Hey fellas, I am looking to divorce my wife, we've had on going issues for a while and she's constantly verbally abusive and i'm all around tired of the BS. I haven't the courage yet to upfront and tell her and now we have a child this is putting a huge strain on my mental state. I don't know if i'll be able to afford leaving her or not, how much will I be paying in child support/alimony when this is over do you think? Are there any lawyers or people savvy in this type of situation who can help me out? I'm in dire need of help and any assistance would be grateful.
Don't you have advisors / counselors in the military you can talk this through and they can seek the information to help you?
>>18137932
I suppose I could, everytime I think about it I haven't the balls to really go through with it, is the problem. That's a good idea though, maybe i'll go to them. thanks man
>>18137935
No maybe, do go and see them. It's their job to help you.
>>18137900
>now we have a child this is putting a huge strain on my mental state.
therapy is cheaper than divorce and you wont destroy your child's life.
consider it.
>>18137984
That's what i'm trying to do anon, thank you. I'll look into both and see what can be done, i definitely want whats best for my child.