Then she cancelled (without me seeing it, on Gchat) and once I got there she refused to see me.
She said she was sick, she said she was at work (until 6:30?) then... Asked me if we wanted to "go shopping" together.
I was fucking furious and I threatened to publish her sex tape.
My question - why did she ask to see me yesterday, eat Italian, and then cancel on me today? She has a boyfriend I was hoping she would cheat on with me, she did before once.
I spoke with her yesterday and told her all about what was going on in my life... I feel like she saw that I was genuinely happy about some stuff and wanted to see if she could still exert power over me.
>>17774273
ur an idiot. move on with your life.
How far did u drive?
I drove 1.5 hours
Forgot to put back key @ work,
What should I do? I'm thinking of popping up before they open (they have more, but I don't want them to think I took them purposely)
>>17774234
I should clear up, that it's the key for break room/office and that it only use is for that
Just notify your manager it will be fine. I have done this countless times
>>17774240
I called and left a voicemail
I just hope she actually gets in and answers
I'll still come in at opening & notify her in person
What are the problems of having sex too soon in a relationship?
There are no problems inherent with it. Usually this is just an excuse for immature cunts to pretend they aren't shit at relationships.
>>17774239
What?
>there is nothing wrong with it so long as it is actually a relationship, and not manipulation with the intent of getting laid
>>17774218
easy way to substitute physical intimacy for developing a deep emotional bond, thus making your blooming relationship into a shallow fuck-buddy situation where you both have just a little too many feels for each other to be comfortable fucking and leaving but not enough to be genuine with each other in the moment
>usually have pinup girls as my phone wallpaper
>tell the gf I especially like this one because it reminds me of her, send her pic related
>she has gone North Korean levels of ballistic
Why?
women are literally fucking insane bro
>>17774104
What is she saying exactly?
>>17774104
Lots of women find porn gross, but don't say anything because they know 90% of guys won't accept it. And then even if they're more tolerant, they often still don't want to hear what you like. Makes them feel inadequate and that they have to compete.
>>17774094
Get him help
>>17774094
Because that's just how he is....
>>17774101
I tried but refuses. His parents really disapprove and I'm scared they'll send him away. Although I in no way find him attractive he is still my friend.
I've given up on life. I blew my money on weed and lost my mental edge. Cigarettes, booze. I'm a fucking burnout at 22 years. My family is poor, we come from nothing. Neither of my parents went to college, so I'm trying it but of course it's not working out. I've just given up on everything. My soul is crushed, heartbroken. I don't care about anything anymore. If I end up homeless, I'll just let myself die of thirst. I can't kill myself until my father dies. Just letting myself die.
The only friends I had ditched me a year ago. I have no friends now. Zero. No one talks to me.
I'm trying to keep my job. At least I have a job. I try to do my job so I am useful in some way. But it's hard when your spirit is just crushed.
It's not a bad thing to have not gone to college yet. There's plenty of people who have gone and chose the wrong field of study, and then end up regretting it afterwards. And if they didn't work during that time they might be worse off, as at least you have experience.
As far as meeting people, you have so many options with the internet. Chatrooms, gaming, meetup.com.
>>17774123
U dumbass, this man is dealing with serious drug induced depression. Going bowling with eric isnt going to fix this.
Listen Op, you need to get your head together. First you need to make a committment to walk away from weed and booze completely. You yourself see that your overindulgence in them has only drained you of clarity and desire, but these things are not gone forever. They were easier to lose than theyll be to regain, but you CAN regain them with COMMITTMENT. i fucking swear this to you.
You need to exercise your brain. Memory, awareness, problem solving, and pattern recognition should be foremost concerns. Make exercises for yourself to develop these and do them REGULARLY.
Eat HEALTHY. Shit food genuinely makes you moodier and less capable of making good decisions.
Eat plain, low sugar (but not without fat) yogurt every day with probiotics.
Eat spinach.
Eat eggs for breakfast.
Greatly minimize sugars and breads.
Now do stretches every day to get your body in smoothe working order. Practice good breathing techniques to get your lungs happy again.
Stop masturbating. It drains you of vital energy if you go wasting it all the time, and it only feeds into the doomed feeling that too much pot gives.
Life is about choice, and you need to accept the fact that in everything you do, you can either promote Goodness, or not. You know what goodness is. Good is health. Good is harmony. Good is pure. Good is simple.
Sow goodness in your own mindset and life. I promise you things will turn around. But you have to do this for yourself. No one will help you be great if you wont try it for yourself.
And dont be so hard on yourself, my friend. Even if everyone else hates on you for what youve done, you will never help yourself by being harsh on yourself.
Let loose, and imbue everything you do with true Goodness.
here you go man
How to get over insecurity?
I get mad at my girlfriend for stupid things and i realise I'm wrong after.
In the moment of anger I can't convince myself that I'm in the wrong. I can't control the urge to confront her. What do i do?
>>17774080
honestly think you should talk to a professional. you are exhibiting abusive behaviour. it's good that you are recognising it, but it is serious and isn't easy to change your behaviour at the drop of a hat. please seek help. for her sake.
>>17774146
How is it abusive? I never hit her or insult her or anything. She holds up her end of all the arguments well enough
>>17774080
>>17774186
you have to realize this when you get into an argument so you can walk away to cool off
convince me not to get revenge on someone. particularly illegal revenge. i normally dont mind getting into details but i know that person goes on 4chan.
If your a nobody loser will commit a murder suicide rampage and have your name, photos on CNN, Daily Mail published while top psychiatrists analyze your manifesto in various documentaries....Yeah.
If you wanna do the crime, at least make it interesting. Otherwise you'll be in the lowest place having done nothing in your life.
