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So my girlfriend loves the shit out of me for some reason, but I'm not sure I feel the same way. I like her, but she has a 1 year old kid, and I feel like her and me + a kid is too much for me. Am I shallow? Sexually deprived? emotionally deprived? In love? Any way to prevent this from bothering me?
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>>17312094
Its natural for a man to not want to raise another mans child. Its up to you if you want to stay but a kid is a big red flag.
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>>17312111
Thanks for the reply, why is it a red flag in your opinion?
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>>17312094
18 years of making up for a dead beat,
and two people who couldn't put on a rubber correctly.
>keep in mind: You are adopting a kid, by staying.
worth it?
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Hey guys, please help an anon out. I bought some cigarillos (small cigars if you don't know) and I'm not allowed to smoke in my apartment. If I use a fan and blow the smoke out the window, will this stop the smell from staying in the apartment?
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>>17312071
No. Cigarillos are pungent. Go outside
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>>17312082
I was saying more like if I just sit by the fan in the window pointed outwards and blow the smoke into the fan.
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>>17312085
No, go outside.
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How do I text a girl? I'm not shy with females but I'm no alpha either, most convos I have with girls over text can get REALLY boring at times and I don't know what to say, or I can't start some sort of spark when I'm texting someone I have feelings for. All my friends are able to get a girl to do whatever they wanted through text. I just need some help from you guys. Thanks
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Stop chatting them up over text.
You cannot build attraction through text.
Texting bitches is only for logistics. Talk to her in person.
The way your friends get them to do shit is romancing them IRL, and THEN telling them to send nudes etc..
It only works in that order, you idiot.
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>>17312068
Why not try pressing that little button on the phone that lets you actually talk to them, using your mouth and words and like that?
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>>17312552
Texting is easier. Calling takes more time and is less private. You can text in situations where you couldn't take a call.
I'm more shitty advice here than usual, are we being raided by /r9k/ or something?
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I am tired of meeting nice girls who have no romantic feelings for me. I hate to resign to /r9k/ tactics by just being an asshole who only makes it apparent that I only care about myself.
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>>17312060
You're pathetic.
You're desperate and everyone can smell it on you.
How can you expect someone to like you if you don't like yourself?
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>>17312060
You're not an asshole.
You're a nice guy.
Do something about it.
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>>17312060
just get confidence. confidence is all you need.
I've seen the biggest faggots get girlfriends just because they're confident. I've seen the biggest assholes, the biggest dumbasses get girlfriends. interesting, smart guys don't get girlfriends if they're not confident. Confidence is the metaphorical golden key to pussy, believe me.
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Let's say you meet a girl online
And she doesn't live too far away from where you live but it's still not a distance that you can easily travel to (let's say, 300 kilometers)
You two send each other text messages for some time and end up developing a very strong emotional bond that eventually evolves into love
You two want to see each other, and both already know what each other looks like so that is not an impediment
However, you're not used to exiting your house for things other than school or shopping (much less the city) but you really like this girl and winter break is coming soon
Would you chase after her knowing that you'd eventually have to leave her to return to your hometown? what is the approach that you would take in a situation like that? would it be reckless? carefully thought? I want to hear you guys
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If I were you I would grow up and realise that this is just a fantasy and 'emotional bond' is bullshit in the purest form, also you are prolly being catfished, also it's not worth it, go meet some girls irl. Loving someone you've never met is impossibly naive concept, and a dangerous one too. It's just an infatuation and it will pas and she will ride dicks in no time if she's not already. You are a poor naive bastard for investing time & feels into something as fragile and nonsensical as this
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You could try it out. Buddy of mine foung a girl couple of towns away and they seem to be doing well. Worth a shot!
>That American Football cover though
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I would arrange to meet her as soon as possible (a week or two at most) and not orbit for months. Then again I'm an adult and can actually travel wherever I want.
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My boyfriend has a family friend who is flamboyantly gay. The dude is a hairdresser who blows all his money on clothes, and tosses out his entire wardrobe every few months. Problem is, he's the same size as my bf, so he just gives all my bf these clothes he's throwing out. It's ridiculous. My boyfriend has more outfits than me. I've never seen him wear the same outfit twice. He's got at least 40 pairs of jeans. And it's all expensive, flamboyant stuff. Everyone thinks he's gay.
How do I tell him how excessive this is? It's embarrassing. No straight guy should have this much of a wardrobe. He makes me look bad when he's showing up to events in eccentric outfits and people ask why my boyfriend is more into fashion than I am. He doesn't see anything wrong with it.
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I wish my boyfriend had an issue of dressing too fabulous. He has more clothes than me but they're all shitty budget Wal-mart level clothes.
But, if you think it's a problem you just have to express that to him. However, if he likes how he dresses then that's that. It's his body.
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Your complaint is hilariously self centric. You should reread your own post.
