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Is it gay to date transwomen?
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>>17322030
Yes, because transwoman is not a real woman, just a mentally ill guy pretending to be a woman.
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I'd say so, but that's because I'm not comfortable with the idea of getting sexually involved with someone that once had a penis. It's a personal preference, whatever you're comfortable with
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Transgender are fags in disguise.
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Who else fucked his own life for no good reason?
I was smart, handsome with friends and a great family that loved me and yet here I am.
I'm a fucking useless neet with no degree no job, no girlfriend and no future.
I'd have killed myself long ago but my family and friends doesn't deserve it, they really care about me.
They've done everything for me and I've failed everything out of procastination.
Some would say I have had depresion but I think that's a meme, I'm just an lazy asshole.
I really don't know what to do.
Join the army? Will they pay me food and shelter at least?
I'm tired of leeching of my parents but the spanish army kinda sucks.
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Try the FFL
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>>17322016
Thread theme
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>>17322016
If you're serious, here's what I did.
- Go to college, work on side to pay rent.
- Sign up for a gym, try to go at least 5 days a week.
- Limit internet time to 1 hour a day.
- Pick up a creative hobby to fill your free time and keep at it.
- Stop jerking off so damn often. One every 3 days is enough.
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Should I kill myself? 2016-07-04 10:20:53 Post No.17321993
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I feel like a burden and a parasite more than anything else. I haven't accomplished anything.
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Killing yourself is never the answer even if you truly believe it is.
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>>17321997
I know this sounds emo as all hell, but with death being inevitable, it's kind of hard to find a reason to keep going. Everyone else I've talked to feels that the transitory nature of life gives them more reason to live. I don't understand that.
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>>17322002
OP by the way.
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People out there in long term relationships, what is your S/O like with their friends?
I feel my girlfriend is practically consumed by her friendships, she almost treats them as if she were dating them as well as me, i often feel like im on equal ground or even sometimes lesser then her friends and we are all after the same thing, to spend time with her, so i feel this competition with her friends.
I'll admit i do get the most time out of anyone, but a lot of that time is spent with her on her phone messaging her friends or snapchatting/planning next time she is seeing them and basically giving them a rundown of her day to day activities while she's with me, none of which she does for me when she's with her friends, at least not anywhere to the the same extent. Often she will not message me at all whilst she is with friends because she believes it to be rude to them and she just wants to be present when they hang out but that same courtesy isnt given to me when we are together. I understand her time with me is often her only "alone" time so to speak so she will need to do things she would do by herself around me. I've just never been with someone so into their friends, I mean I have friends too, really good ones, but we all have our own lives and when i do see my friends its usually secondary to seeing my girlfriend unless its some specifically interesting event that is happening like a birthday or something.
Another point to mention is that because her friends hang out basically EVERY day, she often feels left out, and knowing that she feels this way makes me feel guilty for keeping her away from seeing them which often reflects on the quality of our together time as i feel like she'd rather be elsewhere. Because of her commitment to me she has said in the past that she wants to be able to see friends many days in a row if she feels like it without it being an issue, and usually it isnt, but when i do get time with her it can be frustrating shes messaging them.
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I hit the word limit, anyway this is all just my thoughts at the moment, would just like to hear an outsiders perspective on the matter. I want to also clarify that i don't have a problem with her having friend time, even a lot of it is fine, it's mostly how when she's with me she makes me feel like she'd rather be with them by them constantly being in the loop about her life/events/food she's eating etc.
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>>17321976
you sound like you have a really good idea about where you stand and why you feel that way.
you're best bet is to tell her everything in your first two paragraphs there and see how she responds.
IMO she's got problems. at a certain point in life we all have to realize we're here to work on ourselves.
you don't get a girlfriend by crying about how worthless you are and how you need love, right?
you picked her up because somehow you demonstrated worth. A little luck and a little of your own personal spark drove you to become an individual who looks like he can handle his own shit.
she's obviously done the same to a certain extent. but still latches on to those people thinking they give her worth. she's got to realize she's bigger than them.
if you can incentivise her independence somehow - stroke her ego while you're talking - that might help you through it.
she might just be a big baby though, and that's when you gotta make the decision to work with her on it or leave and find someone who doesn't hold you back and make you feel small at the same time
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>>17322013
for the record, my S/O spends a lot of her time texting me when she's with her friends (they all the type to text at dinner tables anyway), and little blips come and go when she's with me.
she used to text while we were in bed, and that shit pissed me off. her coworkers would wake her up at 5 am. shit was not okay. the bed is OUR space.
luckily i have a pretty empathetic girl here and she cut it back quite a bit (after some fighting but whatever, i knew i was right gat dammit)
she does her own thing, and often puts me first. we're both homebodies but she definitely goes out more than me.
