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advise her to seek therapy

>>17318294
>getting teen pregnant
Hahahahahaha

You say she's going through puberty? I reckon it's just a phase she's going through and she'll grow out of it. I mean, most people do stupid shit when they're going through all those changes

Let the dark side proliferate inside you.

No, seriously. Trust anybody and wait for someone you thought would never fail you, dissapoint you.

>>17318296
It has happened already, but apparently I'm still a softie

>start browsing heated threads
>get heartbroken
>smoke and drink long enough to get addicted to both, then quit simultaneously
>spend more time here
Guaranteed you will become a fucking asshole

Source: worked for me

>>17318274
I'm working as a programmer-analyst. I've already have a cs degree and i'm 3/4 done with my software engineering degree. what do you want to know?

>>17318413
What is more valuable in your opinion a CS degree or software engineering?

What is the difference between the two?

How long after you graduated did you find your first job?

Do you mostly do debugging or do you get to develop software for customers?

Is grad school worth it?

>>17318495
> What is more valuable in your opinion a CS degree or software engineering?
Both are valuable. IMHO both excellent programmers and excellent software engineers are required to have good softwares.

Both jobs will get you a good living, but in the long run, engineering will most likely get you a better salary.

Sometimes, the line is fuzzy between developers and engineers. (Especially in small compagnies), developers can work on software architecture, or sometimes engineers are essentially programmers. But let's say the world is black and white and the roles are well defined.

> What is the difference between the two?
On paper, the difference is: CS degree is for programming (learning to write excellent, efficient code) and software engineering is about architecture, project management, best practices. (Note: a good software architect should also be a good programmer.)

If you want to be a programmer; i.e. write code, algorithms, language-specifics, etc, then cs degree is excellent. If you want to design software, manage projects and teams, solve engineering problems with multidisciplinary teams, then software engineering is the way to go.

A CS degree is mainly about algorithms, programming languages, code efficiency, etc.

Software engineering should include some of these, depending on your concentration: business, project management, law, multidisciplinary projects, accounting&finances, etc.


I'd add this: even if I like writing code now, I don't think I'll want to do that all my life. Sofware eng for me is also a way of getting management positions in the long run.


I hope this was clear enough. Part 2 coming.

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op: ayyy
friend: hey james!
op: whats going on nicoleee
friend: finishing at work what about you
friend: haven't talked to you in ages!
op: enjoying the long weekend off. lets do something next week.

this dialogue began 2 days ago, with pauses in responses in between each message. am i doomed?

Yeah, prolly doomed, only because you rushed it. Maybe this bold move will pay off hard, but high risk means that there's a low chance of success. Next time, catch up a little, find a common ground, and then be like "Oh cool, I do x activity too!".

The way you used it, fb isn't the worst idea. Obv. face to face is best, but this is better than stalking her front door.

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>>17318339
i don't know what i was thinking. you're fuckin right i rushed it. i'm a faggot?

its worse

>>17318270
To be fair, unless there are bugs the size of horses flying around, and everyone is just constantly shooting at each other, I'm not sure it can be worse.

>>17318255
ive been here 28 years and never had a problem

What do you work as?

>>17318271
Programmer

Sometimes you just have to tell your boss you can only give a week. Make sure to leave them on a good note if you're set on leaving.

Whatever you do, don't leave the day before you take on a bunch of work and tell your boss you can only give a week's notice if it comes to that.

Well, first off. You SHOULD tell your friend that he was betrayed by your other friend. And you should also stop talking to that shit friend too. If he fucked over a friend, he will do the same to you, what a piece of shit.

Anyways, your innocent friend should take the ticket to court. It will get dropped if the story is as you said. Because the police would to have verified ID before writing out a ticket, which.. That sounds strange to me why they wouldn't have done that in the first place..

