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so, I've recently been talking with a filipina girl I met on a dating app, we hit it off immediately and added each other on facebook
not long after that she started introducing me to her language and teaching me words that mean "my love" and some other cheesy lovey dovey stuff
I feel really strongly toward this girl, but it seemed too good to be true, so I did some research regarding these women
as it turns out a lot of them use foreign men, specifically white americans, to get them a green card so they can pay for their family and/or kid

what I'm wondering is: should I confront her about this and ask if her if she is genuinely interested in a real relationship?
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yes you should confront her before you have any real attachment to her.
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>>18635621
Whos the QT is she filpina?
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I'd avoid. I've heard crazy stories of these relationships going as far as having kids before the truth comes out.
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>>18635621
BPD is the national pastime of Fillipina women, so I've heard, and the only Fillipina girl I knew confirmed it. Complete head case
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>>18635691
she already has a kid and has made it very very obvious to me that she does.
she originally went to college but had to drop out after she had her kid. so I'm thinking that maybe she isn't looking to leech money off of someone? I mean, she TRIED to get a good education
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>>18635643
yes, but it's not her. just a random pic off google
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sounds too good to be true and these guys have a point. confront it mah dude
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>>18635868
I did and I am confident that she is genuine. she told me she's already been broken multiple times because of her almost husband leaving her after she gave birth, along with him never helping her with her vitamins when she was still pregnant. plus she has said that her parents are adamant about her going back to school to get an education and a job
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>>18635721
>she isn't looking to leech money off of someone
>has a kid
Unless she has a spectacular job she needs a provider for her rugrat and you are the current sucker.
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99% of fillipina with kids on dating sites are looking for money. Ask yourself, how can she afford to bring up a kid with no job?. How does she feed herself and her child, where does the money come from to pay bills?. Scamming is big business in the Philippines. People employ groups of girls for the purpose of scamming. Just remember, she lives in a 3rd world shit hole and you live in comparative luxury. Give it a few weeks and she will need money for her internet, phone, rent etc.
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Just leave it, you'll ruin the dynamic if you ask, and if she was trying to build a relationship with you in order to utilize your emotions as to manipulate you she absolutely would not be honest with you.

And in all honesty she's likely trying to scam you. It's like asking a vendor at a flea market with a hundred brand new iPhones on their table if they stole it. You know the answer.
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>>18636555
then I'll just stick with it and see where this goes. I'm a lonely man who just want some female companionship
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>>18636665
You're better off being alone than with someone who's just using you. If love was her motivation she'd be looking for men locally, not overseas on dating apps. Don't underestimate the comparative advantage of being alone vs being in a relationship based on deception.

The best thing you can do for yourself is to break it off and begin working on improving yourself. Hire an escort or two if you really need to see a female, but you're not on the path to happiness the way things are going right now.
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>>18636675
evidently she did but it didn't work out for her. maybe she's genuinely interested in meeting a foreigner? especially a white guy, asians go crazy for them
there's plenty of stories of people getting into successful genuine relationships with filipinas
and I've yet to be used by her, I'll give it a few weeks and if she starts asking for handouts then I'll end it
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>>18635621
Hahahahahahaha
Oiamlaffin
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If you share common interests, and really communicate and understand each others position on matters regarding those interests, then you can be fairly certain it is real. If she is a scammer, she would be working dozens of targets simultaneously, some of those would require less effort than others, and it would not be the one that wants to be a friend.
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>mfw there exists hot black chicks
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