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Last monday I was let go of the company I had worked for over 2 years and a half for unclear reason.
My (now) exboss told me that the management didn't want me there anymore and he couldn't do anything about it, so they just kicked me out. This is something that happened a couple of times already this year so is needless to say the nepotism in this company is through the roof.
My real problem is, this was my first job ever (26M) and I'm never really had job-hunted before,
so I'm wondering, if I'm asked in a job interview why did I stop working at my last job, what should I reply?

Thanks in advance.

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>gf cooked me this
Is she trying to poison me?

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what jobs can i get that are pretty good paying and easy if i got a physics degree? it's the hardest subject for me so i want to focus on it as everything else i could learn on my own time.

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>be me
>married. No kids
>re-connected with an old female friend who I had a thing with (didn't quite date)
>she has a boyfriend
>we both know the other is not single
>we become FWB
>We've been fucking incredibly for a year
>she wants to experiment with me and another girl
>no one from Craigslist though
>now what? Where can I find another unicorn?

>met a girl
>works at a hospital
>see her often there for work
>I get her number
>I'm nice. Helped her move
>made my move
>we fool around, almost all the way
>she knows I'm married
>she's ok with it
>she says she doesn't want to be my FWB
>she struggles with the idea
>sends me nudes
>we talked about threesomes
>everyone's fantasy
>told her about a "friend of mine" who Also wanted one
>she's curious
>wants to try it

I haven't told my well stablished FWB about the second girl yet. I want to, but I'm afraid of fucking everything up. I mean, I have it pretty sweet with the first one and I feel like this new threesome thing might change things somehow and ruin it all. Should I keep them separate and enjoy them? Thoughts?

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What can I do to make people more motivated to care about things like health, environmental issues and other big things that we need to think about now but often don't?

People will spend $20 a week on coffee or $200 on a pair of jeans but won't donate $10 a month to a single cause of their choosing. It's depressing. The medical research budget in USA could be doubled for this kind of expenditure (and even less in other countries that don't research as much).

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When i was 11 my brother had this girlfriend , super atractive.
He was 19 and she was 18 they dated for a really long time i think 5 years or soo.
Well now im 19 and i went to the city where she lived because i wanted to see some old friends.
Its a really small town and i saw her again when i was shoping.
I talked to her and she didn't recognize me at the first time, well we went to a bar to have some drinks and just talk, we haven't seen eachother since years.
She gave me her number and invited me to her place tomorrow.
She is still super hot and i don't know what to do, she is an amazing girl but i don't know guys....
I'ts my brother's ex.

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>"he will always have a special place in my heart. He was one that I opened up to whole heartedly and although we had such a crazy relationship, I couldn’t imagine going through what we did with anyone else; all the ups and the downs, I’m glad that I experienced them with you.
I will always love you. I will always treasure our friendship. I will always be grateful for what we shared. I will always consider you my best friend. And I hope that you will always remain in my life because the person that I am today is all thanks to and because of you. You’re really, incredibly special to me and you truly are irreplaceable.
Thank you."

So a girl that I've been hung up on wrote this about me. She has a bf rn. We used to date last year but things ended badly. She's still touchy/flirty with me. I think im catching feelings for her again /adv/. Am I friend zone? What do I do??

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>Have gf who I met through an /r9k/ Skype thread
>Been together for over a year at this point
>Past month and a half as been hard, tons of arguing, yelling, etc
>A few days ago I got in contact with another girl through a mutual friend of ours
>Been talking constantly
>We hung out earlier today
>I got feelings for her, butterflies when I see her
>Texting, calling each other cute
>Basically flirting with another girl while I've been in a relationship for 14 months

What the fuck do I do. I never thought I'd be in this position. I can't tell if I genuinely like this girl or I just want to fuck her brains out.

Fuck.
This is awful.

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I dated a very shy girl (Who was horrible with communicating when it came to feelings) off and on for about 7 months, and fell in love with her like an idiot. We made time when we could, I was a high school graduate working full time, and she was a senior in high school with a crazy busy schedule. I ended things because towards the last month, it ended up only me making any effort, and me starting to think that she was just blowing me off with "I'm busy" related excuses. I later found out her being busy to be the actual truth, and a few months later apologized to her, explaining I thought she was just blowing me off but wouldn't say it, even after me telling her twice that if she wasn't interested, I'd appreciate it if she saved us both the time and told me. She told me twice that she DID have feelings for me, but with high school/team captain/30 hours a week part time job/parents constantly pressuring her to maintain straight A's in her senior year, she didn't have the time. She told me "I know it sounds like I'm stringing you along, and I'm not, but it's not fair to you and I'm so so sorry." But at that time all I could think was that if she really cared, she would have made the time and more of an effort.

It's been about 8 months since I last messaged her with that apology, and I still dream about her about twice a month. They're dreams that I wake up just wanting to go back to sleep because they're wonderful dreams, but when I wake up I realize how bad I fucked up. One of her good friends is dating my best friend, and I've become good friends with her by proxy. I was thinking about asking her if the girl hates me/resents me/has any residual feelings. If there's no bad feelings, I want to just message her (I live an hour and ten minutes away right now because college, but I drive home every week anyways), and ask her her side of it, what her thoughts were, hoping to get some closure, maybe start again. I just want to talk. How poorly do you think this will go?

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I really love my boyfriend but I know he is not right for me. I can't imagine never speaking to him again so I don't break up with him. I don't know what to do.

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Hey /adv/,

I recently started liking my friend's sister's friend (an obscure connection, I know), and she seems somewhat into me. The only problem is that she's "90% lesbian" and I'm a guy. She wants to sit down and "have a deep conversation and have [her friend] as a moderator to see if she deal with me"

What the hell do I say/avoid? How do I avoid sounding super pushy and obnoxious? We do have quite a few things in common to at least have a superficial talk about.


Pic related, she looks very similar

Thanks family

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So I got this cute girl's number yesterday, she works at a chineseplace near my dorm and we see each other about once or twice a week. It wasn't busy, we talked for a bit while my food was getting ready, etc, asked for her number, got it, texted her for about half an hour last night. My question is, considering I haven't done this in a while, when would be a good time to text her again, what should I say (just general conversation topics, I can handle myself from there), and how long till I actually ask her out to dinner or something.

>inb4 stop being a pussy and just talk to her, like I said it's been a while and I want to make sure I don't fuck things up

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is this rape;

I was having sex with someone, then they wanted anal sex, I said no, they did it anyway, I was crying for a while saying it hurts and stop.

They said they would stop when I came, so I faked it.

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this is it.
im 38 years old, jobless for 5 and half months, parents gone, no where to turn to, living life trying to make ends meet every fucking day, cant bear with myself to even go and meet new people. Currently sitting here with a glass of cranberry juice thinking how fucking shit i am. i really am giving up

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Is it creepy that I call my 16 year old sister pretty somewhat often? I never really thought anything of it but I'm starting to wonder if its been giving off a creeper vibe.