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I was one here yesterday and a few of you replied, I could not post anymore because it was archived... Let me explain further,
I currently attend a school that is an 5 out of 10, rated by most school websites. The mayor even said that the school system was one of the worst. I, for my class excel, and Im on my way to taking advanced courses. I'm pretty shown off in the school.
This other school, its beautiful, looks like a college campus. The school sites rate it 8 out 10, and like I said before, they send students to Ivy League schools. They accepted me a while back, and Im going for a bridge week. Their #25 in my state, while the other is #385. I know once I go there, I'll barely be recognized for academic achievement, and they are NOT giving me the courses they're offering in my current school. I mean, this school's SAT score is 1720, theyre proficient in math and ELA, I just dont know.
Does that matter?
Do I stay in my current school?
Here are further statistics:
Current High School:
SAT score: 1380
Proficiency in math: 48%
Proficiency in ELA: 69%
I don't know what to do.
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>>17319917
Continue shining where you are. Admissions in college will take a lot into account, especially your area, the shittiness of it and your ability to overcome all of those obstacles.
High schools don't really matter, it's what you do with your time that matters. Extracurricular, volunteering, internships, etc. It's not always about shining where everyone is shining, sometimes it's better to shine where nobody is.
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So I'm a high school teacher in a really terrible school district in a rural part of California. While we do have some success stories, (One of our students was accepted to Stanford after getting a perfect score on the math portion of the SAT), most of our best students are destined for middle of the road state colleges.
I think you should go to the other school. Colleges do look at your schools API (academic performance index) when making admissions decisions, and if you're looking at in state admissions, they'll likely know your district/school by reputation alone. That's not to say that you can't succeed, but going to a better school increases your chances.
I think you will also benefit from being around better students, they will challenge you in ways that you may not be challenged at the current moment. Typically better schools have better extracurricular activities, more motivated students, and better/more educated staff. One of the reasons under performing schools and districts remain as under performing is that the best teachers leave after 3-5 years to find better opportunities and the worst teachers remain ingrained because they can get away with bad practices. I know you said they didn't have some of the classes that you wanted- what kind of programs are we talking about? AP? IB? Particular classes? That may be something to consider if it is really important to you.
You will no longer be the golden child, that's true. But from your tone it seems that you aren't satisfied being the king of the garbage dump. You will actually challenge yourself when you are put up against motivated students who want to succeed.
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There's this program in my school that started a few years back, in 8th grade I got tested for honors Algebra I, and then I'll continue with Algebra II, Geometry and Im clear that my teacher told me I'd take AP Calculus by the time I'm in 11th. If I attend the other school, I'll start over again, they're giving me regular algebra I, but the secretary told me further on I'd take IB classes. (It is a magnet school).
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How come I need experience to get 1-3 month long internships? How the fuck am I supposed to get a job?
I want to go in to media
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Use school extracurricular activity as experience. If you're in college, go to Financial Aid and ask for a job. They'll hook you right up.
The rest is history.
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>>17319921
i've just finished uni. I have some extracurricular experience but people are asking for a year.
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>>17319928
LIE
Just fucking lie. That's what everyone else does.
Most jobs are way easier than the person hiring for thinks and they will tell you what to do when you start anyway.
I got a problem. Myself and another were born with interesting attributes and identities. We have been being ritually molested, mutilated etc.
The Canucks won't stop bothering me, stealing my information, material, etc. Because we matter and they don't. As if the pencil neck molester Canucks see our lives as an opportunity to try and make Canadians matter so they can smear their Canadian shit across the world.
I tried scouting out other countries but they actually followed me and ruined my vacations by constantly annoying me. The last time I tried to vacation , one of the millions of faggoted Canadian guys, called the cops who arrested me for no reason then locked me up for a month.
Basically from what I've been told the Canucks are violating our human rights for amusement because we are interesting, they're not, and Canadians specialize in molestation in their struggle to attain desirability and relevance
What can I do about all this?
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Explain further
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>>17319899
really makes you think
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Lol wut
Unless you're First Nation, kindly shut the fuck up
What should i make of this? If you couldn't figure it out, it said i got the highest possible score on mensas mock test. Does it even mean anything? Should I apply for membership?
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It's a scam to make money, by falling for it you've proven that your IQ is bottom of the barrel, congratulations.
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>>17319893
What do you base this on?
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>>17319874
Mensa, from my experience, is nothing more than a group of people who want to be told they are a highly intelligent group of people. Is that really what you want? Affirmation that you're intelligent?