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Can I be loved?
I grew up with my parents seperated living with my mother. But my father who is a borderliner narcicist who generally has a very egocentric world view, still managed to cause a shit ton of damage. Sometimes I feel like he has just ruined my life and I will never be truly happy because of the mental scars he left.
But that's slightly off topic really. I'm 21 and haven't been in a relationship so far. There was a small romance with a girl in a clinic I was to treat my depression. But she ended it and it turns out she only thought she fell in love with me. She likes me I think but just in a platonic way I guess. I feel more for her though. Anyway, she was the first person besides my mother that I thought loved me unconditionally and for who I am not for what I do or don't do. It was an entirely new feeling to and I built a lot of will to live on that. It was a new facette to my life and one that made things worthwhile. Essentially curing my suicidal thoughts entirely at the time. But now that I know that she only thought that she fell in love at the time (that's part of her issue, she's not just a bitch fooling around with other people's feelings). So it feels like I'm back to square one. It feels like I can't be loved. People would probably tell me otherwise but its hard to believe. I would probably tell myself otherwise if I were someone else. And yet I can't believe it or feel it. It feels like I will be forever lonely in that regard. Like I can't be loved for who or what I am. And it feels bad man. It pushes me back to the point of where I don't know why I should even go on like this. But I guess I'll hang in there for the sake of others anyway.
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Of course you are. Question is if you love yourself and do you let other people love you and how to make fall in love with you.
Now you obviously have issues. Your parents (yes both) failed you. Your mother failed you too by picking your father and she must've fucked in your head in her own way (even if you don't belive it, you may want to absolve her, but you must realize that probably she too probably fucked with your head).
You need to deal with your own problems and find balance and self respect, then self love. I would advice reading about Self Love Deficit Disorder. Cluster B disorders. And distancing yourself from your family.
I actually very well understand your feelings "I can't be loved", it shows that something deep down with you is not right. My guess is you never really felt safe, respected and loved (yes loved, in your life, it will be a long shot but it's often the case that single mothers don't really treat her children as human beings, instead treating them like their property which confuses shit out of children that don't feel loved yet are told they are loved).
You need to understand that loving is no easy buisness but you can for sure find love. You need to work on you and not in the "Self-improvement" bullshit sense. First thing you need to deal with your issues that stop you from beliving in yourself.
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>>17321943
I feel your pain, OP. Also 21, also narcissistic asshole father and mother who never cared.
Personally, i guess i've just accepted it. Some people aren't really meant to be loved, or maybe even liked.
We can still contribute to society, still do some good in the world.
>>17321989
I don't think loving himself will help OP. It won't change the opinions of others, after all. And it won't change who he is.
And even if it works, if he boosts his self-esteem, becomes confident in himself, and people start to like him, what will that change?
It'll simply prove that people don't like him unconditionally, "for who he is", but that their affection is dependent on his self-esteem.
>My guess is you never really felt safe, respected and loved
Probably. That's how it is for most of us. Hard to unlearn things drilled into you throughout childhood.
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Im the 89 anon. I understand you very much. I myself was never loved in home and me and all of my brothers are quite disfunctional adults because of our fucked up parents. But I belive that it is totally worth it to be fulfiled in life and big part of being fulfiled is feeling good with yourself and feeling loved. Now sure you need someone to start to love you first, grow your love, tend to relationship but if you meet the right person when she/he loves you it will be solid and unconditional. But you must make them love you first. It's kind of foolish to asume that if someone doesn't love you for the first glance and is completly unconditional in feeling then it is good. We need to work for it to grow but if it is grown good it is true and great.
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Hey /adv/. I've come upon a bit of an unusual predicament and I'm genuinely unsure how to proceed.
