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To all the depressed lonely men 2017-03-09 05:04:21 Post No.18112104
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To all the depressed lonely men
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2017-03-09 05:04:21
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How do you live with yourselves? What keeps you going and not fully allow yourselves to be done in by the despair that is your extremely less than ideal situation and mental state in life?
I don't ask because I pity or look down on you, I ask because while it's not as bad as it was last year I've still been having depressing thoughts and the occasional "what's the point of living if there's life currently sucks", and it would be nice to know what keeps you guys going besides the typical baseless "HOPING that things will get better with time and effort" mindset.
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>>18112104
a lot of people like being depressed. claiming their lives have no meaning is what gives their lives meaning
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>>18112104
>typical baseless "HOPING that things will get better with time and effort" mindset
It did for me.
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>>18112131
How long did it take, what happened, and what did you do?
I'm not sure whether I should drop out of college.
(I'm 19 by the way, just giving some context)
I want to be a singer/songwriter and I try to spend as much time as possible doing that, but schoolwork feels like it's just getting in the way.
My dream is to drop out and move to NYC where I can rent a studio space and play shows at open mics, etc.
but that's scary.
Last weekend I spent 6 hours in a practice room on Friday and 8.5 hours on Saturday. I would've put more hours in, but I had to do other stuff.
I just don't know if it'll all be worth it in the end, but I want to pursue this dream of mine.
Am I just being naive? How do I reconcile the fact that dropping out and moving to a city is so scary? How do I make ends meet while living there?
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https://samweinberg3.bandcamp.com/track/a-momentary-lapse-of-love
Here's some of my music btw. I'm working on recording an album.
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You cant make ends meet as a musician in new york city. Everyone and their dog is doing that, you're in a huge sea filled with crushed dreams and up and comers.
That being said, I do enjoy the music it's quite obvious you've put alot of effort into your song writing. Basically, I felt the most liberated In my life when I gave up my dream of being a paid musician and just started doing it as a very very passionate hobby. Music is still my entire life, but now I have a career to pay for my music making.
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>>18115963
I appreciate the advice, but I don't want to waste time with a different career when I could be doing music full time. The way I see it, and time spent not working on my music is time wasted.
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so i used to be a fairly handsome guy, would get female attn, etc, but i was hit by a car on tuesday evening and i've been given 8 stitches in my eye, it's a little worse than pic related, bruisings a little bit worse too and has my eye completely swollen
i know it's going to scar pretty badly, but what the fuck do i do/ plastic surgery to try to save my face/ i've never posted on advice and the doctor is basically trying to make it seem like its going to heal all nicely, but it doesnt seem like it will, its a jagged cut and theres a piece of skin hanging off the stitches
pic isnt me but wound is basically in the same place, just extends a little bit downwards
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Scars are manly , if you were attractive it will even be cooler
Stop being a pussy
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dude facial scars are a fucking godsend. Be happy with your good fortune. Unless you were a fashion model or something its nothing at all to worry about.
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Sounds like you're fucked
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Ask someone who is probably doing better than you anything.
(I don't mean that as an insult, I mean if you're coming here for help you might be going through a tough time.)
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Am I doing the right thing going after an unlikely, but achievable dream job?
How can I gain enough confidence to finally get babby's first gf? What are good places to go for this besides bars?
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>>18115130
>Am I doing the right thing going after an unlikely, but achievable dream job?
Yes!
I'm in a job that had 950 applicants, and I'm the sort of person who shitposts on 4chan.
>How can I gain enough confidence to finally get babby's first gf? What are good places to go for this besides bars?
Well this is a matter of preference, but personally I'm not a fan of bars for meeting women. Focus on you, get a decent job, pick up a hobby, hang out with friends and meet their friends. You'll meet someone you're interested in, from that point its a confidence issue - this is where developing yourself comes in. Get good at things and you'll come to have confidence in who you are.
Basically become a normie and just b urself bro
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>>18115106
What is the capital of Outer Mongolia?
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Why do uggos have the "highest" standards? 2017-03-10 02:23:39 Post No.18114237
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Why do uggos have the "highest" standards?
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I'm very curious about this. I have noticed that attractive women tend to have realistic/around average standards. Yet on the other side, fatty midgets with bad hygeine and a shitty personality who rely heavily on online apps to have a guy approach them expect a guy to be 6 feet tall, 8 inch dick, and abs of steel.
It doesn't make much sense to me.
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Lack of social contact makes people a bit delusional about society. This happens in men as well.
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Found the uggo
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so i have a small penis /adv/ ,went to talk to a friend about it but didnt really give good advise since he doesnt suffer the same problem i do.
i have a gf that has never had sex or even masturbated,i dont know if the masturbation part is true though but then again she lives in a strict catholic family. i really like her and i dont want to end up having sex with her and making her feel disappointed is there any advise to where i can satisfy her with my dick even though it isnt that thick or long
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Nope. You'd better get good at eating that pussy, son.
