gf posting nudes on soc

>>18113935
If it's solely your apartment, pack everything she has there for her (optional gift box), print out the photos, glue them in a card with a sweet exterior like it's a love gift or something but on the inside says "bye, whore" or something, give to her, delete her from all social media and block her number.

>>18113944
Don't forget to change the locks.

>>18113955
Good point.

Alternatively, pose as an anon in a thread she's in and try to lure her into a private chat if possible, then reveal yourself and watch her squirm.

Whatever you do, OP, I think she ought to know that she's being dumped because she got caught being shady. I think she deserves to be humiliated over it, but if you want to be classy, more power to you.

>What the fuck do I do adv?
Break up and link us to the /soc/ thread.

>>18113935

0/10

"gf posting nudes on 4chan" copypasta is old and stale, friend.

>>18113944
What this anon has suggested is a healthy thing to do. It isn't revenge, it's cutting her out of your life. You aren't slamming her face into a sharp object and if you don't confront her with what she's done you'll hemorrhage self-respect. I would honestly recommend you send out a mass email to all of her friends and family as well as your own with the pictures she took attached, plus several screencaps of the thread itself so she can't claim she didn't make the pictures public herself. Include an explanation of what she's done and tell them that you sent this because you want people to know what sort of person she is. That isn't revenge either, it's warning other people not to get involved with her because she's unfaithful. Just don't send the email to employers or university professors, if applicable, because that would actually be revenge. They aren't, or shouldn't, be looking to get in a relationship with her her so this is irrelevant to them and sending an email to them would just be vindictive.

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>>18113935
Remember for next time what women really are like. Raise your standards.

>>18113955
>>18113944

This is jot how adults solve problems. The decent and honorable thing to do, if indeed you do want to break up with her, is to sit her down, calmly explain your position, and ask her to find new accomidation within the week. Throwing someone out is just a shitty thing to do, no matter how good it makes you feel. Remember, 4chan is a He-Man Woman Hater Club; take any cry of "she deserves it" for the ideology it is.

>>18113977
I would scale this back slightly and say prepare by taking screen caps of the threads and these photos and whatnot, but don't actually send them to anyone else in her life unless she starts lying to people and it gets back to you that she's made up some bullshit about why you two broke up, especially if it paints you in a negative light. I think sending this stuff to shame her to her family and friends preemptively would be a little much. But it's your call, OP.

>>18113977
Theres no way I could get in legal trouble for doing something like this though right? You do make a good point, so I'll probably go with this, but I'd rather not show her family if I can possibly get in deep shit for doing so because she's obviously not fucking worth it. I'll definitely go with what the first anon said though.

>>18113983
You're the idealogue here.

If someone betrays your trust you have every right and grounds to remove them from your life immediately. Like so, you can fuck off out of this website you soft headed retard.

Its that fucking easy.

>>18113983
I said the gift box thing with the caveat that the apartment was his alone, meaning she doesn't actually live there, but I can see how it could come across as "as long as her name isn't on the lease" instead. I don't think it's that shitty to throw someone out, however, if they're using you for accommodation and then cheating on you. Adults also don't do shitty things like secretly post nudes behind their boyfriend's back without anticipating consequences of some sort, or if they do, they're foolish.

>>18113935
OP

Reminder, only cucks discuss things.
You are her boyfriend, not her parent, not her therapist, not her educator.

She wants to flirt with numerous guys she can now do that to her hearts content now she's single. Get her gone before she manipulates you into staying. Ignore advice ITT telling you to discuss it with her, just get her gone.

>>18113977
It's not a matter of striking preemptively, it is, as I said, a matter of warning others about her lack of moral fiber. You are doing a service to the community.

>>18113988
You cannot be prosecuted for distributing material that she herself made public. Period.

>>18113983
You've given no explanation whatsoever as to why kicking out an unfaithful girlfriend without warning would be immoral, you've only asserted that it is.

