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How to impress college millenials? 2016-07-01 19:17:21 Post No.17313523
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How to impress college millenials?
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I need a good understanding of their all around culture if I'm gonna be able to impress them
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>>17313523
make more than 30k a year
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>>17313523
Tell you browse 4chan.
No one mess with 4chan, mate.
NO ONE.
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>>17313523
>i wanna impress millenials
Why?
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>20 years old
>homeless people and old ladies approach me because I look like a softie
>small feminine hands
>feminine face
>pear shaped
>little facial hair and no chest hair
>physically weak
>parents assume I'm gay (others possibly do too)
>easily blush
>don't enjoy things
>bad at socializing
>never had a relationship or whatsoever
>6/10 at most if I ever find a decent haircut for my ugly hair
Despite this I haven't killed myself yet. Am I somehow salvageable? I've got this idea in my head that people like me don't get to be happy. We just worry about fitting in and being liked until the day we miserably die.
What do I do, I'm willing to make changes.
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>>17313509
Sounds like me that age. Didn't lose it until 21. Didn't proactivately change until around 25. Am 29 and married now in the military.
My advice is, just work out and gain confidence. Go and experience life. People want to have conversations with others who have life experience.
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>>17313509
post a pic of yourself and well from there. but generally speaking if you are pear shaped you should diet and/or workout
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>>17313509
>im a 6/10 at best
>somehow i havent killed myself isnt that surprising wow i must be the only 6/10 left alive cuz all the others fucking murder themselves.
im a fucking 6 dude, stop acting like its the end of the world.
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I wanna get a girlfriend but im too shy/nervous talking to girls. Also,im an introvert and most girls wanna get out ,go to clubs and for walks when i rather to stay home and browse the web... what to do?
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Just be confident and make some friends, once you start making new friends try and spend more time with a specific girl in that group, dont be afraid to ask a girl to hangout with you. As long as you keep them intrested and they actually want to spend alot of time with you then you know they want you. Dont ask them out, just kiss them once when you feel like the time is right.
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Just know it aint all sunshine and rainbows and some girls are fuckin evil. But when its good shit like this <<<<happens.
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>>17313500
But i don't wanna get socialized i have been used to be alone and i dont like changes..
Need advise. A guy at my work took a picture of me with my feet up at work while I was texting. He texted it to my boss saying this is what I do. My boss is super chill and hasn't said anything about it. Now the guy is being a complete asshole. Neither of them know that I know. What do?
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From the bosses standpoint, he has an employee who texts at work to complain about other people texting at work. He's probably not too happy with either of you.
I wouldn't turn my back on either of them.
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>>17313486
Holy shit, that's actually pretty good perspective
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>>17313453
Kick the other employees ass outside of work and tell him of he tries to fuck with your job again youll slash his tires
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>Been talking to girl I met in Tinder for about a month
>Met up once, whenever I try to make more plans with her she's busy.
>She could very well be busy, but each time it happens I wonder if she's making excuses because she doesn't wanna see me
>Sometimes she's really into our conversations, but most of the time she just kinda makes passive comments
>She never really goes out of her way to try and reach me either
>Flirting is non-existant between us, whenever I try to compliment her/flirt it's just met with "awwh thanks"
Should I just give up with this one, maybe I'm just overthinking things, but I feel like if she were into me it would be much more obvious than it is by now
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>>17313408
>each time it happens I wonder if she's making excuses because she doesn't wanna see me
yep.
you're a backup. Fuck that.
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>>17313417
It isn't shit with friends or other guys or anything. It's always family. She seems to be a super family oriented person
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>Figure "hey I have nothing to lose" and ask her how she feels
>"I don't know if I have feelings for you or just want to be friends, but you're really cool and nice and I don't wanna stop talking to you :)"
She's clearly not into me, fuck.
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Need some career advice /b/ros
So I just finished HS and I'm going to a CC. I want to be a doctor eventually but from the stories I hear, people who go down this path generally don't have much of a social life in their 20s; which is supposedly where most of the fun is. So my question is do I continue pursuing my dream or do I choose a different career path? Or at least a similar one? I'm kind of losing my mind over this.
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Well, why do you want to be a physician? If it's just because you want to say, "I'm a physician", and everything that entails, you may not want to go to medical school.
There are other options, though. Assuming you live in the US or Canada, Physician Assistants (PAs) need their bachelor's degree, and then go to a 2-year PA school. It's pretty much like Physician-Lite.
http://www.bls.gov/ooh/healthcare/physician-assistants.htm
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>>17313403
is being a doctor your dream, or your goal?
you should do what leads to happiness and fulfilment, but will being a doctor fulfill you or is it something you kinda picked up cuz you hear it pays well seems prestigious and theres a lot of TV shows about them?
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Becoming a physician is my dream. It has been the only career I could see myself in. My father was a doctor and my mother was a nurse which gave me exposure to some aspects of the field of medicine, enough to know that this is what I want to do. However, I do want to also live a fulfilling life, and I'm worried there's a chance this might not bring me happiness and I'll be stuck at this miserable job, slaving away like a zombie.
