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>>18637347
Don't do that OP for the love of Christ.
This whole new cross dressing/trans thing is a total fad. Let's be real here its a mental illness and the only reason its socially acceptable is because there is an agenda being pushed.
You will look back on this when youre older and regret being such a fag. Start taking some testosterone and realize how stupid youre being.

>>18637368
This. Don't be a faggot, OP. Nothing wrong with being gay, but for Christ's sakes, there's nothing wrong with being a man either.

>>18637368
>>18637370
Only that that's a thing I wanted for a couple of years now, Before I even knew about this place.
I'm more than grateful about your concerns ( Truly unironically ), But I made my decision a long time ago, and specifically waited 'till I'm old enough to be sure of my decision, Because I didn't want to make a stupid teenager choice.

If you could help me i'll be really grateful.

>>18637346
Follow the instructions the hospital gave you and don't go on /adv/ for medical advice.

Call them if you forgot.

>>18637346
>paying a doctor to remove stitches

what are you, retarded? nail clippers and tweezers to take them out once its healed.

>>18637454
Also don't do this unless you want to

>pay a doctor to treat sepsis.

>>18637345
>how can I become less desirable?
don't
>How do I turn someone down the nicest way possible?
don't
believe it or not you're doing guys a favor when you make it completely clear there is no chance and never will be a chance.

alternative advice:
help your female friends be more attractive and have the kind of success with guys you claim to be having.

pick up an unattractive trait such as obesity, smoking, drug abuse, child molestation or watching anime

>>18637345
Get used to it, girl. That's the role you've got to play in this life game as woman.

Next step you'll have bitchy catfights, backstabbing, and your friendzone guy friend getting all drama behind you, or worst he's actually a psycho stalker.

I wish you good and hope you'll find a partner who's compatible with you in long term relationship, but get used to it.

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>>18637329
I grow more and more disgusted by them. Rodger's kind of feels for his fellows asian geeks, they reminded me of my social failure so I hated them even more than normies because they were alive images of my own failure. Especially toward girls. At that time I was so in love with two of them that I wrote nearly 100 pages of shitty poems on them. I still have those text somewhere on my old pc. Needless to say, I never managed to send those texts or even to attempt anything with those girls and suffered because of that. But more than that, those geeks disgusted me with their general inaction. I legit wanted to explore abandoned houses, to take drugs, to fight vilains and to save princesses. Sure, I liked video games just like them. But it was more of a poor substitute for real quests and adventures for me. Something that could make me feel that I was a hero and give me some meaning. But clearly not sufficient nor satisfactory. I tried to push them to do other things, adventures with me, some exploration, some travel. Even when I managed to get a bottle of good liquor, stoled in the family basement, and proposed to them to do a party in the woods with it they refused with no man we're too young for alcohol, we were 14 at that time. This is what fuelled my hate towards them. The fact that they were exactly like normies, refusing to do anything abnormal, anything that could put them in peril. Normies conform themselves to their social norms, to their little world where they act exactly as they are supposed to. So do those crypto robots, playing vidya all day and contempting themselves with tendies and WoW. I eventually broke up with them, and started to hang alone because I couldn't stand them anymore. That only fuelled my feelings toward girls, I basically totaly lock myself in litterature and poesy and do nothing more than reading poesy and dreaming, waiting to find my princess and love her and travel the world with her and naive things like that.

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>>18637330
I can't say I was exactly depressed at that time, because even though I was alone, I still hoped for love and for a great future full of heroism. Though it's definitly here when began my abnormal view and relationship with girls. I actually idealized them so much that I wasn't able to sexualize them. Of course, it's at that stage that puberty hit me hard and that I began to have urges. But I autistically and unconsciously separated the two domains of real life girls that I viewed as asexual idols, that I just wanted to hug and love, and the sexual domain, reserved to the nocturnal porn activity in which I purged all my dirty and violent urges. See, there is something inherently bestial, dirty, violent in sexuality. People who are sane understand it very soon, and don't repress it. They accept that violent nature of sexuality, but they also accept the sentimentality and affection that is another part of relationships. The two are melted together for them, and it's normal, they want to savagely fuck the same women they want to hug tenderly as they should. Though, when you're a little beta romantic teen who is confined in a world of litterature, you can't manage to that blend between those two ingredient because sexuality seems abnormal to you and thus you separate the two. The desire of real girls became purified of its sexual element and thus became abnormaly romantic, absolute, "pure", which led to an inability to correctly seduce womens. The sexual desires, also became separated of their sentimental elements, and thus became abnormaly kinky, degenerate, violent. This is a pathologic and dangerous condition, as you will see it later.