>>18114004
I disagree. I think forwarding this mess smacks of humiliation tactics rather than any true desire to warn anyone. Telling your friends about what happened and having it get around is one thing, and I think that's a totally reasonable thing to do, even though I'm a private person and think relationship drama should stay between the people involved. Sending out incriminating photos of her in a position that she likely would not want the people closest to her to see...it feels too revenge porn-y to me. She DID put them out there herself where anyone could stumble across them, but that was her choice; making sure they reach the eyes of most of her social circle, especially when word of mouth can be just as damaging and the hard evidence could be saved for later should it become necessary, seems like it's taking it too far. But to be clear, I don't feel all that strongly about it, I just think it's more likely to cause unnecessary drama to get more people involved when OP's best option is to cut her out completely as quickly as possible.

>>18113935
Just forgive her and get over it. Why is this that big of a deal OP? If you both live each other, then who cares of she posts this stuff

>>18114028
Because she is a lying slag. You might not have any standards but the rest of us do.

>>18113935
as long as she's not fucking other guys I don't see the problem. if she wants to post pictures of her body then that's up to her. she's not having sex or cheating, your not at risk of catching STDs or her getting knocked up by another guy. how does it even affect you that she's doing this? just that your insacure and want control over her body/actions?

>>18114020
What it smacks of is irrelevant and even the motivation behind it is irrelevant, what matters is the outcome. Would this humiliate her? Yes. Might someone do this specifically for that reason, rather than a moral one? Yes. Would a number of people suddenly gain a more accurate perception of her character and therefore be better equipped to deal with her? Yes. Might that mean that you could do this out of moral motivation? Yes. All of these things are true and none of them detract from how truthful each of them is. Sometimes humiliating someone coincides with doing the right thing and helping others. And there is no point to saving it for later.

>>18114037
It's just 1 lie though. People lie to people all the time. All that matters is that they both love each other. Love will always prevale

>>18114052
>love will always prevail.

No Truth will always prevail.

>>18114046
ahahahahahaha

>>18113977
this makes no sense at al. your just going to fallow this girl around her whole life warning everyone away from her. wtf bitter stalker much. it's not your job to fuck her over forever just because she did something her bf didn't like.

>>18114046
2/10

>>18113935
you should tell her you know then fuck her ass and film it for soc

>>18114052
9/10
You got me
And she clearly doesn't love him if she did this. To love someone is to respect them too, and she has 0 respect for him.

>>18114067
ahahahahahahahahahahaha

>>18114077
not trolling, I actually don't see the problem. nameless anons how she will never meet that have no idea who she is are fapping to her, big deal, she's just a random faceless cam girl. it's like almost the same thing as getting of to porn. it's not cheating I don't see the problem other then this guy's insecurity

>>18114088
"Hello Mr. Anon. Will it be the blue pill again today sir?

>>18114088
>camwhores never get doxed
>masturbating for strangers and dirty talking isnt cheating

>>18114104
no most don't, as long as you don't post stupid stuff that's personal. and no it's not, not if you're not ever going to meat any of those people or let them know who you are. it's not cheating to masterbate to porn that has other people in it that your partner. I don't see the difference between that and caming. it's not like she's having a relationship with some anon. do you have any idea how many people share nude pics, if this guy has such a issue with it then he better find himself a prude. i bet he's shared nudes himself before, he's just mad he doesn't have control over her.

>>18114121
A serious relationship means you don't have to seek this type of validation elsewhere. You sound like a broken person with no sense of commitment

>>18114051
But it isn't objectively helping others or morally correct to send those photos to anyone. People's responses to that sort of email could vary widely, including making op look like a bitter jerk, which I honestly think is just as likely as people thinking his gf is a slut. I don't think it's the morally correct thing to go out of your way to ruin someone else's reputation in a more extreme fashion when that person's actions, as far as we know, have only adversely affected her by ruining her relationship and the way op and (presumably) his friend think of her. You're not wrong in saying that the moral choice can also humiliate someone. In my opinion, it isn't a moral choice to forward these photos but a purely vindictive one you're justifying as a "good deed" to warn people away. That's not how humans interact. People don't come swooping in every time you fuck up to let everyone around you know about it in case they need to avoid you. If word of mouth isn't enough to damn her, then she'll hopefully either show her true colours to people in her own time or learn and grow. I don't think it's OP's place to do more than humiliate her intimately by showing her where she wronged him and then leaving, and to do more only invites further conflict. But I'm willing to agree to disagree on this because again, I don't really care, I just hope OP can break it off and move on for himself, however he can. ...while also sort of humiliating her.

