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>gf of 2 years and I care about each other a lot
>go to school in different states
>she's only really happy when we're together over the summer
>notice differences between us that could cause problems later on
>still love her but feel breaking up would be the smart thing to do
help
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>>18633000
>being in long distance in the first place
Have fun getting cucked
how do you "be yourself" to get girls if your just the autistic version of Charles Manson
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just be yourself
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Just smile dude and wink too chicks digdawink
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18 anon here really wanna move out so fucking badly i have a job but its just wage slave not very good paying i got 300$ in my bank account rn but i have no skills that would qualify me for a good job, i have hobby that my dream is to make money off but im not good enough yet, i know it might sound edgy but iv been wanting to move out since i was 15. Living with my mom, just toxcixity daily and negativity and its demotivating and i just find myself always going to games\music for relief and im just stuck in a loop
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What are realistic steps i can take/do everyday for a year to moveout?
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We are literally the same person OP. About 400 bucks in the bank and working at a wage slave part time job and can't go to a community college for a year(residency shit) so I have to find a second job to do to save money. We both have the same issue with the mom too.
Perhaps you may take the same route as me. Get a second job and keep saving money until a good opportunity comes up to start renting somewhere on your own. Most likely you'll need to rent a room in someone's house. Where do you live? Maybe you can go to community college and get financial aid for it.
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Have you considered living in a van? No rent, if you or someone you know have the tools you can make it however you want.
Just make sure you get a van that is reliable. Try to save $2-4,000 and go get an old minivan or something. It could be fun.
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Last night I did a terrible thing, I dropped 25 mg of ambien. Holy fucking shit, I was mumbling words to my mother I walked my house and shed tears, it felt like I was losing my home and that I would look at a thing from 100 different perspectives. I DONT KNOW WHY. I stared at useless music videos and even the to fox my relationship with my mother. I dont remeber so many things just glimpses. Please help me recover. 10/10 would do 30 mg
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>>18632948
I was on ambien for about 3 years. Be careful with that shit! It is like sleep walking. It literally shuts down a lot of your brains common sense modules.
I once drove 18 miles to Chickfila and back after taking one. Dangerous shit.
...If you insist on using it though, hide your phone so you dont make an ass of yourself to your friends and family. Everything will seem like a fantastic idea at the time and you will feel like an asshole for it later.
Also, write down your thoughts and ideas. I was super fucking creative on it because I had no inhibition. Read them back to yourself when you are sobered up. Some will be ridiculous and weird and some may actually be quite good. I look back at my ambien diaries from time-to-time to this day.
Try not to abuse it though if you can. My memory is a lot worse than it used to be because of it and it destroyed some of my ability to focus.
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So I have been dating my current gf for about 6 months now and everything was going good until now. I travel a lot with my job and can leave with notice from anywhere between 4 days to a month in advance. I explained that to her before we got together and she said she would be ok with it.
Fast forward to now and she's freaking out because my work is making me miss going to see the eclipse with her because they went back on giving me the day off. She was pissed about that and hasnt been acting the same since. I tried talking with her, but its usually just short one word answers like ok and stuff, and she doesnt really try to engage in conversation with me anymore like she used to. This has been going on all week and i've tried talking with her about it. Eventually she'll open up and tell me what she's actually mad about, but the next day its right back to her being cold again.
Basically what im getting is its boiling down to her feeling like I'll never be able to make plans with her when I told her thats not the case its just I happened to get screwed over this time. I honestly dont know what to do at this point.
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>>18632936
Tough shit man. I worked in oil for awhile and you have no idea how many divorced dudes I talked to had their marriages fall apart because of travel. Of course, it's not like they could say no because oil money tends to go to your head but it taught me a very valuable lesson. I guess that's anywhere though other examples could be the military or working in the merchant marine. Oilfield is worse because you just don't have any notice.
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>>18632936
An eclipse is a life changing event. Of course she is going to be pissed dude.
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>>18632958
I should of clarified. I'm in the military right now, they told me I my leave was good Friday and then rescinded that Monday. There was literally nothing I can do about it.
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QTDDTOT?