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>>18637335
A big change occured around when I was sixteen. First, it was another establishment, in France you have two establishment, first the college between 11 and 15 years, and then the lycee between 15 and 18. Needless to say, people are less dumb in general in the second one and the retarded ones don't even pass the test to enter the second, so, the general atmosphere is a little better. Also, you meet new people since there are in general three or four colleges in one city but one lycee. But the main change that occured at that time was personal, I started to interest myself to other kinds of lectures, not only poesy and litterature but also political ones. Mostly reactionnary and traditionalist kind of lectures. Evola and Guenon of course, but not only them, also a lot of french royalist authors (like Maurras, De Maistre and other counter-revolutionarry materials). Of course, I didn't understand those authors totaly. I even sometimes totatly reversed the sense of their writings. Evola would spit on my sentimentality, Maurras was a pragmatic who didn't like dreamers and so more. But that didn't matter for me, I found an enemy to make responsible for my sufferings. I used those authors and their texts to form a worldview who was a little caricatural at that time, even though even today I still think there is some truth to it. That is that the modern world killed idealism, killed heroism, killed any form of life that isn't purely tied to the material goods. That the french revolution was the cataclysm that symbolize the definitive passage from the heroic times, those of the knight, the aristocrat, the warrior-monk, the great sufferings but also the great yearnings of the soul to the disgusting reign of the bourgeois, of the banker, of the interest, of comfort, of weakness, of atavistic pleasures. It gived me an perfect explanation, a perfect scape goat to explain my sufferings and my incompability with the world.

>>>/trv/

>>18637356
Nobody travels to trv

OP here the universities are Birmingham University or Konkuk University

>>18637303
Stay in the USA. The USA (if you are in the right states) is the last bastion of sanity right now.
If you're set on leaving stay the fuck away from the UK, that place is in a rapid decline and is only moments away from becoming a third world country. South Korea seems like it has its shit together for now.

>>18637310
I'm in Mississippi but even here the university is going crazy. At least it's a big free speech campus.

Fell in love with crazy. Stuck my dick in crazy. Had a two years relationship with crazy. Got monkey-branched by crazy. Recently found out crazy is turning into a slut.

Moral of the story: never stick your dick in crazy.

>>18637280
Yes it was the single most terrifying period of my life. Rational me went right out the window and I went blind. Never, ever again. I will never mistreat anyone but I will never love again either. I can pretend pretty well though. Protect your heart.

>>18637280
Love is a meme.
You'll understand that after you find your first gf and then it turns out she's a whore.
You find someone you can at least half tolerate and dig your nails in. Realistically we don't have a lot of time on this earth and spending it with somebody you kind of get along with is better than spending it in solitude.
I mean yeah girls love being told they are loved and shit and I tell my girlfriend I love her all the time but I really don't. I don't love anybody and nobody really loves anything. Its a false emotion. You'll find that out soon enough.

>I'm now sitting here and thinking if I should invite she outside or not. What should I do?
Should have done that earlier bro.

>>18637274
>>18637274
I invited her outside before. She had no time, only if I wanted to see her at that pub.
Like... she invited me to go to that pub yesterday, but I had my own program and I was already with my friend outside.

I feel like an idiot. After 6 years of relationship with woman I feel like retard now.

Have you never met her outside the pub?

Always do the opposite of what /biz/ says

>>18637239
I work in the industry
AMA I guess

>>18637293
Not OP here. By industry do you mean crypto?

In long term, would it become something worth to invest in? I've enough funds to buy some, but I'm not interested into crypto trading yet.

>>18637221
Cards against humanity online. There were some other similiar fun games but I don't remember their names

>>18637455
we have been playing that actually. but thanks for the suggestion.

>>18637221
Desu, watch films/tv series together, for example on rabbit
Read the same books and discuss them
Link each other funny/weird/interesting stuff and talk about it
Talk about feel shit such as philosophy, religion, politics, our place in the universe - usually these topics are guaranteed to propel long convos.
Ask your SO about their past, tell them stories from your past and childhood
Try to come up with "have you ever" or "what would you do if" question every day. I find it that even stupid questions like that can be a lot of fun and will help you getting to know about other person.
Show them around - when you are in your city, or any place foreign for your SO, take pictures of places you like or landmarks or whatever and comment on them when it's fitting. I find heaving virtual tours with my friends very interesting, it lends the opportunity to get the sense of their surroundings, learn about their countries and traditions.

Start taking school seriously.

>>18637200
start taking yourself seriously.
What do you want ?

see your schools guidance or therapsit

no contact

>>18637198
The situation is clear and all of us have gone through a break up or break ups and its hard. Your relationship is over and your hope is a fantasy of yours. Accept it and stay the fuck away from something that causes you so much pain.

>>18637207
but she has expressed that "who knows what could happen in the future, I thought the love would come back after the summer but it didn't. who knows what could happen in the future"

and keep in mind that our first two days on campus we slept in the same bed (no sex stuff) and watched movies and such, and then on the 4th day I told her that I felt like shit about our current situation and kind of freaked out and then the following day she told me that there's no chance of us getting back together.

keep in mind also that like a week before we moved back to school she said "who knows, maybe we will get back together sooner rather than later"

is there really not a single chance of this being able to be fixed? we both had our problems but according to her me not comforting her properly during a couple of her breakdowns makes it impossible for her to see me romantically anymore, regardless of us talking about this before and assuming we were past it

>>18637167
he is wojak

>>18637167
Ask /Pol/

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He's Pepe's eternal rival

Have some dignity and wait until you two can get a room at least

>>18637162
Okay thank you

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My fucking sides

>>18637117
you make a move next time

Where do you guys even find these girl, and why do you keep falling in love with them? Jesus Christ