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>>17296273
five guys sucks

Ungodly working hours, the working conditions arent Great either( heat, smoke for example)
Nice people are a rarity, in fact you learn how much of a pig a human can be.
You are likely to eat the shitty food you are selling out of convenience.

Worked 3 years in fast food, wouldnt again

What would you like?

>>17296256
Become a philosopher, aslong as you have a title you are already above most philosophers.

>>17296256
I have a bachelor's degree in criminal justice, I can speak English and Arabic, and I've been working at my job as a grocery store bagger for the last 10 years. I graduated college in 2014. If only I can switch majors and major in engineering or some shit like that was really productive.

I hate my job I'm doing it's a dead-end job and I make $10 an hour. I'm really interested in inventory and Logistics but the managers here are not considering me full time for some fucking reason and saying that I am good with kids and children in want me to stay in customer service. I am replying my life out of all the other jobs better full-time and offer benefits.

Point is I feel for you op about the struggle

First of all, you're not really racist. You're just nervous because you're dealing with a situation (proximity to a new race) that you're unfamiliar with and have been told some negative things about.

I agree that you should probably get out of the practice of calling your friends niggers as a joke or term of endearment, because as you said you're just one Freudian slip away from creating a potentially disastrous situation. Or maybe not. Some of my (white) friends have a black buddy who they call a nigger to his face (not hatefully), and he thinks it's hilarious and has no problem with it.

As for your 'racism' being nervous around your black coworker, that is something that will dissipate as you spend more time around them, maybe get to know them better as people and realize that besides the color of his skin he's just there to do his job, get payed, and go home and live his life just like you are. Eventually you won't even see his race consciously, you'll just see him.

I can't speak about being nervous around black strangers because I get nervous around all strangers. I feel like it's not necessarily a bad thing, like you said DC has a lot of crime. Just don't openly treat any black people you know on a personal or professional level differently, and you should be fine.

Okay, so OP, here's what you're going to do. Starting next April, you're going to take the Metro to work every day. I would tell you to start this immediately, but Metropocalypse, yo: get well clear of that before you start taking "America's subway". In the meantime, take the bus instead.

>>17296246

Theres absolutely nothing wrong with disliking niggers, saying the nigger word or not wanting to associate with them.

Theres no such thing as racism OP, and theres nothing wrong with disliking things.

Not sure I'd say it's childish, but I don't think it's a good idea.

>>17296231
Just a regular cafe in the street then, right? thanks

>>17296226
Yes, it is not an ideal place to have a date.

>>17296215 cont

I don't know, I'd probably need to go outside more, but even then I think about all the shit that I have to do for college, and even then I end up procrastinating until the sun falls and the moon rises.
I'd probably need to ask that girl for once, gather some balls and ask to her. Even then, the only women that I mostly talked to (my mother and sister) take me as some kind of joke. Even then, the other women that seemed to start a relationship with me, I just couldn't say "Hi, It's nice to be around you, what do you think about going to the park this weekend, probably at seven, so that we can see the sun set?". Not even that, why just don't say "Hi, wanna go to the park this sunday?". Now I'm just too old. Almost everyone has/had a relationship, probably knows who they are and what are their pros and cons. Probably don't care that much about sex because they already dealt with it.
I like the idea of smoking and getting drunk, then smashing glass bottles at the wall. But even then, that's just an edgy ideal of what "angst" is for a teenager.
I'd probably like to go to the church, so that I can feel more relief. Even then, my fascist (i know that I'm using the term wrong, I use it for when people are forcing their beliefs in you) -religious mother will start saying me this and that and jesus and shit. I'm sorry, I don't want to be in the same boat as you.

>>17296216 cont

Look at all this mess. Look at all this wankstain. Why am I even bothering with this bullshit. If you call someone and say "this was written by an 18yo man" they would probably say that this guy is a manchild that wants life in a silver platter. Fool, using an anonymous image-sharing forum as a blog/diary. Literally everyone is/was going through this phase you idiot. You just sat on your lardass butt and did nothing to get rid of these problems. What a joke of a human being you are. The next year you'd probably end up doing drugs in the middle of the street with all this idiocricy. I mean, you want to live in a fantasy, go for it. Remember that fantasy will make a balance with reality, and the latter is the one you're living in.

