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Hey /adv/
Theres a girl that I've been talking to recently, and we used to be involved/date a few years back. We've been close friends for 5 months now and I think I'm catching feelings for her. The problem is she has a boyfriend and she's touchy and flirty with me. She never even mentions him when she's around me. Despite this she calls me her best friend. What do I do /adv/??
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Feelings for someone who does not stay loyal to their boyfriend by being touchy and flirty with you?
Bad idea.
It will repeat, but with you as the victim.
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>>17296580
How do I get with her though
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>>17296758
you don't
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Hey /adv/ I need some help with something. So the story is that I decided to leave the internet for a month or so, so I removed my Internet cable for 3 weeks before I did so, I thought I was gonna get hacked or some shit, so I put on my steam, "I may get hacked soon" or some shit and forgot about it. An individual thinks I ruined his friendship with 3 other people on purpose. I would just put this off if he wasn't a hacker. So this guy may or may not have my ip and he thinks im lying or shit. So what should I do /adv/? Pic not related
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Stop concerning yourself with things you have no control over? Seriously
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>>17296541
You can't get hacked from someone just having your ip dipshit
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OP is a faggot
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How do I stop liking my friend?
short background:
we've known each-other for more than 3 years, we see each-other about once a month, and (lately) we chat every other day
it's really annoying to be attracted to them because we've already discussed it a while ago and it became clear that I'm the only one attracted to the other in this way; I mean I could check again in a month or so just to be super clear and sure but I'm quite certain that's the situation
yes I've already tried hobbies, I have plenty, I stay busy most of the time and I have other friends that I go out with
so
what do?
if there's no mildly easy way out, that's fine as well, I'll deal with it until it fiddles out I guess
to me the fastest way would be to find another partner, but I know that's not gonna happen any time soon, and I'll be jelly when they find someone else (although they're not in a hurry or anything)
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>>17296540
I'm deaIing with a similar situation. I have become a burden to her; she wont say it directly but she gives me signs. So I force myself to keep our distance. It's not easy, but if you truly care for your friend, you'd do whats best for him/her. It's what they'd want. Make it easy on them.
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>>17296540
>mildly attracted to them
>them
Undertale genders don't count, use He/She like a normal person.
>whole post is ldr shit and being a pansy ass faggot
You know damn well what the answer is, and of course, it ain't easy. Literally ignore them slowly or cut ties immediately. Done.
And I'm being damn nice when I don't mention that you're attracted to a fucking screen, and not an actual person.
Also, quit verbosity, that gets annoying.
My mammalian-reptilian sophisticated highly complex paragon of a brain couldn't handle so much exquisitely high wordplay in one not-simple and downright utterly high-word counted sentence.
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>>17296643
nah I'm not there yet and probably won't be
I've learned how to deal with stuff like this a bit better from other experiences
we actually communicate very well, there's no weird tension or anything
>>17296663
the fuck are you on about nigga there's no ldr here
and why the fuck would I want to cut contact if we get along so well? I'm the problem here and I want to fix it, not take it out on others
fucking american problem solving
>hurr durr how do we get rid of problem?
>cover our ears, scream lalalala, and ignore it until it goes away
>or blow it up
What I meant is: thank you for your feedback, I will take it into account in future endeavors, but I am looking for a more cooperative solution with my friend rather than an autistic "we can't be friends no mo' cuz I lieks u"
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describe /adv/ in 3 words
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a d v
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I can do it in two:
Teenage. Angst.
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Advice request board
Is is unreasonable of me to ban someone from my house forever, if my housemate is still friends with them, even if I am not at home? I have yet to tell my housemate what's going on.
Basically I was friends with this man until he became a creepy lying unrepentant asshole, because I rejected him. I blocked him on everything. I feel sick/headache every time I smell his nasty cologne which lingers, and can always tell when he's been in a room. He's still friends with my housemate ,who I haven't told what's happened yet. I'm on good terms with my housemate but I don't know if banning this man forever is reasonable. I'll admit I'd likely get in a fight with the man if we were in the same room. His behavior disgusts me. I've never hated someone this much
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>>17296510
You can ban him from your private quarters (i.e. room) but can't from the rest of the house without the permission of your roommate.
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>>17296513
Ok, but is it unreasonable of me to ask my housemate to ban him from the house and not just my room?
