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I have a business PO box and recently I guess I was spooked by a certain person saying they would trace my real address through it easy.

Is it true there are real reverse address tracers? Seems too difficult and illegal.
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I thought no because then big efamous people would have already been traced and they would have closed their own po box from the harassment..do i have to file a certain po box?

Seems stupid to me I thought this was the point of a po box.
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>>17239817
Tracing a po box of a business to a person requires a few layers of digging

1)business name registered with the state? Your real name can be found as the owner. From there it's just a matter of looking you up online and putting pieces together.
2)trace personal name / address from po box? It's illegal to give out personal or even business information of po box holders. That being said, process of elimination from #1 can still be done
3)stalking via po box. It's not hard to look up the physical location of a POBox, be it a ups or usps store. From there, if they can take the obscene amount of time to send easily marked packages and watch the store to see who picked it up

While aspects of obtaining information is illegal, if you're a properly registered business, then half of the identifying information is public domain
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>>17239842
My business isn't registered in the state I just sell hand made things online it's nothing big not even average it's just a side "job"

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I feel as though nobody particularly cares for my existence.

Now I've been decent friends with these people for some amount of time. Both college and high school friends, yet none of them ever seem to remember that im a thing, until I'm within their presence, actively talking to them.

My friends from high school don't even talk to me anymore, Hell, a childhood friend of mind just recently got married and I dont even think i got an invite to the wedding.

And then my friends from college. I hang around them every other day, yet as soon as summer quarter comes, nothing. Not even a single like on my facebook posts. Even uploading my art to facebook doesn't bring in people anymore.

However, whenever I look at their pages, they seem to be talking to each other all the time, and have a shitload of people who 'like' their shit.

TL;DR I guess i want to know, how the hell do i become more popular among my friends? Both real life and on social media. It's really bumming me out. Feels like im being left out or some shit.

Am I not talking enough? Am i easily forgettable? Is my presence just that insignificant, What do? It's starting to become just like in high school where I pretty much didnt exist unless my best friend was with me, who was considerably more popular than I was.
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>>17239808
I've been told to my face that I'm forgettable. Feels bad. The fucking worst is like a few days ago I got a pic from college friends making stupid faces. With text saying shit like YOOOOO man waddup we gotta hang soon. They obviously hang on the regular. Literally don't invite me. Idk what to do. I've always been that guy.
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from my experience are you a rather annoying person. be honest with yourself, are you a rather disagreeable person on average? it's really a chore being around people who are annoying.
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>>17239855
Completely the opposite, and Im being as objective as I can possibly be,saying that.

Among my friend group, Im one of the quietest, and one of the more respectful. Add in some clever one liners, maybe some sarcasm in my voice, and you have me. And I'm very agreeable, and I participate in quite a bit of activities they suggest.

I guess you could say im similar to a silent protagonist, except i speak more frequently if that makes sense

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I cant stop masturbating.

Its not a addiction thing ("no youre in denial" , right ?) its just that i frequent jack off, which usually ends up being 3-6 times a day. Im not doing it when im bored, i just see something that makes me so horny i have to jack off.
Im pretty sure the amount of times i do it has caused this swollen spot but it cant heal because of said problem
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>>17239796
Heh, you're in denial all right. If you have to jack off every time something small makes your wee wee jump, you've got issues. If it's causing discomfort and you refuse to stop, that's pretty close to addiction. 3-6 times a day definitely isn't normal. I'd look into treatment OP.
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>>17239796
Isn't it late for a 12 year old to be posting?
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Well what do you want to hear? The only way to stop masturbating is to stop masturbating.

Next time you get the horny feeling, just bear with it, don't edge at all, don't hump the bed, don't seek out more visuals that make you horny, just ride out the discomfort for a few weeks.

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How long should i talk to a girl on tinder before asking her to hangout
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>>17239785
Seconding this

I'm autistic I need answers
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>>17239785
ASAP

Girls use tinder the same reason guys do. Hookups.


Their pussy will try up if you fucking fast if you speil some shit about hey no rush to meet let's get to know each other first winky face

Let me say it again, girls use tinder the same reason guys do, hookups.

They want to fuck. They either will fuck you or they won't, don't waste your time going back and forth.

Your tinder ahould go like this

You: getting or cheesy pickup line to get attention
Her: heehee hi
You: make one comment on something or reply to what she said
Her: some bullshit
You: set up your meet. Don't waste fucking time.

Don't text for anything except logistics until after you have fucking met.

There are always exceptions but don't let them rule your mind. Maybe she just got on a plane Togo visit family and back next week. Fine. Reply in short if she messages you but make yourself ssem busy. As soon as she is back set up a meet.


