So I'll be starting university in germany next month.
Any advice for freshmen?
Senior in highschool. I want to get with a girl that is outside of my social group. She hangs out with the people in band, and I only have one or two mutual friends in that area. Now I'm not a complete retard, I had sex Soph year and have been with three girls, but I guess I'm retarded enough to come asking here.
How do I introduce myself without looking like a dumbass? She is always with other people, and I don't want to stalk to find out when she's alone. Since freshman year we have all had our own social cliques so would it be weird to abruptly join theirs after four years? (and only do it to meet a single person?)
I have mutual friends there but we are not too close. Do I strengthen my friendships and hangout with them and try to meet her that way? It seems like a pretty far off chance.
Or should I just forget it?
> sent date img of herself
> told her I want her
> 5 am
> didn't like it
Its been 4 years since I've worked and I need to get back into it. No degrees, but I have previously worked in cryptology, and bio-technology. I'm good with calculus, too.
What bottom rung should I start at to find life-long work? What should I study on my own time? I need help, 4chan, let it on me with both barrels.
>Enter university right out of high school
>Be a complete social retard with a side of fat/unkempt/ugly
>Become slightly less socially retarded over time
>Start working out
>Start working shit part time jobs
>Becoming less retarded/personal upkeep improves
>Land government intern job
>Social skills/appearance greatly improving
>Can't afford to move out
>Unemployed for nine months
>Seven interviews and zero call-backs
>Still a virgin at 26 years old
>Most women on Tinder/POF are single mothers or "NODRAMA"s
>Slowly turning into depressed, unemployed gamer fuck
Did I wait too long to unfuck myself? I'm legit trying to get my shit together but I don't know what I'm doing wrong
So I'm planning on taking the EIT this year or next and wanted to know some good ways to study for it if you happen to already work full.time?
Most guides I see assume you are just out of college or in your last year of college so I just wanted to know some.good advice for studying for it with less free time.
>if you happen to already work full time
are you retarded or something?
you're supposed to take and pass that shit senior year on the first try like all the non-retards (me).
Get the calculator they let you use on the test, get the book, get the formula book, do all the practice problem in the book using the calculator and the formula book.
How do you get over your family not caring about you?
I was never included in family photos and they post them on facebook all the time. My dad was the black sheep of the family and he and my mom got divorced. So his family doesn't care for him or my mom and I. They have money but don't invest in me really. My mom doesn't really care either. She does the bare minimum of giving a shit. Her side of the family doesn't care for me either since I'm different than them (went to college, did big community projects, traveled, eat healthy, live in a city), they literally don't include me in 'cousin' things even when I am in the same room. I'm always polite and nice but they seem to hate me just for existing. I go out of my way to visit family functions that are a long drive and I don't even get acknowledged.
I always thought that feeling of "if I died they wouldn't give a shit" would go away, but I'm 30 and it hasn't yet. My mom would probably milk it for attention and everyone else wouldn't fucking care.
i fucking hate my family.
it's not that i was abused as a kid or anything serious but they're fucking boring and my parents constantly project their own inability to be social onto me. i actively go out and they still keep telling me i should leave my room more, make friends and other shit that relieves them of the fact that they're the ones with no social life. they always act surprised when i'm going out despite the fact that i made the effort and have had a decent social life for the past few years now.
my sister does the same thing despite the fact that she's obviously the one nobody really cares about in her circle of friends. my oldest brother is different he just orders me around because any form of happiness threatens his sad boring existence.
basically my family hates their lives and constantly tries to drag me down to their level.
i know i need to move out but until then how the fuck do i deal with a family that basically consists of pity trolls. part of me wants to just point out that they're the fucking losers but i have to live with them.
How do I find out what job or career is best for me? I've taken a few tests, and the results dont seem like things i would enjoy. The things i do enjoy currently are not things that could get me paid. So how should i go about finding my calling?
When I spend a long time away from home, I can't remember my mother's face.
If I don't see my boyfriend for 3-4 days I start doubting my feelings toward him, and a part of my brain acts like he doesn't exist anymore.
When I'm in a depressive mood I get this feelings that I'm out of my body, like I'm tiny and I'm observing everything through a window, like I'm alone in a gigantic hall kind of feel.
Has anyone ever experienced any of this? Is it part of depression?