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>>17296513
From reading that it doesn't even sound like there's a reason besides "he's not my friend," you have to have an actual reason, princess.
Every 4th of July, my friends and I go to the beach on a trip to our friend K's parents' beachside condo.
Over the past 5 years, K has let me do all of the planning for our group, since I'm pretty good at it. Her parents have a strict limit of a small amount of people - really, the condo can only fit 6 people in beds, I don't mind stretching though.
Here's the issue. K's boyfriend is 22 years older than all of us. It's fine, we can deal with that. But we were already stretching to 8 people this year. Now the boyfriend says he's bringing a friend. It's going to muddle the dynamic, since none of us know this dude, and I have zero clue where he's going to sleep, but it's probably not going to be in the room with K and her guy, since they'll want to fuck, or the guest bedroom, since the other couple will want to fuck. So the rest of the guys are gonna have to share the living room with this random dude that's way older than us.
What should I do? K seems to be oblivious to this being awkward. I want to tell her boyfriend that it's not cool and he's intruding on our time honored trip. Thoughts?
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I say make the guy's friend share a room with them. If they wanted time to fug alone they shouldn't have brought in some rando uninvited. Bring up the fact that it's not your condo or K's, but the parents, and you want to honor their rules as much as possible.
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>>17296551
Agree with this. He's his friend, there's no reason any of you should have to share a room with an older stranger if he wants to come along.
>K seems to be oblivious to this being awkward
Probably because she thinks that no matter what, she and her boyfriend are going to have a room to themselves. If you put him in their room, I bet she'll suddenly start getting involved
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>>17296505
>What should I do? K seems to be oblivious to this being awkward.
You do nothing. The trip isn't yours. The condo isn't yours. The condo belongs to your friend's parents and if she wants to sleep in a bedroom with her boyfriend she has every right to do so.
Going behind her back and telling her boyfriend he isn't welcome to come to a house owned by his girlfriend is a move you don't have the right to make.
Yeah, he's probably a jackass. Yeah, it'll probably be awkward but when you own a condo you can be as awkward in it as you want.
If you don't like it, don't go on the trip.
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My friends is always hooking up with older women and we're both the same age, 22.
Everytime i try to hook up with a cougar they dont seem to be sexually interested in me however with other girls my age i have potential.
How do i get with a cougar?
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Your friend seems like the perfect person to ask for advice on this. Or even downright connections, no cougar of his would like a second toy or a threesome?
Part of the issue could be that he's better at playing up the innocent young boy angle.
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>>17296494
I think its a second part, you made me realize that i try to act too mature for a cougar and my friend actually looks younger than me since i have a beard and he doesnt
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>>17296490
What the fuck is going on in this picture.
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I'm fat and I was hungry.
I've called pizzahut and ordered a familiar pizza with extras, I've eaten it all alone and now I'm feeling that I'm going to die.
How can I stop die?
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lay down for a minute
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You can't. You're going to feel like shit and hate yourself because you haven't decided you want to lose weight and/or don't care about losing weight.
For what it's worth feeling bad never helped anyone accomplish a goal or target, but since you haven't yet made one then that doesn't really matter.
Either that or it's the sodium and saturated fat raising your blood pressure and you're just having a fatty mental breakdown.
Either way decide to lose weight and work towards it, I got plenty of advice on this if you make that choice
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>>17296429
Learn to actually make healthy, well tasting food
Once you know how to make your own proper food, you won't miss eating fast food at all.
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Whats cooking /adv/ I guess it's about time I post something, My flat mate and I have pretty much had a fucking god awful string of relationships over the years and kind of just decided we had enough, he has basically become a womanizer who gets with who ever and doesnt care as where I am just full of hate and tell them too fuck off, now I ask advice on this, is drinking really that bad? We drink basically every night yet I'm not sure if it's to run away from something? I feel like life is ok yet something naws at me, I am often the shoulder of support for my friends yet I kind of drink myself under the table every night, I don;t know if im being a hypocrite by giving life advice to people and then going home and getting smashed on rum and going to bed but I don't feel like it's wrong? Do you feel the booze eating at you at some point? Do you feel when you have crossed the line? when it's too much? When your an alcoholic? Or do you not notice? Just some advice before I really fuck something up and go too deep into booze because you never really hear anything to great from too much booze consumption ya know?