Girls use tinder for SEX

She either will fuck you or she won't don't waste your fucking time my man set up meets asap trust me I'm a nomad monk living in the Caribbean on a boat and I fuck Ariel
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>>17239902
autist

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A greasy obesey from school has a crush on me. How do I turn her down gently?
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>>17239752
Just be gentle and say you can't return her feelings or whatever sounds soft. Just don't make it too awkward, you could maybe have her as a friend later.
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>>17239752
>that gif

I am dying.
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>>17239899
Yeah really wtf.

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why do some girls fucking talk like this
like what the fuck am I supposed to say

christ so annoying
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>>17239749
If her texts annoy you that much why not call instead?
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>>17239749

What exactly about this is triggering you?
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There's nothing ambiguous about this. Want specific answers ask less general questions. Fucking care about what she has to say or screw texting her.

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So i have a long distance relationship right now with a girl that I love. And I'm going to hang out with a girl tomorrow to smoke with and chill. She wants to be my first
>Virgin on 4chan what a surprise right
So I'm seriously considering it bc gf and I won't be together for at least a year and I feel like when gf and i actually get together I'll be really guilty knowing that she isn't my first.
I just want some sort of release but Im wondering if anyone else here has been in my position. So what do?
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Why does the Autism meter start at -20 and end at +3? Why is +3 bad? Is that like 3x regular Autism? Is it super Autism?
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>>17239712
Don't do it. If you want release that badly, break up with her. It sounds ridiculous, but it's just about your priorities right now. There's not really any right or wrong priorities to have. If you want to get laid and you want that more than the relationship with your gf, dump her. If the relationship means more to you than losing your v card soon, keep her around and resist temptation. Again, there's no right answer to choose. It's just about what you find more important
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>>17239724
Lol I should've cut out that first sentence, but I feel like if you're going to feel guilty if you actually do this and then get with your girlfriend, it'd be better to break up with her right off the bat

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Starting university in a few months. I need some survival tips on how to succeed socially and academically. Are these years at uni going to be better than my high school years?
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>Are these years at uni going to be better than my high school years?
Only if you decide to take advantage of it.

It's a full reset. Everybody is on equal footing. No popular kids from your school have anybody there except maybe a handful of people that happen to be going to the same school.

LIVE IN THE DORMS YOUR FIRST YEAR OR TWO. This is where you meet everybody and where you will have the most fun. The first year of college is an absolute fucking joke so don't fret about it getting in the way of your studies.

BE FRIENDLY. SAY YES TO ALL INVITATIONS. I don't give a shit if you get invited to a disney midnight viewing party. You god damn go. This is where a lot of idiotic man-children go and finally have independence, but these are also the same sort of "HA HA HOW CHILDISH AREN'T WE SO SILLY BEING ADULTS AND STILL LIKING THIS XDDDD" bullshit that all the hot freshmen girls go to.

Again, nobody knows who you are. Fresh slate. Total chance to be whoever you want to be without any interference. Run with it.
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>>17239702

Talk to people the first day. There sooner the better.ions.

If you want to work efficiently, get the exams from the previous years as soon as you can and learn precisely what you'll need to answer the questions
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>>17239702

>I need some survival tips on how to succeed socially and academically.

Sure thing, senpai
>Join a party frat,
>find a drunk girl and get her even more drunk,
>wait until she passes out then start fingering her
>????
>Profit

On a serious note though, don't be an awkward autistic fuck and just concentrate in your studies.

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There has to be some visible factors that show interest. It can't just be a guessing game.
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>>17239689
Noone will spoon-feed you with their feelings. You either see it or don't.

If you still haven't got a clue read about body language first. It's a very interesting subject that could apply in any situation when you interact with people.

Also read pick up books, at some point they will describe when a girl shows interest in you, etc.
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>>17239689
>How to tell if someone's interested in you
You dont.
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>>17239689
You ask them out.

You either have a good time, realise you like each other and start dating.

Or you don't, have a nice time, and then go your separate ways.

This isn't complicated unless you're under 16 years old. What the fuck is wrong with this board

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Hi /adv/ I'm an idiot.

I stuck a ping pong ball in my ass and I can't seem to get it out. I've accepted that I need to go to an ER but I'm willing to try anything to bypass that.

I'm tried lubing and reaching in to no avail and I've tried squatting and pushing. I just took a max dose of milk of magnesium in the hope it will push the ball out, but I want to know if I'm basically fucked already.
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>>17239677
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You'll shit it out eventually
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Just go sit on the toilet...

It should just plop right out and don't clench your ass.

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Hello /adv/, I'm currently 18 and about to exit high school, however for reasons I'm going to wait a whole semester before going to college. So I'm going to be free for a couple of months.

The thing is that mid highschool I switched to other one, and because of that I was never really able to form super close bonds with the people there, add to the fact that I'm not good keeping contact with people and now I feel like the next 6 months of my life are going to be pretty lonely. It's not much but I don't know if I can actually stand 6 months of not talking to anyone but my family.

