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Were do you see yourself in 10 years?
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Dead.
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>>17317955
When I was a teenager, they asked me this question.
I said "Alive and with a roof over my head".
Not exactly ambitious.
I am cursed with no passions. I don't care about pretty much anything.
Right now, all I can say is that my liver doesn't die in the next 10 years and that I can buy more booze to substitute my lack of passion.
Don't ask drunk people for advice. They're drunk for reason
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The future XDDDDDD
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So I had sex with a girl and I pretty much want it to just be a one night stand. It happened last night (the same night I met her) and I've been texting her today. She seems at least kind of keen on seeing me again, but I want out.
I figure that I just have to tell her that I'm not feeling it and we should go our separate ways (although a bit more eloquently than that). Is it fine to do this over text? Would be necessary to call her or meet up with her to do this?
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Just stop talking to her, she'll take the hint.
Or, if she's crazy, she'll be obsessed with you and make you life a living hell.
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I was considering ignoring her, but I met her at a bar I go to semi-regularly. Pretty much I shit where I ate but, I want to smooth it over as much as possible
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I personally would call.
If I was the girl, id appreciate a call over a text anyday.
>Go through phases of wanting a partner, then being chill being a bachelor, then wanting a partner again etc.
>Never had any real relationship where I actually felt something for the girl, always just flings where its just fucking
>Closest I came to caring about a girl dumped me after one date (but very nicely to be fair, we stayed friends)
>Go through dry spell, no sex in 3 months
>Get girl on tinder interested, get chatting, meetup for coffee within a day, sex is pretty much on the table within a couple days
>Not really my type but I still find her attractive enough
>Sext the girl while we're both masturbating
>Cum
>Suddenly no desire to meet girl and actually fuck her
How to deal with this state of mind
I really dunno if I even want a girlfriend or not. I feel like I'd just get sick of them so quickly once the sex novelty wears off
I dunno what I actually want. Should I just be single and not bother with hookups?
And just wait till I meet someone I actually care about again?
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Find a girl who is like one of your guy friends. I would always think that if I were ever going to find my partner she'd be exactly like on of my dewd friends just because of how well we'd get along and shit. It's not about the sex dood. It's never been about the sex when it comes to an actual long lasting relationship, it's about those fundamental things that keep y'all together like; "getting along" "similar hobbies and (likes/dislikes)" all of that shit that will make y'all stick like glue.
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Stop masturbating and your libido will go thru the roof, in no time you'd be dry humping trees.
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Your problem sir, is the contrary to every anon in here, you're too much of a chad. You get the pussy before the personality.
Be real with women, that should scare off a lot of them but some will appreciate you for your personality rather than your beauty, you'll get more chances to meet a girl who's more about the personality than the sex.
Well all of that is based on the assumption that you don't have a shitty personality
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Any of you ever feel like your relationship with your parents is extremely superficial?
Is that normal?
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All relationships seem superficial to me now days to be completely honest. I'm willing to admit years of crippling depression may be tinting things grey, but who the fuck knows anymore.
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My relationship with my mother consists of her pushing my buttons and me doing my best not to scream at her
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Yes they are both so very very fake.
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I've found the girl of my dreams, very similar interests, humor, she's gorgeous, has identical political views (perhaps even a bit more extreme) she's very modest, hates feminism and the way modern women act like whores, and I've fallen in love with her.
Only problem is she's not of my race. Wat do /adv/?
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Specify races too then.
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I am White. she is Pakistani.
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Why does it matter if she's a difference race?
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Hello /adv/, I am considering moving to the state of Wyoming. What can you tell me about the state that I might not already know? Thinking of Cheyenne specifically, but open to more rural areas as well as long as there is decent work. Any current or former residents willing to share their experience with me?
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Probably not gonna find many wyoming anons here.
Went to UWyo for a year myself, since i'm a nutjob.
It was alright. Pretty boring people, but they're nice and friendly.
