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dont wanna sleep
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OP I fucking love you so incredibly much I want to be your friend, please.
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couldn't sleep. What are you doing on /adv/ OP?
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So was there a question or...?
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Well /adv/ Shit has hit the fan.
>Be me
>20 y/o virgin
>friends have forced me to go to a hooker tonight
>what do?
>choices are: overcome irrational fear of women fuck the hooker or be called a faggot
P.S. Also any advice on what to look out for when with a hooker.
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>>18636860
what kind of shitty friends do you have
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>>18636868
Well in all honesty, I think they are doing it with the best of intentions.
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>>18636874
Im a virgin too at 21yo, don't think I would involve money into something as intimate as sex. Why such a pressure? Most likely you won't even have the same friends in 3 - 5 years time
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Fining someone after Barcelona terrorist attack 2017-08-19 09:36:18 Post No.18636841
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Hello /adv/, it's been a while since I posted here. I am turning to you since at the moment I have no other idea who to ask.
Somebody I care about has moved to Barcelona couple of years ago, and after some time she just stopped using social networks and pretty much went under radar. From some sources I've heard that everything is fine and that it's just a choice she made.
Fast forward to today.
After the Barcelona terrorist attack that happened two days ago, media reported that one female citizen from the country I'm from was injured in the attack. No other info except that was given.
My question is: Do you have any idea, is there any way to find out the name of the injured person? Is contacting an embassy of my country in Spain a good start? Mind you that I have no other regular way of finding out this info, and that I do not want to contact the person, I just want to sleep peacefully.
Thanks in advance.
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;_;
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>>18636841
not sure if info like that is released to the public, you should call the embassy, no harm in trying
dont know any relatives or people that are closer and still in contact? you could try that toof
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>>18637023
all the people i know connected to her are either some other friends who also lost contact, or perhaps her parents but im not really keen on contacting them if there are other solutions.
kind of a long story and its somebody that just wanted to go away for some reason. however, as i said, the situation is kind of worrying me and i just want to know if everything is alright.
I guess an email to the embassy wont hurt.
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Can porn be considered a hobby?
As in
>collecting of porn
>watching of porn
>contributing to the collecting/watching of porn with others
>and of course fapping to the porn
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>>18636834
can you consider smoking a hobby?
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>>18636834
Can browsing /adv/ be considered a hobby?
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>>18636912
I'm not sure where these are supposed to compare or even relate to each other.
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About to do acid for the first time tomorrow any thing i should know? I've already researched the affects, just wondering if there's anything i should do or know
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OK OP here's a few tips from personal experience with multiple uses.
1) Make sure you're in a location that you can stay in safely for at least 24 hours and won't be kicked out of.
2) If you're dropping alone, then be especially careful as to not overthink things or put yourself in a depressed state because acid is fucking intense and it's really easy to have a bad trip.
3) Golden rule: never drop more than you're capable of handling. It can have irreversible effects on your brain and lock yourself in a permanent trip. That all being said, shit's cash dude. Bonus points if you're a musician.
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>>18636861
HPPD is the worst case scenario (if you don't already have schizophrenia) and it's far from a permanent trip
Read some Leary or Watts beforehand to give yourself something to think about
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Self harm triggered by anger 2017-08-19 09:10:24 Post No.18636811
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Self harm triggered by anger
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I've always been a very anxious depressive, but nothing ever makes me want to hurt myself except for anger. Just the other day my phone crapped out at a very inopportune time so I took a knife and went at it (on my back to avoid questions). Obviously I know it's not a healthy behavior to indulge in, but it's the only direction I feel the anger leads. Please help. After the fact, I don't feel any better. I feel less angry, but my anxiety spikes through the roof. I feel like vomiting just writing this.
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>>18636811
Do you think people on this board can really help you? If this is not a cry for attention and you actually want to change your life go see a doctor.
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Is there a point in life where it's stupid/pointless to try and learn stuff you should probably know allready?
I'm 27 and all I finished is high school. Lately I've been doing some studying to get my basic grammar and math to an acceptable level.
I'm from europe so the school system is a bit different here but I basically wanna get a bachelor's degree. It's gonna take like 4 years though so I'll be 32 when I finish. (school starts next year)
Is this a stupid idea? Am I not too old?
