How do you grow out of constantly wanting attention?
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pls respond
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>>17322169
psych
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>>17322236
I can't do that.
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Okay, tomorrow I will get my test results that will decide if I can go to college or not. Its like half past 2 pm and I already shat six times. My stomach hurts as fuck and the fact that I know i fucked them up badly and there isnt really chance for positive outcome doesnt help me at all. Any tips for stress?
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Eat/drink something that soothes your tummy, do something to distract yourself like movies or gaming, possibly meditate
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>>17322148
Just accept that you failed, especially since you already know you have fucked up. Getting your hopes high (and getting stressed) is stupid. So think about your future coming from premises that you didn't make it and get on with your life
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>>17322174
My hopes are and always were at rock bottom, my philosophy was that I always expected the worst so when it was actually good I felt glad. But somehow I cant handle this time. Guess I can always become male crack whore
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Ate only one toast at the morning, cant force anything in today. 4 times I was shitting with just stomach acid or other sorts of liquids. Tried to watch tv and read a book but I my adrenaline level is off the charts and my pulse is like 250. Tried to chill a bit smoking cigarettes but I just smoked 3 packs and feel dizzy.
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How deal with the over-saturation of sex in everything 2016-07-04 12:25:25 Post No.17322126
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Everything I watch and enjoy just ends up being ruined for me by needless and plentiful sex scenes and time wasted on romantic shit. How do I cope with this and enjoy the parts of things I do enjoy
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>>17322126
Stop watching TV.
I haven't watched a tv series since SciFi's Battlestar Galactica. And even that had plenty of sex stuff.
Now I just watch movies (not so much lately with all the remake/sequel/prequel/reboot bullshit), anime, YouTube oc, etc.
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>>17322144
I don't watch tv it's mainly movies. I love movies and don't want to give them up but it's in almost every everything I want some way to cope and sTill enjoy my movies
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>>17322144
>Stop watching TV.
>Now I just watch movies anime, YouTube
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I am self studying English at the moment and started wondering, that is it better to translate texts from workbook by writing it on paper or just saying it out loud? If you have studied some other language I'd appreciate your opinion too.
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>>17322124
Why not do both?
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>>17322211
I feel like it takes way too much time if I translate on paper. But I'll try both ways to see which one suits me better.
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>>17322124
Is there a way to earn dosh while making yourself a name as a translator?
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Hey all. I SERIOUSLY need some help with this. I've been going to a pizza hut close to where i live and from the start, there was a homosexual man who worked there who seemed to be attracted to me. When i would go, he would call me by my first name. Granted, he might have just simply treated everyone like that but this is where it got weird.
I ordered from that pizza hut this past friday and when i did, he was working there. It seems he got a promotion to manager and i was genuinely happy the guy who was always nice finally got his raise. But Saturday night, i get a message from the manager. He got my information through my order. After many bizarre messages of me trying to figure out who he was (i thought it was my ex playing games at first), I called him as he requested it and begun to ask. I recorded the whole call but he confirmed that he got my information from my orders. Is there anything i can do about this? Can i get him fired? There has to be something against using customer information for personal reasons. Right?
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Lmao getting this scared your boypussy gonna be wrecked
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Yes if you have a recording and contact their corporate office then he'll probably be fired.
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>>17322143
Thats what i figured. Hopefully i get to someone who can do something.
>>17322122
thanks for the laugh lol needed that
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ok here is the situation
I'm gay and have been with my partner for 7 years now.
We just moved to a new city and are getting established.
He has family that lives here and his aunt is close to dying from cancer.
He isn't out to most of his family.
His grandmother has decided she is going to come stay with him to help her son through his wife dying.
He asked if it would be a week, 2 , 6 weeks? and she said she is going to stay indefinitely.
She called yesterday and is coming thursday.
I have to go live in a hotel until she leaves.
Everyone in the family is afraid to ever tell her no or stand up to her.
My partner is going to call her and say she can only stay for a week then she has to get a hotel.
Honestly, I'm afraid that once she is here she will refuse to leave and I won't be able to live with my partner.
This might end up costing us a lot of our savings.
Oh and before you say she needs a place to stay to save money, she is a multimillionaire and we are the ones trying to save every penny to buy a house.
We've never been on vacation, but now we have to pay to put me in a hotel until she leaves.
My partner is so afraid to come out to her and even if he did, I'm not ok with his grandma moving in for longer than a week.
As someone from outside his family, I don't understand how everyone is so afraid of this woman.
Guys how do I deal with this?
Should I just hope she's willing to leave in a week and suck it up until then?
Should I just refuse to let her live here?
Isn't crazy I'm getting kicked out of an apartment that I pay for?
Would I be a terrible person if she refused to leave and I come back and throw her ass out?
I don't know what to do guys, I need some outside perspective.
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Don't go stay in a hotel that's stupid. If your partner really wants to pretend you don't exist to his family then have him go stay in a hotel. She can go stay with him. He's the one with no backbone you shouldn't have to leave your own home
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You've been together 7 years. That is not a small sum of time.
