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Awesome thanks guys, I was leaning towards black, also it will hide how much I sweat better than white. Here's a link to it since you helped me out:

http://www.redbubble.com/people/4wex/works/18648503-2goth2die-unlimited-forever?p=t-shirt&ref=artist_shop_grid

Are you living in the dorms? Everyone will be in a similar situation and will be open to meeting new people just allow yourself to be in social situations and put yourself out there. Get involved on campus too I was on my colleges mock trial team all four years and met great friends through that and really improved my ability to speak in public. I'd say I used to be a lot like you in high school but really opened up a lot in college, if I could do it you definitely can

>>17321342
No friends as in close people who would come to your funeral or as in absolutely no contact to everyone even online?

I'd qualify for the first for sure.

>>17321542
>just allow yourself to be in social situations and put yourself out there
Basically this. I did pretty much the opposite when I went to college. Don't be me.

>>17321542
i made no friends even in the dorms

ye, it oke anone

help


still holding out for some responses

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infrared?

>>17321271
>She's with someone right now too th
I meant she's dating someone. Read it and it sounded weird.

>>17321271
time to give your man the hard word: tell him he is spending too much time with her and not enough with you. it sounds like she is manipulating all your time together. so you see less and less of each other friend or not.

>>17321283
My bf and I see each other like 5-6 times a week. He sees her significantly less, but like throws a social media party of pictures whenever he sees her.

He almost never posts me on social media. I'm not even mad at her. It honestly makes me feel like he's not proud of being with me.

>>17321230
You said you never reacted when he started doing this, then you say you've already tried diplomacy and telling him to fuck off. Care to elaborate ?

Revel in it. He's threatened by you and making an unsubtle ass of himself doing it.

If you're consistently a good sort, they'll think he's a jealous prick and wonder why he thinks you're so good as to be threatening.

Try not to be smug about it!

>>17321253
Basically in the past we tried to be friends but our personalities clash too much. Ever since I fucked one of his friends he's been on this warpath. When I say I've tried both, he likes to get all up in my face when he's actively trying pull a girl off of me, threatening to break this or that. I've just continuously stressed that I don't give a fuck.

It was when I started hanging out with one of his friends ex's that he got super aggressive about it. Like now I can't even stand within 5 feet of him without him pointing me out "that guys a fag" kind of thing.

>>17321255
That's what I figured... See the bar staff all love me because I'm actually cool, and they all say he's a douche. But bar staff doesn't have sway with people in the crowd.

Thank you for the advice kind anon

is your friend pretty?
i'm a fucking beast and none of my friends will help me even though i'm about to be homeless

>>17321825
she is but it wouldn't make a difference otherwise. sounds like you just have bad friends because i'm also a beast and my friends have tried to help me in difficult times

>>17321225
>she

As a female, she already has all the support and cock she needs, if she doesn't want to use it there's nothing you can do.

>>17321219
How do you go about setting up a date with one? And how much does a decent looking one without a ton of scars and bruises and STDs cost?

>>17321224
Backpage worked for me, but I think it depends on the city. I spent over $5000 over the weekend. <$100 you are gonna get a fat slob/older woman (1/9). $100-$200 you can get a decent one that is usually a milf (most fun to actually be with) (5/9). $400+ you will find actually sub 25 escorts that are hot as fuck, but boring in bed (2/9). $2000 plus primo, pretty much willing to do anything you want her to do (1/9) and hot as fuck.

I really enjoyed the primo as she was pretty much my slave for the entire night and the morning after

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>>17321219
Would you do it again? And if so, what would you change this time around?

>>17321204
My phone bill just says how many texts I sent. Not to who.

Yes, they can view your texts online. At with my provider it's like that. I can go and dig up any text or call I've ever made.

>>17321208
>>17321206
ok thanks. :-)

>>17321175
get sunlight, drink something sugary, get a hobby

>>17321218
I am a programmer so sunlight is a rarity, I hate sugary beverages and I have plenty of hobbies.

