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Hello /adv/

How do I stop being so obsessed with women and getting laid, and being obsessive/paranoid in general?

Ever since my ex broke up with me around two years ago I haven't been as happy as I used to be and I've gotten an obsession with fucking girls an I've spiraled into a paranoid wreck.

Ever since that day I've been more depressed, less charismatic, less social and far less confident. Girls used to be very attracted to me but that disappeared (Girls still call me handsome though). I also used to take Prozac for OCD and depression (But I still felt great a year or so after stopping)

I feel like girls can pick on on the fact that I just want to fuck them and I don't blame them for rejecting me because of that. I used to care about them and their feelings, I used to be interested in them and I had a passion for my own things like art. I was interested in the whole package. Getting to know them, being with them, and sleeping with them. But now I feel like I just want them to be straight up and say whether or not they're willing to fuck or not. I know this is not healthy behavior but I'm having difficulty understanding why I feel this way. I can't even get laid on tinder.

I'm getting better, but I'm still hollow compared to the old self and I want to change back into my confident, happy self that actually gives a shit about others.

I've gotten obsessed over stupid shit and its taking over my life, like being a good person or I'll go to "Hell" or a constant paranoia that I'm not good enough/can't talk to people, a fear of being sensitive, being incredibly angry seeing guys feel pleasure in porn, and an obsession with my image. I can barely look people in the eye anymore.

I'm holding habits to try and regain what I had (Meditation, working out, cardio, eating well, journaling) to boost my mood and usually I'm great with introspection and can figure out what's wrong, but this is a mystery to me.

I apologize if this is incoherent.

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is it normal for my cock to list to the left slightly when hard? It was also feeling a little tender and painful when I first had sex about two days ago - I assumed it was a consequence of the skinny jeans I was wearing, seem normal? I just hope none of this is a consequence of my habit I had in my early teens of jerking off in the prone position.

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I'm currently almost six months pregnant. The baby's father and I aren't together anymore, but still planning to co-parent as best as we can. We still get along really well, and to be honest, I still have feelings for him. I feel like we gave up on our relationship too quickly because of certain things we had going on in our lives.
The other night, he came over to my place to sort through some baby stuff my mom's friend had given me. We were joking around when he brought up an inside joke that we had made up while we were together. I was surprised and touched that he still remembered it, even if was stupid. It made me want to tell him how I feel, but I don't know if that's a wise thing to do at this point. I don't know if it's the hormones, or if maybe there's still a chance for us. At the same time, I'd give anything to raise our child as an actual couple, especially since both of us come from single-parent homes.

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Is it normal to lose all interest in a person(your partner), because they lied to you?

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Guys i really need some help. I have Ombrophobia (fear of rain), Ancraophobia (fear of wind) and Astraphobia (fear of thunderstorms) and i have 19 years. It's really difficult for me cuz i know how wind, rain and thunders work and i understand them but still unknowingly i fear them. When i hear them , i start shaking and sweating, feeling anxious n shit. What can i do?

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So i dont know if this is really the board to ask but to someone who wants to grow a youtube channel what would be some good advice?

I already have some videos on one but i just dont know how to get myself out there you know.

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So I made a massive mistake. I mean massive.

I was supposed to start college in the Fall, and I thought that classes started in September. Being on vacation, I checked when classes started and basically forgot about it after I had dealt with all my business, checking emails every once in a while to make sure one of my classes weren't dropped or anything

Well tonight I visited the school's website and was greeted by "classes start August 22!" I knew instantly that I made a terrible mistake. I got September from when I was signing up for classes and the date that the class stated was in mm/dd/yy format. At the time was the only place on the site where the date that classes started was give. I read that fucking thing wrong. Either my brain saw a 09, or I saw 08 and thought it was September. It doesn't matter how. I filed it away in the back of my head, basically forgot about it, and carried on with my vacation.

I was hospitalized while I was on vacation (technically still am since I am set to go back home in September - i'm staying with my folks), and I am still recovering. I'm going to the doctor in a couple days, so I could have a serious issue. However, if I DIDN'T get sick, this problem would still exist. I'm stressed the fuck out

I feel so fucking terrible. Like a giant idiot. I'm stressed. Anxious. The whole deal. The only solution is contacting the school and explaining what happened, on top of figuring out a new plan. I was thinking, in order to get back on a tradition fall/winter semester and summer break, that I would have to take classes through the upcoming winter semester, then summer semester, then fall semester, and then the next winter semester. Meaning a full fucking year of classes. It's what I gotta do to make up for this.

Naturally I'm going to be under a lot more stress knowing that I have to fucking do college level shit all year for 52 weeks. Here's my question: how can I manage my stress and keep my self esteem from ramming into the ground?