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>>17296409
Also the drinking started when I decided "fuck woman" basically, why I talked about woman at the start, kind of jumbled up I know but forgive me, alot of things on my mind and alot of rum in my system.
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You guys need to fuck
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If you're not sure if you have an alcohol problem or not, chances are high that you have an alcohol problem.
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I've been with my girlfriend for almost 6 months, we don't live together. She was away for 2 days to visit her parents.
I wanted to surprise her and meet her at the train station.
Good or bad idea?
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>>17296405
Good idea if you want to demonstrate affection and dependence
Bad idea if you want to demonstrate independence and emotional stability
The truth is that women are repulsed by men who put them on pedestals. The sooner you understand this, the sooner you'll stop repelling women with lovey dovey bullshit.
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>>17296405
OPs first girl aww
>>17296434
this, threat them like shit and they'll love you even more
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>>17296446
I didn't believe this at first but the first time I wasn't super devoted to a girl she was way more into me than previous gfs were
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I've never posted here, /adv/, so I hope I'm not lining myself up for ridicule and posts telling me to kill myself. If this is the wrong place to post, please just say so and I'll leave quietly.
So I quit my job. I'm young (23) and I'm attending university. I live with my parents, and I pay rent each month. I have more than enough money in the bank to cover rent and expenses for at least 6-8 months. I handed in my two weeks notice five days ago, and I've just discovered that my boss doesn't have any more hours lined up for me between now and the day I no longer work for him.
The thing is, I don't have another job lined up. I've worked at my old place (A&W fast food) for six years and I despised it. I'd come home each night with terrible headaches and the smell of grease and meat and sweat would take forever to come out of my skin. I knew that it's going to take at least another month before I find another job at Walmart or some place at the nearby mall. I just couldn't take it anymore, /adv/. It sounds shitty of me and I feel awful for it, but I realized one day at work that I could not take one more minute of being there.
In the week since I handed in my two weeks, I've felt better than I had in years. I feel much more positive, I haven't had a single headache, and I feel like I can finally move forward and DO something with my life. I'm prepared to go down to about 30 different places and to hand off my resume to the manager tomorrow; I'm getting a haircut in just a few hours. It was the earliest I could get a hair appointment, so it delayed me a little.
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The problem is that I have to tell my father; my mother already knows. I feel like such a child to be asking this, but how do I tell him that I quit my job without another one waiting for me?
Like I said: I'm not struggling financially; I can make rent on time and pay all my bills for the foreseeable future. I have a few psychological issues (anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and a terrible fear that I'm letting other people down. My psych says I have a Type A independent personality), and I'm seeing a psychologist to get some help.
I'm terrified at how my father will react. He won't hit me - he never has - but he'll make it so overwhelmingly clear how disappointed he is in my and how awful a decision it was. Anxiety, OCD, and shit like that run in my family, but my dad has never really understood that. He just doesn't "get" why I can't stop feeling awful all the time. I feel like nothing I do is the right decision, like it's not so much "did I do well" and more "how badly did I fuck up this time". For god's sake, /adv/, I used to lie to him during the summer and say that I was reading through my old uni text books because I didn't want him to know that I wasn't doing anything productive. I already feel like an enormous disappointment, and I don't want him to feel the same way.
What do I do, /adv/? Do I get those resumes out as quickly as I can so that I can tell him that I'm doing something productive to solve my unemployment? Do I lie and say that my hours have been cut back? I have no idea of what to do short of asking fucking MOMMY to talk to my dad and ease it in.
I appreciate any help any of y'all can give. Like I said, if this is the wrong place to post I'll just leave and let my thread slowly make its way to page 10.
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>>17296361
I'm still trying to get past the "my parents are making me pay rent" line.
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>>17296369
I do it because I want to help. It makes it easier to pay the bills and buy groceries.
How do i find someones info from their licence plate for free?
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Get hired as a cop
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>>17296334
Cant do that but i think the car was connected to these 2 people from the bus they are a couple
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tell the police instead of trying to be a backseat detective.
Use a dating site at the age of 19 M, also what are the *hip* dating sites
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>>17296304
I feel like I'm looking at the normie singularity
>19 M PLS RESPOND
I think that's enough 4chan for today
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>>17296304
Just go clubbing or to a party.