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The first text is what she asks, the second is her reaction , and the third is what she says when I ask for a pic of her. I mean what the hell. Earlier she said " oh I'm nervous and quiet" but she asks me how big I am and to ask various questions about my dick... She did say she is quiet and shy maybe that's the problem ? She also say she would send me some another time now. I know it's an actual person I have seen her. Advice?
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You got played like a bitch. Sorry buddy.
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We need more context.
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A good proportion of women only see how much they can get from others while systemically not giving back much. Its life senpai, next time just try and turn the tables around. Ask questions about herself, then try to come to a stalemate where you both "want" something from each other. Might sound ridiculous but put a little thought into it.
How do I stop hating work?
Background story
>Be on autismbux for 5 years because autist and depression blabla
>Suddenly i am forced to work again
>This might actually be good for me, give me purpose, self esteem and happiness
>Feel way more shit than I did everyday doing nothing, talking to no-one and playing videogames
I thought having a job would give me purpose and self esteem and would make me happier but i'm more depressed than ever. I feel like I dont have any free time left which is insane since I still got 1 day off tomorrow before I need to start to work. But every sunday I already start to become depressed for mondays.
How the fuck do I handle this shit? I rather be a fucking useless neet on autismbux because then at least I was slightly more happy.
How do people deal with this shit?
I always thought it would give me so much confidence being a normie wagecuck but I fucking cant stand my life anymore because I hate it so much, the thought of having to be somewhere in 2 days just makes me incapable of enjoying life
I know I am a gigantic faggot and everybody does this but for the love of god send help
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Work sucks unless you're working in your dream field, and when you work in your dream field, it doesn't feel like work, just waking up to make money.
Tell us what you do so we can help you deal. I'm 22, have had a job almost without break since i was 17, and I hate more days at work than I like. Until I get into my dream field, little will change.
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>>17319791
You don't, from what I can tell. I even got jobs in fields I loved doing things I actively wanted to do, and the very fact that it became an obligation I performed on someone else's terms was enough to ruin my ability to enjoy those things and turned it to shit.
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>>17319800
i drive trucks, not long distance, short distances
the hours fucking suck (early start sometimes late start) I dont even make that many hours a week but it just feels like my life is over
also the pay is fucking worthless but its the only thing i'm "educated/skilled" for and i need to work alone so driving is kinda my thing
once im actually working and the day is good its not that bad but its the dread look that fucks my life
still 1 more free day and all i can think about is how i dont wanna go
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To /adv/,
My entire life after high school, I have been going through a vicious cycle of apathy and self loathing. I'm seriously becoming slowly fucked in the head.
It's become so bad that I will stop whatever i'm doing and just go to sleep in the middle of the day because I don't want to be awake or thinking.
I hardly enjoy anything anymore. Communication has become extremely taxing and i'm constantly bitter. I experience zero motivation.
I have read, watched and gone through countless self help videos and literature. I execute things, I see improvement but I just become disgusted.
Why disgusted, you might ask. I become bored. I honestly can not stand being bored. It's agony for me. I flip out. This is something I want to lose.
So It's like this: Feel fucked up > self help > make change > see improvement > become bored out of mind > apathetic > feel fucked up
I am unhappy with myself and the actions I have taken in my life. I honestly despise myself and other people pick up on it really fast.
I hate my surrounding, my work and most of all my inability to enjoy and work hard on what I used to love. I just don't feel anything anymore.
The only thing I feel is the desire to escape myself. If I don't stop this, I don't know what i'm going to do. I am already 25 years old.
I just want to put down video games and be content with a pen and some paper or Photoshop. I want to love myself but it seems impossible.
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We're similar in a few ways. Let me ask you something:
Can you see yourself ever being a happy, functional member of society? I'm not saying you're not functional. I'm asking if you could be happy as such.
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>>17319866
I guess it's not that simple. It's almost as if I have to be someone looked up to and highly experienced or no one at all.
Even if I was doing what I think I really want to do without becoming bored or experiencing apathy, I would still be an outlier.
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>>17319887
You have some inner thoughts you need to address. Why is being someone looked up to so imporant to you? It's not always a bad thing.
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I uninstalled LoL, what now?
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Hi /adv/,
I just had a shitty game, decided to uninstall it.
What do I do now? How do I make sure I don't start playing it again?
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If you want to play, you'll just end up installing again. It doesn't matter how you try to "stop" yourself.