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if a girl has gotten to the point where clothes are coming off, the size of your penis does not matter unless you have a legit micro dick
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How long is it? I used to think that mine was small when it's in fact slightly above average
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gf posting nudes on soc 2017-03-10 12:33:07 Post No.18113935
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>have friend whos a regular on soc
>goes into one of the camwhore threads
>sees a girl with a background that is literally 100% my apartment
>links me the pic/thread
>can instantly tell its my gf based on body/birthmarks/room
>gf is flirting with 5 different dudes and posting pictures with lingerie she bought with my money "for me"
>am fucking devastated
What the fuck do I do adv? I know I have to break up with her, but I just dont understand why she would fucking do this. Should I even tell her the real reason I'm breaking up with her or just let her think I have no idea? I assume itd be a bad idea to try to get revenge so how can I cope with this in a healthy manner?
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>>18113935
If it's solely your apartment, pack everything she has there for her (optional gift box), print out the photos, glue them in a card with a sweet exterior like it's a love gift or something but on the inside says "bye, whore" or something, give to her, delete her from all social media and block her number.
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>>18113944
Don't forget to change the locks.
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>>18113955
Good point.
Alternatively, pose as an anon in a thread she's in and try to lure her into a private chat if possible, then reveal yourself and watch her squirm.
Whatever you do, OP, I think she ought to know that she's being dumped because she got caught being shady. I think she deserves to be humiliated over it, but if you want to be classy, more power to you.
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I honestly liked it when these were up, giving off a sense where a community had appeared and released whatever stresses they had. It's cathartic to just unleash whatever feelings you have at some thread where literally no one IRL will find you (unless you met here, but I digress).
Ironically, any anons that can reply to each other can just project and vent even more, to a point where peace is met after what little quarrels they want settled. Even without typing combat, there's always someone here that wants to put some balm on another anon's wounds of previous struggles.
Therefor, while it will remain infrequent for a long time, I hope these types of threads go on once in a while without a hitch.
Also, I'm the one who ate the last pecan pie piece. I'm sorry, Jenny.
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these threads are allowed again.
The janitor posted the last one apologizing for removing them, also mentioning how they give that sense of community, and that him removing them took away the community and made the board a 'job' for its users.
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>6th grade, valentines day
>have to bring valentine things to class like cards and candy
>class is giving out candy, my turn comes
>all the girls act like theyre grossed out taking my candy and cards
>after were all done and were eating candy and reading our cards i notice the girls immediately threw my candy and cards away
>inside the cards they gave me were like "not really" "please dont take this seriously" "my parents made me give you one"
>wonder what i did to get this. figure i am just the one they chose to hate
Its been over 15 years and I still think of this. I fucking hate you all.
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im falling apart and i have absolutly no one to talk to my fiancee hates me my family is well lets not get into that and i feel so fucking alone. ive fucked up my life and i dont know how to fix it in fact i think its unfixable at this point. i kinda think i need to just commit suicide and be down with this shit. i cant take it anymore even my doctors just blow me off and ignore my problems so fuck it. i need to get my hands on a helium tank quick
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My friend's dad finally hired me as firm receptionist. If do well I can become head recept
His firm isnt doing to well thanks to extremely poor management. He has hired too many retarded women and they've fucked him over for a lot. This man once sat upon a great empire and hes extremely giving. EXTREMELY
The main thing holding him back is technology. Every computer is pushing a pentium 4 and there are errors all over the fucking place. The day I began working I had to fix so many tech problems. I had to fix a fucking fax machine 3 times. I modded the thing on the fly to get it going.
As for tech, they're all using 15 year old XP Machines. They have no security and are likely full of malware from previous employee use. I talked him into recycling the dynos in the firm for some $$$ and we're getting a set of i3 IBM's. I'll personally set all of that up myself too.
The thing though is how do I convince the wife to give me full control. If I can set up every system for him I can make so much more money. The only problem is the wife. She doesnt like change and never wants to take a chances. Even though I fix all of her tech issues for free and though she has seen me revive their shitty systems at their business she will never let me take control.
All I need is a portable device for scheduling patients so I can walk everywhere in the firm and a bluetooth headset that can jump between calls and I'm good.
The wife things anything giving off a signal can be hacked. While her paranoia isnt misplaced I can do much worse to them and get away with it. I have access to so much important information right now its fucking disgusting. THEY HAVE NO SECURITY ON ANYTHING.
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The typos are intense. I'm mostly talking to a phone, blasting music and fixing a laptop so forgive me for the poor read.