>>18114088
I hope you're trolling. If not, I guess I can give some insight here. I literally did this to my ex bf. He was not on imageboards, hell his internet habits weren't "deeper" than occasional facebook and checking some popular youtube videos.

So well, long story short for some reasons I was utterly bored in our relationship, I gave no fucks about him and if I got approached by someone that I liked, I would have left him on the spot. Or well, I would maybe just cheat because it was easier to gain the benefits of our relationship while having someone on the side.
I didn't respect him, I was annoyed and I wanted to have attention and assurance that I'm hot of other guys. And where else is it easier than online where tons of guys say to my tit pictures that I look hot?
It is the exact same mindset as cheating, just lazier and wanting even more e-dicks than IRL.

It's not even remotely close to "just like getting of to porn". It's getting off to whoring yourself out to strangers, it's getting off to the thought that you're "better" than your partner and getting off to the fact you think you're the hottest and most liked bitch there is.
When in reality you're nothing but a cheap slut with no moral compass.

>inb4 whore, you're the worst person on earth etc... I know. I was.
After a while I got myself together and finally broke up. Never doing that again to my future partner.

>>18114133
Well put anon. Chin up, at least you've changed for the better.

>>18114088
Anon, you can't judge these things rationally. He was hurt by what she did (implying it's not bait, which it surely smells like). Yeah, there's no concrete reason for him to be upset about it, but that's not how emotions work.

I mean, what constitutes cheating? Talking with other men? Flirting with them? Showing them nudes? Stripping in front of them? Kissing them? Touching their dick? Giving them a handjob? Fucking them? Everybody draws a line with this kind of issue and people have different beliefs and expectations, so their lines won't be in the same place. OP can't just get over it and go on with their relationship like nothing happened just because there isn't an objective reason for him to be upset.


So many posters on /adv/, you included post only to confirm and reinforce their own believes and protect their ego.
>that guy sees a problem with his girlfriend posting nudes on /soc/? Well I don't, he must be insecure, because I'm obviously in the right here and there must be something wrong with anyone who disagrees
>that guy doesn't see a problem with his girlfriend posting nudes on /soc/? Well I do, he must be a cuck, because I'm obviously in the right here and there must be something wrong with anyone who disagrees

>>18114133
Finally a honest girl in this board.

I would first buy your buddy a beer and keep that dude around.

It's really up to your when it comes down to it. There may be a reason she is reaching out for attention and maybe the issue can be solved if you have an honest talk. I mean it doesn't sound good, but if she was only doing it for attention and not pursuing any of the anonymous flirting, it could be that was all it was. But yes it very disheartening to find out about and I would be livid about it.

If you haven't been dating for a long time I'd probably just leave, but if they've been in your life for a long time and you still love them it may not be the end. Sounds like you've mostly decided to breakup, but don't try to get revenge if you do breakup. You'll probably just make yourself look bad or end up getting into trouble.

Start with confronting her and if you end things just stop communication for awhile and move on when you can.

>>18114126
haha I'm married with 4 kids. I used to can for money my husband didn't care at all. I've never had sex with anyone but him.
>>18114133
yah no that might be your reasoning but it's not everyone's. I have never cheated, I have the utmost respect for my partner. yes the attention is nice but it has nothing to do with being better then any other person. lots of other girls are hotter then me, my guy is actually better looking then me in my opinion. I thought of it as porn when i did it, and money nothing more. actually i found it less dirty then porn because I never did penitrative stuff. showing a picture of my tits is like nothing, no one knows they are mine, hell I could have been some guy just pretending to be a chick, it's the internet no one knows. even time stamps can be fake, it's not done huge thing like people make it out to be. how many girls give pics to there bfs, then they brake up, how many guys keep those pics.