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>>17319780
Get a social life or spend more time on it. Get other hobbies. Play other games. Any combination of these.
Remember the point of games is fun. If you're not specifically doing it to have fun and succeeding in having fun, seek alternate games.
If you find yourself tempted to return, remember how mad it made you before and how not much fun the other games were.
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>>17319780
Crawl out of your mom's basement and watch the sunrise? Go to the beach and get sunburnt?
Create porn??
Idk. I'd suggest using your brain, though. It's not hard to change your habits. Find something you enjoy outside of your current situation, take a chance on stuff and just do something.
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>3rd year at workplace
>semi attractive 8/10 girl, older, 37
>be me 23 non beta non virgin above normal normie
>socialize with this 37 year old cougar
>she only talks to married men
>always leads conversations towards sex
>never lets you look at her in the eyes, just at her body
>let everyone know she has a boyfriend, but still acts socially unethical at work
>like having the boyfriend doesnt matter and she lets people figure that out on their own
>practically saying "hey i know im in a relationship, you are too, lets do something bad and fun that we will both enjoy and regret later"
>never EVER dealt with a girl like this before in my life
>week or so ago I was in my hotel room for work (we have 2 to a room because I work in a crew and the company wants to save money)
>roomate and flag girl (not the said 37 year old) cheating non respectively on both their significant others
>lay awake staring at the wall thinking how I would feel if that was me and that was happening
>just feel like she wants to be known for being a fucking bad girl and seeing how far she can get in life being a home wrecker
>how does someone stop caring?
>I mean simply stop, everyone else on the crew finds a way to deal with it but I just cant find a way...
>dont want to quit, making 180 hours on my paycheck per pay period...
>this one girl is bringing me down because shes pretty attractive and is basically making every other interaction with girls brutal because its like I wont find another girl like this whore, or if I do, theres always one underlying reason she will be better
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I don't even see a question here.
But, why the fuck do you care you mong? Stop being a retard and live life.
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that's some horrible greentext, you pretty much wrote the paragraph and just separated the sentences
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>>17319773
>b 23/m beta
>pretend 23/m alpha
>ask beta questions
kek
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Lack of affection and sex is making me insecure about my relationship. I've been with her for 2 years. She got an insertion birth control in her arm around a year ago and our relationship completely changed after that. as in less sex, and less affection.
As a result, I have become way more insecure than before and have been trying to fill that void somehow.
I started working out and I look a ton better body and face-wise. I should be feeling less insecure right? wrong. I'm still insecure about this relationship.
As much as she loves me and shows me that she loves me, I don't feel loved. I feel like everything she does is forced. We've had talks before about her ignoring me in public. As in, not showing me any affection whatsoever. I wouldn't be surprised if people think we're just friends sometimes.
That's what the problem is. This is how it is now. The lack of sex makes me feel unwanted and whenever we go to a party/festival, I'd be lucky getting one kiss from her. She doesn't hug me. Ever. Every interaction of her seems forced and we've had arguements about this where she's told me that she feels forced to give me attention when we go out and it just made me feel like shit.
I want a girl that's gonna enjoy doing shit with me. I want a girl that's gonna wanna show me SOME affection when we go out. I understand that she wants to have fun and shit but imagine going out with your girlfriend only to be ignored.
Yesterday we went to a party and the only words she spoke to me were asking me to get her food. Which I wasn't gonna do because it was just disrespectful how that's the only time she'd talk to me.
I get more jealous as a result of this. When there are guys that talk to her in parties/festivals. Even though I socialize with other people too, why does she talk to other people but will literally ignore me? Like I'd really have to work for her attention to even get her to talk to me. It's fucking stupid and I'm getting tired of it.
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Get your boys snipped and she'll go off the birth control.
If she doesn't change drastically, then break up and move on.
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>>17319734
>I wouldn't be surprised if people think we're just friends sometimes
that is exactly why she does this in public and keeps her options open for male attention
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>>17319738
She says she wants to take it off too but she always puts it off so I gave up trying because we end up fighting whenever we talk about it.
Can I undo that process? What If I end up wanting to have kids when I'm older?
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How do I get my parents to leave me alone?
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Alright /adv/, hear me out and try to hold judgement to the end.
So I'm 22, and I still live with my family. I was probably like a lot of people on here in the sense that after high school I went to community college, flunked out because I didn't give a shit, and just worked a shitty part time job. I'm also like a lot of people in the sense that I smoke weed.
