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>>17237041
If it was CP it would've gotten deleted, in /b/ if it looks like they're under 18 the mob mentality sets in and everyone freaks out. I doubt it was, but deleting it was probably the best choice.

>>17237049
Fuck I hope you're right. I'll kill myself before I get my life ruined over shit I didn't do fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck

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However, today I called my parents for help, told them everything and they came to my rescue, helped me get my keys back from her and got all her shit back to her own apartment. Now I've blocked her number and all social media, gotten rid of all gifts from her and finally said goodbye ta her and wished her sincerely good luck with whatever life has got in store for you. She said nothing, probably because my parents where keeping guard in the living room next to us. Sorry for the bad english btw, I'm Norwegian.

For what it's worth we were together for 2,5 years. I'm 25 and she is 26.

Good fucking riddance!

>>17237020
What the fuck? Do you have evidence of her behaviour? Save all the texts you have of her freaking out and record her anytime you meet in the future.

>>17237029
I've taken pictures of my hands and recorded 15 minutes of our argument last night. I've already deleted our text and Facebook conversations though, that might've been dumb. Hindsight 20/20...

>>17237009
Also, is the dinner/and/or/movie a hurdle that everyone just has to get past, or is there a way around it?

>>17237009
Umm I've gone with a woman to go shoot , clays and targets and she loved it. Not just serial killers go shooting.

>>17237009
I REALLY like going to movies on dates, but perhaps it isn't a first date thing. Why not just get some coffee or go for lunch? Sounds cliché, but who cares? People choose to go on dates to these places because they work and are familiar.

>>17236964
>My life is like one of those shitty harem animes.
You wish.

>>17236973
you're right, I've gone delusional. The lines between 2d and 3d are blurred. Give me a second, I'm going to go see what the barrel of my glock 9 tastes like.

>>17236964
Get them both together. Give them 1 cup

>>17236937
Stop sitting behind your computer all day for one

>>17236942
Is that whats making me hideous?

>>17236937
What kind of hideous are we talking here? Are you fat, or do you have shitty features? Balding? Be specific, here.

Is she still dating him? If so, do your buddy a favor and don't do anything with her. Just assume you're reading too much into whatever she's doing. If she comes to you and openly confesses, then tell your bud so he can have the honors of dumping her.

Tell her that she's a great girl and you regret letting her go. That's it.

>>17236943
All right, she's the only girl that's ever really been into me ( I can only guess since she asked me put before) so it makes me unexperienced with this.

>>17236905

I would like to also add that it wasn't always like this, obviously in the beginning she refrained from using her phone all the time around me as things were new, she also recently lost a bit of weight so she is feeling better about herself therefore spending a lot more time doing her make-up and taking photos for these media outlets, which in itself is fine, but after posting a photo she will literally be checking on it for hours seeing how many likes she gets and replying to the comments of "beautiful xoxo".

>>17236905
She's bored of you. Instead of trying to control her, make her want to pay attention to you.

Stop taking her to the same places. Plan interesting activities for the two of you to do.

Do you compliments her enough?

Not enough for her to get all the power and cuck you.. but enough?

It's an addicting thing. Getting all that positive feedback. More than you could ever get IRL. Be careful, this is when dudes sneak in, you accepted her as a fatty so you must be beneath her (this is how bitches think) and she's never been attractive to hit guys before , now she is and she needs more attention so she sucks a dick.

Make sure it's really just friends. Sorry nigga.

If it really is just girls talking g and shit start spending less time with her till she takes the hint

>>17236899
>Am I not deserving of reciprocated love or mutual feelings of desire?

You are deserving, absolutely.

>My lack of success with women makes me feel worthless, disconnected from the rest of humanity, and like I'm not really a man.

You're a man. Sometimes a man has little or no success in the dating scene for the first two decades he spends trying. Have you been trying for two decades? If not, you're still improving. You're a work in progress. Give it time.

>I hate myself for never being good enough for the women I'm attracted to and try to pursue.

Don't hate yourself. Also recognize that you don't need a partner to be happy, or to be a worthy person. It's natural to want companionship, and it's natural to want the social status and self esteem that come with being a person in a relationship. But you don't need to be in a relationship to be a good person, a successful person, or a person worth respect. If you feel pressure to be in a relationship, give yourself permission to ignore it. Don't judge your worth by your relationship status, and don't let anyone else judge your worth by it, either.

