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>>17486158
You don't take a cheater back. Full stop.
Dump him. He doesn't deserve you. You're not that much into him (you have crushes on other people) and he isn't that much into you (he fucked other people). You're together because you care for each other and you're available. That's not love.
Move on.

>>17486183
Yeah but I already did it once. He can't tell people that he cheated and that's why I dumped him cause he can't handle his parents and friends thinking bad of him. So they think I am just a bitch who dumped him. Fuuuuck WHY did I get back together with him. Oh yeah I missed him.
And honestly, thinking about my crush feels so good because if I think about him, then I won't be thinking about my bf who faps to pics of coworkers who he has a "crush on their looks". What ever that means. I just want out but everyone is going to hate me for dumping him because nobody knows he cheated.

>>17486195
Who cares what they think. If they ever have the courage to say something to you, you just tell the truth. Otherwise, let them talk - who cars.

Dump him, block him and move on.

Ok?

>>17486133
nice dubs

so, am I still wrong for cheating? Don't you think that the education system itself make the students cheat? because teachers/profs/parents want us to get good grades?

>>17486137
Sure.

You should leave the package out and monitor the area. When the thief comes back confront them and tell your neighbors. You could also ask your neighbors to keep an eye out too since you know their shit is missing.

>too big for a P.O. box
They will hold the mail in the back for you. You just have to go during business hours for the counter. it sucks you have to go out of your way, but at least you'll have some comfort your packages aren't getting stolen.

>>17486127
I have a big window at the front of the house so I can see the malbox itself a little bit
If I kept looking out to see who took mail from the mailbox itself though, how would I prove they stole it to the police? I would see it but I would have no proof
>>17486153
Yeah it does suck, and oh I am a little new to mail being held
A lot of my packages are clothes from Asia though and I have no idea when they would be getting here and I think the post office only holds packages for 5 days. I don't know how I can avoid having a lot of them sent back because the post office is too far to reasonably walk to every 5 days for the next however many months it will take my stuff I ordered to get here

Disclaimer : not a believer.

Do you know the bet of Pascal ?

Basically, believe in it. Either God exists and you keep your place to afterlife opened, or he doesn't and you don't lose anything.

>>17486069
Well here's why I believe.

Matter cannot be created, nor can it be destroyed. So where did l this fucking matter come from?

>big bang

Even if the big bang theory is true, (which I'm pretty sure there is evidence to prove it) there still had to be something to cause it.

Athiests essentially believe that everything came into existence for literally no reason whatsoever. That, to me, is pure lunacy compared to the notion of an intelligent creator.

>who created god?

God is probably a being who trancends time and space. Maybe he was created in another dimension. Maybe he IS the universe. Who knows.

I think that a really human desire.
There's other ways you can 'believe' in god without being explicitly religous, as a symbolic literary figure, as a manifestation of the architecture of the mind that allows external reflection, as a non personified force the underlies the order of the universe.

I think the flaw is getting stuck in conceptualizing god as a thing like you and I that has human traits/thoughts/methods of communication.

God is gravity, the strong and weak nuclear force, and electromagnetism in it's limitless permutations and the profound existence of order in a universe that could yield chaos under different premises.

Organized religion also has other benefits in terms of being part of communities that provide support and moral guidance.

I'm agnostic, meaning I simply do not know and recognize that I lack meaningful information to come to any positive conviction.

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> asking people to hack.
> thats illegal
> on a surface web site.
> that police keep tabs on
What are you casual?

>>17486064
Nice try FBI.

>>17486064
Awesome just forward the money to my offshore Nigerian bank account and I'll get right on that.

Depends on what kind of burnout you're talking about.

I've gotten that from breakup stress and paranoia, but nothing physical like drugs or alcohol.

>>17486008
i've been burned out from work as a new teacher. suck ass. summers help a ton.

Yes OP, like two serious ones in the last 7 years.
One resulted in severe dissociative depression.

The other one was totally manic/depressive with paranoia and bouts of panic interspersed triggered by a combination of relationship stress, housing instability, job loss and physical stress.

Did something happen OP? sounds very similar to PTSD symptoms.

>>17486007
You're fucked

>>17486011
thanks for letting me know, I'l just drink a liter of bleach and save myself 40 years of trying to work it out

>>17486007
If you're so smart then figure it out instead of asking random people on the internet.

Eh, it's a bit normal to be a bit sour if someone is moving away I think. But their responses are beyond overkill, they were just making stabs in the dark hoping they hit something.

>>17485991
Well I think in a way they did. I don't know man. All of them are older than 22. And all we did back home was smoke weed and play vidya.

>>17485996
So they're just jealous because you're the only one who achieved what they dreamed of.
It's a good thing you got rid of them. It hurts of course, but use their bitterness as a fuel to succeed.
Also, your mom is the best, stay with her as long as you can before it's too late.

