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A friend of mine is coming from out of state to visit me, but I'm young and living with my parents in the summer right now. We would want private time alone together so I was thinking about booking out a cheap king-sized bedroom at a Motel 6 for a night. I'd just tell my parents I'm staying the night a friends.

Any general advice for booking a night at a motel?

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What's the best paying job I can get with only a high school diploma?

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Alright, so my cat had diarhea. litteraly
shitting everywhere, and I had to run over him to clean it up and all that

i bought medecine its coming tomorrow, but around 30 minutes ago things got worse.
He got reallyy bad, all dehadryted and he can barely move, water coming out of his ass
and poo. and vet only opens in 6 hours or so.

Please advice asap! :/ I dont want my kiten to die or whatever. please help you guys are the
last hope ;/

PIC NOT RELATED. it's all I could find im rushing halpp

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My GF watch me reading her whatsapps.
what can I say to her?
I trust in her but curiosity was bigger.

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My girlfriend was once confronted by a friend of mine with a dick pic, (before we started dating) and sent him a picture of her butt. I confronted her about it and she said it was because she didn't want to be an asshole. She's told me sorry numerous times but I still feel uncomfortable. What do I do?

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I am considering asking a girl out. I am a 24 year old handholdless, kissless virgin.
Since around the winter of 2013 i have ridden at a stable. There is a girl there that i unfortunately got a crush on. Now we recently built a stable at home so i don't go to the same stable any more and i was thinking that maybe i could try asking this girl out. I know very little about her but i think there's a decent chance we could enjoy each others company.

Now I need y'alls help to make this happen. I added her on facebook and she accepted and i considered starting a conversation there and leading that towards a date. I don't know how to do any of that though.
Do y'all have any advice about how I could ask this girl out?

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How do I get a gf if I look like pic related?

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I need to get my life together.

Right now I'm nearing my mid twenties and I'm basically a NEET. I live in my parent's house and have no college education. I'm trying to set up a reliable source of income from home, but progress is incredibly slow, if it all. I spend way too much time doing meaningless things, but I don't have the discipline to keep myself from doing it.

My goal is becoming self-sufficient and moving out, but my life routine is very poor at this moment. Ideally, I'd like to work about 5 days a week, have 1 day to do creative work, and 1 day to just relax and do whatever.

My average routine is something like this:

>13:00 - Wake up and browse reddit in bed
>13:30 - Masturbate and get out of bed
>13:45 - Turn on PC, shower, make food
>14:30 - Eat food behind my PC while opening work related programs, watch some youtube videos
>15:00 - Look at my to-do list, mess around a bit without making any big progress
>16:30 - Get distracted, play videogame, play piano, watch youtube videos, etc.
>17:30 - Eat dinner behind PC
>18:00 - Check my work for today, mess around some more, usually give up on working at this point
>18:15 - Get distracted by internet
>21:00 - Go to the gym
>22:00 - Get home, more internet
>01:00 - Smoke weed
>01:30 - Get behind my PC with the intention to work, usually end up playing vidya or watching youtube videos or some series
>03:30 - Think "I should be going to bed soon", make some food, eat food in bed while watching stuff on my phone
>05:00 - Start getting ready for bed
>05:30 - In bed, browse internet, watch videos, get distracted
>06:00 - Fap and go to sleep

Repeat

cont. in next post

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>parent ask if I'm depressed
>say no even though I am
>"ok"
What can I do they never seem to really care and accept any answer I give them since I know saying yes will bring a lot of unwanted attention to me from family

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Hey, /adv/.

Basically, I was a hikikomori until about two months ago. I'm turning 21 this month, and am losing my viginity tomorrow.

I've been dating this girl for about a month. I'm a very shy and quiet person, and I have only made it to third base as a teenager.

My question is: How do I do the sex?

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Occasional lurker and first time poster here. I'm an INFJ, and I'm about to start the last year of my Bachelor's Degree in Computer Science at a top 10 university.

I know I don't need to have my life totally figured out now, but I'm struggling to find a career path that really excites me. I want to be part of a project that directly and positively affects the lives of other people. I'm also really driven by seeing the big picture in things and how my work serves some higher purpose. On the other hand, systems development is really interesting to me, even though its impact on the lives of people is indirect.

Honestly, I'm stressing out a lot over this. Every day I find some new field of computer science that sounds right for me, but then after a few days I throw the idea away because it's either a) not directly bettering the lives of others or b) not something low-level.

So, do you guys have any career suggestions for a STEM-oriented INFJ? I'm also very passionate about music, and I'd love to be part of something music related that betters the lives of others, but I'm not sure how many options there are out there for that in software development.

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How do I stop being so sensitive?
Whenever someone is mean to me tears well up in my eyes and I think extreme thoughts.

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How do I improve trust in a relationship?

Recently trust has broken down immensely with my gf, even though she's given me no discernible reasons to not trust her. In the last few months I've been getting paranoid as hell, even though she's more committed to the relationship than I, plus she loves me more than I love her (which is astounding in itself).

I think I've been reading too much red pill shit and it's getting to me over time, wearing me down so to speak.

My behaviour hasn't changed, my girlfriend is blissfully unaware, but it's suddenly getting me. It seems like I've gone from a secure guy to an insecure weirdo internally in a matter of weeks.

Advice on how to trust, or how to get out of an insecure negative rut, please.

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I've been a commited relationship for around a year. The girl in question is fiercely loyal, hardworking. I have absolutely no doubt that she loves me dearly, and I love her too.

This question goes out to any females, or males who can relate to my question. My girlfriend is very insecure. When I say this I don't mean she doubts my loyalness. What I mean is that she is quick to anger or exaggerate the tiniest of things, and requires as much of my attention as possible. E.g. the other day I had to cancel evening plans with her (with warning in advance) due to a family issue that required all of my attention. I assured her that I would make it up for her, and that my next few days would be dedicated for her, however she flew off the handle, calling me all names under the sun - telling me to piss off, uncaring, unaffectionate, going absolutely balls deep in the attacking to the point of questioning the relationship: "whats the point", "I feel like we're two different people!" is a frequent one I hear. Sometimes the insults get personal, and oh boy does it fucking hurt. I do my best not to retalliate, often going outside or leaving the conversation in order to prevent it, which tends to just anger her further. More often than not, she will come around the next day and apologise after realising what a tool she has been, and usually find some way of spoiling me.

Needless to say her anxiety lately has been getting worse and worse and to be absolutely honest, it makes me feel like total shit. In her defense, before I asked her out to make our relationship an official thing, she confided in me that this is what its like, she has an anxiety disorder in which she has had counselling, medication and all sorts thrown at her. I've tried sitting down and telling her this but we end up fighting. If I leave I'm worried that it will absolutely destroy her, she is not a confident person and is in the depths of her anxiety. Is this a sinking ship or can something be salvaged?

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My boyfriend is suicidal. At first I thought he was trying to break up with me when he started to tell me that I should see other people and a lot of other scary things. Today we had a long conversation and I realized it was because he is planning to kill himself. I have no idea what to say or do, I can only cry my eyes out.