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Is it legal to take my roommate's cat to the vet and get it fixed without his consent? He's been taking real shitty care of his cat and I'm tired of waiting around. He's done absolutely nothing about the situation and I'm sick of dealing with his cat yelping every minute of the day because it's in heat.
If it's not legal, what can I do? I live in Canada btw.
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>>17320109
Drop it off at an animal shelter. Then run around furiously looking for it to throw him off your trail.
Works like a charm.
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>>17320109
Ask /an/ they will know
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>>17320109
move out. sounds like a shit place to live.
>bla bla bla reasons i need to stay
Dude you wanna steal spay a cat. move out.
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What's the worst thing you can do with someone's email?
my gf was almost raped by one of our mutual friends last year, I was able to get at the right moment and punched him several times knocking him out.
She didn't want to go to the police so we left it there.
he is now outside the country and I want to know how I can avenge my gf. she says to leave it alone but I just fucking can't.
the only thing I have is his email but otherwise, I don't know where he lives now and I want to humiliate him.
how can I deal with this?
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>She didn't want to go to the police so we left it there.
You both are fucking retarded.
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>>17320106
It sounds to me like you caught them both participating in a consensual act. You've got all the justice you're getting out of this one, short of her going to the police.
Believe when one says they are raped and goes to the police, never believe anyone who says they are raped but refuses to do anything about it. Kill the stigma by holding everyone accountable, both victim and perpetrator.
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>>17320106
She just want you to treat her like a princess.
Bitches.
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'm ready to kill myself. I've been stuck in a minwage job for 5 years now.
How does anyone fucking get out of these jobs? I can't fucking find anything that isn't minimum wage.
If I don't find anything by the time the year is up I will hang myself. I have no future, I can't possibly make any savings earning less than 1k a month, I will never be able to afford a house or a car, I can't meet women because I can't go anywhere and my life has no pleasure what so ever. I can't do anything but work and sit around in my house in my free time because I have no spare money. I live in a shitty council house surrounded by chavs.
What the fuck do I do? How do I escape this hell? Please tell me
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>>17320103
Go get a degree. If you want out of that situation, man up and get out, not by shifting your pants while you dangle on a rope either.
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Join the army
learn a skill, travel the world, kill a sand colored people from an exotic land
Profit
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>>17320103
get a second job or get educated on the side.
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So I've been on probation for 5 years and they left me alone; I had every perk/privilege you could get.
Well for a year I got a SUPER big cunt who make me look like a total pick. It got so bad, the powers at be switched me to a new probation officer.
Anyways, I had her for a month and then she violated me. I got a month in jail and then reinstated. Once I got out, I got all my perks/privileges taken away and she's totally by the book, Robocop. She won't help me out with vouchers to go to weekly therapy.
My question is do I just keep my mouth shut and fall in line?
Or do I try to do the bare minimum and pray I get a new team sooner or later?
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>>17320088
Don't bare minimum anything, that's probably why she yanked your leash in some.
Do extra stuff and earn her trust. It's totally worth it. Feed her a line or two about school, ask her if you can go check out a college or whatever. Email her frequently and be cordial, asking her about various -whatever- programs.
Do this for a month or two then start asking for more freedom.
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>>17320099
Thanks. mang.
It's just hard to have the world and then lose it all. Plus we got to a seriously, bad footing so I have to recover from that.
My trust her for really in the negative big time and it may take a year or two to get back to wear I was.
Well I have no one to blame but myself.
Time to rebuild Rome brick by brick and not let it get sacked in one day this time due to my my stupidity.
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>>17320126
No problem. Mine was the same way, then I fed into her philosophy and it changed everything. I went from not smoking weed and pissing into a cup every week, to smoking weed and her lying about piss testing me.
Machiavelli that bitch!
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How to aquire self confidence? 2016-07-03 20:04:23 Post No.17320075
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How to aquire self confidence?
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My last chance of becoming somewhat normal is to finally gain some confidence in myself, but how do I do that? I've basically devoted my life to becoming good at an instrument now, I practice for a minimum of 5 hours every single day. Obviously, progress is happening and I should start playing with other people immediately. But I keep telling myself that I'm not good enough, that I'll just drag them down or that they'd laugh at me.
Logical arguments simply don't work, I KNOW that that's bullshit or just an excuse, but it doesn't help with the anxiety and panic when I'm confronted with a situation like that. How do I gain that first speck of confidence and that feeling of self worth and how do I go from there?
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You just gotta will yourself into it. Your confidence will build over time. It'll be brutal at first, but it will get better pretty quick as you begin to get comfortable in your surroundings.