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Thinks I'm a normie
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Hey /adv/.
Whats the best way to handle a roomate who's turned sour for no apparent reason?
It was ok at first but after I've gotten to know him he's one of those selfi mportant, better than thou and meanspirited nerds. For exmple; He thinks Dr.Who is the best. One time I joked "Watching Dr.POO!" and he got butthurt af, but the shitty thing is that he doesn't miss a chance to quip at everything you do. "Are you playing Asscreed?" "NO I'm watching someone else play, actually." and imagine pic is HFW with a shitty tone. Not that I don't like a little bantz but, shit, pretending to be aspergal and not realizing that kind of question is rethorical is annoying, He does this constantly.
It's like these little things he does, too, just to annoy. I know this because he's stupidly said he enjoys making people annoyed and simply loooves to make "smart" and "funny" (aka meanspirited) little comments. It's just shitty and ruins my day to see him home. We're three people living here and he seems to dislike both me and the girl he's renting from. Yes he is equally as shitty to her as he is to me. He moves her stuff around when he feels it doesn't go there. Like moving an empty glass to her room because it was on the livingroom table.
How do I even handle this? I'm not mean, I don't like confrontation and I will not do shitty things to his food even though I'm pretty sure why my toothbrush keeps getting soap on it. He's even starting to annoyedly close the door whenever I get home, like fuck you too buddy. We don't have to be bff, trust me I don't plan on it, but this is seriously ruining my day.
TL:DR, Roomate acts like he's the shit, ruins my day. What do?
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>>17296296
You might be projecting a little bit. Think about it
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>>17296319
Well, no. I don't love being mean like he does. Sometimes when he tries to think he actually acts like he's doing that mind palace thing from Sherlock Holmes.
Like, I get what you're trying to say here, but trust me. He's like this. If you met him, like all my other friends, agrees that he's "special".
My brother is "special" too, he's just not an asshole about it. This guy has even confessed to being a bully and after he got shit for it he changed his story to being bullied. But I can totally see it.
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>>17296350
>Comparing his favorite shows/video games to poo and ass. I'd be pissed off too. I bet you're some insecure manlet with glasses.
How are you being nice by going up to a person and saying hahhaha fuck your favorite stuff let's laugh about it. Are you autistic?
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I moved from Ohio to California about four years ago. Due to pretty demanding work, I only get to go home to see my parents about once a year. My parents (my mom especially) get very excited when I'm able to visit, as do i.
I now have a girlfriend of three years. She hasn't gone home with me yet but now she wants to meet my parents. I can understand that, and under normal circumstances I would have no problem with that. But the fact that I only get to see them one week out of the year, I really cherish that time and would prefer to be alone with them. My parents would like to meet her too, but would also prefer time alone with me.
Also (much less important, but it's on my mind) my girlfriend is vegan, and none of my favorite foods my mom makes are. So my mom wouldn't be able to cook my favorite dishes for me, and that's something she likes doing and I look forward to.
I am hoping to go home soon, and I think my girlfriend is just assuming that she'll be going too. I need a reality check: am I a huge jerk for not wanting her to go? I've tried bringing this up and she gets offended, which I can see why, but I wish she would be more understanding.
She does not have the financial means to fly out by herself for a shorter period of time so she would have to come with me for the whole time.
What do you guys think about all of this?
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>>17296293
First, you are super duper weird for wanting to be 'alone' with your parents. Most people would relish having their SO with them. Secondly, vegans are used to shutting up and eating salad. Buy her some salad and your mom can make what she regularly makes. A polite host will make a dish or two now and again to suit a guest, but it's not necessary to make everyone go vegan for a week. You just sound like you're not really equipped for a real relationship or something. I find you really strange.
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>>17296320
dude who cares maybe hes just really close with his mom/dad whatever
as for taking your gf, just do it, be tolerant, and let your mom know shes vegan or whatever like the guy above said
just bring her along, id want my gf to bring me along (not really but you get what im saying)
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>>17296335
Seriously. You've been with her three yearsS? Holy shit. Suck it up and take her to see mom and dad. If you ever plan on getting married or having kids you've got to get used to doing family shit as a couple.