honest and most importantly do it face to face, calmly.

>>17236380
>whoever does that has no self respect, lacks courage and responsibility
Bwuahahahaha.

Or it doesn't matter to them, they're done, and they don't want to have to pretend to give a shit about the other party.
>SAY IT TO MY FACE
Why, so you can misremember the entire relationship casting me as the bad guy, tell me how awesome and special you are, and then lie to yourself that there's nothing wrong with you?

NAAAAAAAAH. I'd rather just text.

>Friends ask why I never "explore my gender"
>Tell them I did, immediately realised its correct
>They say okay, sort of start talking to me less
>Still invited to stuff, we all live in the same house at the time
>Kind of feel like they stop treating me like a person, loudly discuss how cis people need to die
>Tell them this makes me kinda sad and uncomfortable
>They say deal with it "you have cis white male privilege"
>??????
>Ask why they are making our individual interpersonal problems about gender politics? Like we don't know each other and aren't friends or something?
>They continue to adopt terrifying views, seemingly coming from tumblr over the course of most of a year
>Pass out at a party one time
>Wake up to them trying to do makeup on me
>Freak out, no likey
>They all call me a transphobe
>Say I just don't like people messing with me in my sleep
>Friendships slowly peter out
>I miss my friends, especially skinnybro
>What happened to them? Where did they go?

Wtf happen

Slow second half, adblock fukd me

>>17236357
I was going to reply but them I find this thread pointless, they are fags why would you want to be around garbage... anyways >>>/r9k/

>>17236408
Because they weren't garbage to start with.
My friends were perfect.
But its like I'm in mourning, as though they all died and got replaced with different people.

One of them was my gf who then decided she was a guy.

>>17236323
Fagga

Donald

>>17236323
Negro

Dating coworkers isn't really a good idea. Don't have higher expectations than a short term thing and it's all good.

>>17236295
Yeah, I wasn't really plannin on dating really, I'm kinda just trying to fuck, I was just curious if it would make it awkward since her ex still works with me all time as well as her.

>>17236281
Don't shit where you eat. After she fucks you she will dump you and move on to the next coworker

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OP here. Just looked in the mirror. What's this builddup thing on the part towards the nose?

>>17236329
wash with clean water
go to store and get eyes drop

common sense, do you know it ?

It's conjunctivitis, get some eyedrops at the drugstore for that

>>17236266
You know the answer Anon...
you typed it. Read your post again. Sorry.

>>17236266
I think you should stop thinking about her for now until she messages you.

Did she have any recent exes she might've gotten back with? Maybe she just putting you off, but also hoping if things don't work out with the ex that she'll have you as back up? Just a possible scenario

>>17236255
How old are you?

Also this happens to me... with myself

>>17236255
Thats because she's a human being. No one can look like a 10/10 knockout 24/7. Think of any beautiful celebrity and i can assure you there's an ugly picture of them. Hell im certain there's ugly pictures of you too

You seriously need to get off the internet and experience real humans more.

This is just sad lol

Had long hair and went for a more stylish Mohawk.

Curly hair makes everything look cool. It's worth it man, but you look great just the way you are.

Others opinions don't matter, just what you feel.

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>>17236249
Maybe if you try this...?

>>17236488
This...do this. It would frame your face perfectly and still show off your curly hair.

>>17236175
It's mental illness, OP. It doesn't just get better. She has to actively try to get better and catch herself in these moments, and probably keep up with whatever medication she's taking. If she slips up, or doesn't care to get better, then there's nothing you can do.

It's not going to get better. She needs to have help, constant and ongoing help in the form of a psychologist and supportive people in her life. And she needs to learn to cope with the effects of whatever illness she has. How to deal with her feelings and thoughts and not give into them by lashing out. She will never not have those feelings and thoughts though.

Try to make sure she gets the help she needs and stick it out as she relearns to interact with the world appropriately. Even if it was a few years ago, this is still quite new for her and she's probably really stressed out by the upheaval it's caused in her life and maybe hasn't gone as far in getting the help she needs as she could. She doesn't just need hospitalization, she needs ongoing therapy in her better periods and possibly medication. Is she getting that?

>>17236196
She's on state insurance and an lra so she is required to go see a counselor once a week (who only has a social service degree) and a psychiatrist every month and a half she is on a ton of meds and is half asleep and distant all the time. The doctors the first time thought it was bipolar the recent hospitalization which was a couple months at a high security hospital due to the voices telling her to kill people they were torn between bipolar, acute schizophrenia and schizoaffective

>>17236131

>I am a job interview tomorrow

Have, not am. Jesus, I'm a retard.

Assuming you did some research on the company who wants to interview you and that you'll bring papers and a pen for notes.

>Show up 5-10 min early
>Give a firm handshake
>Make frequent eye contact
>Speak clearly
>Be friendly
>Ask a couple questions

Follow up with the interview and give them a thank you note.

Take 1/3 of a xan bar 1 hour pryor to the interview.

Spend more money on a quality razor+foam.

Or buy top teir electric razor.

this won't solve your problem, but it could help

make sure your pubes are really soft before you shave. (if you have a vagina, i know this isn't the Best Idea but if you're careful you'll be fine) find some gentle conditioner and put it on your pubes, let it sit for awhile, then shave

>>17236141
I'm talking about shaving my face but thanks.

>>17236119
DUDE NO WAY, FUCKING SAME. I can speak perfectly fine in a British accent.

>>17236119
It's not a speech impediment, it's a feature of the "Standard" American accent. It's called a flap if you want to look it up. All of you yanks do it, I'm British and I fucking hate it. It's even worse when you guys misspell shit because you can't say it properly.

>Shudder in place of shutter and vice versa
>Skiddish instead of skittish

etc.

>>17236149
I do that like times three. Instead of saying "to the store" I say "do da sdoor", and I don't know why.

Your idea about moving out to go to school is a good way to address your NEET problem. But it could be hell on your Aspergers. You know yourself. Would you be comfortable being surrounded by a population of 100% strangers?

I love how you mention "normal height/dick"
You could just take the ASVAB and see how you do, maybe pick something and go from there.

>>17236093
this is something good to think about

but dude, if you think about it and it doesn't severely bother you, go do it. take a chance.

eh you could be left with less than desirable results.

>>17236042
this

if you're having it done, make sure you pay out the ass for it and schedule with the best in the world. also, consult with other surgeons (people who wont be the ones preforming the surgery) about whether it's safe, effective, etc. get a real opinion or two from non-biased doctors, ones who know they're being paid to tell you the truth rather than sell you a surgery.

>>17236026
Post a pic. It's an anonymous board and no one can give you tips if we have no idea what we're working with.

Probably ~80% of appearance is clothing based. That's why you'll see cute chubby women pulling off outfits despite being overweight.

Meow

Okie doke, gonna bump it one more time, if only because I'd appreciate different perspective.

>>17235945
If the cultural gap is to wide and neither you nor her are willing to change, than I think it will be best for you to just be a good friend to her and provide emotional support,