Don't leave your fucking apartment. You shouldn't have to upend your life and spend tons of money because your partner is afraid to tell his fucking grandma he's been sharing his life with a man for half a dozen years.
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>>17322111
Err.. Can't you be his flatmate? Just sleep in another bed and stay platonic for a while.
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hey, /adv/
I want to try acid and probably will soon, any advice?
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start with 1 tab,wait an hour and see how you feel before taking more.
it's not as intense as it's made out to be, pretty much gives you a cool, comforting feeling with a little vibrating visuals.
pick a good time for it. It usually lasts 12 hours so you're in it for the long haul forget about sleeping.
I say this because i took a tab last night around 2:00 am at a party, still havent slept
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>>17322102
You're facing 25 yrs in jail if you get caught, that's a good way to ruin your life forever.
Acid is the most illegal drugs there are, and most acid isn't even real (they're dangerous research chemicals).
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You want some advice?
Quit wasting your money and time. You don't look very good posting this, you don't look very good when you do this and you're not opening your mind.
Going to some kind of music festival? Infected mushroom? Deadmau5?
Well don't.
Go do something actually intellectually stimulating where you can learn about life and see incredible things. Books, school, national parks and even the bar.
Don't be an idiot. Cheers!
Hey I'm the 24 year old femanon that lost her virginity the other day. I was terrified of losing it, still hung up over my LDR ex of who I was in a relationship for 2 years. Then I met my "real" boyfriend. He is not a virgin and is more experienced than me, and he is ok with guiding a shy, inexperienced, scared girl. He's been gently guiding me through my fears and comfort levels.
I am exactly the same person after losing my virginity. In fact, I even begged for more. It didn't hurt, as I was already experienced with using dildos (my hymen was not intact because of toys, so no bleeding during my first time). I had a lot of fun and I was really happy.
Now we are taking the next step and talking about birth control. He likes that I want to be responsible with birth control. Anybody have experience here with the Depo-Provera injection?
So you guys were kind of right. Losing virginity wasn't that big of a deal and I was basically terrified of nothing.
Thoughts?
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>>17322093
24 old girl and just lost her v-card...just how fat or/and ugly you are?
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>>17322096
Dunno my weight since I stay active enough to manage it. I'd say I'm 110 to 130 pounds, likely 125. Hourglass shape of body.
I'm just sheltered and afraid and broken. All I do is work and sleep. All my friends are made at work
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>>17322123
>broken
>read: possibly molested or abused
Poor guy for sticking it in crazy
Man my mom is literally the fucking worst. As soon as I get a little money from my job she wants to extort it all. Talking about gas money and bills. Like wtf I'm supposed to be saving money. Not fucking paying for shit you supposed to pay for. I'm never gonna leave this house at this rate. I mean I don't mind helping her out. But like I only had $50 dollar check. I had to give her money just to bring me to the bank. She said she wasn't gonna ask for money and let me save up. I'm trying not to save up for a car and school and she wants me pay bills give her gas money every week, and spend like $200 on food every month. Like i won't be saving any money. I would basically be stuck here And the place I work isn't even that far. It's like a two minute drive every day. She brought some old lady around town all day and the women stole fucking $200 from her. But she can't bring her own daughter to work so she can save up to get the fuck outta here. But she can't bring her own daughter to work. I'm trying to save up for a car, and an apartment. But I can't if she wants me to pay for all that stuff. I'mma straight up kill myself if I have to stay here that long. Idk what the fuck to do. I'm so lost and I don't have anyone else to stay with.
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Well you are right, your mother seems like a giant bitch. How old are you, how much do you make, where do you work? I would advice to try to keep your money for yourself and leave as soon as you are able. Are you by chance from single mother home?
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>>17322087
You live there and she want has you contribute to things like gas after driving you to work?
The horror!
I can't believe that selfish cunt! I mean, who does she think she is, driving you around, wanting gas money?! To top it all off, you live there and she forces you to contribute?! Jesus, what a terrible mother.
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>>17322100
Not the OP. When you decide to have child you take upon yourself obligation to raise and provide for them. If you don't do that you don't deserve the title mother, breeder would be more apropiate. Her mother should be glad she wants to be independent but instead her mother is stupid piece of shit that tries to stop her child from starting her own life. It's not like OP wants to throw money away, OP wants to save and get independent herself.
Do you ever find yourself paralysed by worrying about how other people will react to your actions? How to get over this?
I have observed that generally people who act in a decisive way for their own interests are respected by other people, yet I cannot find it in me to act like this. I feel very passive and unable to stand up for my own interests.
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Bump for interest
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You are weak, and you probably always will be
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Start off small, maybe? Entry-level assertiveness is shit like correcting a waitress who fucks up your order, or repeating yourself to people when they mishear/misunderstand you.
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I just want some advice on whether or not I tell my boyfriend this.
