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>>17311186
Hate when women do that shit.

Just fucking say no you cunts

If you have bad experiences why do you think LDR is even anything you CAN do?

LDR hardly ever works because of bad experiences. They hardly ever work out for a reason.

Save yourself the trouble, go on a local dating site or just put yourself out there somehow.

>>17311162
>>17311172
To add. This is and definetly will be the last time I ever try giving anything online a chance. I'm tired of it. I'd rather not go on dating sites, plus I'd be embarrassed if people i knew found me on those.

I'm not quite sure how to put myself out there, I dress presentably, I'm certainly tall enough to be seen. But im always alone, even though i dont wish to be.

>>17311178
What's embarrassing about someone trying to find someone?

At the end of the day, if you do find someone locally and it works out who cares what others think.

why did you do it?

>>17311161
Curiosity desu

>>17311158
You just tell her you were curious what people thought of her. You would rather the opinion of a stranger then a guy bro. If I was you, I'd (You) that picture with all kinds of flattery.

At this point in life most people treat me with a polite indifference, which t b h isn't too bad. It's painfully lonely at times but at least I'm not being kicked in the head.

Yes this is how 99% of all relationships work. If it doesn't benefit you, it's not worth your time.

Life isn't a movie or teenage romance novel, grow the fuck up.

>>17311152
What do you need advice with?

Besides shitposting on /adv/

>>17311141
Not really. It'll take some time to get used to putting them on, but after that you can add 2 minutes to your daily routine to put them on and take them off. It's slightly nicer to have more complete peripheral vision, as well as being able to buy sunglasses without needing prescription. They're also better for physical activities like sports, and for little things like being able to wear 3D glasses more easily.

The only cons I can think of are naps and showers. It's kind of annoying to have to take them off for those. Overall, if you think you look better without glasses, then contacts are 100% worth the already miniscule hassle.

>>17311154
You take your contact lenses off for showers? I always leave 'em in and I've never had any problems. Many brands of contact lenses these days are OK to leave in for short naps too, although maybe not if you nap every day. I'm still not gonna recommend that because I'm sure there's some study out there claiming that even sleeping for 30 mins with contacts in will cause your eyes to bug out and explode or whatever, but I do it on occasion.

>>17311141
If you enjoy /fa/shion, stick with glasses. Tons of Frames to help you look better. If you don't care for that stuff definitely go with contacts.

>>17311135
>unresponsive to your sexual needs
>degenerate fetish
>talking did not help
It's time to break up.

>>17311163
Feet aren't degenerate.

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>>17312303

sigh

>>17311134
And what do you think women think about when they're going to fuck you? Do they think "Oh his dick has been in another woman's mouth." or "His mouth has been on another woman's pussy."? It doesn't fucking matter, dude. Just fuck the shit out of her if you're able.

The thought of a baby cow being chained and slaughtered doesn't make veal any less delicious.

Eat the veal.

>>17311129
bump

didn't realise /adv/ was this much of a slow board desu

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>>17311129
You first may want to check how many job openings are in this field. Then maybe go see a real workplace and check out what kind of work is done.

Are you good with math, physics, etc?

>>17311272
I'm pretty mediocre at pure mathematics

I can get the concepts behind it all but I'm not great at dealing with it in unique settings

I'm fine at applying maths with rigorous formulae in physics and biology and I'm pretty exemplary at both physics and biology

I'm just wondering what sort of degree this is even good for

Like what the fuck do biology and physics have to do with each other

Troll?
Yes you'll be stretched out permanently.
Yes your girl will leave you.
Do it by yourself all you want, or wait till you're married to tell her.

I wish my bf was into that.

>>17311051

Nah I'm actually not trolling. Will it really stretch it out permanently?

I don't think she'd leave me for that. She's pretty open about things and our relationship is great. We always experiment. I guess this is more of a taboo thing for me personally, which is why I'm asking about it.

>>17311023
Honeymoon period is over. You don't feel all fuzzy and nice around her anymore. It's normal.