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>How do I gain that first speck of confidence and that feeling of self worth and how do I go from there?
Go out and absolutely fail at a social interaction. Then wake up the next morning and realize that your life hasn't ended.
Repeat till confident.
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>>17320075
do lots of shit that makes you uncomfortable.
Chatting with strangers, going to new places, trying new things.
Confidence comes from experience.
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what is this??
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Idk, the bags? Or what?
Looks like the inside of what may be a trash compactor? Shrug
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>>17320058
sniff it and let us know.
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Drugs, obviously. Probably cocaine
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Ask a guy who has had sex with a different girl every night for a week anything.
I used to be like you; confused, angry, bitter. I didn't know how to talk to women and I hated myself (and women) for it. I finally decided to take my life into my own hands and change the way I perceived the world and now I'm here to share what I've learned with you.
Ask away.
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>>17320056
Give us your backstory, how you grew up, yadda yadda
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>>17320056
>Ask a guy who has had sex with a different girl every night for a week anything.
How many STDs have you contracted?
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>>17320056
This shit thread again?
>gf is bored
>asks what I want to do
>I have plenty of ideas
>she says no to every single one
>ask her what she wants to do
>"I don't know..."
Should I stop suggesting and just start doing, with or without her? It's seriously frustrating.
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>>17320040
She isn't bored, she is just trying to drive you fucking mental.
Yes, go do stuff without her if she doesn't want to join. You're her boyfriend, not a fucking television.
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Just start having fun without her. She'll want to join in if she isn't completely worthless. If she's still just a lazy vagina after seeing how much you enjoy life then scrap her.
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Don't ask her what she wants to do. Tell her what you're going to do and invite her along.
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I saw a prostitute through an agency in Niagara Falls back in April. I wore a condom but her vaginal secretions entered my mouth at one point
in april i had a sinus infection that hospitalized me for 3 days
since 6-28ish I've had an ear/throat infection.
do i have HIV?
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Yep.
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yeah and cancer.
but seriously get tested m8.
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>do I have HIV
get tested you heeb
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How does one meet new people?
I used to have a pretty good chunk or friends, but now they've all either moved away or got married and don't have time for me. My job is just working in an office mostly alone. This long weekend made me realize that I just spend all my time free time alone in my room.
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meetup.com
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But doesn't that just hook you up with more depressed weirdos? I'd like some normal faggotry in my life if at all possible.
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join a club. Tennis, climbing, magic, book club, photography.
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How to accept that you can't make a person love you?
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By moving on.
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How the fuck do you do that? Not OP, but I'm in the same boat.
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>>17320024
You can make a man love you by looking better and talking to him while being as non-bitchy as possible.
You can make a woman love you by attaining higher social status and talking to her at all.
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How not to be "the nice guy" 2016-07-03 19:31:58 Post No.17320016
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So I'm in a weekend relationship for two months now (first realtionship) and I really love my gf. I'm what you would call a "nice guy", so I listen to her, ask how her day was, help her organizing stuff (she's a bit chaotic) and so on. Her parents like me and I'm always sure to show her my love.
I don't overdo it tho, if I don't like something I say it, I like rough sex and don't forget about my friends.
Still, she seems to miss the dominance of her ex, although both of them were assholes as she describes them. She's the dominant kind of woman and she wants a dominant man beside her, I understand that. I'm physically strong and fit, but very calm, so I don't see her having a whiny or weak partner.
So far I haven't had the chance to "protect" her or something like that.
I guess she wants to be teased once in a while.
But in a weekend relationship I hardly can tease her in any way. Sex denial would pretty much backfire into no sex and frustration for both sides over several weeks. Her ex did that to keep their sex life interesting, but they lived next to each other.
While she is confident and dominant as a woman, I know she has been hurt (mentally) in her past by her father (divorce) and her ex (not caring about her, leaving her for another). So I'm really careful in what I say and do (being "fat" is an issue of hers). She can mock me for being just as tall as her or for being out of form, but I don't have anything like that.
On top of that, I have no experience about relationships or sex at all.
Do you have any advice for me? I know she likes my calmness, my looks, my respect for her. At the same time, she wants to be challenged.
I honestly don't know what to to. I don't know how to tease her. I'd never ignore her for the sake of being unavailable. I only see her at the weekend.
Some would say I shouldn't bend myself for her, and if it gets too bad, I'll quit. But I'd like to hear your ideas please.
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>>17320016
Women want to be dominated by a man. She is cheating on you, because she views you as a beta that can be walked all over.
