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So /adv/ I have been high for about 2 weeks straight.
I bought a THC vape thing and have just been going at it. My life is boring, I'm a college student on break, can't find a job but have actively tried to, I just ain't having it.
Being high is a lot more enjoyable than being sober. No contest.
However, I haven't smoked for about 2 days tho
>tired as fuck, slept 17 hours today
>no appetite
>do stupid shit like put car keys in pocket, immediately start to look for car keys
>no desire to leave bed
>have no desire to keep doing the hobbies I used to do daily
How long do these things continue for? I take Anxiety meds, is it possible the THC doesn't mix well with the meds?
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It's just an effect of smoking, the major side effects wear off after a couple weeks; but the short-term memory loss and lack of desire to do anything persists for longer. I haven't been able to stop smoking for longer than a month so I can't say much more than that from my experience.
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>>17321578
Well shit, then this isn't worth it. I made music and learned languages for fun but now I don't even have a desire to get out of bed.
Fuck this bullshit, might as well switch to shrooms or something. I haven't tried anything else, any recommendations?
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>>17321582
shrooms are fine every once in a while; I wouldn't treat them like weed. If you're using shrooms for the first time, find a friend who has used them before to watch you and see how you are. You could potentially get in some fucked up situations otherwise. Chances are your dealer knows where to get some, they aren't terribly hard to find.
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i appear to have made a mistake, and my question is whether or not i should attempt to resolve said mistake. here's the current dialogue:
op: heyyy
friend: hey james!
op: what's going on nicoleeee
friend: just finishing up at work, you?
friend: i haven't talked to you in ages!!
op: enjoying the long weekend off. let's do something next week.
my message has been read, and a day has passed without reply. should i just let it go, or attempt to continue?
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Let it go.
If she had any remote desire to hang with you, it would be gone if you keep pursuing her to annoyance. Just keep moving forward.
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>>17321551
sounds good. thanks
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Ignore
Move on
Avoid spaghetti
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What kind of pet should I get
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My roommate and I want to get a pet but we don't know what kind. Any suggestions ?
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Crocodile
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Kitty cat
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First you guys should decide how much maintenance and care your willing to put into a pet.
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Around two years ago I dated this girl for about three months. It was a shit show. I was going through depression and stress from questioning my vocational and educational choices and wasn't really there for her at all. She liked me a lot, deep down I liked her, but it just didn't work. She ended things one night by saying I was horrible (true) and to never speak to her again.
I followed what she said and slowly forgot about her. Three weeks ago I was walking downtown with some friends and I saw her across the street. Even though it was a busy night, we definitely both saw each other and stared at each other for a few seconds before we went back to whatever we were doing at the time.
Last evening I sent her a text congratulating her; a painting of hers was in a local fancy gallery. She immediately responded half a second later with a very curt thank you and letting me know this wasn't the first time. We made small talk about her art and the conversation grew a lot warmer. Not once did she make it known communicating wasn't a good idea. I let her know her favorite band was on shuffle that afternoon and it made me think of her. She said it was very sweet.
Basically, I asked her if we could start talking again because I miss her. She asked why I was contacting her again (e.g. if I was horny and was trying to booty call) and asked for an explanation why I was so shitty back in 2014. I told her that it wasn't an excuse for my actions, jsut that I was having trouble and shouldn't have let it mistreat her like that.
Last thing she said last night was "I'll let you know" re: us talking again.
I'm a very assertive and headstrong person, waiting around for something isn't my strong suit but I would like her and I to be friends again. Do I just completely wait and not open communication again or in a week or so ask her to join me for a casual lunch?
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Let a week pass and ask her for lunch. I she gives you a wishy-washy answer, then wait another week and ask her out again.
If she does the same thing, then forget about it.
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Give her some time, it seems like she is still carrying some resentment. With that said I think it's totally appropriate and reasonable to message her in a week for lunch if she hasn't sentry you a text in the interim
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I can't connect with anyone. I once had a gf and we were really close and she was the only person to whom I've ever felt this way. I have a lot of friends who are always talking to me and inviting me to play something or whatever but I just don't feel a part of anything.
However, there is this one girl I really like and I feel really at home with her, but she certainly doesn't feel the same way about me. So, basically, the only one I feel the urge to get close to is the one who actually doesn't give a fuck. Anyone with similar experiences to share some wisdom? thanks in advance
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don't feel like I'm a part of anything*
I don't really know if people say it but I think my point is clear enough so whatever
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shameless self bump
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>>17321493
I also have trouble connecting with people. No specific wisdom to share, but at least you're not alone.