>>18114155
ahahahahahhahaha

>>18114141
this I do agree with, i just think it's stupid hes looking for ways to get revenge. if it bothers him he should just talk to her about it and tell her he doesn't like it. the guy is literally so insacure he doesn't know if he can even talk to her about it, and then wants to blackmail her with what she did. once again it's her body, she has every right to post what she wants, just like it's his life and he has every right to choose who he wants to date. I'm just saying I think he's kind of a controlling pussy, but that's just my opinion

>>18114155
Aha you're fucked in the head. I feel sorry for your husband. Can you honestly say, if you posted your nudes on the board right now and flirted with us with him watching he'd be totally cool with it?

>>18114155
Yes because your reasoning is definitely what the majority of people think and people who think doing nudes for someone other than your current bf is still infidelity are the weirdos instead
>>18114166
He literally said revenge was a bad idea you illiterate slut. He asked for advice on how to cope with it.

>>18114170
insecure faggot detected

>>18114175
it's not infidelity if the partner is ok with it you dense fuck.

>>18114178
Answer the question

>>18114170
yes he's probably tell me to give him head and post it or something else like that.
>>18114175
he literally said he wants to send the pictures to her friends. your dumb as fuck. and unless you can somehow get back any nudes you sent to ex's it's does not matter who you current bf is. the majority of people are stupid fucks that lie to themselves to make themselves feel better about their sluttyness. oooo posting nudes is so bad!!! but going to the bar or club and hooking up is normal, having like 10 bfs by time your done with highschool is normal. your people's reasoning is a joke.

>>18114194
that's a different person, not the one you asked the question of

>>18114178
Actual faggot detected

>>18113979
/r9k/ is DUSGUSTIBG g you should Fucking KYS

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>>18114195
You sure showed him

>>18114195
Who the fuck said that second part? Literally no one said that itt. Why are you projecting so hard? Do you regret getting married and having 4 accident babies? Is that why you post nudes and your cuck husband gets off to it apparently? I've actually been with one gf who I'm engaged to now and neither of us party or go clubbing, sperg. Does that trigger you? Also, no, he said he was considering it and he was gonna do that box shit (aka sending photos of the nudes back to her). He probably wont go through with it because im pretty sure he could get in some sort of trouble and it seems like from his earlier post he knows that.

>>18114232
Oh yeah I forgot to mention, neither me or my fiance have sent nudes to anyone. You're a stupid whore.

>>18114238
You vanilla as fuck homie. You also don't know for sure if your fiance has sent nudes. No one would want to see nudes of your fat ass anyway bitch nigga

>>18113983
I'm 35 and i think kicking her out immediately is fair game, assuming it's his apartment. The "bye whore" is a little childish.

>>18113977
This goes a bit beyond cutting her out of his life you fucking douche

>>18114088
Everyone has different definitions of cheating. This doesn't fall under yours and that's ok.

Well.. yeah, it is her body and she can do what she wants with it. And sure, you don't own her and you can't tell her what she can and can't do exactly but come on. personally I think you should keep that between you and your boyfriend/girlfriend, some people are fine with it but others are not and that's fine! If you're one of the people who doesn't like it you just need to talk about it and set down some rules, and if she disagrees she's not the one for you. Every relationship has guidelines and you should respect how your partner feels and not do things to make you uncomfortable.