>I hate myself for not being wealthy, for not being charismatic enough, or funny enough, or attractive enough or smart enough.

You can become more wealthy. You can become more charismatic, more funny, more attractive, and smarter. You can become all of these things, simply by making them priorities in your life, working on them diligently, and removing the things in your life that are not priorities and consume your time and energy. That, and patience. Developing as a person takes a long time. Whatever age you are now, add ten years. You wish you were a better version of yourself right now, but there is no path to that. There is, however, a path to a better version of the you ten years from now.

You are a work in progress. Have patience. And take a break from the dating scene.

>Am I not deserving of reciprocated love or mutual feelings of desire?
If your standards are unreasonably high, then no, you are not deserving. Put yourself in their shoes. Why should they settle for someone like you? Do you have any standout desirable traits? Or are you the very definition of "just another guy"?

Channel that hate into productive things. Work out, read, learn languages, pick up a sport. Only by improving yourself can you she'd the skin of this person you hate now.

>>17236898
Dude, you broke up with in her part because she was doing shit you didn't like. Unless you're a complete dipshit, you didn't break up with her to punish her so that she would learn her lesson and come crawling back to you. It was so you didn't have to be with someone who doesn't act like a person you want to be with.

So act like it. It's not your problem anymore, you're free to find a better person who does act in a way you like. So go focus on finding that better person.

>>17236898
You sound like kind of a prick, honestly.

She smoked weed with other guys? And you broke up with her for that?

Perhaps you should work on your own self-esteem before pursuing other women.

>>17236940
I had made it clear to her that I did not want her doing that, and she did often and hid it from me. Sorry if that makes me a prick? I made my morals clear and what I expected.

>>17236810
I've gotten high many times in a hotboxed car, so yes

>>17236810
Definitely. It won't be as fast as smoking yourself, and unless they're hotboxing you won't be getting super high, but you can totally get high from secondhand smoke.

>>17236833
>>17236844
Yeah cuz they hot boxed the car and I aired it out , but I feel wired. I use to mess with it but quit , but I remember this feeling. Not sure if it's all in my head.

>>17236805
They love you a lot more than you would think, death and separation really opens peoples eyes to how they really feel.

>>17236805
>kinda fall flat in comparison to past siblings
You mean if one of your siblings already committed suicide and then you commit suicide too, it won't stand out as much? Yeah, I can see that. But if you're the first or only one to kill yourself, your parents are going to still be devastated. It's pretty much going to give them the ultimate guilt trip, depending on your actions leading up to the act. One of my friends did that specifically to harm her parents and ultimately show them how badly they fucked her up. They were shitty people and pushed her too hard, so when she hanged herself.... well... it worked. They blamed themselves.

>>17236814
Your friend was an asshole.

it's whatever you want it to be dear

>>17236804
Probably lost it when you pulled the trigger

>>17236804
The actual definition is penis to vaginal penetration, so technically you lost your virginity to your boyfriend. That saif, virginity is just a concept invented by humans and really doesn't matter.

>>17236792
No you can't just copy the system files that wouldn't work.

You clearly have no idea what you're doing and I'm not confident you won't fuck up your computer somehow if I tell you what to do.

Linux has come leaps and bounds. it's actually faster than windows and mac because no bloatware. If you're not a professional who needs certain software that don't run on linux, linux is great. But again, you have no idea what you're doing.

Download VMWare and play around with it first.

If the laptop came equipped with it, then it SHOULD have a key somewhere on it. If not, there are some programs that are able to pull the key from the registry. If you pull the key, then you can enter it in on Microsofts website, and get an installer for the same version of windows that you have (You can choose x64 or x86). Prep a flashdrive with Rufus for booting, slap it on, and install. Peasy.

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>>17236784
Best advice /adv/ ever advised.

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>>17236779
Lurk in /b and desensitize yourself and then come back after a few months.

Stay quiet? You don't ever have to force a conversation. Unless your autistic and resort to pointing at what you want, that could be beyond advice.

Don't force it. If you feel lost, hug him.

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>>17236822
Oh no, I didn't explain myself properly enough. This is in regards to when something's wrong when I'm bothered by something, not general conversation.