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>stupid/pointless to try and learn stuff you should probably know allready
so are you going to uni for a degree or to learn?
honestly the some kids are going to ostracized you because of the age difference but think of it this way, if you don't go to uni, you'd probably be in the same position as today with some more cash saved up, however if you take this chance you'd have a degree and more job prospect id you are taking the right major
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>>18636872
>degree or learn
Both really. I want to improve myself by learning new things. Lately I've been doing math and the feeling I get when i finally ''get'' something is amazing. It's like I'm getting smarter every day and I love it.
But the actual degree is also important to me obviously.
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How do I get over irrational fears of bodily fluids and sex? 2017-08-19 08:51:33 Post No.18636786
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How do I get over irrational fears of bodily fluids and sex?
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I used to have pretty bad germophobia, not anymore luckily, but what is still left of it Has destroyed what relationships Ive had and my self esteem.
And I dont know what to do to fix it, Ive seen a sexologist, done all the mind flexing and stuff, didnt work.
Pic related is me contemplating suicide
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Wrong pic in op :///:
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How do I make this girl see me in positive way after 2017-08-19 08:46:09 Post No.18636777
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So I was drinking with two girl friends (they're a couple) and one of them brought one of her friends. She's really cute and I think I fell in love. I thought she would be just like other girls but it turn out she is really interesting , we have a lot of things in common and she has an amazing personality. We started drinking and eventually the cute girl and I are making out, but she was sort of wasted. I realised this and decided not to sleep with her (she was in really bad state) so we put her to sleep and called it a day. How do I change her view of me? From now I feel like I will only be another guy she kissed while she was drunk. She won't even remember me. Do I ask for her number or something? Or am I fucked?
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If her friend is one who holdes a grudge for (respecting consent) so much so that she wouldn't even want coffee anymore, then....well
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>>18636777
You were asking for trouble being the only dick in the room. What straight guy parties with lesbians anyway?
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She'll have more respect for you for not fucking her while she was super wasted. Though with that being said chances are she's never gonna give you another shot at fucking her.
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which one has the best job prospect?
computer science, computer engineering, electrical engineering
I interested in all three but if one of them has a better job prospect id take it
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Take computer science. You can work from your home and coding meets with friends are always really fun. Not to say that the other majors you listed are bad, it's just that computer science can be done very casually while with engineering you need to be present in a workplace. The children in this generation actually hate anything which requires discipline and hard work so CS is perfect for you.
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>Going to a club at night with friends
>Everything is cool, until a girl told me that her friend wanted to talk me
>Talked to that girl, and in a few moments started to make out with her
>Found out that she was way older than me, but I didn't care. I love them milfs. I invited her some drinks
>Hours passed and my friends were going to their homes, they were giving me ride back to mine. I had to go
> I told the women that I was leaving in a minute, and she went mad and sad, and she went away
>Tried to follow her but she was gone...
I hate to make people bad. I just wanted to have fun for a night and I thought she wanted too...
Don't take me wrong, I didn't even sweet talk to her, because I don't like to fool women. I even told her that I was just looking for a moment, I´m not looking anything serious for now and her friend agreed.
What happened /adv/? I feel really like shit, should I stop doing this?
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>>18636721
You should have explained that you HAD to go and asked for her number, even if you didn't plan to use it, to give the impression you weren't just dumping her.
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>>18636776
That's what I tried to do, but as soon I told her I was going back to home, she went away...
Was she trying to seek a relationship with me? That would explain it
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>friend tries hard to act tough and strong for years, builds a personality around it
>they're actually a huge softy with a hearty laughter and wouldn't seriously be able to muster the strength to harm another person, and it's obvious to anyone after a short while
How do I convince my friend to embrace his soft side?
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>>18636712
By following Jesus Christ.
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Is it unfair of me to feel regret that I'll never be the first for a woman? I'm 24 and I know I'll never get to be that first time, and I know it's stupid to worry, but part of me can't help but want to have been the only man in a woman's life.
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>>18636704
Spoiler alert: at least half of women don't stay with the guy they lose their virginity to. Get over it. Unless you've got some sort of religious conviction, then you should go shop around the various churches, but sex is fun and most girls have it, same as most guys.
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>>18636718
>Spoiler alert: at least half of women don't stay with the guy they lose their virginity to.
Do you think I'm unaware of this fact?
>but sex is fun and most girls have it, same as most guys.