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>>17485959
I don't know, people say it will pass with time, but it doesn't. There always will be that little piece in you that is dead.

>>17485959
Losing boyfriend/girlfriend is a lot like losing a pet. Get a new one and you'll forget about it and when you're trying to sleep at night it will creep into your head and make you feel awful

>>17486019
Not dead, tainted. Tainted bits will still live on within you.

Dead bits imply that you're an empty shell of a human whose emotions, dreams, and general compassion have withered out of your body and into the puddle of once-innocent souls.

>>17485889
American Eagle and hollister. Me being super slav I wore Adidas super stars, being the average Joe. Boot cut jeans and Hollister shirt one size too small

>>17485921
Thanks for the help, now I might look decent enough to get some friends and a job. Any recommendations on footwear?

>>17485942
What is your school in rural or suburbs?

>>17485872
smoke some weed.

It'll be gone by tomorrow. I always have a "hangover" the next day after eating edibles where I just feel exhausted and want to sleep and lay in bed all day. I feel perfectly fine the next day. Maybe eat less of the edible next time so you don't get so fucked up and you don't wake up feeling so shitty.

Eat.

I'd assume she committed a felony but hasn't been charged. She has 15 years left on the statute of limitations.

>>17485879
Shit, so I still have no way of knowing what it might be?

I wouldn't ask, most people are trying to forget about these sorts of things and move on with life.

If it's a make or break for you, you should probably just get out now.

If you really must know without asking you can do a background check online and it will list if she has any reports/convictions.

she might be saying that because she hasn't been prosecuted yet and it's generally bad to leak a bunch of info out that may be used against you at some point by a beligerent bf at a later date.

alternatively she may be on probation right now.

I wouldn't mess with it dude,
that's pandoras box.

statutes on most felonies is 6 years in cali, only a couple super serious crimes have longer statutes.

>>17485839
Look at what the rap stars are wearing now a days and check out fashion forums. Streetwear is in now homie. Or maybe hit up the golfwang fashion. Pastel and bright colors. Honestly, in the end just do you nigga. Fashion isn't about what others think it's about what you think. Don't be an average joe. That shit's boring.

>>17485839

it depends. there is no 'best' and that means something idfferent to everyone. what you want is to find a style that suits you. so go out to the mall, stop by every clothing store and look at what they have. then try it on. try not to worry about being edgy or whatever.

a lot of people on 4chan make fun of what i wear, but it looks good, and i get laid, so it doenst really matter. wear what makes you feel good.

>>17485839
alright underage faggot

are you fat?

tall?

skinny?

black?white?

need some more information and I'll tell you how to dress

Medicine and engineering are quite different things, there's no guarantee that you'll enjoy engineering just because you enjoy medicine. I say give medicine a go, even if it's for a year, and see whether you like it or not. You don't want to go through life wondering "what if?", do you? You don't have to be a surgeon with medicine, there are other areas you could go into which allow you to have a better work-life balance.

>>17485806
Well first of all it's your life. Not your patrents'.
Second of all- medicine is fucked up. Not only do you have to fucking drag yourself through like 6 years of studies, then there's residency which (in most countries for surgery at least) is another 6 years when you are treated like shit and not learning anything, you are on your legs for 72 hours straight and so on and so forth.
The bottom line is- iif you don'tt have a strong sense that being a doctor is your "calling"- just drop it. Spoken from experience.

>>17485812
The reason I said engineering is cause I'm ok with math, and I'd have a good paying job after college, but I get what you mean.
>You don't want to go through life wondering "what if?", do you?
God Damn you got me there anon. Thank you for the advice tho

>>17485846
Oh yea I know that it's my life, I just want to make them proud in the end.

>>17485781
Do it and live off benefits like every other scum bag who comes out of the forces. Join the Marines basic infantry. Hopefully you won't get cut in half by a Taliban man with a pkm. Or if you want a leisure time and reap benefits airforce security services.

The only thing that matters is if you are living in a country which could go to war. If you do, just forget about it and start training martial arts, working out, do yoga, meditate,... If there is no chance of your country going to war and you really want this, just do it. Hope this helps and please don't die in some stupid war for fat faggots running your country. Good luck and godspeed anon.

>>17485781
if you are joining the military for reasons of patriotism just know that you will be used as an evil force around the world for jewish overlords.

if you are joining just to have a day based in habits, realize that you will have little control over those habits at all for some time. you are giving up your freedom for minimal results.

I wouldn't suit up simply because of the PTSD and suicide rate of active duty military or those who have seen action...especially knowing that the government gives zero shits once you are spent and your heads all fucked up/body is mutilated.