My boyfriend's close friend (as in, going on friends for 12 or so years now) is having a house party. It was a super big deal for him, finally being able to get his own place and my boyfriend wanted to do something special. He's gone the full mile, booking entertainment, catering, baking a cake (He's a baker, his cake's are insane). it's adorable
Anyway, he kind of came out of left field yesterday and asked me if I'd be okay with stripping. Okay, I know that's pretty sudden, but there's a bit of a backstory. We're both pretty open (Not as in an open relationship, but about what we enjoy sexually) and he's told me before he likes the idea of me being seen by others. And honestly I think it's kind of hot. Not really the idea of being seen, but him wanting me to be seen. Now he's never pushed it, it's just something he's mentioned in private, but this proposal seems like his way of trying to push things further. Also he knows I've had a few body image issues in the past that I've -mostly- worked past. I've put a lot of work into better myself, and he's supported me through all of it. He's told me time and time again that he thinks I'm attractive, and has not-so-slyly told me he sees others checking me out. I don't know if this is the case, but I feel like this might be a way for him to cement that self-confidence I've been working towards
But I'm still apprehensive. I don't even know how to strip, and I'm not sure exactly how either of us would end up feeling about the situation afterwards. But to be blunt the idea is hot. So just. I don't know
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>>17321928
If they're not going to offer you a good paycheck for it, then they're basically just trying to manipulate you into being a stripper for cheap. If they were to offer you like.. Say, $150 and have someone working security to make sure no one harassed you, it would be one thing, but if they want you to do it for free, then they have zero respect for you.
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>>17321941
>they
My boyfriend is the one that asked, and I'm assuming he hasn't mentioned it to anyone at the party? Or at least I assume he wouldn't until he knew what my answer was
>have someone working security to make sure no one harassed you
It's not a huge 50+ person party. It's my bf's friend's core circle. I don't know, 12, 13 people? Something like that. And I know most of them, and I think they all know my bf
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>>17321951
I wouldn't do it for the group of friends you will at some point continue to socialize with. I would look into stripping at amateur night at a club and your bf can be in the audience.
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>see a qt 3.14 girl in my job
>try to make an approach and start talking to her
>she sends me to the friendzone faster than ever
>fuckyou.jpg
> start ignoring her
> few days later a friend tells me that she was asking about me
the fuck is wrong with women... why do they start caring about you when you treat them like shit or ignore them and how can i get an advantage of that without surrendering to their desire o getting attention?.
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>>17321889
She was probably asking because you sound like a douchebag.
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>>17321889
Maybe she was just asking to ascertain your level of autism, and if she should be afraid of bumping into you when she leaves work in a dim lit car park.
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my female friend recently told me that the most attractive thing a dude can do is to show some interest and then stop, ignore her and be cold towards her
then she will do everything to get him
woman logic...
I received 20+ calls from this number. 4 0 5 6 7 9 1 4 0 8
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Have you tried answering the phone ?
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No I'm afraid it's a scammer. Or an ex bf...
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>>17321900
Why are you afraid ?
Stop assuming the worst. Just answer it and tell anyone to fuck off whom you don't want to communicate with.
Don't be one of those people who are too paranoid to answer new or private numbers. Nobody can hurt you over the phone. Just hang up.
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I want to marry this woman and I'm going insane thinking about it. I can't stop thinking about her. How do I accomplish this? I've tried to get in contact with her but no luck so far.
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Pretty sure thats a dude.
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>>17321877
>I want to marry this woman
Why? What's her net worth?
I would marry her grandma instead, you'll be waiting long time to get your hand on her money.
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>>17321877
>mfw i had a gf like OP's pic
>tfw i leave her because i'm stupid and have commitment fear
>tfw i still dream about her
Kill me.
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My girlfriend loves giving me a rimjob while jerking me off. I cum really fast when she does it amd i really enjoy it.
Should i dump her and start sleeping with guys? I have a really nice boipucci.
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Try it with a strapon first.
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>>17321879
But what do i tell her if i like being pegged?
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>>17321876
Why would you want to dump her ?
Are you not attracted to her ?
Would you prefer to be with a guy ?
>>17321915
She's already licking your shit cave. I don't think asking her to fuck you with a plastic cock is going to be a deal breaker.
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So I'm having difficulties staying hard. My new girlfriend can get me rock fucking solid with no effort but I have trouble staying hard during sex and sometimes just transitioning positions makes me go limp. We seem to have a lot of chemistry sexual and romantically but something just stops it dead in its tracks.
I stayed hard longest during missionary (I might have been half hard for some of it though, I don't remember.) and we actually had some decent time tonight before we switched and I kept going soft under her.
What should I do? She's been super cool about it but I feel like I'm disappointing her.
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Literally the same thing. I blame mental health and the years spent abusing my dick, but im not a doctor
Oh shit. It occurred to me that there are doctors for this. Maybe it's entirely psychological though. Investigate yourself. Maybe a doctor will logically guide you through all the possibilities
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>>17321872
do you watch a lot of porn? jack off a lot? Could be that, maybe try no porn and no fap for a few weeks and see if that improves it any
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Do you exercise?