So a friend of mine has a couple of friends he meet online, from other states or from other countries, and since it's a first for myself I was wondering if I could try it out, but I have some questions

Should I search people that speak the same language as me? Or is it okay if I search in others? I ask this because english is not my native toungue
Where is a good place to start?
Should I use emojis? Or is it okay if I let them out? How do I make myself more 'expressive' through text?
Will people eventually ask for a picture of me? I am in somewhat bad shape (which is something I will work this semester) and I'm not very confident about it, what if they don't want to talk to me after it?
Is revealing my interests okay? I into drawing, video games, animation, etc also I bunch of other stuff that's the main thing.

Thanks in advance /adv/
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Bump

Come on /adv/, I know you can help me with this
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>>17239397
fuck online and get your ass to the gym. you meet a lot of people there. i meet a few people from the gym i go to. great to socialize with
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>>17239628
I'm 18, anon. I will be going to the gym in the mornings. Who do you expect me to meet there?

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Continuation of >>>17224909


Ask a guy who has had sex with a different girl every night for a week anything.
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>>17239384
Please stop attention whoring? No one gives a shit.
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>>17239384
dude sex lmao
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How's the family reunion going?

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Anyone have experience with retail departments? I just got "fired" ā€“ I've been moved from working at Starbucks in Safeway to Safeway's bakery department. So, not only am I in the back, where next to no people go, but I lose out on tips on top of pay above minimum wage.

Here's the thing: my performance has been shit. I know that and fully agree with it. The work itself isn't hard, but between family dying half a week ago and having to still focus on classes, my ability to recall the specific recipes has been lackluster, just as I've made from really boneheaded mistakes.

I'm grateful that I was still offered an alternative, but less so about how it was given. I decided that I needed to get serious and spent pretty much all of yesterday and this morning studying every single recipe. I made this case to my boss, acknowledging my mistakes and offering to be all sorted out by the start of the next week (but I didn't mention the specifics of what was going on). He clearly didn't give a shit, though. I can't tell if this was purposeful or not, but he stated, in no uncertain terms, that I either move or get properly fired, all while making me feel like a dipshit. I haven't even been given the full training period to prove myself, and there have been cases where I've excelled far past the workers with seniority. I really liked this job, beyond the pay.

Is there anything I can do? Since I'll still be working one last time at Starbucks tomorrow morning, I'm just going to do everything I can to leave a good impression. Starbucks is also the only department with its own sub-manager. Should I talk to her during my break, asking how I screwed up so badly that I've been prematurely axed? Would it be wise to ask if I can reapply if another position opens later?

I'm confident that I can do this job and exceed the job requirements. I'm just pissed ā€“ mostly with myself ā€“ that I haven't been given the fully-promised time to prove myself just as I'm getting my head straight.
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>>17239332
Safeway still exists?
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Someone in your family died three days ago and you didn't tell your boss? I'm sorry for your loss, man, but not telling your boss was a big mistake.
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Had to walk away and didn't even get to see how long my opening post was. Here's a tl;dr that's probably better than what I originally wrote:

>Start new job at the Starbucks in Safeway two weeks ago
>First week is just training, but on that Friday, I'm allowed to work the register
>Start of next week is when I get to start making drinks
>This coincides with death in the family; none of the drinks are hard to make or involve complex steps, but I'm having a hell of a time keeping everything straight and recalling specific steps
>Make boneheaded mistakes from not paying attention, too, like throwing out entire drinks when I mess up, when they could be fixed with small tweaks
>Spend most of yesterday and parts of today studying drink book, taking extensive notes. I know I need to stop screwing around and up.
>Get called into Safeway office today
>Boss is terrible at letting people down gently; even though it was likely accidental, he basically says that I'm either moving or leaving while throwing tons of subtext of how I'm incompetent
>Doesn't care even after I plead my case, after I say I'm aware of my lackluster efforts and that I'm committed to turning things around
>Really like job and am certain that I can excel at it
>At this point, because I'm part time, I had only worked five partial days of being able to make drinks, while taking everything else in.

>>17239486
No, the start of last week, but I guess you're right. Do you think it's too late to mention it now, or should I just take my lumps?

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I see people, including one of my friends, saying they get blowjobs from female acquaintances like it's nothing. I know it's considered very casual now, but I can't understand how exactly one broaches the subject. How exactly do you go from talking to blowjob? Do you just fucking ask straight up?

I'm confused.
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>>17239326
Make out a little and then stick your dick in her mouth
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>>17239326
>Do you just fucking ask straight up?
No.
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Does no one have a solution?

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So i've been a console gamer for years and I think it's time for an upgrade, Can you guys recommend a good pc for me?, ( I mainly want to try out arma 3, s.t.a.l.k.e.r, fallout, DayZ) maximum price $1500, Would appreciate the help.
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Self bump.
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>>17239278
Go on a pc building site, I recommend intel i7 and Nvidia 800-900, 12 GB of RAM, and the essentials of a PC.
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>>17239278
Go to https://pcpartpicker.com/

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