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Explain to her what the issue is. Women are emotional, so low-key play to her insecurities. Show her how her outdated security system is vulnerable and how you can improve it. Conversely, you can just take control and don't tell her. Make it a matter of course that you have all of the passwords and all of the control. Take charge and ask for forgiveness later.
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How can I be a funny person without coming across as edgy? I'm so used to making sex jokes or racist jokes that it's all I do at this point, and it's getting me nowhere.
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Try watching comedians, that don't use those types of humour.
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>>18115832
stop hanging out with sjws and normies
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>lived in the country for about a year
>Would go jogging down a woodland trail most days
>came to really enjoy it
>moved back to the city
>try to go on runs down streets
>the feeling of eyes on me completely ruins it
Where do I find a lonely place to go for runs in an urban/suburban area?
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>>18115741
There should be a jogging trail. Try googling it
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>>18115741
you can usually find treadmills for cheap on craigslist. People move often and need to get rid of them.
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>>18115764
If you want to get raped this
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I am about to buy a used vehicle for $2500. My bank does not have physical locations so I had to withdraw my ATM limit of $500 each day for the past 5 days, and I now have $2500 in 20s. I want to change these into 100s for convenience sake. Can I just walk into any bank and get it changed or do I have to be a member of the bank?
I'm in CO if it matters.
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>>18115626
Why the fuck would you put your money into a bank where you can't even withdraw it from?
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Literally just walk into any bank. Or just give the seller the $20 bills.
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>>18115638
Congrats too. What kind of car?
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Recently, my partner and I broke up. He said it was for the "best". I have BPD, and I really love the guy, but I know that I'm hard to deal with at times to say the least. He gets aggressive over the slightest of things, and seems to turn everything in a bigger deal than what it should be. I don't want to be alone, and he's offering for us to "try again". I kind of want to, but I also want to step back and take time for myself. I know, pathetic, but it's been bothering me. I still care about the guy. Oh, and he's openly gay, and I'm a femanon. Advice?
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Why the shit do you call him a partner if you're a femanon?
I dunno, guy sounds kind of shitty. If a girl did that to me I wouldn't deal with it. If you really want to let him back into your life because you care about him I'd keep it on a friends-only basis.
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>>18115566
Bpd is one thing, anger issues is another and aren't great for one another. Being gay doesn't help either.
Work on yourself and ease the crazy. I dated a bpd girl and it was not fun. Made me think something was wrong with me, it was, I was losing my self respect and character by sticking around.
I couldn't deal with anger issues long term. Arguments and fights are one thing but who wants to deal with 0-100 constantly. No thanks
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Gf wants to get piercing I'm not fond of 2017-03-10 03:28:16 Post No.18115565
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Gf wants to get piercing I'm not fond of
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Gf wants to get this piercing, obviously it's her body and has the right to do what she wants with it and I wouldn't break up with her over this, I'd get over it pretty quickly but man I really find it very ugly and it would take away from her natural beauty for me, how do I convince her not to, I've already expressed all of this to her calmly btw
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Just ask her to reconsider and say you aren't that fond of it? If she gets it anyway and it's a dealbreaker, just break up with her?
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>>18115575
I mean yeah I guess that's all there is to it huh
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>>18115577
I wanted a couple of tattoos a year or so ago and my girlfriend really expressed a distaste for them, so we talked about it and I didn't get them, I know in the future if I want them she wouldn't brake up with me but if not getting a tattoo makes my significant other happier that's a very easy request to accommodate.
What I'm trying to say is, don't worry about it so much, I'm sure it'll be fine.
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ILLEGAL N.E.E.T. ADVENTURE 2017-03-10 03:13:55 Post No.18115556
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ILLEGAL N.E.E.T. ADVENTURE
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Im 18 years old N.E.E.T. from Ukrain with superhight shit in my life, using 4chan advice think about start crazy adventure (with pics, threads and proofs, but with no money, wealth, psyhic and hope) and I want your help to choose from 3 different ways. Im also will have only pasport with me and will need to go illegal.
I will have in my inventry:
Bike, Battle knife (not shape), CSGO-knife (not shape), Shaping stone, Black mask, LittleBandana-mask, Little freashman bag, Big and little ropes, Ammo for traumatic gun (without gun), Glasses, Little necklace, Bad android tablet with only frontal camera.
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Dont ignore this thread pls
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First off /adv/ is a slow board, so dont expect quick replies unless you have a unique relationshit thread.
Now I wouldn't go and do this but if you're hell bent on it what I would do is look into non-perishable foods if you can and carry some of those. Also read some survival books and even take them with you. Garbage bags, multitools, all the stuff if you are actually surviving.
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>>18115567
Nope, the way i go is becouse i need to runaway, have no time