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Is it wrong for me to ignore someone out of the blue? Basically I became friends with this girl for basically an entire semester. We ended up hooking up for quite a while. We also had plenty of pretty intimate sex.
Anyway she used to ask me about us but I made it clear that I "liked" her but I didn't want to date her. I think by doing this I sort of led her to believe we would eventually date. Eventually the semester ended and we both moved back to our respective homes, and she began to act way more clingy and annoying so I stopped responding to her texts. She still every so often asks me what's going on even though I haven't said anything to her in weeks.
Was beginning to ignore her the right thing to do, (because we weren't 'dating' by official terms) or should I have said/say something to her letting her know that I'm not interested anymore?
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>>17313391
Doing either choice will hurt her. However, as many females have learned, ignoring others is the less confrontational method.
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>>17313391
yeah that's pretty rude, you couldn't be assed to at least say like, "I don't think what we have is going to work LDR, sorry"? you just left someone with no closure and it's kinda a shitty thing to do. the only time straight dropping people is an okay thing is when they fuck you over to an extent that you're just done.
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so now that it's been several weeks afterwards, what should I say to her? I've already slept with other women.
Something along the lines of "Hey I'm sorry I didn't respond. I didn't mean to leave you wondering. I needed some time to myself. I don't think what we have is going to work, I'm sorry."
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> F 20 here
> My crush is M18
I went to this guys school once to visit some friends and I could almost call it love at first sight. I could immediately tell we had a lot in common and would get along and I had never even talked to the guy. After I found out his name and social networks I initiated convo with him and it was pretty chill. Afraid I was being annoying, i didn't text him the day after and neither did he. Day after that he texts me asking why I didn't text and puts a ":(" at the end of the sentence. Since that day we talk every single day and it's amazing, we really do have A LOT in common and I don't mean just personal interests but also way of thinking and ideals. He gets everything I say and feel. We only met, in person, last night at a festival. He kissed my cheeks and he bought me a drink (maybe because he was drunk), we talked for a bit about nothing in particular and went our separate ways. When the fest was over he texted me saying he wished he had spent more time with me.
> However, I feel like he sees me more as a "bro"
> He has LOTS of female friends, which doesn't bother me but makes me think that maybe I'm just one more.
> He says stuff like "one day I'll invite you over my place so we can smoke one" and "I'll share my weed with you if you give me a massage"
I mean that sounds kinda sexual or is it just me??
We're both stoners but I wanna go on an actual date with him but I'm scared he'll stop talking to me at all or just think I'm off my nut for asking.
Once he told me he hoped I wouldn't leave (him) and to never let him hurt me. I told him not to worry and that we were very similar to which he that it could be a good or a bad thing, I said "we'll see, I guess" he replied "we might"
He doesn't care about a person's looks and looking at his appearance I'd say I'm his type
Sorry if the story is poorly written, English isn't my first language
So.. Does he like me but sees me more as a bro? Pls help I feel an amazing connection with him
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>>17313389
Sounds like he likes you but is afraid of rejection so he indirectly tells you things. However, popular people don't do shit like that, only shy people without social skills do that as they rarely have the opportunity to handle rejection.
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>>17313414
Maybe that's just how he talks with girls? Should i do something about the situation?
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>>17313435
Like I said, if he's a popular guy, then this is all an act and he probably uses it to get pussy all the time.
If he's socially awkward, then he wants to date but is afraid of rejection.
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This bitch was kissing and hugging and sleepin in my bed for 5 months and she already had a boyfriend already that lives far away.
I told her boyfriend and he still takes her back and takes her to london with him. Give me youre opinions pls.
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>Wasted
this implies the endgame of any relationship is marriage. its not. if that was the case than you should just give up dating and do an arranged marriage cuz thats a more sure fire way.
you are young, you are reasonably attractive, and exploring life. life is not wasted simply because the relationship ended. all relationships end.
like vision said in age of ultron
'something isn't beautiful because it lasts'.
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why do you still care?
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I only care because she was my motivation to get out of bed. Im a N.E.E.T
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Getting love back after being friendzoned... 2016-07-01 18:21:50 Post No.17313375
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Getting love back after being friendzoned...
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... Is this even possible?
Beta 24y/o Frenchie here.
>Met some underage girl on the internet, kept contact with her during 2 years
>Eventually started meeting her IRL since April
>She said she was loving me, even sent me nudes I haven't asked for
>The 2nd time we met she just kept kissing me everytime
>Aaand finally as more as we met each other she decided it was ok to remain good friends
>She has got a new boyfriend
>Now we barely see each other, she stopped phone calls and rarely sends me text messages.
Problem is that I stupidly fallen in love since the first day I met her and it's not getting away.
I was considering getting a new gf just to try to make her jealous or something. In fact I think it's a dead end and there's nothing I can do about that friendzone situation and this is gonna stay as is.
Any suggestions from you anons are welcome...
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>>17313375
Leave the girl alone. Date someone your own age, and stop being a clingy creeper.
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>>17313393
Anon is not wrong.
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>>17313375
>just to try to make her jealous or something
Jesus Christ, move your fucking live you moron.
You really rustle my jimmies now OP.