Helluva lot of bars. Not much else to do, so they're popular.
Weather is shit most of the time. Cold as fuck. Snow starts in october and lasts through may.
Because of the cold and dry, there's no fucking bugs. Which is great coming from the south. Didn't even have nets on the windows, we never needed em.
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Oh and the wind.
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>>17317169
Seems like the worst part is the cold and wind for me. I'm super introverted, love guns, and hate taxes. It does not seem perfect, but I'd much prefer it to California
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Friend with suicidal thoughts 2016-07-02 20:45:02 Post No.17317110
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Holyfuck anons, please help me the fuck out.
>hunting for camwhores in Omegle
>meet this 21 year old girl that's a very generous 5/10 at the very best, chubby and looks like she has down syndrome
>but also horny as fuck, puts on one hell of a show and I can't help but inevitably ask for her contact after it
>add her on Kik, trade nudes for a few weeks and stuff
>she has a boyfriend, but he was obviously a borderline abusive cunt, so I never felt bad about virtua-cucking him
>this week, they break up
>she suddenly goes full depressive
>constantly talking about how she wants to kill herself
>it gets worse everyday, I spent this entire morning trying to convince her not to drink bleach
>she doesn't listen to any sort of reasonable argument on my part, just keeps on repeating her life is pure suffering
>she doesn't want to talk with her family about this
>she only wants to talk with me for some reason
>tfw I don't even like her on a romantic level, but my human instinct can't stand the thought of her killing herself
What the fuck am I supposed to do, /b/? I'm so fucking scared, someone please help the fuck out. I just made a thread about this on /b/ that 404'd ridiculously fast and some anons suggested using a dummy Facebook account to PM her family about her suicidal thoughts, but what if they read through our messages? Isn't it going to be even more awful and degrading for her to have nudes and sexting exposed to her family, on top of all?
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/b/ wasn't wrong, for once. This isn't your responsibility. Contact her family or friends anonymously, tell them that she needs some serious help and attention, and then cut off all communication with her.
Nothing you can do will help. You're an idiot for getting into this position. I hope you've learned a lesson.
You've never met her, and you don't know anythingabout her. You're not responsible for her. What you're feeling is guilt for her situation because you contributed towards it, I agree. But you can't fix it yourself. What are you going to do otherwise, drive there and marry her?
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In my defense, I wasn't the one provoking her break up or supporting her sudden spiraling depression. Everything points out to her turning towards me out of blue as a last resort after leaving her boyfriend and apparently feeling totally unloved, I'm not sure if it would have been much better if I never spoke to her and she were alone now.
I'll try contacting her family, but it kinda scares me to think about how they could react. On top of the sexting thing, what if they impulsively confront her through phone and, out of despair, she immediately kills herself? Should I explicitly warn them about the importance of talking in person?
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There are 7 billion people on this planet. It's not because some random camwhore landwhale dies that it's going to be a better or worse place. It's not your responsibility, let her do it.
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About to text girl from school for the first time, but im not sure how this works.
This is the first number i've gotten in 6years (im 23, former neet) and i got 0 experience with texting girls.
So im thinking about saying something like:
>Hey it's anon. What's up?
Is that a decent first message or is it retarded and stupid? pls help
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That's fine dude, stop overthinking
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>>17316952
This.
The more you focus on it the less natural it will be.
Just start with a "hey what's up?", some chit chat on how she's been doing and then if she's free this X day.
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>>17316948
Be sure not to say Anon tho, she might think you're me
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Tired All the Time, Incel, Want To Die 2016-07-02 15:25:51 Post No.17316436
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27 oldest of my brothers, currently living at home studying a masters of cyber security with a year to go. was recently unemployed but I have managed to land a part time web dev job for three days a week. Signed up as a contract so the company avoids paying anything like super or sick/holiday leave.