>>17774067
Dont mind getting into details
-> says nothing
Fuck you go make ur AW somewhere else
revenge doesn't fix anything
My boyfriend lashes out at me and hangs up on me when we're meant to be having nice sleepover calls and I feel like the worst person in the world even when it's always because he's lied a lot or been an asshole and then somehow it's my fault
how can I stop myself crying and feeling useless
>>17774065
dump his ass
Why contribute to the "girls only like assholes" maymay?
sit him down and have a very serious conversation about it
>>17774065
Do both!
I'll get straight to it
Bleeding from the ass for over 4 years. Only had a handful of good movements since then (I know this because I genuinely feel happy when it happens). I do have lumps i my ass when I do have a BM but they do not hurt and sometimes come out during. Poop is often dark but I wouldn't call it black.
I also experience back pain in the lower region and recently also in my mid-upper back on my right side. Also tenderness on my right side of abdomen and a pain under my left rib cage.
Also getting frequent infections lately (mostly in nose) but also in my crotch area (think staph infection kinda things) which I never usually got. Also throat-type infections. Also a big rusty-like rash all over back out of nowhere which lasted around 3 months...seems to be fading now though. I am a hygienic person...2 showers a day, constantly washing hands etc.
Go to pee like 4-9 times a day.
Also suffer from bad acid reflux periodically. Can sleep upwards of 16 hours a day if it wasn't for real life.
Suffer from bad circulation...often waking up with numb hands and right leg (leg is I'm laying on back, hands if on side) and the last 2 fingers on my left hand went pretty numb for about a month.
I abused alcohol in my teens and still like a drink or 2. Currently 24 yo
Any ideas what may be wrong? Anyone else experience anything similar?
>>17774045
Mother of God, man! Have you not gone to a doctor?
>>17774053
>>17774053
I went once to talk about it all but after the first thing I showed him (I had a lump on my jawline, I thought I'd start from the head up...LOL) and he gave me a perscription for anti biotics and sort of rushed me before I could say anything else. it was a busy GP day.
>>17774086
yeah, they don't usually expect people who don't go to GPs to come in with a list of shit. just go back and talk about that one thing.
I've been thinking all day but I still can not think of anything, unu
>>17774027
Detroit
>>17774027
Ferreton-shire-ville.
With the Duke of nooks, the earl of fuzz and the king of nibs.
faggot town
>sometimes life just gives you what you need not always what you want
>Keep getting fucked over all the time
haha okay very funny universe. You can stop playing tricks on me now
>>17774006
Care to be a bit more specific?
>>17774006
>haha okay very funny universe. You can stop playing tricks on me now
blaming the universe for your stupidity
pro tip:
If you want the universe to stop fucking with you, then understand the universe well enough to the point where you can start fucking with it
it's not rocket science
IT'S EVERY FIELD OF SCIENCE IN EXISTENCE
or math, that works too
>>17774039
people usually say the universe gives you what you need, not always what you want because of some hidden lesson or something or keep balance in the world or whatever.
But instead I just keep getting trampled on by people or situations, so I'm starting to think the universe and everything else is just a big joke with no meaning and emotions are just waves which come and go, ultimately meaning or resulting to nothing.
So here you go. Have your (you)
I'm in my first actual relationship with a gril after 21 years of autism.
What are some beginner tips? I don't care how dumb or obvious it might sound. I don't know how2 romance/boyfriend/intimacy
>>17773997
My advice? Start things slow. Figure out what works for you and your partner. Build from there.
Don't try to not be autistic.
Seriously, embrace your autism (assuming you're actually autistic.) Be confident and don't try to compensate by doing the opposite of what you initially think to do.
I'm really good friends with someone with autism who you'd never think was otherwise until you say something sarcastic and he can't tell. Be honest and open about it but don't dwell on it. Don't make the relationship ABOUT the autism and you should do fine.
>>17773997
Confidence, confidence, confidence.
Also, ask about her day. If she vents, just listen, don't try to solve all her problems no matter how tempting it seems. Grills don't want their conflicts resolved; they just want to talk about them. Just let her talk and then say you're sorry that happened, compliment her, and offer cuddles and ice cream.
Hey /adv/. I've tried few drugs now and been experimenting with alchohol for a few years now. Just tried LSD tonight and it was fun but I'm considering wrapping it up for life, because i dont feel substances give you anything worth their time. What's /adv/'s stance on drinking/drugs?
Alcohol is not 'experimenting'. I was done 'experimenting' with alcohol after I hit 16.
Practice le meditation meme if you want enlightenment without substances.
hallucineogens can be fun ocassionsly with friends. depressants such as alcohol or harder drugs with potential for abuse are asking for trouble that could range from losing a year of your life to a decade or two to your entire life also affected the ones around you.
>>17773932
With alcohol I dont really mean the getting drunk bit; i mean how i feel about it in a social context.
Before I had ever gone to clubs and house parties regularly I thought I was missing out on something, but now that I've done all that stuff I feel much more indifferent about it. I fail to understand why I'd go to such lengths to get such an anti climatic experience to be honest.
Don't get me wrong I've had good times drinking, but I could have had just as much fun sober.
The past few times I've had the opportunity to drink I've tried not drinking and it's been the exact same experience, but much cleaner and more enjoyable in retrospect.
My roommate has a really annoying habit of inhaling really sharply like they forgot to breathe or something and it's driving me insane. I know it's kind of ridiculous to ask them to stop breathing, but what can I do?
>>17773923
HAHAHAHHAHAHAAHAAHAAHAHA THIS IS RIDICULOUS
>>17773938
HAHAHHAHAHAHhhahahhahahahahha
Oh my FUCKING god, my sister does the same shit and it drives me up the FUCKING wall. She also has this habit of exhaling really loudly like she was holding her breath for fucking 20 minutes or something. I've mentioned it to her before, but she doesn't notice it.