I'll just post this and won't browse /adv/ for a while so I can't see what people say about me.

What a pussy you're then!

Yes, I am, ok? I can't deal with talking to people when it comes to this stuff, I just cannot.

You know what the worst part is? It's that I don't feel like shit anymore thanks to writing this. Then the week will pass. And this will probably happen again. This "writing".

So if you reply to me after all this dump. I won't feel like shit. I will say "Heheh, I feel fine man! I just wanted to get rid of this". And the text again will happen.

Fuck.

>>17296219
That's it. This is all the text that I wanted to say.
If you read this. Thank you. I didn't wanted to do this but hey. I needed to get this out.
And yes, there may be other threads for this. Like the "Get it out of your chest". But I didn't felt like it was just one thing.
Anyways thank you. Now I guess I'll go back to being normal I guess. If I can...heheheh...

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>>17296205
I'm also taking a summer class that is quite time consuming and difficult. My weekends are usually dictated by my mother/stepfather, so I have little freedom to just leave and such

>>17296236
bump

>>17296194
Do you have a garage? If so carbon monoxide poisoning is silent, painless, and odorless.

>>17296253
I dont want to hurt anyone else in my house on accident

That's my favorite movie.

That's some advanced mental gymnestics you're using there. He likes you so stop worry about it.

>>17296186
You obviously like each other, and this wouldn't be such a problem if you weren't trying to be friends with your ex like an idiot. Just get together without him knowing.

You guys hang out at bars?
That way your ex is going to know...

>>17296178

You're going to make a great first husband for some lucky young gal out there.

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>>17296197
Is that sarcasm?

I don't even know anymore, I'm sorry.

>Am I expecting too much?

na, probably just bad luck

>>17296169
Children are the most difficult, but by far the most rewarding part of life. You'll be a great father

Morning after pill

I recommend not having sex if you absolutely cannot risk pregnancy

You have to live in the US legally for four years before you can apply.

Maybe look into Mexican citizenship first, then cross the border illegally. Then you can stay indefinitely

>>17296165
No experience, shit grades, skipping classes to me equates to poor work ethic. Good luck mate. You'll need it

>>17296196
>Maybe look into Mexican citizenship first, then cross the border illegally. Then you can stay indefinitely
are you retarded or what? a French citizen can visit the US on a tourist visa very easily. If they fly to Orlando Disney will even subsidize the flight.

>>17296161
The vast vast vast majority of people in the world aren't engineers and yet reasonably content.

It seems as though engineering and contentedness are independent of each other totally.

>>17296161
Why engineering? Have you looked into other careers? Engineering fetishes are overly common and need to be overwritten. Look into other fields.

>>17296177
If you can't do engineering change to a Math major, since you probably have quite a lot of math classes out of the way already.

>>17296116
Are we talking about d&d or bdsm?

>>17296116
Put some bass in ya voice

>>17296116
>>>/tg/

And fear is a fun thing to work with. Firstly, before establishing anything scary, do let your players know or sense that this what is coming is supposed to be frightful. Then, find a way to "ask" them to comply with the fear - like saying "for it to work, you need to allow yourself to become susceptible to the fear", that kind of stuff. Hypnosis works the same way. Then work on building scary things, things you feel your players would be afraid of. Work on imagery, but equally work on sound - sound, and other senses, are usually scarier than visual.

>>17296085
Does it really not bother you at all getting back together with a guy who literally fucked another girl that recently?

>>17296093
I fucked another guy too so no

>>17296085
>Could she really be pregnant even though they used a condom and it didn't break?

Yes. 1 out of every 50 women who use condoms perfectly will get pregnant within a year.

>>17296082
>>and he has quite a large following online

Tf that mean? Is he your online boyfriend?

>>17296136
We arent dating, but he does live pretty far away. I found him through one of his social media accounts

>>17296145
>Ive been talking to him a lot and hes been helping me through some stuff, so i think thats kind of what made me start liking him.

Wow, imagine what your current relationship would have become if you talked to your SO instead