Never have a had a GF, got fucked over in looks compared to my brothers. Two brothers don't understand a lot of the happiness they have received in life isn't because of hard work but because the world didn't fuck them over genetically. Al women have rejected me some cunt used my bank account to pay for a transaction of 200 dollars so yay I can't go out to my favorite bar.
I hate western society and how it treat young shy, intelligent not confident men. I can't wait to see it all go to shit in the next few years. I'm sick of seeing western women act like spoiled entitled little whores, I'm sick of society of praising for being pigs with no self control. Everyday I think of hanging myself on the tree in front of my house I have nothing to live for nothing I missed out on girls I missed on dating I missed out on feeling like I could be loved. And what will I get in a return a 35 year post wall hag only capable of producing autistic spawn.
I will most likely hang myself soon, I can't take much more of this gynocentric nightmare. I'm so fucking tired I don't know what to.
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Would fleeing to asia help?
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>cyber security
>1 year left
Dude. Hang in there. Cyber security is a huge paying job.
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>I hate western society
Then visit Europe, people will beat you or call names instead of ignoring you.
My girlfriend wants to castrate me. It's her deepest fantasy, and I sort of want to grant her it. I don't want children, so I'm fairly down with it, but what could go wrong? I'll still be able to orgasm right? And I guess there's a very low chance of me bleeding out, as the blood supply to the balls is pretty small.
Anyone got advice on how we'd do it?
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this is the weirdest bait ever
the obvious answer is no dont dont do it because your girlfriend is likely not permanent
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You don't make permanent bodily changes like that. Castrating yourself will reduce your musculature to nothing and you will likely regret it. Do not do this.
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Im 23, how bad is it for me to date someone who is 17?
We've been seeing each other for about a week now. Shes super cute, and her personality is actually surprisingly decent.
She showed her high-school clingy side tho the other day when she kept texting me asking me if I was her boyfriend or not, after that I kind of felt like I had to break up with her.
I hung out with her yesterday and we talked but I couldnt bring myself to do it.
She made the point that the age difference practically makes no difference. While I made the point that I dont want to date a high schooler (she has one more year), she has to use her parents cars and ask for permission to go out, and her parents think im 21 when im actually 23.
I dont know what to do. I actually really like her, but this whole situation reminds me too much of my last relationship, where my gf was 10 years older than me. We got along great, but I was always haunted by this feeling that things were never really gonna work out so eventually I had to break up with her and it was the worst thing I had to do in my life, I dont want that to happen again.
In fact, its why I havent had a gf since, for the past three years. Ive dated a good handfull of girls but I always self-destruct the relationship early on because I dont want to have to break up with them later.
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Is it legal to date 17yo's where you live?
Half your age plus 7.
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A 17-year-old is basically still mentally a child. This will be apparent the longer you get to know her. She also has no capability to be able to really commit to a relationship with you since she's still living with her parents and she's covering up your actual age with them. It isn't going to be a healthy relationship for either of you due to restrictions and the differences in maturity and sounds like a disaster waiting to happen.
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If I were her parents I'd kick your ass. Leave the high schoolers alone. Who the fuck hangs out with school girls anyway?
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What is it actually like to meet up with someone from Tinder? 2016-07-02 14:29:11 Post No.17316333
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What is it actually like to meet up with someone from Tinder?
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Considering it, just for casual sex most likely, but the whole concept just seems awkward as fuck.
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Every chick I ever met from Tinder just wanted my weed and for me to smoke them up, platonically. I deleted that app off my phone. You can do much better in real life than Tinder, because Tinder is skewed completely towards women. It's not "online dating" it's "waiting to be desired by a woman". Go talk to chicks at a bar.
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Trips
And yeah it is awkward. I met 2 girls from Tinder.