>>18114195
Sadly "cuck" is a buzzword now, but I think this is some twisted kind of cuckhold relationship? That he doesn't want to actually IRL share you with others, but the internet gives you two a way to show strangers your body and other sexual things. And he gets off to the fact that they get off to you, you know? You shouldn't be lying to yourself, but what you two are doing there isn't as innocent as you're saying. You are whoring yourself out. And even though your partner is okay with that, it's still a fact that you enjoy when many strangers fap to you and boost your self-esteem that way.
You're anonymous here, you don't have to lie to us. And if you're lying to yourself, I'm sorry.

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>>18113935

>>18114279
This exactly

>>18114282
No it's not like we get off to it, it was just an easy way to make money. Like my husband has laughed at and made fun of the guys that buy my pics. They pay hundreds of dollars for stuff you can see for free. I don't get off to the thought of the guys looking at the pics. I might think I that's nice they think I'm so attractive I feel extra pretty today now, but that's about it. Not like I get turned on over it. Any time I did vids with my husband it was just us doing the same thing we'd do together anyways he just put his phone on vid for it. Sharing after the fact for profit is just an easy way to make money. We haven't done that in years tho. I wouldn't say my husband is a cuck, that implies he wants to see me get fucked by other guys. He'd never want to have another guy even touch me, I'm his. It was more like he thought it was funny how other men found me so hot and would pay for pics, a bit flattering but not really a desire to see me be with other people

>>18114238
Sure dude whatever you say, I really don't care that much.

>>18114279
It sounds like she purposefully kept it from him, likely knowing it would be an issue. That's a red flag and grounds for a break up, I'd say. If he's at all interested in salvaging the relationship, then talking it out is the only way to go, but that's his decision.

But it doesn't make him a bad person for feeling betrayed and wanting out.

>>18114306
>Sure dude whatever you say, I really don't care that much
Of course, I believe you. Do I get a reply, too?

Not to be rude but you're so full of yourself that you're derailing this thread of a guy that got cheated on and wants some advice on it, by finding excuses how your behavior is not cheating. And spewing out excuse after excuse. Realitycheck: nobody gives a shit and you're not convincing anyone here. We all still think you're a whore, so do you really have to convince us or yourself?

To OP, I'm really sorry dude. What >>18113944 said. Fuck that bitch.

>>18114306
>I dont care that much
>wrote a paragraph about hook up culture for literally no reason when it wasn't mentioned anywhere in the thread
ok autist lmao

>>18114329
It's not cheating if her husband knows about it and doesn't give a shit. Every couple decides where their own boundaries are.

>>18114306
If you dont care then why did you randomly accuse that guy of clubbing and other inane bullshit?
Also this
>>18114329

>>18114337
Doesn't matter, these people are so but hurt and narrow minded that they think everything is cheating. Sad fat neck beards that can't get gfs so they call girls sluts on 4chan lmao.

>>18114341
Didn't say that guy clubed, simply stating that people have a weird set of standards as to what's normal and what's not when it comes to sexual stuff. Like all the people in this thread think its awful to cam but are probably ok with having sex with anyone they date.

>>18114329
Derailing the thread, because I had a different opinion then some other Amina who commented ok then. I'm sorry your not up for advice or discussion, that's what this about. Just because you disagree with me doesn't mean I'm full of myself. I'm sorry my opinion is so threatening to you.

>>18114306
>Sure dude whatever you say, I really don't care that much
Lmao keep on writing paragraphs though

Sage because it's getting off topic now

>>18114355
>everyone itt r fat neckbeard virgins
>everyone itt is a slut but me

you're pathetic

>>18113983
kill yourself

>>18114391
Don't be that guy, you can act like a child over at the other boards.

>>18114133
>inb4 whore, you're the worst person on earth etc...

No but you are a dude larping

It's probably not your fault. She's just a fucking whore.
Dump her and find someone who deserves you, not this slut. You can do much better OP, trust me.

>>18114133
Disgusting whore.

>>18114133
>after awhile I got myself back together

Yeah...that's called being a whore slut

>>18113944
This

>>18113935
Are some girls really that desperate for attention that the will whore themselves to some neckbeard autists on Malaysian basket weaving imageboard completely for *free*?
I never understood /soc/.