Didn't see one in the catalog.
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>meet great girl, go on first date
>haven't dated in a couple years other than random coffee dates with girls from dating apps because last relationship ended super poorly
>first date goes super well
>end the night that we want to hang out again soon
>be texting, conversation is a little slow
>whatever, we don't know each other that well yet
>say it would be cool to see her this weekend
>"yeah that sounds awesome, what do you have in mind"
>make suggestion
>"sounds great, what time?"
>give time
>"actually I think I might have something"
>well alright, what works for you
>"let me see"
>...
>it's alright, she'll text soon
>...
>no worries, she's probably just in the shower
>...
>4 hours later
>scroll through /adv/, not even reading it
>Joji playing on loop
>slowly care less and less every day
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I haven't had a date for several years now. Not because of a lack of a girl, several girls have approached me ok the topic and I've denied them all. Recently I've been getting really close with this girl, her best friend said she likes me. She's beautiful and funny, but I don't want to date. I have no idea why. What can cause this and how can it be helped?
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Enjoying the single life?
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>>18632922
Honestly, it's not too bad
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You didn't mention whether you find her attractive or how your time with her has been while you've been getting close...
Anyway, even if you do have positive things to say about either maybe it's just not enough to click. Or Maybe you're just in a funk and you need a metaphorical swift kick to the head to jog you back to reality. What that swift kick might be I can't say and it could literally be anything.
I've been in serious relationships and flings but I've been single for 3 years now, haven't gotten laid in that time either. I keep telling myself I just have to meet the right person because I've had girls try to sleep with me or just get to know me and I don't follow through. I really feel like I just need to meet the right person, but really I probably just need to lower my standards and a big part of me feels like they aren't that high and I shouldn't compromise. What a predicament.
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Hello my dear /adv/-friends, I think I might have a slight speech impairment.
Occasionally people seem to have a hard time hearing what I'm saying, and I noticed when listening to recordings of myself that I slurr my words a bit when I don't focus.
Another thing is that occasionally, when I'm in a situation I'm not very comfortable, speaking words feels akward on a physical level, like my mouth is suddenly clumsy even though I know what I want to say. Maybe I should just write this up as social akwardness, but it doesn't feel like the same thing.
Any /adv/ice or resources you recommend? Should I see a speech therapist? Do you have troubles with speaking?
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Read books aloud.
Just practice.
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>>18632913
I don't see how just speaking would help desu, I'm not lonely (well not very lonely) so I have been speaking my entire life. Still got issues.
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I'm going out of town for 4 days and need to store my stuff for these 4 days only. Is there any facility in the US that helps me with this? Just 4 days and don't want to get into too much paperwork. Have about 5 suitcases full of clothes and stuff.
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>>18632903
Train or bus station left-luggage office?
Friend's house?
Pawnshop?
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How do I know if I'm in love with her? 2017-08-18 02:52:05 Post No.18632870
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How do I know if I'm in love with her?
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Sounds goofy, but I've never been in love before, so I'm not quite sure
I've been friends with this girl in college for the past year, who has up until a few months ago been married to a guy stationed across the country. After a few events I found out she's had feelings for me since she's met me, but I've only recently developed romantic (Always been sexually attracted to her) feelings since we both thought we weren't interested in each other at all until lately.
Because we've been friends this past year, we've been able to skip the introductory and "honeymoon" phases. We already know so much about each other. We're comfortable and happy, but I can't tell if I've fallen in love with her or not. I'm not terrified of losing her. I don't feel like I need her to continue living a happy life. The best way I can describe it is, she's not a necessity, but she's one of the most wonderful luxuries I've known.
Sometimes it feels like I want to say it to her, it would feel "right" to say "I love you", but I don't want to say it if I'm not sure this IS what I'm feeling. We're official, but she is very fond of referring to us as lovers. I know there's not boxes to be checked to say "Yeah you love her" but isn't love one of those things that you don't feel unless you're 100%? If I'm even questioning it, does it mean I don't love her?
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You don't love her. You are just content, and good friends.
