Recently, my partner and I broke up. He said it was for the "best". I have BPD, and I really love the guy, but I know that I'm hard to deal with at times to say the least. He gets aggressive over the slightest of things, and seems to turn everything in a bigger deal than what it should be. I don't want to be alone, and he's offering for us to "try again". I kind of want to, but I also want to step back and take time for myself. I know, pathetic, but it's been bothering me. I still care about the guy. Oh, and he's openly gay, and I'm a femanon. Advice?
Why the shit do you call him a partner if you're a femanon?
I dunno, guy sounds kind of shitty. If a girl did that to me I wouldn't deal with it. If you really want to let him back into your life because you care about him I'd keep it on a friends-only basis.
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Bpd is one thing, anger issues is another and aren't great for one another. Being gay doesn't help either.
Work on yourself and ease the crazy. I dated a bpd girl and it was not fun. Made me think something was wrong with me, it was, I was losing my self respect and character by sticking around.
I couldn't deal with anger issues long term. Arguments and fights are one thing but who wants to deal with 0-100 constantly. No thanks