Why do girls who have expressed that they don't want to date you, or even be friends with you, always act so friendly and chipper towards you when you see each other in public? That just makes it seem like they're (still) interested in you.
If you don't want anything to do with that person, why go out of your way to be nice to them? Again, that just communicates romantic or platonic in that person. And signals the social cue that you want them to approach you, or you want to be closer to them.
>>17773922
No it doesn't.
>>17773927
Yes it does. If you're being friendly with someone, they're going to think you want some kind of relationship with them. Whether romantically or just friends, that's what it communicates. If you tried that with me, I'm going to assume you want something more.
>>17773927
If someone interprets your actions as X, then that's what it communicates to them as.
Okay. So. Gotta find a way to die fast. Only have like $200 in my account so it can't be something too expensive. Preferably painless but if it does the job, cool.
>>17773897
What led you to this OP? Let's talk this out
>>17773901
You're kind but it really doesn't matter.
I've been depressed since I was like 8 and been trying to find good ways to kill myself for at least the past 8 years. Tired of this shit, tired of trying and failing, tired for being taken for granted for and treated like garbage.
Last straw just broke the camels back and I just want to fucking end it and maybe make the lives of the people around me a little better.
>>17773897
Forgot to mention preferably something my family doesn't have to clean up.
I have a psycho ass mother. If you slightly inconvenience her she'll retaliate with 90 times worse. I've had bleach poured on my clothes, she steals my stuff constantly, if she's denied using the bathroom for 2 minutes she'll keep you up 24/7 by blasting Christmas music. She's an extremely abusive, hypocritical, cunt. I fucking hate her so much. I've been trying to get a job for a year but since I had to drop out of school, plus not having a retail job before (I had an IT internship at the age of 16 but they say that doesn't qualify or some Shit). I have like $-2 in the bank. I'm so sick and tired of being afraid to leave my room in fear that she'll break in and either steal my shit or set it on fire (yes she's tried to do that before) I'm three seconds from committing murder Suicide. What's the best way to get a gun? I have an uncle that has a bunch, how can I get a gun from him?
I'm literally on the floor right now.
>>17773878
go to a support group or shelter or SOMETHING first.
If you're a dude you can pose as a LGBTQ youth if you can't find anyone to help a straight dude. Suicide hotline? Start googling resources bud. I'm sorry you're in this....... I know it seems like no way out.
It'd feel much better to be successful and rub it in her face though. Drive HER to suicide. If what you say is true, you don't deserve that yourself.
>>17773933
omg this is great..pose as LGBTQ youth lmfaoooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Hi, my name's Amelia.. Maybe I can lend some advice, too?
namaste
>>17773871
If you could come back as one animal, which & why?
>>17773900
Not OP but I would come back as a black hole
My gf is going to her friend's (male) 21st birthday tonight while I'm out of state because of work
Why would she so this to me?
Because this is real life and it will always kick u in ur idealistic nuts if ever u grow too hopeful of a ho.
99% of girls in general are garbage relationship-wise, and you in american culture bruh.
Listen to some gangster rape if ur still tripping about this obviously scandalous bitch. Call her a bitch internally
>bitch
>bitch
Yeah thats it anon, keep going
>BITCH
>FUCKIN SKETCHY ASS NON LOYAL ASS BOOTY AINT EVEN THAT GOOD ASS HO
Welcome back to reality, OP.
Go now in peace.
>>17773870
If it's her friend then she has a right to go...If you don't trust her then why are you still with her?
Because he's her friend.
You paranoid fuck.
Unless you have any sort of grounding in reality for your suspicions, you're just thinking about it too much.
Alright /adv/ I need some technical help. I might have gone to /g/ but I don't really wanna risk getting banned for making a request there. I just bought a NW-700 Condenser Microphone and a Logitech HD Pro C920 Webcam to make videos (interested in politics and am considering a youtube channel just as a pet project). I am having a hard time finding good software for recording (editing is no problem), and the one freeware program that I am using (free-screencast.com) is just giving me shitty quality. Fuzzy background noise from the microphone, and the video is being delivered at what looks like 480p in 4:3. What software should I use for recording and how should I set it up to make the most out of the mic and cam that I have?
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>>17773855
thank you for the bump even if that isn't advice
bumping for halp
How do i recruit an edgy friend to 4chan so that i wont be the only 4chiggit in our social circle?
why even tell anyone you browse 4chan?
U dont find 4chan
4chan finds u
I wouldn't recommend publicly stating that you browse 4chin in real life.
Many people still view it as the place edgelord, future shooters hang out.
Alright so I made a thread the other day and listened to the advice and agreed with it but just wanted to get some more perspectives before I do something I regret. promise there won't be a third thread this is it.
should I messenger this girl on facebook who i used to pretty much edate for about 2 years who I met on an mmo. we were extremly close staying up all night on the weekends telling eachother everything. had all sorts of inside jokes and really confided in eachother.
anyway we lived so far away and lost touch but I remembered her AIM (we eventually quit playing but continued talking on that) and googled it and found her Facebook. She wanted to trade FBs afterall back in the day but I didn't have one. and not just once she told me maybe 2 dozen times to just make one so we could keep in touch. It's been almost 8 years since we've talked and while we did have sort of a falling out it was not at all on bad terms we just had seperate things going on.
would it be alright to messenge her on FB saying I was remeniscing over good old times of the game and friends on the game and out of curiousity googled her AIM I luckily remembering it and found her Facebook? all in all it feels slightly creepy but we spent soooo much time together and we're so damn close I feel like she may not feel it creepy and just be happy to be in contact.
