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is the cat aggressive? you know anyone who may be interested in adopting a cat?

Why don't you want to put it down? Cats are extremely destructive predators because of people like you who feed them. They have led to the extinction of many song bird species.

>>18635801
Because I bonded with it, if it was just a stray I probably could but it's too late. I'll keep it in mind tho, what would be the most peaceful way to do it?

>>18635629
hail satan

>>18635629
I want to be Christian. I really do.
But I've read too much history to ever believe that Christianity is the work of God.

The only reason why you are Christian is because the Roman Empire converted in its deaththrows.
Why did Constantine claim to have converted? Because he was playing to the people.
Just pandering

If Christian God was the honest and true and real and the only god, then He wouldn't require petty politics to be widespread

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>>18636030
As much as you believe this, I doubt any of it is verifiable. We don't even know what exact time we were born ourselves, if so, then how do you claim you know how Christianity was spread back then? God can work in situations to further spread the gospel, for every time under Heaven is appointed by Him. Jesus Christ said that Heaven and Earth shall pass away, but His Words will never pass away. And when the gospel is spread to the four corners of the Earth, then the end will come. We are nearing this time.

Go and see a fucking doctor.

>>18635627
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yes you should confront her before you have any real attachment to her.

>>18635621
Whos the QT is she filpina?

I'd avoid. I've heard crazy stories of these relationships going as far as having kids before the truth comes out.

masturbation is for losers who can't get laid, it saps energy, motivation and testosterone, and is the closest thing to a misfire of your sexuality. masturbation becomes a chronic addiction that prevents you from becoming passionate about things. It dulls sexual reward.
Pursuing even a cheap fuck with a girl is more satisfying. Feels better.

>>18635833
You are aware that women masturbate too right?

The reason it has such a large impact on YOU is because that's all that matters to you in life. Most people have tons of hobbies that give them tons of drive and worth in life that even if they had sex for half a day before hand, it's still enjoyable to go and partake in for the other half of the day.

That being said, most porn is worth avoiding. Imagination, still pictures of women, and/or highly specific fetish doujins are where it's at.

>>18635954
they masturbate less than men, statistically. no, most people do not have "tons" of hobbies, you exaggerating hyperbolic wanker. unless you just coincidentally happen to be consistently surrounded by interesting people with more than two hobbies, which I would say having four consistent hobbies is a ton. real adults who have a job and take classes barely have anytime for hobbies that aren't going to the gym if you care about looking good. unless you're some trust fund kiddy or your parents pay your monthly rent and tuition, then you would have time to practice violin and be a tournament-ready tennis player. but then I would not take you seriously because you know no hardship.

that being said, chronic masturbation is a negative issue. chronic being every day. the constantly shooting your load messes with your prostate and other things. sure, you can masturbate every other week, maybe that's alright. it supposedly makes sure the sperm is fresh, if you're trying to conceive. but women, hands down, do not masturbate as much as men, and even if they did chronically, which they rarely do, it would not be as much of a problem as they aren't stressing their body to overproduce semen.

If you can't truly, 100% handle the fact that she has a kid, you need to get out of there. It's not fair on you, it's not fair on her, it's not fair on the kid.

Also stop letting what 4chan says get to you. No one's going to think you're 'some fool raising another's kid'. Grow the fuck up.

>>18635618
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>>18635618
Honestly it has less to do with what 4chan thinks about the idea of being a stepchild than it does with raising a kid who is clearly of a different race and was born via IVF.

I'm concerned about treating my kids differently or having to be disowned by a kid who I might grow to adopt as my own when he searches for his birth father.

>>18635604
Honestly you don't have to go higher than 100 to start, I would reccomend taking 100, then if you know how lay on another 40 after about an hour. You don't want to fuck around with this. 100 will be more than intense enough for a first time, trust me.

The LSD experience is ridden in epiphanies. Which means that you will "realize" shit all the time, like hidden truths about everything and everyone. The important to thing to remember about them is that they might not be actually true, you will not be thinking clearly. So suddenly you might have an epiphany about your girlfriend not really loving you or some shit, this might not be actually true, so don't follow your instinct to call her or make any big decisions while in the high. Sleep it off, and think about it clearly, the thing you realized might not be true, but your feelings about the whole thing comes from a real place. So she still loves you, but why would you think she wasn't? Maybe she's been a bit colder lately?
Use the trip to explore emotions like that, and work through it the day after. It's important to filter out the bullshit from the truth, no matter how right the feeling feels in the trip.

If you feel any sudden sadness or anxiety, change the music to something more uplifting, LSD is wonderful in that you can more easily control your experience. Have fun dude!

>>18635649

Couldn't have hoped for a better response. I will keep these things in mind. Thank you!

Refuse politely but firmly. Say you think it's a bad idea to buy a car from someone you know and you will never do it. That's that.