A lot of threads like this here, always the similar story
>"i can't forget about her"
Holy shit, go suicide then. You're not a 18 yo, when you will get you manly license and act like a fucking man?
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I'm sick and tired of my life. I need to go to work in an hour as a cashier and I hate it. The people suck, the job sucks, my managers suck and I'd rather not talk to any of them. I've thought about working in a bookstore or library but then again I'd rather just not work.
I just finished my Associates degree, but I hate school. I was going for engineering, but I fucking failed Calc 2 twice because my lazy ass got the same shit professor twice and I never do my homework. I figure English would be a better major so I can get a job where I don't need to see anyone.
I wake up each day and go back to sleep. In my free time I never do anything productive. I jerk off, eat, sleep and consume entertainment until the time disappears and I need to work again. I live with my mom, my parents divorced, and my family always fought.
I have social anxiety, depression, and obsessive thoughts and compulsions. I do not have a healthy outlook on people or life. When I am around anyone, I do not feel like myself - I am shy and quiet and awkward. My existence is infuriating and I hate myself on the inside. I go to sleep mindless without any thoughts or ambitions and wake up wishing I was still asleep. I do not cope with any substances or medications, and I fear getting a medication for monetary and personal reasons. I oftentimes envision very violent images and scenarios including bodily and self harm to myself and others, and the thought of death is a comfort and fear. I have tried to choke myself and have burned myself with cigarettes in the past. I only avoid suicide because I fear death and what comes after it.
I like art and writing, but personally feel like it a useless and I should only work in a scientific field. I hate myself and others deeply and have never had any close friends since I was a young child. I am afraid of abandonment and become very jealous of others easily.
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I want to run away from home and work to wander homelessly, live in the woods in a car, or try to make a living doing nothing but writing and drawing shitty porn and fiction on the internet.
Every day I end up repeating this cycle of distress. I wake up like shit, go to work or waste away my life and time, and end up going to bed too late and too aware of how self-destructive I am.
I feel powerless against my nature and the world. I don't want to live any more, I just want the failure and sadness to go away, and I want to go with it too.
Please help.
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>>17313357
Well, you're not the only one if it's any consolation.
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>>17313357
Find a cognitive behavioral therapist near you and start going. I was in a similar position to you and it wasn't easy but through therapy, meds, and a family that refused to let me quit I beat my depression.
Sounds like a career change might be in order too. Ever considered something like ems?
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Is there a way to get my Southwest confirmation code without credit card or other information?
My friend booked our flights for 3 PM and she is nonresponsive. I need to print a boarding pass to get through security, even if I maybe don't get on the plane, depending if she wakes up from her drunken stupor.
Everything is in my name and such, so it's legit, not looking for any weird loopholes.
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>>17313341
Ask the ppl at the bagging area to help before you get to security. They can look shit up.
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>>17313341
If your friend is so fucked up that you can't wake them up to get them to get your boarding passes, they need a hospital not an airport...
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>>17313354
Well, I'm not with them, they're at home and I'm at home. They're not picking up their phone. It could be on vibrate. All I know is that I was told she came home at 4 AM blacked out. Not much I can do from here.
I want to kiss my best male friend kinda out of blue when I see him again. i'm a girl myself. Thoughts???
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Do It. I wish my best girl-friend would kiss me.
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>>17313309
Dont be a faggot. Just do it. Also be ready to go out in a flame of glory.
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>>17313309
Careful.
I wouldn't do it, but I also don't know your male best friend. I had a male best friend I wanted to marry. We had a fantastic time together because we laughed all the time. There was never a dull moment. He wasn't good looking, but I wanted him so much I didn't care. We were both going to be professionals and he was the best in class. I wanted to rival him for life.
Long story short, he was a very weird guy and I think he's secretly gay. He was friends with everyone, literally everyone got along with him even if they didn't want to. But I was the only one who valued our companionship that much to fall for him.
Just watch out for red flags. Usually men who are interested --if they're men -- will try to make it apparent. If he just wants to be buddy buddy with you forever, drop him. You have romantic and sexual needs that forever companionship just isn't gonna cut it.
Any of you guys know of any German speaking chat rooms where i can improve my german? Even some kik chat groups if you got any... I am a native English speaker, if any of you are native German speakers we can help each other out...
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>>17313307
You can lurk in /int/
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>>17313307
krautchan
gutefrage.net if you like reading shit
knuddels maybe
Why you tryna learn german?
Du kannst auch gerne mit mir üben. Wohne seit 2.5 Jahren in Deutschland, bin aber Englisch Muttersprachler.
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>>17313307
You could try the local mosque.
Euch, sorry, I couldn't resist. Need to stop going on /pol/.
I'm tried of people in my family thinking I'm being too picky with my job search whenever I have legit concerns due to things like my anxiety problems. This isn't your life it's mine. I can't just "work at walmart and shut up" and suffer even more inside.
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>>17313305
Be useful or be a burden.
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>>17313321
I am, there's lots I do around. I just can never feel like I'm good enough. My self esteem and confidence suck .
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maybe their right anon. you should work to lessen your anxiety and be open to new things .
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XepyhNKnhGk