>>17311034
I agree. Though I think they honeymoon period made me forgive a lot of her behaviours. The bluntness, mood swings, jealousy, the incessant condescending, the unwillingness to ever admit fault, the refusal to ever accept I might be right about something. I put up with it all because i love her. It's weird really, i never thought I'd put up with so much shit. I give it as good back, I don't really back down from the stuff she does, but still, surely relationships aren't about that kind of thing?

You are both getting complacent and losing love.

Learn to like each other again.

Also, talk to her.

>>17310997
there are anons here that would kill for an opportunity to just see a vagina in the flesh.

why would you do this to them anon? fuck her for them.

Usually something short, sweet, and to the point that doesn't leave any room for false hope that would break the poor girl's heart any further is best.
I would go for something as simple as "srry uggo". You really just have to have empathy.

>>17310997
>just told me she has a crush on me over text.
eugh, are you two 12? Just tell her that's sweet but you aren't interested in her that way, sorry. Do not be a faggot and try to fuck her when you don't want a relationship that's just mean to her and there's plenty of vaginas out there that like casual sex.

>>17310979
yes.

you realize that it's up to you. no one else can truly help. you're responsible for how your life is going and how you feel about things. if you're unwilling to make changes then you're a willing participant in your own pitiful self-wallowing. if you're okay with that then stay in bed. if you're not then make the choice to change.

>>17310989
Not real depression, altho I'm not sure OP is talking about real depression or self prescribed pseudo drama bullshit. If it's the second it could maybe help.

i don't think it's as simple as one day it's there and the next week you fixed it , it's overtime learning ways to cope with it and finding what works best for you . For me it was exercising and music and just getting out of the house when i felt my worst . these are not solutions they're just distractions . but that's all happiness really is . good luck buddy

>>17310934
>implying they are not as stupid as you
OP they are faking it and you believed them.
Don't feel inferior to people; everyone is an idiot.
You are just an idiot that is bad socially and they are idiots that can lie.

>>17310934
>I think I gave some people in my class the impression I don't like them. Now they have formed a circle and know each other.
Story of my childhood throughout all 12 grades.

>distanced myself for 4 semesters. I did that, because some of them are very eccentric and inttelectual.
Bullshit, if they were then they'd be like you.

>>17310934
chances are if youre that sensitive to their feelings they probably dont like you because youre too nice and boring and smart

Turn it into a police station. It'll be yours after a period of time if nobody claims it

>>17310855
just keep it you faggot. you're never going to track down the retard that loses a wad of cash.

just keep it shithead

He used this money to visit these girls. He started seeing Twin1 who was already in a realtionship and was perfectly fine with cheating on him. Bro didn't give a shit cuz he got laid(1st time). She broke up with her bf but Bro left her since she was sleeping with every other LARP guy(low standards whore).
After this he still hung around Twin2 who is currently in a relationship also. He also still hangs out with Twin1.
He stole me and my sister's savings to go to some big mall a ways away and splurged on them while my parents went visit relatives out of state.
Recently I'm home from college and he took a week off from work. He then tried to borrow a loan for $1000(only got $300 payday loan). Against better judgement, mom loaned him money also. He then took Twin2 to SixFlags in Georgia(all expenses paid for her).
Now he's expressing a desire to quit his Walmart job(the only job he could get judging by how hard it was for my fiancee to find a job after he quit) even with that debt from the loan looming over him and the bills for his phone and car and insurance in hopes of moving closer to the twins two hours from home.
And through the magic of Facebook we learned that he bought 3 tickets for him, Twin1, and Twin2.
My fiancee and mother are extremely pissed off and my fiancee has been wanting to beat the shit out of him since he stole from me.
I want to beat the shit out of him too but I know he could snap me like a twig.
What should me or my family do about this?

TL;DR My bro stole from family for two whores but we can't lynch him, what do?

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>>17310852
Beat the shit out of him, the only way idiots learn is by feeling excruciating pain.

Also move out you chump.

>>17310857
Forgot to add that I was in college a state away and in student housing.
Looking back, my uncle on my mom's side also never moved out. Til he got a wife online. My mom hates her brothers for not being independent so my brother doing this is probably eating her up inside.