Love: that condition wherein another person's happiness is essential to your own
Not a bad thing, though. The typical problem is people believing they're in love when it's a variation of "I look at her and really, really, -really- want to fuck her"
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>>18632895
Isn't that extremely unhealthy though, to feel that you are completely reliant on another person to be happy?
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Going on a 3rd date soon. We are gonna go camping for it
What size tent should I get?
Any other pointers about a camping date should know of?
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So im going to amsterdam next week and i need some advice.
Im 23 still a virgin, all my friends think that im not a virgin (or secretly do but allow me to live the facade) and i was wondering if losing my virginity to a protitute will ruin my future sex life and or any chances of having a serious relationship with a woman.
Ideally advice from people who lost their virginity's to prostitutes would be ideal
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>>18632865
Lost my virginity to an escort. It was amazing. If my girlfriend can even be half as good as that woman was at sex I'm going to be a happy man.
Life's too fucking short to worry about this shit. You wanna get laid? Go do it. Just be safe since chances are these girls have some nasty diseases.
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>>18632865
I didn't lose mine to a hooker but I have visited them before, but as far as ruining any chances of a future relationship are completely on you. Any prospective partner never needs to know and as long as you're clean what difference does it make. If you're gonna have serious hang ups about keeping it a secret though then don't do it because you might have seem deeper problems. Most people are reluctant up until they do it and I imagine most people don't think to much of it afterwards, but I guess I could see someone not ever getting past it and letting it ruin future relationships.
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I started dating this girl when I was 20. We had the same sense of humor, similar morals and beliefs. We were both focused on school and securing a nice future, and I thought we were perfect for each other because we had no desire to party or do drugs, which I figured was rare for our age. Fast forward 5 years, we're both out of school. We both have jobs but she works nights. Because of this we saw less of each other, but still hung out as much as we can. However, she begins catching up with some old friends from high school and they're into a ... less fulfilling life than I prefer. Into drugs, parties, raves, while mooching all of their money from their parents (still) or spending every dime they make from their minimum wage jobs to fuel their lifestyle. My girlfriend started doing more and more drugs, escalating to M and coke, despite my disapproval. I never really put my foot down though, and figured if this was just a phase or some shit I would simply wait it out. She remained loyal to me for the entire relationship, as far as I know.
About six months after the start of this phase she broke up with me. At first she said it was because she wanted kids and I did not, which was a strain on the relationship ever since she changed her mind on the subject but we were talking it out. Later, she said I was too boring because I did not want to partake in her lifestyle and I didn't have the same mannerisms as the boyfriends her friends have. She mentioned I never offer to cab drunk roasties home or pay for the entire party's tab or other stupid shit like that.
I've accepted that perhaps she just changed and I'm now better off, but I can't help but feel like I did something wrong. Am I too boring? Should I have made more of an effort to make our schedules work? Am I beating myself up over nothing? It hurts that she's gone after 5 years and it doesn't really make sense to me that this happened.
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>>18632850
If she was doing M and coke, I think you dodged a fucking bullet there anyway.
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>>18632858
This is the only reply needed.
Is squatting only ok? (i.e. no deadlifts) Will my back suffer as a result since I'm not focussing on it?
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Jesus, I thought /fit /had too many /adv/ topics. I didn't realize /adv/ has /fit/ topics too.
Get over to /fit/ and ask this in QTDDTOT.
And yeah, anything you don't train would look worse and be weaker than shit you do train, obviously.
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>>18632843
>Will my back suffer
Squats or any exercise were your putting pressure on your spine will eventually result in damaged discs.
Weightlifting is a beta pastime.
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Nah, it's all TOT anyways.
HT don't give a fuck.
The only real difference will be the stimulation of the growth of specific fibers.
Still do like RDL or something for those little hammies though.
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I've been going to the gym for several months and have always drank some water with protein whey and creatine. Is there anything else I can add to my drink to produce more results? No steroids.
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>>18632836
Urine. Drink about 1 gallon a day. Rub it in your hair as well so your body absorbs it better.
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>>18632845
Cool, thanks. Looking for serious replies only.
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Milk is alright for calories
I hope you're not trying to mix the creatine and whey at the same time