>>18635510
>sweden is for swedes only
Lol
>would benefit my country if more would come here
Then you're not exactly nationalist socialist if you want non-swedes of any type in "your" country
>Who i dislike are Rapefugees from the middle east, niggers from africa
Maybe your people should stop importing them
>I have an asian who is really into me and i feel confused. What do?
Realize that you're yet another white male diluting you're bloodline by breeding with an Asian chick. But don't worry, you're not the only national socialist white male who wants to make a future for his white children but decided to completely go against that by breeding with an Asian chick.
>tldr
Just go for it you race mixing degenerate

asian girls are fucking adorable, go put your dick in her

You're even more retarded than Middle Easterns. I recommend either cognitive therapy or euthanasia.

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You'd probably like the cool kids group.

>>18635506
What about the cute anime girl group?

>>18635500
I tried going on Kik a long time ago and basically got fuckin bullied by some little shit teens. So I don't go on that anymore.

I'm subscribed to different discussion boards and don't have "friends" on any. I'm kind of an outcast on the web too.

But hey I can come here and talk to strangers who don't know who I am other than my current comment number.

I've always felt the same, op. I also know that fear all too well. You want my advice? Stay strong. You're not wrong for wanting this, it's actually a nice sentiment. I know it's tough, but when you do decide to take that step with that special someone it'll be more meaningful because of it. And if this person cares about you as much as you care about them (when this does happen) then they'll be more than understanding about your lack of experience. This is clearly important to you, and as they say, nothing worth doing is easy.

>>18635493
I used to be like that. Once you get older you kind of realize that if you keep waiting for that "special somebody" you are missing out on life experiences. Those girls that wanted to sleep with you could have easily become that special somebody. Open yourself to new experiences. Sex really isn't as big a deal as you are making it. I don't see why you would regret it. I have no feelings at all concerning the first girl I slept with. It was fun while it lasted, but we went our separate ways for a reason. There wasn't anything special about her. Most people are not special. Sex is not special. Just go fuck some cunt and you will see what I mean.

>>18635493

I agree with >>18635591

I was exactly like you, and now I'm 24 and still a virgin. I wish i had just gone for it. You really miss out on a lot of life experience otherwise. For example, there will never, ever be a time again where you can fuck 16-20 year olds so easily.

Further, the longer you wait, the greater the lack-of-experience problem gets.


So be safe about it, but make the most of it OP. I think you'll appreciate it when you're older.

>How they treat people they feel they're above in status (hourly workers, the homeless, elderly or ugly, etc) and animals

>How they talk about other people (whether presently or formerly) in their life
If they have a pattern of speaking negatively about people, they will speak negatively about you at some point. I recently met a girl and while we were bonding she told me about how horrible and abusive her last two boyfriends, her parents and certain relatives were. I noticed that there was a pattern of everyone in her life victimizing her at some point and she never took responsibility for her part in it. Eventually our relationship turned sour and she talked the same shit about me, even attributing sneaky vile motives to things I did for her because I cared about her. She never truly apologized for her part in it and basically told me to kick rocks if I didn't like it. The only time she apologized about something it was in the form of "I'm sorry if you feel... " which isn't an apology at all.

>Whether they will lie, cheat, or steal to get ahead
The girl mentioned above falsified information to get an apartment, then after a few months left her best friend and roommate holding the bag for a bill she promised to pay. The roommate never believed she would do something like that. I did.

The girl I talked about is an otherwise pleasant girl to be around. On a quick look she seems to have it all together but once you get to know her you see cracks in her character.

>>18635466

How they act. It's not perfect, as pepople can pretend and lie, but it's the best thing you've got.

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>>18635466
Political affiliation. I can tell if someone is a Republican that they are selfish and close minded. If they are a Democrat they are stupid and poor.

>>18635392
You did it wrong dummy.

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Just ignore her. Don't encourage this retarded behavior. If she really did ask for you to say such things, then she has no right to get offended.

If you ignore her, she will come back soon and you will both be better off. If you coddle her now and send all kinds of apologetic texts, your relationship will only go downhill from here.

Just. Ignore. Her.

God damn, you fucked up. Use insults like "my filthy slut" but not fat and stupid, Jesus. Is this a joke?

>>18635368
Did you just repost this from not even 1h ago..

>which position
either cowgirl or missionary
Doggy is kind of advanced for beginners

>Help a 4chaner out whiche postion do you recomend
ladyboy :DDDD
in all honesty it doesn't really matter. Whores are whores. Depends on what you prefer

>>General help
use condom. Be sure she doesn't have any kind of STD

>>18635368
why? you're that self conscious of being a virgin at 18? where'd you even grow up?

>>18635362
80% of the human population has some form of herpes I wouldn't worry about it

>>18635390
Yeah, I get that, but I just looked at my brother's pure lips and felt so surprised at how clean they looked when stretched out compared to mine. It just made me feel very strange.

Ever considered it to be Fordyce spots?