Girl 1- she flaked... A few days before we met. She kept telling me how she wanted to suck me off. She said she didn't even care if I did anything for her, she just wanted to suck me for hours. Obviously, I said I like oral. So I'd go down on her. She said she was very excited. Well, the day came, when I was driving over, she asked if she could invite a friend to hang out with us. So when I got there, she had 2 friends with her. It was fucking awkward. So I showed up, and they said they were hungry. So we all got in my car and went to IHOP. They all just talked and gossiped about bullshit the whole time. It was fucking gay. Then they asked if I'd pay for their meals. And I said fuck no. So I left. It was bullshit. They tried using me. Because the girl who I was texting with barely even spoke to me. She just sat there and talked to her friends.
Girl 2- drove to her house, picked her up and we went and walked a trail for a few hours and talked. Went back to her house. Started watching TV. She started making out with me. I get ontop of her, slide her panties off, fingering her while I'm pulling my dick out. And in between moans, RIGHT before I am about to go innaVagina she says "uuhhmm I-I don't do that the first time I meet someone.. I have morals.." so confused, I just kept fingering her, which she was ok with. And she came hard as fuck. I then sat on the couch and watched COPS. Thinking about what she said. Then she smiles, looks at me and says "oh! It's your turn!" And sucks me for like 30min. But I never came. Then after she got bored, she just played with my dick in her hands and talked. She said "I don't like having sex the first time I meet someone because I don't want to feel like a slut". I left.
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>Girl 2
what sounds like a keeper
only 50% slut, good enough innit?
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What is wrong with me? 2016-07-02 13:35:39 Post No.17316223
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Hey \adv\, I've got a small problem. I am a 20 years old male, who never in his life had a gf. Also I'm 6'3. I'm in college and do sports 4 times a week(of which 2 times are barbell training). I still am too autistic to get a gf. Recently I wrote this cute girl in facebook(I talked to her irl a few times) but she didnt respond. I just hate myself so much. Honestly, yeah I want to have sex, but my main reason is that I just want someone to cuddle with and talk to :(.
But aparently I am to worthless for that.
I'm not a virgin , but my first and only time was a one night stand, with a girl, who was well over 30 and really ugly. I never hold hands with a girl, never kissed a girl I really liked. It just hurts so much.
Wtf is wrong with me. Should I just kill myself?
Pic related is me, maybe there is something wrong with my looks?
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you are a good looking guy. dont know why you cant get a gf as i dont personally know you but it must be something to do with your personality. you sounds desperate, maybe that has something to do with it?
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>>17316234
Yeah I am desperated, though I try to hide it a bit.
My personality may be a problem, I´m pretty shy and don´t like being around a lot of people.
Maybe my desperation showed a little too much with this girl? idk
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Mental Ilness general 2016-07-02 10:45:48 Post No.17315957
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Post along with the brain that fucks with you and ask questions: Just remember not to substitute this for therapy and to let your Ilness make you into a victim.
Hey /adv/.
Do you have any tips for living with manic/depressive episodes?
Right now I employ:
>Exercise
>Drugs (Mirtazapine)
>Trying to keep social
I've also been wondering if I should quit weed and alcohol all together since I'm taking medication.
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You should also post what your diagnosed with because mental illness ranges from schizophrenia to social anxiety.
I'm diagnosed with depression and anxiety. I use weed as an ssri re uptake inhibitor. Colanzapam for anxiety, citalapram for the depression, doctors think I might be by polar but are waiting to see.
I try and work a lot, two jobs doesn't leave much time to think. I also talk to people who emotionally invest in me because the likely hood of them giving a shit and understanding is higher.
Other than that just hobbies and pets help.
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>>17316179 same. hve clinical depression with psychosis, GAD social phobias. might be bipolar doctors also waiting...feel shitty been crying through out the day for the past 3 days. what do? my friends don't want anything to do with me, parents and siblings in California for trip
so im alone in my abode. know drinking wont help. been cutting though
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bump this
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something that cannot be explained. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online. Don't complain that this isn't helpful; stupid questions deserve answers like this.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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Any girls in this thread willing to give me pity sex?
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>>17315752
No.
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>>17315752
I wouldn't want anything to do with any of the guys here, let alone give them pity sex.