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>>17320016
>So I'm in a weekend relationship for two months
that is not a relationship you have been dating some girl for a few months
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>>17320050
Yeah, I know man. So what can I do about it when I rarely get the chance to be dominant. Can't be dominant when all we do is fuck and walk the dog.
How do I choose a birth control method?
I'm a female and I'm going to start having sex within the next few years, but I have no idea what birth control method to use.
>spermicide
>calendar method
>sponge
>withdrawal
>condoms
>diaphragm
Too much of a risk of failure and user error.
>ring
>patch
>pills
Still not as effective as I'd like, there's still great chance for user error, and now you have to deal with the risk of hormones affecting you negatively.
>Depo shot
Hormone concern x100. I've read this method is the absolute worst when it comes to hormonal side-effects.
>Copper IUD
I already have very heavy, long, and painful periods, and this will most likely make them worse. There's also the risk of dislodgment and perforation, which is greater in women who haven't had children yet.
>hormonal IUD
The same as above, except trade the worse periods for hormonal side-effects.
>sterilization
Not meant to be reversible, and I'd like the choice to have children later.
>arm implant
This is what I'm leaning most towards, but I'm still very scared of the hormonal side-effects. I don't want to lose my sex-drive or have worse depression.
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Just use pills and use your alarm to take it at the same time each day.
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I have the same problem
I can't take estrogen because of genetic blood clot risks, and progesterone makes me suicidal
I also have very heavy periods and my mom had a very bad experience with the copper IUD, so I'm not exactly thrilled about that one either
for now I'm using condoms but yeah female birth control is shit if you can't tolerate hormones
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Under 25 year old woman, never been pregnant, on the copper IUD here.
I would recommend that you try some hormonal birth control methods before getting an arm implant or anything of that nature. I was on the pill and the NuvaRing for years before I went down the copper IUD route. I took the pill/ring exactly according to the directions and never had any pregnancy scares. However, hormonal side effects were very bad for me, I became very depressed.
I know a lot of women who have tried a lot of different pills until they found one that suited them and now they are very happy. If I was in your shoes, I would do this as it would help me to understand what dosages suit/how certain hormones effect me.
I have been on the copper IUD for a year now and have no complaints, but I would not recommend it if you have not tried the pill, patch or ring first.
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>old friend from college
>her husband recently divorced her, supposedly because she was sleeping around on him
>I've been riding her like a roller-coaster with no line for the past month or so
>she's down for almost anything, she's rich and idle
I realize that she's not wife or gf material, but how long is it really possible to continue a fuck buddies situation like this for?
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Literally forever if you play your cards right and firmly establish yourself as some quality outside dick. I say outside because you probably stand a better chance of prolonging this by keeping her at arm's length/making her want you more. Don't try to fill in the spot of her husband.
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>>17320001
You don't think she'll ever get settled with someone else or demand more?
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>>17320014
why should you even care. Emotionally detach from her right now or you are fucked. If she jumps to some other dick so what, if she wants more tell her thanks but no thanks.
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Can't keep a social relationship for the long-run 2016-07-03 18:49:09 Post No.17319955
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I'm great with people, I'm socially aware and perhaps have some charisma.
When I'm with a group of people I act like on a stage, I can steal the show - show exactly enough of myself to keep people interested but not tired of me, run into and keep the limelight.
Make them laugh, make everyone laugh, keep a high-profile image of myself.
But then comes the moment when the social gathering is over and everyone goes home, everyone keeps talking with each other and I practically disappear. They don't hear from me, they assume I have a life.
I do my best to screen an image of a great social persona but I just can't keep a single friend.
Put me in a room with somebody for an hour, I will entertain him and make a friend. That hour is over, that connection dies.
At places I am literally popular, at home I'm an abandoned and forgotten stray cat.
The game of establishing a strong image for myself brings me to the point where I become a detached friend who never messages, never keeps a friend. This extreme social awareness and fear of ruining an image makes me unable to evem send a whatsapp message.
What can an anon do to overcome this?
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so you just don't keep in contact with people, and you wonder why they don't keep in contact with you?
what image could you possibly have to maintain that prevents you from sending a message? because the only image you're presenting is that of someone who's too stuck up to message anybody.
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>>17319955
Why would they want to hang out with anyone who acts like their on a stage and "stealing the show."? Stop pretending social gatherings are your place to outshine everyone else.
Nobody wants to be friends with someone who just grabs all the attention then bails. You should cut all that shit out fast.
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>>17319955
It's because you THINK you're stealing the show. In reality all you're doing is providing a temporary distraction and failing to make an actual connection with people.