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i'm sick but people think i'm on drugs
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i have some shitty autoimmune illness that makes me unreliable af. for a while i was having neuro symptoms but they subsided. before i moved, people thought i was fucking up my life on purpose because crazy/druggie/idiot. now they just think i'm a lazy asshole.
how do i "prove" my claim that none of the above?
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Have you explained this to them?
I can relate, my immune system spent my early 20's trying to kill me, due to all the illness and turning people down without explanations i lost all my friends.
Now im on an immunosuppressant i get colds and flus all the time and still have to cancel on people but i take the time to explain it to people.
Anyobe who doesnt give you a pass after you explain your issues isnt worth your time.
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>>17321498
i do, and it's all of them anon.
i agree that none of them are worth my time, but i have to live in this world after all.
for years and years didn't have a dx at that and couldn't even give a rebuttal. that was no fun.
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>>17321505
I don't know what you can do other than know you're right and try to ignore them.
If you can get black and white proof of your diagnosis maybe it might help
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I've recently begun realizing that the root of my unfulfilling life is my anger and lustful habits. My girlfriend found out that I'm trying to tone down our sexy times to a tame 0, and she suddenly threw herself a pity party and attempted everything she could to make me feel guilty or to mock me. "Lust is a part of who I am!" "I'm not good enough for you." "I guess I'm OK with backing up to a 12 year old's relationship."
Please /adv/, how can I convince her that a decent relationship lies elsewhere? Theres no happiness for us here, temporary pleasure has proven not to last in this relationship, and she just refuses to see it. I honestly don't know what to do, I never expected this to happen.
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What? I'm not exactly sure what you're asking. If it's how to break up with your girlfriend, you just have to say it and end it. There's no easy way.
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>>17321487
I want to fix this relationship, not end it; how can I convince her that sex isn't helping it?
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>>17321489
That's not something that you can do. If you don't want sex and she does, you're incompatible in one if the main areas of a relationship (the physical/sexual).
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Help quitting weed? I smoke daily and experience uncomfortable withdrawal symptoms when I go more than a few days without getting high. It's been five years of this and I'm starting to realize how much I've missed because of it.
I've tried to quit a few times before , best I did was two weeks. Any /adv/ice?
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Just go cold turkey pretty much how I did it. You went two weeks that's an accomplishment after 5 years the next time will be easier you might give in that's okay just try again. The thing about a habit like that is it might take while to break it's part of youthe daily routine. At least you know there's no crazy withdrawals like with the harder stuff
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I quit 60 plus days. Went rite back to smokoln all day everyday. I like bud buy it just seems a waste
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>Help quitting weed
lol
there are no withdrawal symptoms u stupid kid
just stop u pussy, people have to quit heroin, cigarettes, alcohol and your struggling to quit weed.
Pathetic
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>Be a girl and make an OKC account
>300 likes and 400 visitors in the first 2 days
>getting like 30 messages a day
>3rd day now
>like 3 visitors a day
>barely 2 messages a day
wtf happened? I know it's 4th of July weekend, but how come all the activity stopped? Did I get fucking blacklisted or something? I made no changes to my account.
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It must be the mechanism behind how accounts are promoted in their algorithms. Maybe new accounts are promoted more frequently than less active ones. I don't know but that seems like a likely solution. After a grace period of putting you on top of people's list maybe you're brought down a peg or two for other new users.
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>guys check local girls daily
>suddenly, a new face
>everyone clicks on it
>not interested
>never visit again
Local OKC isn't exactly that big usually. It's easy to see a new face and figure out if they're worth your time.
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all the daily users came and went, now you have stragglers and other new people
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I'm feeling like shit recently and suicide keeps popping up in my head but I'm not really going to attempt it.
I know it doesn't solve any problems and just creates more...plus... I don't deserve a dramatic death like that lol I'll probably just die in some dark corner when I grow old.
I'm just curious so please share your thoughts :)
What is the least painful way to commit suicide?
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Growing old
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>>17321413
well I guess growing old and then dying might not hurt but it isn't really considered to be suicide lol
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>>17321421
You could have dedicated your life to finding immortality and then achieved it
If you still have four limbs your life is still redeemable
How do I bring up wanting to have a baby in the next two years with my fiancée without sounding weird/demanding/fucking horrifying to my fiancée?
Parents, how did you handle this conversation?
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Have you two had this discussion in the past?