> He makes me look bad when he's showing up to events in eccentric outfits and people ask why my boyfriend is more into fashion than I am.
My advice is to grow up.
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Had a good laugh, thanks op.
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I dont usually ask for any advice especially from a site known for shitposting, but i know alot of you may struggle just as much or even more as a person. Anyways i am in a relationship with a girl been for about 3 years. You know i never had much experience with girls, many were very shitty. This girl is different except i dont know if its good or bad, id like to ask what does love actually feel like to you? Do you ever feel like emotionally numb or bored like you just cant connect with your mate? Its very depressing to be with or without her and sometimes i think maybe im not in love with her because its just hard to be with her since we are complete opposites. I can go on writing but i would like to hear your responses first.
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I was going through something similarly messy long time ago, but then I realised that love and all related emotions are just hormones playing with my brain. Now, after some serious rational self-brainwashing, I feel like I can no longer fall in love with anyone, nobody caught my attention in the last 4 years and IT IS GREAT
Ditch the feelings alltogether, they are just your self-produced drugs and build the relationship on friendship, fun and mutual understanding, not horniness and love/addiction, because when you are separated and you don't get your hormonal fix or you are too long together and your primitive brain seeks noevlty, you feel like shit - boredom, numbness, some kind of brain fog. It's unpleasant to be in love
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Can you engage in conversation with her easily?
Is sex on mind somewhat regularly when you are with her, and is there any indication that it may be the same for her?
Honestly it boils down to can you connect to her as a person, not as a "lover"
"lovers" don't exist. If she wouldn't be a friend, you shouldn't be with them. Besides, you already have doubts about this. if you think these doubts are coming from anything other than anxiety, pull out before it gets too deep.
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>>17312919
Idk man. I try to kinda connect with her in some levels like hang out and do the things i like but it rarely ever works out. It gets really depressing, i cant really do things that i used to anymore, it costed me some friends. I cant get away because its like a mind game, as in like if i were to not bring her along somewhere she'd be upset and if i bring her with me i'd be upset myself because theres always some type of problem. I dont know how most people handle it but honestly im just too nice to tell her i need space, i do tell her that she does put me in a type of mood but you know how girls are man. Also sex isnt the best thing for me but for her she always seems to want it.
I'm drunk and pretty dpressed, so sorry. A month ago I got in a nasty traffic accident and broke my hip, and now I've got a metal one. My boyfrend has been amazing during this, but i'm really starting to feel like a pretty big burden. We live together and I'm always around home, can never go out like i normally would, can barely walkfurther than from the couch to the bathroom without a lot of pain. Im completely unable to perform sexually, exept oral, and we used to have lots. I can barely help out around here, and am pretty much a lump.
At what point is it just unfair of me to not encourage him get the attention and affection he needs elsewhere, at least until I'm better? I'm recovering as fast as I can, but i'm such dead weight at ths point. its not fair to expect him to anchor himself to me while I'm like this.
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>>17311986
>At what point is it just unfair of me to not encourage him get the attention and affection he needs elsewhere, at least until I'm better?
Are you suggesting that you want your bf to cheat on you with another girl?
Guys, what do we call a reverse-cuck?
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have you asked if it bothers him?
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If you send him away you will lose him. If he didn't want to help you then he wouldn't. He cares about you and if you push him away while he is trying to care for you, it'll make him feel terrible. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
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Need your help horny anons.
Me and my girlfriend are switches, but I find myself playing the submissive role more often. She's pretty okay with that, and she's an excellent domme.
Over the past few years, our fantasies have grown - even now to encompass cuckolding and a little forced bi.
We've never acted on these fantasies, we just talk about them a lot. Lately we've begun involving a lesbian friend of ours into our fantasies. "I bet she can fuck me better with a strap on than you can with your little dick" etc...
A reoccurring type of play involves treating the relationship like a job. She's my boss, and I work for her and serve her. I get paid very little - in pleasure. And she gets paid in extravagant gifts.
We were playing around a little tonight with that. We're talking about creating an application that I and other guys have to fill out. Then I'll interview and audition for the job.
Do you guys have any ideas for how to take this fantasy to a new level? Like what should the application be like? What should be expected of me? How should I be made to prove myself in the audition and interviews?
Any thoughts?
She just went to sleep - she has to work in the morning. But she asked me to see if 4chan had any suggestions. I'm going to screenshot the thread and show her in the morning.
Sorry if this freaks some of you out. It's just fantasy shit that gets us off.
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Stop being a sissy cuck, go to /pol/, and learn how to be a real man instead of a pseudofaggot fuccboi
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>>17311982
>asking a website full of NEETs how to succeed in an audition and interviews
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>>17311982
Hit me up sometime senpai I'd like to get a piece of that
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Rule #1. First impressions are everything. Numerous studies such as this one by Willis, J. & Todorov, A. “show minimal exposure to faces is sufficient for people to form trait impressions, and that additional exposure time can simply boost confidence in these impressions. That is, additional encounters with a person may only serve to justify quick, initial, on-line judgments” (1). When in public always have a warm and welcoming appearance.
http://factoverfallacy.com/blog/5-simple-rules-for-success/
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I think I need to follow rule #2 and turn that frown upside down.
