If every single neighbor you have has an annoying dog that barks all day starting early in the morning, walks around and pisses in your yard, and they all neglect them and let them be annoying as fuck for hours on end could you just leave random meatballs full of anti freeze all over the road and throw them in people's lawns would they start dying?
Yes they would. But that's a bad idea.
look up the noise laws for your area. If there is still bad noise pollution outside of those hours, call the police. That's their job, to enforce the law.
>>17241288
I reported it numerous times and it's been going on for years I've tried calling the cops and everything
The dogs literally got loose in my yard and almost bit my friend on my porch and they still ignored it
Met this girl while I was in England and we got to know each other before I left back to the states. We've now been talking for almost 5 months, and getting closer and closer. There are times when she freaks out and says we are getting too close and she starts to withdraw and become more guarded. She asks for a break and s few days later comes back like nothing happened. The last couple of days have been quite volatile and we've been extremely critical of each other. Yesterday I told her that I felt something for her and I wanted her. She pretty much laughed it off and was quite mean to me but she maintained she wanted to stay as friends. I don't really know if I should just leave or try to work on it with her. She sends mixed signals and she tells me she can't imagine her life without me but when we get too close she becomes quite heartless and tried to push me away. Any suggestions or thoughts?
>>17241271
For once there's a challenging woman related question on /adv/. Lets try to break down the situation a little more, so both of you like each other, you just are the kind of person who is emotionally open while she is not. You've gotten more attached (not a bad thing) and have reached a boiling point where you have or are near the full blownsies and you want something to happen. You're holding on to the positive side of her mixed emotions and hoping that she reaches the same level of affection to where the feelings can mutually be expressed. So this is all up to her, you cannot know which way she is leaning, she probably only leans towards no due to distance, but it could be other factors (previous heart break). So the way I see it is you're ready to go, she is not but has those growing feelings, if she likes you she cannot control those feelings very well and I guess you must wait until the feelings overcome the negatives of the situation in her head. Just be patient, but I realize in the meantime it is painful and you could be crushed by the reality that she could maybe never accept her feelings. Hold it out as long as you can, don't pressure her or say anymore about it, until you can't handle it anymore. That's all I can think of? Sorry.
>>17241291
Op here, tl;dr
>>17241315
tl;dr: she's taking a huge dick from someone else and knows your weenie can't do anything for her. She also doesn't like the feeling of falling in love with someone who isn't attractive and alpha.
My girlfriend does this, nearly nonstop.
Her fingers are always scabbed or have skin peeling, her nails never grow. She's on medication for anxiety, and she sees a psyche.
I've tried to help, I started pointing out when she does it by grabbing her hand and trying to hold it. Sometimes she lets me, other times she's like "baby, I just gotta do it" and pulls away to resume picking like a mad man.
I really want to help her, she wants to have pretty nails to show off, but everytime she paints them they've barely finished drying by the time she picks all the polish off.
Is the anxiety medication working? Because it doesn't sound like it is.
>>17241212
Could be a placebo, but she believes it helps her, I don't personally see it though.
Seemed to be a lot more emotional when she was taking it at the start a few months ago, on her period it's even more apparent it's not working as intended, but I just blame it on PMS and try to be as understanding as I can.
>>17241206
It's a common nervous habit (Look at the fingers of the next 20 people you pass - I promise at least one will be a biter), and almost impossible to break.
Some people just outgrow it with age, some reduce it as their stress levels drop, but many just keep on through life.
As bad habits go, it's a fairly benign one, and perhaps best just ignored.
Adv i don't know where else to ask
>want to wear a corset it's so badass
Questions
1) my head circumference is 24 inches/60 cm, what waist circumference will be proportional for me? And I'm 5'2 feet tall.
2) when i draw my belly my waist is 27,5 inches/70 cm. Do I need a corset to keep it like that constantly or working out my stomach muscles will do?
>I'm female
Oops, when I maximally draw my belly waist actually gets to 24 inches, when relaxed it's about 29 inches.
>>17241202
Actually, a corset will weaken your stomach muscles by doing their work for them.