>>17318262
I've known him for years and yea he is a fucking idiot but i know he can be a good guy. I thought it was weird that they just took his word after giving the cops my other friends info. He must have got it all right one the first time saying it otherwise it definitely would have been suspicious, also considering this isnt even a traffic ticket its a ticket for marijuana. And i really want to tell him but i dont want to throw my friend under the bus. Is there any way i could get a lawyer to tell him or get the courts to send him a reminder or something in the mail telling him theres a warrant because im assuming there must be since no one showed up at the court date on the ticket. Is there any way i could anonymously tell him without it being crazy uncalled for like a random email or something saying hey you have a warrant lol

>>17318310
>i know he can be a good guy

You're a fucking idiot. You're defending your asshole "friend" for literally throwing a innocent person into potentional legal trouble?! Get your fucking head straight. True friends don't fuck over other friends. God damn.

Then you mention that he might have a warrant for his arrest and you act like its a joke. If you give a shit, you should tell your friend he got thrown under the bus and tell him to contact the court and see what he should do, if he even needs to do anything.

you could transfer to a school closer to home so you can go home on weekends

>>17318234
OP here, I'm kinda stuck where I'm at for reasons, Id explain but I feel like that would be too much. I am just dreading leaving home again, and wondering if this will ever get better.

>>17318227
Make new friends there. I have been kiving abroad for 2 years, you have to make a new/second home where you will live.

>>17318223
I don't think it's normal.

Sounds like the alcohol and dehydration caused by it are creating some chemical imbalance in your head.

That happened to me, but I'm always depressed when I'm sober, so there's that.

>>17318223
>Is it normal to feel depressed the day after drinking?
Yes.

It's part of the hangover/withdrawal.

It's totally normal.

I'm an alcoholic. I'm drunk as fuck now. I know tomorrow I will feel shame and guilt even though I've done nothing but sit here and jack off.

It's just part of the hangover. Acetaldehyde makes you feel anxious.

You learn to get over it.

Literally not worth your time man.

Just block her and be done with it. It will make her salty as fuck.

>>17318218
This website is for adults. Come back when you're 18.

And don't post people's pictures on 4chan without their permission.

Hahaha what's wrong with u writing like a bitchmade pussy

you turn 18 and then join the military

>>17318231
I'm turning 20 soon.

>>17318216
You don't have to actually show your SS card to get a job - you just have to know your number. So go get a job.
If you really want a card, call the SS Department and say you lost your SS card. If you know your number and offer any other ID, they'll give you a new one.

what about medicine? Maybe you could become an RN or paramedic.

I never understood why people get degrees in things they have no interest in

>>17318208

>I'm young enough that I can still learn new things easily, and currently pay no rent, so I'm not chained to my job.
>I have a degree.
>I am employed.
>I am cognizant of my mental health and am taking steps to stabilize and improve it.

Man, you're doing fine.
There are a ton of jobs that are closed to everyone that does not have a degree, but open to anyone with any degree (and there are tons of people without a degree, who wish they had one). Grab one of those jobs and you can ditch the minimum wage one.
Figure out what things you are naturally good at. Be abstract.

Organization? Attention to detail? Interpersonal communication?

Once you know your natural skills, check out some career direction websites and see what careers they recommend. If any of them grab you, download a textbook on the subject and read it cover to cover.

I graduated with an English degree (no money in that, but it's a degree, and that's what matters sometimes). I worked as a teacher while figuring out what I was really good at and wanted to do, then got a certificate degree in that, and now work on the development side of IT.

It's true that there are people who went into uni knowing exactly what they wanted to do, and now they're miles ahead of everybody else. Hey, good for them. But there are also people who are ten or twenty years older than you who would kill to be as young as you are and to have so much opportunity. You didn't know exactly what you wanted to do right out the gate, but you don't need to feel down about that; not at all. Your situation is seriously fine.

You might be stressed or suffering from depression

hows your diet and exercise?

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Your body just went 8 hours without food or water. And you most likely breathed with your mouth open, adding to dehydration.

Just wake up, drink 1-2 glasses of water, and make some eggs. You must be American with your knowledge of Fitness

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Oh, I forgot my question.

Did I get it infected? Do I lance this motherfucker and ooze the bloody goop out?

Wat do?

septicemia, go to the hospital

>>17318160
Lolno. This has happened before

>>17318116
Protip: use Google and just type how to remove netbar

Malwarebytes scan.

>>17318131
i did it wasnt very helpful