But casual sex significantly impairs pair bonding in women. Take a look at the correlation between number of partners are divorce rates.
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>>18636704
>Is it unfair of me to feel regret that I'll never be the first for a woman?
No.
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Cheating but not so much 2017-08-19 07:32:26 Post No.18636689
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*MORALFAGS, skip this thread* This is not about "should I cheat or not", but HOW to do it to fit a very specific objective I have on the practical and emotional levels. Much of this post will be divided into these 2 aspects: practical and emotional.
I have been dating this woman for already 3 years and at this point, for a large number of reasons, I am close to 100% sure she is "the one" that I want to spend my life with: she is a reasonable 7/10 with very good personality but one flaw relevant to this post: she is very jealous and a moralfag in certain extent.
The thing is: I am a slut. There is no other way to put it. I like to get attention and affection from women, it makes me feel good and excited.
On the practical side: I am above average looking for my age but sorely missing on the "being rich" part of male appeal, so I don't swim in pussy all time, it just happens every once in a while.
On the emotional side: for a number of reasons, my ultimate objective is to be that kind of guy that is interesting, charming, gets women to be friendly and even more, but who, in the end of the day, is still loyal to his wife (the woman I mentioned above, in this case).
which takes us to one specific situation I will explain in the next post.
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i wanna see where this goes lol
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>which takes us to one specific situation I will explain in the next post.
So, there is this girl in the building where I work. She works in a different office, we see each other in the cafeteria almost every day. She stares really hard, smiles, and so do I.
out of curiosity, I did a little stalking and found her on social networks, checked her out a bit but didn't like, comment or do anything.
She is gorgeous, but definitely too young (I am 36, she must be 25 tops...) and not exactly my type.
I was planning to leave at the "stare at each other in the restaurant" level, but next day she follows me on Instagram (where I have pics with my current GF, mind you). She doesn't comment or like anything, just follows. Can't tell exactly if she stalked me too, if IG showed her my profile because I was checking hers or what.
Now I am really curious to see where this goes... I want to approach her and strike some conversation but I don't want to give the idea that I am trying to build up something serious, just chatting to get to know each other since we were so curiously looking at each other anyway (this is the kind of thing that I need to tell myself first of all).
She is into photography quite a bit, I should approach her from this point, like "cool pictures you have in your IG", right?
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>>18636710
still the OP.
I get it that this post isn't making much sense because I am not asking a question.
I needed first to write it all down to organize my thoughts on the situation.
what I need from you, /adv/ is some feedback on this:
>my ultimate objective is to be that kind of guy that is interesting, charming, gets women to be friendly and even more, but who, in the end of the day, is still loyal to his wife
Is this shit even possible??
Any ideas on what to do and NOT to do when chatting with this girl to avoid giving the idea that I am trying hard to hide I already have someone ?
And if things start to get closer and more personal, HOW THE FUCK DO I STOP MYSELF???
>be me 19
>Graduated 2 years ago
>Work full time job for past year
>about to start community college to transfer to a university for a degree
>want to be musical artist
>scared to try in fear of not being good enough
Ever since a kid I've played/studied music and musical theory. It's always been my dream to become a musical artist and be successful to the point of not having to have an actual job. I don't necessarily mean Kanye West big, but big enough to sustain myself without having a boring desk job. I love making music, the problem is I'm scared of failing miserably and have my life long dream crumble in front of my face. I've saved up money over the past year and bought all the necessary equipment to record in my room (drum machine, guitar effects, bass effects, mixer, multitrack, microkorg, fx processor, a decent mic set up). Everything that I need to make decent quality music. I'll stay up late every night trying new things and chords, constantly trying new things, but none of it seems good enough to me. Then I listen to Mac Demarco, Cosmo Pyke, HOMESHAKE, and King Krule (my influences) and it doesn't even compare. Its not like they're that much older than me. I'm just feel so unconfident with my musical abilities even though I've spent the majority of my life doing it. Do I just push stuff out now and risk it, or do I wait until I'm not as self-conscious about my music?
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>>18636688
>Do I just push stuff out now and risk it
Yes
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>>18636688
Every artist you listen to put out plenty of terrible music you'll never hear early in their careers
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>>18636688
If you can play and also know music theory you are years ahead of most college students. No one can guarantee that you have the talent to get anywhere, but you do have the basis for studying.