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How can I introduce my girlfriend to femdom? I often spoke about it with her and told her it's my fetish to be the sub sometimes. I also made clear, that in general I wanna be the dom and fuck the shit out of her (what I also do) but sometimes I really feel like I want her to be in control. However, even I say "lets have some femdom action tonight", she doesn't really go for it. Then we just have normal sex as always. What is the next step to do? And how can I make sure that she doesn't always look at me as a sissy?
>pic related, my ultimate goal but probably impossible with vanilla girls

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What can I do to stop hating my life for a few moments now that eating chocolate is not an option since I'm trying to lose weight?

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>Dated for a year
>Ignored me
>Ask her why she's ignoring me
>Generally it's cause she's mad about something
>Ask her on another day why she's ignoring me
>Ignored me more
>Told her we're breaking up
>Stopped ignoring me
>Starts shouting
>Walk away from her
>From behind me screams that I'm being immature.
>Start ignoring her
>Flirting with other girls
>Approaches me while I'm at a friends house
>Starts screaming at me
>Tell my friend bye, get in my car, drive away
>Comes to my door at night
>Cries "into my arms"
>Tells me if I mind if she sleeps over
>She says she understands if I ignore her, just "please let me stay the night"

What is this? I don't understand the string of thoughts going on here.

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My girlfriend never kisses or hugs me. I believe it is just her thing because she never really did that. At first I thought she might be a bit too shy or inexperienced but now after two years I'm getting very tired of it. I told it to her once that it is pretty normal in any relationship a couple of months ago. She tried her best then, but now it's gone again. What could be the reason? I'm not dirty nor smelly or anything like that and when I kiss or hug her she doesn't push me back either.

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I have a cyst on my penis, on the underside of my shaft right under the head. Other than looking unsightly, it really doesn't bother my in any way. It's just a really embarrassing thing that I really wish I didn't have. I've had it for as long as I can remember.

Been thinking about going to a doctor to get it removed, but the procedure would basically have them cutting at my dick in a very awkward area. I honestly don't feel comfortable at all getting surgery there, and don't even know if I could afford it.

Anyone else have a similar problem? It's really fucking embarrassing and I basically can't have intercourse because people will probably think I have some sort of STI or some shit.

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>Be me, 22yo Amerifag
>Somehow 14k in student debt after only 1 1/2 semesters of college
>18 yo me was a stupid liberal arts asshole
>learned nothing of value
>no clue what to major in so I went to my job more than arbitrary classes
>now working as a $9/h wageslave at the local Walgreens
>Work counter most nights, customers love me, but no advancement options after 6 months
>student debt collectors calling on the reg for money I don't have
>kinda stresses me out
>btw single, average looks, living with parents for reasonable rent so I guess living ain't hard
>vidya/tg in spare time, few close friends but all busy with adulthood
>ENTP personality if that helps?
>pic of my cats unrelated

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Hey /adv/.
I've never done that before but dwo days ago I texted a girl I didn't know on Facebook (her photos just made me go; wow). We chatted for two days, a pretty nice conversation, sure. I've proposed we'd meet up for a smoke today, she agreed and... Now What?

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I think my internet connection is bugged. Don't know if I'll get arrested for making this thread or not.

Me: Male, work full time trying to break out of NEETdom, live with dad.

One month ago, there was a letter addressed to my dad from a cable company, it was colored reddish-pink and said "ALERT: PLEASE RESPOND BY AUGUST 22." When I gave it to my dad, he tossed it in the trash as junkmail. Since we don't use that company at all and the letter was more square-shaped than a real letter, I'm mostly sure it was. But, it still freaked me out.

Are loli and shotacon legal in the US? All the research I've done points all over the place. Online legal advice forums say it's either protected by Freedom of Speech or punishable under PROTECT (the PROTECT stuff is older than the Freedom of Speech stuff). 4chan and other regular people say it's okay in the US. My state website says it violates obscenity laws. Of course, I don't like real children at all, and I am disgusted whenever I see actual CP, those poor kids, man.

Let me give some background.

Two years ago, I was reporting (not looking at or enjoying) a legitimiate child porn internet link that I found on a website to ASACP (first result I see when I look up how to report CP), which I have done multiple times since links pop up from time to time. I think I fell into some kind of government trap, because one morning before I got up for work, I was woken up by my dad talking to his girlfrined, who likes to speak loudly over the phone. He mentioned that he had received a letter regarding child porn activity on his connection, it freaking him out and not wanting to talk to me about it. I think it happened because I had actually gone into those sites to make sure they were CP before I made a report to ASACP. I have some screencaps I took of my report receipts.