The problem is I need to sleep less and I feel exhausted all the time although I have slept

>>17321175
Consider going to a sleep medicine doctor.

>>17321167
Helium method is pretty popular.

Apparently it is just like falling asleep.

Most ways aren't easy, why are you trying to kill yourself. I get you just want the pain to go away but you can't give up so easily.

>>17321191
KHV at 23. Haven't left the house in months. No friends. No drive in life. I live off my YouTube channel where I make the same shit over and over again. Nobody cares about me. I'm just a clown for people to laugh at.

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>>17321165
I can't take this seriously when someone asks their deity for dating advice.

>tfw if people put all their faith in religion into humanity the world would be a smarter, better place

I'm a bit biased cause I have a crazy religious mother who has no respect for views other than her own.

>>17321194
I'm just saying what happened. I take a loose interpretation of the bible, and I'm probably more open minded than most people but I still believe in god. Asking someone that you believe makes better choices than you to help you find someone that won't fuck you over isn't really a bad idea. Not to mention that I've literally never seen or heard of somebody else seeing this thing. I very seriously doubt that many, if any people have seen this specific set of actions and words. It's why I still wonder about her. The chances of the specific thing I asked for happening is so small, that to see it within a month of asking for it is incredible. I have other circumstances where things asked for were given and those helped to solidify my belief. That being said I have lived what most would call a horrifying hell of an existence, so maybe to each his own.

I just wanted to give some backstory on how I know the girls, and get some advice on how to maybe reconnect or hook up. I'm past just trying to get my dick wet, so some long term advice would be nice.

>>17321240
Long term advice is they won't stick with you long term. Sure they be crushing now, but they won't stick with you. Girls 21 and under are stupid bitches whose lives center around themselves. They cannot comprehend being in an actual, functioning, long term relationship because they're too busy pursuing their own goals.

Pick older girls dude.

Um, yeah nah aye. Can I crash at yours mate?

I see you're a kiwi too

>Is moving out of one's parent's place as psychologically and emotionally daunting as it seems at first glance?
Depends on a lot of different things
>Should I set myself up with part time employment before I actually consider moving out?
Yes, you'd be stupid not to.
>Is it reasonable to be moving out while I'm still an undergrad?
Reasonable? Sure. Wise? No. If you can live with parents while you study, it's best to take that option

Btw, is your 'government welfare' a student allowance, or living costs?

>>17321838
Supported living payment.

*had trouble

>>17321155
Men gain sex through conquest, manipulation, and/or effort, while women simply have sex by opening their legs and giving a man permission to touch them. Also, you have a uterus. You're capable of being knocked up meaning you have an added responsibility that men don't necessarily have to worry about. Who you select to spill baby gravy inside of you (even if you are using protection, accidents are known to happen) has an effect on all of society.

Women are the sexual gatekeepers, a woman who is not choosy about her mates shows she has poor judgement.

Men on the other hand are designed to fuck anything and everything to pass on their genes. So, a man who gets a lot of tail is successful.

It's basic biology.

Money

an escort

Liquor/beer

If you two really care about eachother, send her a teddy bear, maybe she can do the same.

>>17321136
if u dont tell her good night or good morning she'll think ur not interested anymore

I have a lot of experience dealing with long relationships. I was in one with a boy for 2 and a half years. Here is what you do to keep her interested:

-Get Skype. Skype that bitch twice a week. Plan ahead too, make up cute little dates. Like watch a movie together or some shit.
-Send her things. More specifically send your things, they will mean more to her. Send her a sweater, or a t-shirt she can sleep in. *i know shipping can be expensive. just think of it as date money, instead of going out to dinner you're sending her things*
-Morning and goodnight texts are a must
-Have at least one good uninterrupted conversation a day.
-Be yourself. Nothing will be worse than you meeting up and she finds out you're a completely different person in real life.
-Support her emotional needs.

If you do these things for her she's guaranteed to do them back.

I hope you guys make it.