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So I have been trying to drop or at least, somewhat tune down my gaming addiction, I have tried other hobbies, I tried learning guitar which I have been doing for 2 years now, and it got boring and stale
I have this anxiety when I do other things than playing video games, I just want to go home after work and play games all day, but on other hand if I skip my guitar practice sessions, I feel guilty, and ashamed of myself, because I set high expectations for myself.
I have this irrational fear, if for example I go and try join a band, I won't have any time to play video games anymore, and I feel like I will be always missing out on something.
How do I deal with these feelings?
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>>17321840
Video games are a massive waste of time. You gain absolutely nothing from playing them, other than a good feeling. With playing guitar you're actually learning something useful. If you like video games, you could always try and learn how to make them. Though if guitar playing feels like a chore, then maybe you should be doing something that you enjoy doing and actually have interest in.
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>>17321840
Video games can be a potentially addictive form of instance gratification the same way drugs, gambling, etc. can be. Treat it as you would any other addiction, so that means things like restricting access, substituting with similar but more healthy activities, avoiding triggers/temptation, potentially seeking help from family, friends or a professional.
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>>17321955
I fail to see how learning to play the guitar is a particularly better use of your time than playing video games.
Mastering and learning how to play other people's song on guitar is so like a video game that it is actually a video game. And what do you get in the end? The ability to play a few songs on guitar.
Shit, what a great use of your time.
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I met a an ivy league girl in group therapy who wants to date me. The problem is she has clinical narcissistic, avoidant, and depressive traits as well as therapist/psychiatrist who only addresses secondary problems. Her therapist must be encouraging her to build a house on quicksand, because she's $20,000 in debt to said therapist, temporarily out of school, not pursuing a profession, and engaging in prostitution. An example of how self-inflicted this is, she lives next to the EMS station she could be employed at, but she's afraid of not being perceived well after breaking up with a coworker. She would sooner have the lights go out than return to doing what she enjoyed and what pays the bills. Her roommate said the house was extremely neglected and pretty unsanitary before her arrival. I'm not sure what the hell happens in those sessions, because they're twice a week and she still needs antipsychotics to sleep, which I would imagine is a symptom of not bipolar or some supposed shit but rather being very discontent.
She has been paying that doctor to roleplay what she's going to say to me about our status as friends or lovers (because we dated for three weeks) and I would really like for her to wake the fuck up and help herself rather than giving me any more detailed thought. Is there any way to convey the situation as I have to you, to someone who is simultaneously creating the situation and avoiding it?
My best plan is to remain friends (or friends with benefits if that's what she'd prefer) and just piss on the job her therapist is doing, while encouraging her to return to school and work, before she ends up another $20,000 in senseless medical debt.
Any other ideas?
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Reason suggests you not stick your dick in crazy.
I suggest you go for it and keep us updated regularly.
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bitch sounds extra af
Saving these hoes baka. Forget her
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>>17321842
Do the rules change when I'm crazy, or do I find healthy people and become the nightmare?
>>17321847
I'm pretty prepared to do that, but you can distance yourself from someone without totally ditching them, right?.....right?
For one reason or another, I need two weeks off work. What is the easiest thing to claim to a doctor so I could get a sick leave note for two weeks? I've heard depression is one of the best (claim a family member died, feeling angsty, don't feel I'll be able to cooperate at work, fearful I'll hurt someone if I get agitated, etc), but I want some other opinions. Perhaps even from a doctor if there's one here.
I'm too early into my job (a few months in), so I don't have enough sick days, but this is a very important matter to me. I doubt my employer would take it well if I suddenly needed time off, though.
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no fucking idea, what do you need two weeks of for though?
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>>17321773
If you're paying your doctor, just go to him/her and ask them for a note for two weeks so you can look into help for depression.
Don't do anything beyond that, as it could backfire and you'll be stuck trying to get medical releases and all that shit.
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>>17321773
In fact, don't say depression, just say "anxiety issues."
"When I'm at work, it just feels like someone is constantly tossing ice water on my entire body."
Works like a charm.
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Secretly Recording Me Having Sex with a Woman
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Would It be a crime to secretly record me losing my virginity with a woman, maybe for evidence, not ever showing it to the public.
>Male, 17
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>>17321768
God Damnet... Male ""18"", not 17
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I recommend that you ask her.
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>>17321771
>""18""
>>17321782
This. don't be a paranoid creep, just ask her.