Is this an S&M thing, where you want the sensation of being restrained and sexualized? Begin by only wearing it in sexual settings, and then let your dom order you to wear it in other contexts.
>>17241202
Are you trying to corset train? Because it's really terrible for your organs. Go exercise instead.
will meet internet friend soon in a tourist area when visiting his city. is it ok if i ask him for a piggyback ride? i think it is pretty clear that both of us think of each other in a platonic manner but just want to be sure that this is ok
>>17241198
I see no problem with that, maybe it will bring you closer as friends and breaks the ice of meeting someone actually in person .
>>17241198
Sounds fine to me.
>>17241198
Are you the girl who has been posting twice a week for a year about your trip to Spain?
Why not just do whatever the hell you want and leave us alone?
Why do I repulse women in conversation? I don't think I'm that autistic, but they always stop replying, even after an innocuous question like "where are you from" or "what about you"? I've been on Tinder for two years on and off, ZERO dates.
>>17241187
Maybe you just seem too interested in them, that will often make it awkward or creep them out.
>>17241187
Do you ever talk to real live girls, using, like, you know, your actual mouth and words and things?
>>17241191
I don't think I'm coming off particularly strong, pic related is my latest home run
>>17241269
I do OK in real life, still not that great.
I'm earning 10.000$+/month but I'm fucking depressed...
I don't go outside because I don't know where I should go... beach, camping, shopping even gaming... all seems pointless.
I think that I need something else to make my life more interesting but I don't know what is it.
What the fuck should I do?
inb4 /wrists
>>17241172
What do you deem not pointless then? Pick up a hobby, learn something, start trying to better yourself.
>>17241179
>hurr durr what is depression just cheer up bro
what you should do, op, is stop asking for advice to the inbreds in this board
Buy pussy and ass
I'm currently using VLC media player but want to switch to a different player because of all the problems with VLC, which should I choose?
>>17241168
What's wrong with VLC? Just downgrade to an earlier version if you're having problems with newer ones.
>>17241176
I don't want it to just work I want it to work well, it's laggy and the grey screens annoy me. I just want recommendations for better players because almost every second (except when it's still) is choppy, I have tried previous players and am done with VLC.
Mpc
So I am French and I can speak decent Spanish. I'm currently working part-time at this American company and one of my coworkers in Latino (met him once before when he flew to France).
Is it ok if I honestly tell him my opinions on Spanish-speaking culture? Like the pros along with the cons (eg. I love the Spanish language, but desu I am not very interested in Spanish/Hispanic culture)? He seems like a rather out-going and cheerful person but I am not close to him and I don't know if I will be thought of as rude.
>>17241163
>Is it ok if I honestly tell him my opinions on Spanish-speaking culture?
no, it's not. he doesn't care. be a professional.
>>17241163
Like telling without being asked? No, that's not rude, that is actually autistic, aspie like.
Why do you belive your opinion about some culture is relevant in any way to him?
>>17241163
C'est impoli, oui.
My girlfriend is chatting with a friends friend who started hanging out with us recently. We have a group chat with like 10+ people, our group of friends, where we make plans and casually chat during the day- but the two of them are getting to know each other and speak much more in their private chat. It annoys me. She is very extrovert and wants to be friends with everyone, so this isn't the first time this happens. She is very flirty and extremely friendly by nature..
I am extremely jealous but my girlfriend thinks I'm irrational. Am I?
>>17241140
Your gf sounds like a whore, OP
>>17241141
Well she's probably never been single since age 13 but during her adult life she's never had a one night stand but several long term relationships
>>17241146
I think she had both, if you catch my drift.
I need help. probably from someone who studies psychology.. or studied.
Long story short, im psychology student.
and I have to do an experiment. I did.
here's a scheet.(pic related)
ignore those hieroglyphs.. gotta calculate t independent.
and I have no idea how to do it, so if anyone can tell me how to calculate it, I'd be suuuuuuuper thankful, and I wouldnt fail the class.
and also those thingies
X1 (average) = ?? ; X2(average) = ?? S_A1^2 ?? = ???; S_A2^2 = ???
t_(independent) = ??