Bro id say that does sound a little creeper-ish
Not to say I know anything about your friendship with her, but usually with women if they don't talk to you there is either a reason
What are.your.intentions.for this? Do you want to e date her? Be pals? Id say that matters a lot here.
Its alll up to u m7
>>17773860
I don't expect a relationship. we just used to be such good friends on the game. We literally stayed up til sunrise almost every weekend just talking to each other but whatever was going on in our lives. she wanted to meet and all that just lived so far away.
I mean the attraction was there just living so far away and being teens at the time we didn't try to make anything offical or whatever. but if not in the game we would be talking all not on aim or something until one of else feel asleep on the keyboard always being very sweet with eachother.
>>17773872
night* not not
How do you let a friendship die with out 'pain'
So I have friends like a normie fucker, but to be honest they turned out to be completely different people. I haven't changed at all and they are all very annoying. I don't know how to ask for advice so please help. (If you need to know what kind of people my friends are here):
>Stacy is triggery and a heart breaker
>Becca is always depressed
>Chad jr is Becca's ex yet still a beta
>Taylor has no personality other than sex jokes.
I'm sorry I'm even friends with these people.
You gradually pull away. Depending on the type of people they are there will come a point where they will stop contacting you or they will confront you about it. If the former happens congrats, you're in the clear. If the latter happens you'll have to make a bunch of bullshit excuses about being too busy until the former finally happens.
>>17773819
This has happened to me a lot over the years.
I completely agree with the first post...just gradually drift away and they'll get the hint.
are they your only friends?
My grandma just annihilated her knee. Took her to the doc, it's so shattered it has to heal for 2 months before they're going to do a replacement. She has insurance but we're already strapped for cash. She lives with me because I didn't want to home her after Grandpa died.
Wat do? Any advice?
>>17773816
Pay for a trustable nurse to take care of her while you outside
go into debt
Now may be a better time than ever to stop procrastinating on entering the elderly porn ring. With you as her manager & biggest supporter, the sky's the limit as to the amount & speed at which you make money.
Or would you prefer that your grandmother feels Not empowered, but as a burden for having an accident and putting yet more strain on the financial situation? How could you be willing to let her feel so bad, OP?
How to grow balls to break up with someone you love?
She is not reciprocating and things are going downhill, I know I should cut my losses but I need to detach myself from her first.
Also meeting other girls isn't an easy option, i'm anti-social as fuck and have no friends.
>She is not reciprocating
In what ways?
>>17773903
Not demonstrating love, not showing that she cares, being gradually colder day after day, etc
>>17773909
>Not demonstrating love, not showing that she cares
Examples? People show affection in different ways, anon.
two friends have stopped talking to me and apparently now dislike me because apparently I asked for lifts in their cars too much. We all lived within a pretty narrow vicinity of each other (same town). Quite why they didn't just ask for a cash donation, or indeed just give me a fair warning, is beyond me. Who's being the faggot here?
You for constantly asking your friends for lifts and not taking the bus like a regularly person. I would cut you off as well considering how irritating you would after a while. I bet they were like "fuck there is that fag gain probably going to ask us to get bring him somewhere....dude like fuck off"
Here is a life lesson, stop acting like a fag and learn to be reasonable.
You. Get over it they were your friends not your driver. You sound like a selfish person anyways I wouldn't be surprised if you did other things too much.
Both parties are at fault.
You should have offered money and/or apology for asking so many times
Them because they should have talked about instead of being childish and stopped talking to you.
All of you need to grow the fuck up and act like responsible adults.
Hi /adv/, is there anything I could do to get a decent beard? I'm gonna try growing it for 3 months to see what the fuck, but this is me after like 3 weeks or maybe more, do you think is there any hope for me or I'm too old already to get my beard?
Also I looked for advices to grow it faster but everything seems like bullshit.
get better genetics
>>17773781
Not much you can do, if it hasn't filled out around 23 it may never. Most advice is bullshit, if you've got really bad nutrition fixing your diet can help but that's about it. You can try to find a style that matches it's growth pattern.
>>17773781
are you that sad sack of shit that's always on here talking about suicide and posting pics but you're really just doing to manipulate people?
I'm pretty sure that finals are the last chance I have to turn around my Calc II grade, since midterms went awfully for me. I'm usually good with math, but I can't get myself to study. I'm not one to blame others for my shit, but the environment I'm in is terrible.
>Loud floormates
>Roommate plays DOTA all day so my room's full of clicking and screaming
>He snores really loud too
>Online class with no face-to-face interaction
What can I do, /adv/? I haven't done anything you could call "leisure" for months.
The common sense solution is to go the local library or the university library and study there.
>>17773760
you mean that YOU went awfully to midterms.
>im not one to blame others for my shit
>but here i am, doing it anyways, almost as if the first sentence is just some stupid thing i say to hide the fact that i DO blame everyone else for everything.
>>17773760
>I'm usually good with math, but I can't get myself to study.
Lots of people good at math never say this.
hey anon what's the longest you've made an LDR work?
did ur relationship start in person?
>>17773719
Forget it my man, she'll cheat on you
>>17773727
that is a very toxic attitude to hold
>>17773729
>toxic
Why am I seeing this word all over 4chan? I wish reddit would leave