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Guess I am a loser
This question is mostly to the male part of /adv/, and girls really well versed in male psychology
I (girl) have been friends with a guy for some time now, and there's this thing he does that confuses me a lot. He has a tendency to brag to me about his successes. He doesn't do it obnoxiously but noticeably. When someone compliments him, he shares that with me. When his boss tells him he's good at his job, he shares it with me. And so on and on. I'm trying to determine whether he does that to make jealos, or proud or seeks valodation. I also don't know why he does it in this way, not only sharing the news but also buildling it up and making it a bigger deal. Does he see me like his mommy or what?
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>>17311889
Sounds like he wants Recognition from you, tell him how good he is etc... "oh anon your'e so good" Or he's just stuck up.
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>>17311894
This,
or he's trying to impress you because he's interested in you.
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>>17311889
Potentially all of those things together. He may be doing it without noticing (because hes interested) or he knows what hes doing and hes just looking for more pats on the back. Do you know if he does it to other people?
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Can you fake taking antibiotics? Took minocycline for a week even though the doc said to take it for 3 months. They're running a blood test tomorrow but they're not intentionally looking for anything minoycline related. But, will they find out that I've only taken the antibiotic for a week?
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>>17311871
Why do you want to do this?
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>>17311871
You wouldn't be the first person that didn't follow that doctors instructions that day. I wouldn't worry about it. You can say "I didn't take them" and it won't matter..
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It's just a simple blood test they're running I believe
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Who has advice on how I can accept my circumcision?
Ever since I found out about this, and started reading about the details, I've just been perpetually disturbed by it. Either angry at my parents, or fantasizing about getting "justice" where I get murderous vindication by killing the doctor and people responsible for this.
I fantasize about the far future when my parents are helpless and incapable of caring for themselves, and they're innocently relying on their children to take care of them in their moment of insecurity and then I vindictively and intentionally make their lives a living hell, and remind them of what they did to me while taunting them with questions about "how does it feel?" etc.
Is there anyone here from Judiasm, Islam etc... I'm an American. My parents are irreligious. There's not even an acceptable reason why this was done to me. In cultures with common circumcision - how is it accepted? What do Jewish parents tell their sons for the last 500 generations etc.?
I'm obsessing over feeling like I've been victimized and the culprits never received any kind of punishment. Someone should pay for this ...
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Not sure what you are trying to accept? Did you get circumcised? Why does it matter so much to you?
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Welcome to the wonderful world of societal expectations.
I'm circumcised (parents are Christian, think they did it mostly for social reasons not religious) but I'm not upset about it, nor have I ever been, because I'm never going to know what it's like to live uncircumcised. It's the same kind of feeling I get when I see incredibly rich/talented/successful people, or pass through a neighborhood of fuckhuge expensive beautiful homes that I'll never be able to afford to live in no matter how hard I work in life, bar some miracle. There's nothing I can ever do about it so why even spend so much energy at feeling angry at the unfairness?
Look, your parents didn't commit a crime. Neither did the doctors. Circumcision is a completely valid surgical operation. Does it suck that it's very often done without consent? Yes, absolutely. Should the tradition be re-evaluated? Probably. But feeling vengeful and hateful isn't going to get you anywhere.
The best thing you can do if you're really indignant about this is, if you ever have a son or sons, don't circumcise them. Be the one who ends the tradition of non-consensual circumcision in your family tree. Chances are your son will appreciate it and will do the same thing for any sons he has, and the cycle will continue.
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>>17311808
Do it. Kill them. You'll feel better, and if it gets on the news that somebody was upset enough over it to kill people it might help start a discussion about ending the practice.
Can some anons help me understand why a guy would stop messaging me but keep snapchatting (usually shirtless)? I'm a loser sheltered girl and don't know if it means he no longer likes me and thus doesn't text me or its just something guys do...help please!
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Sounds like he's gotten tired of making small talk and getting to know you and just wants you to send pics/nudes.
From this reaction I would theorize that he doesn't like you for anything except your body.
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He wants the D.
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>>17311791
But we are good buddies (or so I have assumed) and our friendship was pretty substitantial...and I'm really fugly so I doubt its because he wants nudes :/
>>17311793
I don't have the d, I'm a girl
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Why should i not just end it /adv/?
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Permanent solution to a temporary problem
Giving up on everything when happiness is well within your reach
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I dunno but there's probably no reason
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>>17311776
No one can really place a zest for life within you, it's something you've got to decide to pursue. Just whatever you do, don't spend the rest of your life like this.