Df = ??; α = ??; t_critical = ???
pleaseee ;/
Take it to your tutor. We're not here to help you with your homework, especially if you're in university.
>>17241151
But its my experiment... if Ill take it to tutor it means I failed to do it therefor ill fail class.
ppls halp ;c
>>17241137
With a strong foundation in stats and maths, the most i can tell you is that you are probably trying to do a hypothesis test, comparing two samples (e.g. whether or not the difference in means are statistically significant). Additionally that equation looks to be sequenced and is dependent on more data.
Honestly you should know better being someone who studies, who then decides to consult an automatically scrolling mongolian tapestry for anonymous china men.
tldr: Wrong board gtfo to >>>sci
cause math problem yo
i want to make a short film about less than 4 minutes long. i have limited resource so no actors. i was thinking of a story based on first person view or shooting a inanimate object. i need ideas for a story. the story must be meaningful and dramatic. i would really appreciate any suggestions because im not really creative. thanks
>i want to make a short film
>not creative
uhh doesnt sound like you want to make a short film
also ask /lit/
Why? If you're not creative what makes you want to create?
>>17241049
>do my work for me
Oh come on. Go find someone who is a storyteller then, and collaborate with them.
I have a terrible obsession with girls who are in a relationship. I honestly hate myself for it but I just have something for girls who have boyfriends and I'm insanely attracted to my friends' girlfriends, even if they aren't that good looking. I can handle it when im sober but when im drunk its a complete mess. I am on average more attractive than most of my friends, or at least that is what has been told to me, and last night I made out with 2 girls, both of them are in a relationship with my friends. I guess its some fetish of being dominant enough to push another guy out of the picture. In fact, my last relationship came out of me dating a girl that I knew had a boyfriend but I managed to push him out of the picture completely. I know I am an utter asshole but I really need help, this is destroying me and my friends. Is never going out for drinks with my friends, when they bring their girlfriends along, the only option?
>>17241044
If you're attracted to girls with boyfriends get a girlfriend, you can fantasize about taking her from yourself all you want.
>>17241045
Auto-cuck
>>17241044
You learn self control. If that means not drinking in certain situations then yes. Alcohol is about letting control slip away from you to relax yourself, but if your lack of self control causes issues in certain scenarios then you need to not put yourself in those scenarios while also actively partaking in an activity that lowers your inhibitions.
What are your thoughts on online friends? Do you think the word "online friend" has negative connotations?
>>17241034
Online friends used to have negative connotations, and likely still does with some people. And online friendships are easier for some people because you don't have to provide physical support or effort.
But an online friend is not bad to have. Online friends can be wonderful or shitty just like a friend in real life can be. After all in the end you're still people who share a mutual bond.
But online friendships will always lack certain things that a physical presence can provide. Online friendships have their pros and cons. But they are nice to have either way.
I made an online friend on 4chan /toy/ and exchanged skype. It was a very pleasant experience but I just stopped message him... I cut him off when I got bored.
>>17241081
That's one of the pros/cons. An online relationship can be cut off easily, which is a pro for somebody who wants to end it. But it's also a con for people who lose contact and fall out of touch.
How shit does your life has to be in order for you to come here and ask for advice? Most people in here are either anime loving teenagers that don't know any better and will certainly give shit advice, Some 27-ish virgin with no social life and some really abysmal example of human beings in their thirties.Not really the best people to ask advice from imo
unless you are all doing it ironically or some shit
>>17241032
I mean, you can make all the assumptions you want but you really have no idea of the type of people that lurk here. I doubt the majority even take the advice, they just want assurance of their views most of the time (or are trolling)?
Where are these statistics coming from? Your ass?
>>17241043
4chan is shunned all over the social media and is hyped as some sort of boggy man of internet. I can't really imagine healthy people visiting this place with that reputation, majority should be either le brave kool kids, weirdos with extreme habits/hobbies or some really lonely people that are incredibly desperate. so yeah
With that said, I think you were looking for the phrase "baiting"