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>>17321406
"hey anon, you wanna have a kid"
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Ask them to woohoo
Anyone dealt with a family member that is a drug addict? I could use some help here.
I'm 30. My mom is 66. She has been addicted to prescription drugs (Xanax, Valium, and Painkillers) for almost 15 years now. It really damaged my family. My parents divorced because of it.
My mom now lives alone, abuses pills, and lives in a complete mess. It's horrible going to see her, high and delusional and living in a mess.
Every member of my family tried for years to help her and get her into treatment, but she refuses no matter what, despite person after person intervening to help for 10+ years now.
So today my sister calls me and says she visited our mom and she was vomiting and shitting herself, there were dishes all over the place, trash. She looked very thin. She claims to have a health condition, but the doctors say otherwise and she has been pulling this "I'm sick" act for 10 years now.
So my brother and I basically scheduled a last minute intervention tonight and put everything out there, saying we are scared for her health and that she needed to go to rehab, etc.... I told her if she doesn't agree to go in the morning and let me drive her there then I don't want to have a relationship with her anymore.
Was this the right choice?
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My family recently had to cut my brother out of our lives and my parents and i all moved to different towns so he cant find us.
He's a meth addict and hes scary and violent and we cant handle the fear of being around him any more
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The only thing that bothers me is getting that phone call one day.
And there is nothing I can do about it.
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>>17321391
Anon, your efforts might work, or they might not, because ultimately she has to want to change. It's not fair and it's sad, but it's what it is. You can't force someone to become better.
The thing that got my grandfather to stop drinking was his doctor telling him he wasn't going to live to see his youngest sons wedding. Addicts need to be reminded how they are destroying themselves by actual doctors.
With that said rehab is potentially a good option, especially if she's never done it before.
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This really attractive girl started following me on twitter. Shes friends with my little brother but i've never met. From what I gather shes kinda rich and doesn't have that many friends and is kinda tumblr-emo but very attractive. shes 18 and im 24.
Than the next day she added me on snapchat. I accepted and snapped back and forth with her a couple times just stupid shit. A friend of hers and her sister also added me.
All of these girls are 18/19 and seem very juvenile but extremely attractive, way better than anything I could get my age. Aside from this she seems very well mannered reading her stuff on social media.
I need to proceed with caution here, these girls are friends with my younger brother and I dont want this to cause anything. I don't really know how to approach this and really don't want to fuck this up. I have had alot of fuckups in the past.
I don't really know anything about this girl other than vaguely what i've seen on social media but shes added me on 2 different things within the past 2 days and i've never even met her. Theoretically I could get her to come over and smoke at some point.
What am I doing here? Can someone give me some advice?
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>>17321386
>social media
take a bath with a toaster oven
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>>17321389
Autism lives.
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>>17321435
I have a naked wolf girl on my wall and still have gotten laid
Reassess your life
I was on kik recently and me and this girl got into it and to make it short I sent 2 nude pics with my face in it and she is threatening to share them. I was using a fake account which doesn't show my real name nor did I say my name to her. Do I have anything to worry about?
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>>17321369
Unless you're a Hollywood superstar then no
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Okay, I'm just getting all freaked out about it.
Thanks
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>>17321377
Just think to yourself how many lives have been ruined by dick pics
The answer is zero
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Help from any married faggots out there
>me getting married to a woman I've known sence middle school. We have been best friends since.
We are both 20 and have been dating for 2 almost 3 years.
I love her but when we fight she can be a bitch and I think to my self how do I deal with the shit for the rest of my life.
> what is marriage like for you guys dose it suck or dose it get better
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DO NOT GET MARRIED AT 20! I'll be honest, you sound like kind of an asshole, but even without that getting married that young is a disaster waiting to happen.
You've known each other since middle school? Yeah, I bet the relationship is still at the mid-school level, too. Break up, start seeing other people. Move out of your shitty, tiny home town and go live life. If you guys are still in love (or whatever) you can get married then. DO NOT get married now, and you better sure as shit not have kids. For love of humanity, DO NOT GET MARRIED AND HAVE KIDS IN YOUR VERY EARLY 20'S!
Good luck.
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>>17321380
Holy fuck that was blunt. But I was hopping for blunt. I may sound like an ass hole and I may be one but I want to know what would make it a disaster?
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>>17321366
Dude don't get married. If you want to be together, then just be together! In fact, I hope you guys stay together for life, but you don't need legal binding for that. You can always get married at any point later in life if it becomes convenient.