My boyfriend had a masturbation problem since he was 10 and eventually became a porn addict, he would spend entire paychecks on cam models before he met me. He doesn't do it much anymore but he practically killed his dick in the process. I have to really put in effort to get him hard and it has always put me off slightly but I overlooked it because I love him.
He doesn't know, but I feel so bad about myself every-time we have sex because I am nothing compared to the porn/models he looks at, even though I do put in effort, I just can't compete with them or even come close.
The other day he was soft again and I got really down on myself, I felt ugly and projected the whole thing on me. So instead of talking it over with him like I usually do, I got naked on cam for some strangers. I wanted either validation or to be told I am hideous ...but I just needed to know if it was me. Now that I have come to my senses, I am feeling really bad about the whole thing.
Do I confess to him I did this? Or should I just move on from it?
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Ye can't really help you with this, you can play it safe and not tell him, but the guilt can be a pain in the ass.
What we can help you with is validation or attention, so post some nudes.
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>>17322071
>bf gets off to camwhores
>camwhores to strangers instead of bf
Sounds logical.
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He needs to go full cold turkey on sex/porn/fapping for at least a month.
I used to be kinda like him, and this was the only thing that really helped.
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I was doing some mutual masturbation with my wife the other day and told her that I thought it would be hot if she kissed another girl.
For some reason, telling my wife this made me feel really sad. It turned me on, but made me regret saying anything.
Should I feel so bad?
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it astounds me that people desire a one and only to make them happy then decide because they are chasing the ultimate orgasm to share. Do humans fuck and suck, sure, but 99.99 % of the time we're doing other things.
You feel bad because you OP have introduced this and your worry is she will take you up on the suggestion. Enjoy
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>>17322072
Are you 12?
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>>17322077
no dumb ass
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OK so my oneitis just agreed to a third date, but I have to do literally all the texting first and chasing and even tho their seems to be an attraction sometimes, she's very hot and cold, WTF is going on?
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>she's very hot and cold
Like me. Depending on my mood or what I'm doing my texting interactions can vary greatly.
If I'm having a bad day or I'm just really busy I'll be on the cold side.
I also avoid fiddling with my phone when I'm interacting with other people as I find it rude.
My current partner was freaked out when we first started dating as she would think I had lost interest if I was cold for a few days.
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>>17322059
This is only going to end in one way... And not the way you want it too
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>>17322059
She's a girl.
You need to get over having a oneitis. It's pathetic, and holding you back.
She shits, and pisses, and picks her nose when no one is around, and has retarded opinions about common sense things, etc. If she were so great for you, she'd be more interested in you and wouldn't make you chase so much. I promise you are only infatuated with your 'idea' of her - NOT THE REAL HER. Stop having a oneitis.
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Indian man facing alot of racism. What to do? (NY) 2016-07-04 11:28:21 Post No.17322058
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Indian man facing alot of racism. What to do? (NY)
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Went to grocery store. White guy / bald head / tatoos, holds door open with his feet (in a weird way). I get there and go in. Says "Your welcome", gives me the death stare.
Freakin inside store. Pick up an item, italian guy grabs it from my hand (go get another - yes 100% serious). Okay.... I go to another isle and this guy gives me an insanely dirty look.
My crime? dark skin color and I got facial hair right now. I look exactly like the pic I posted. What the fuck do I do? i feel like im gonna get stabbed by these fuckin tatoo people soon.
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Did you say thank you?
After traveling the world a little bit, I've noticed it's mostly just a thing we Americans care about: holding doors open for others and saying thank you when others do it for you. I've noticed a lot of people in foreign countries not hold doors open for me or say thanks when I do it. If someone goes out of their way, or slows down their own day in any way to make your day more convenient, you really should have had the situational awareness to say thanks.
As for the italian guy, Italian americans are dickheads. Way different than regular italians. Maybe you were in his way or something. Can't say without seeing it happen.
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>>17322058
I held the door open for an older woman and a younger woman right behind her. The older woman smiled and thanked me, the younger snarled at me and said she can open the door herself.
White guy with my Indian gf in India and 9 of ten of the guys were giving us both shit. We exited a taxi because the cunt was calling my gf a prostitute because she was with a white guy.
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Go shit in the streets of your own country, pajeet.
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hi /adv/
i am restless and depressed please come talk to me
read my shit poem and distract me until i can fall asleep
thank you, i love you
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here is my shit poem
"Let the love flow endlessly
Let it pass through
But I await impatiently
Time slips by as I stew
Grasp at photons with firm anxiety
That builds up inside of me
Let me release this heavy darkness
It manifests as effortless love
I promise
As long as you engage it with the same care
Stare through the mirror at odd times
Tell myself that I see aspects of you
But the drearier I get
The more they fade
Try to find commonality
In the right places
But where it does show
Only reinforces what I know
What I know discourages
Please realign me
Crooked thoughts bookmarked
Helpful ones frantically forgotten
Creative mind rotten
Infested with the thoughts I dispel
Write another verse to sooth
Might as well"
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>>17322049
That was pretty funny.
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>>17322057
what's the funniest part