It probably sounds like I'm just an amotivational stoner, but it's not true. In reality, I was horribly depressed and really self-destructive. I simply wasn't the same person I am now. And I say that because I've taken steps to improve myself over the last year, all while being high. Going back to school and getting decent grades, working out a lot more to keep myself fit, pursuing hobbies. I honest to God do my best in school with a slight buzz going on.
My problem is, my parents constantly gaslight me. They want me to believe I'm just some stoner that will never amount to anything and that I'm the worst-off 22 year old on Earth, but I know that's not true. I've made mistakes, but I've come around a lot in the last year or so. And now I'm planning to go away for school. Is there anything I can do to get my parents to leave me alone? Or am I better off just trying to endure it until the end of summer, going off to college and keeping contact to an absolute minimum?
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>Won't anyone else believe that I'm going to flunk out in a year and move back in with $12K of debt?
Nope.
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>going off to college and keeping contact to an absolute minimum?
This.
You sound like you've learned from your past experience, and honestly dude, that is all we can do as people. I am working on a JD now and I smoke whenever I feel like smoking, and yo, it helps me stay focused.
Go pursue your own happiness and don't worry about what conforming to someone else's worldview on how you should be going about YOUR life.
Bravo, you're back in school and doing good. Glad to hear. Fuck the haters, bro, all of them, parents included.
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>>17319732
I don't believe that I'm going to flunk out in a year and move back in with $12k of debt, either. I'm not sure what this post meant.
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Addicted to interracial porn please help
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I am a 26 year old, married, white/hispanic male, I used to watch a lot of ordinary white men/white women porn when I was in my teens. But the past 6 months I constantly watch only black men/BBW white women porn. And it’s the only time when I look at the guys big dick and feel jealous of his sexual prowess, and how the white women enjoys it. I don't even have sex with my wife regularly anymore because of this shit. I feel extremely embarrassed of this fantasy and emasculated and hide it from everyone. Its the only time when fascinated with the big black penis, but don’t desire a relationship with a man. What is really causing this and why, is it a fetish? I love my wife deeply, and love everything about women, but its when a see black men, blonde women porn that I cannot control myself, especially if the woman is fat and trashy looking.
What's wrong with me? I know this is 4chan, so I don't expect a lot of helpful advice, but to the few that really care, I really need your help.
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>>17319703
You sound bi-curious. It's natural. Go find a BBC to worship.
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>>17319703
I wouldn't worry unless your wife has fucked black guys before or you know she lust for their big dick.
I realized I was in trouble when my wife and I went to join a gym. We had never discussed black guys fucking white women but when it came to choosing personal trainers (there were male & female and all were in shape) she picked the only black guy. Down hill from there. She started spending all her time at the gym with this guy until he was fired. I find out for fucking the female patrons.
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OP, there is no reason to feel ashamed. What you are going through is absolutely natural for your demographic.
The next step is to hire a professional who earns his money by being black and fucking the white girlfriends/wives of white ... men infront of them.
By turning your fantasies into the real thing you will feel less of an urge to regularly satisfy yourself with porn on the internet. Think of it this way, you are a seething kettle right now and you need to let of the steam.
I hope this helped :)
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How is processed sugar still not outlawed? It's basically toxic
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>>17319689
Shut the fuck up. Everything is toxic, including the device you're using.
Don't worry about sugar if you're okay with holding oil based products in your hands for long periods of time. Fucking out with you, dumbass.
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>>17319707
>OP now has to wipe the Doritos dust off his fingers to respond to you.
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I want to know if other people find this guy attractive or its just me
>inb4 bait
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>>17319686
No, you're pretty ugly, pajeet.
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>>17319693
You're an asshole, dude.
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Its a problem, I tell myself I'll stop and 2 weeks later Ill see myself looking, its just that girls online are so difficult to talk to and paying for a whore is just easier, but I alas feel like shit afterwards and really need to stop, especially before something bad could happen.
Im always safe, I never kiss them or their genitals and use condoms for whatever.
But yea, how do I stop?
Jerking off somehow only makes me want it more sadly.
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>>17319673
There is nothing wrong with having sex with whores.
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god damn, looking at that pic is getting me going, mmh god damn.
I'd say you need to start socializing with people and meet girls that way. Having sex with hookers is hard to get out of. I know, because I did it.
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>>17319684
Yes, ugh I uninstalled the app I was using to have an alternate number, worst is I just did one a few hours ago so this is that post feeling, but I need to keep this. I need to focus on other things.