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I worked under a family owned business. They live in Joe Biden's neighborhood (they are rich)
Their two sons are trash as hell. (fuckboy/prince)
they use rotten veggie and change dates on packed food.
She and i stayed late night, searching inside the trash can to find a good (better) quality of vegetables.
They hired illegal workers, so they dont have to pay taxes.
I saw so many illegal shits..but their business is getting better...
If there's karma, How come their business is getting better and better? ..im mentally traumatized and seeing a therapist weekly now. i know i have to move on but i dont think i can when they are having best time of their life and.. im swimming in a mud.
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How to prepare for a nuke from korea? F-for a friend ok.
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don't be afraid US will take care of it if it happens


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How do i tell someone they smell in a socially acceptable way

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>Excuse me. You emit a very unpleasing odor.

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Hey, im 18 and im suffering from depression every year. Got neurological problems - When it gets cold my whole body starts to hurt. I cant move, cant do anything. Every winter i gain about 15 kilos of fat and lose a lot of muscle. When ive been through puberty i almost killed myself several times, but never had the guts to actually do it. If it gets as bad as last year i think im gonna break. (Cold is for me 8/12 months)

So im looking for some activities i dont need much physical activity to do, but is also fun and fullfilling. So write few unique things you enjoy (or think you could enjoy)
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Go get professional help

Which results in being quite solitary, I would say I don't have any actual friends. Maybe I've never had any friends at all, though I've always known people, talked to them, understood them, appreciated them, etc. I don't invest anything in them and prefer to be on my own. Not just in location but emotionally and intellectually. My inability to invest is compounded by not knowing anyone who shares my interests. Not even just one of them, let alone the broadness of interests or depth of passion I feel for so many things. It's like my way of thinking is completely removed from the people that I know.

Lately I've been ironing out my mind to get shit done in my life, confronting psychological issues and the like, that I notice in myself. This inability to invest in other people seems to be a big one, the root of many other issues too. I think it extends to more than people, concepts, goals and ideologies too. Most of my problems are a result of childhood abuse and instability. Sometimes I wish I had a cleaner slate; not this mess of a brain and life. I don't know if I have the will to fix it, or if I actually want to...

I write all this because I'm currently gripped with a bout of loneliness. It happens sometimes, more often lately. Essentially my issue is two fronts: I'm inherently disconnected from other people on a personal, mental level, unable to put anything on them, most of my interactions are about retaining a comfortable wall around myself and understanding a person (they not understanding me, of course). Second front: lack of actual connection with other people due to interests and mode of thought not aligning with anyone that I know.
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I cannot figure out what to do with my life. I'm in my late twenties, have been in a trade for 10 years, and I'm feeling very discontent. Want to work towards something that I don't feel so miserable doing, I just can't figure out what that is.
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Make a list of things you want to accomplish in life. It can be small or big.

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I have moderately bad social anxiety, and I DONT like people looking at my face, it makes me very uncomfortable. Eye contact is lost upon me. Sometimes I think I am possibly autistic in fact. So when It was time for me to consider getting a job during the semester, I cleverly decided to be a tutor - which involves a lot of all these things that I hate.

Any tips or advice for how to start off greeting these people and helping them, tone of voice, etc.? I realize I need to improve my social skills, so quitting isn't an option.
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Do it until it doesn't scare you anymore. Go out and look everyone in the eye until it's second nature. That's the only way to deal with fear. You have to face it in battle.

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I posted here a while ago on how i got cheated on 3x

A friend of mine informed me that he was cheating and sent me screenshots as proof, that same friend just molested me a few days ago.

(i've been feelin pretty depressed n suicidal for ages now)

idk what to do, i'm scared to tell anyone else because i don't wanna create conflict within my group of friends but i don't wanna be near em anymore. :(
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>tfw highly agreeable niceguy

An unattractive woman sent me a message online dating. I don't want to be mean and ignoring her seems cruel.

Should I just ignore her though?
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Just tell her you're not interested if you absolutely feel the need to talk to them.

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>meet girl A, really like her
>haven't felt this way about someone in a long time
>we're hooking up, but not together (i'm seeing other people, blinded by novelty, she doesn't want a relationship anyway)
>she gets clingy, I let it go
>she gets distant, I get clingy, she's pulls away even more, almost completely
>she says she just gets in these moods where she's either really social and sexual, or very reserved and a loner, but i'm almost certain it's a result of my clinging
>no longer hooking up/hanging out
>been a while, start seeing other people
>meet girl B, really like her
>been having out a while now, hooked up
>she seems very into/ready for a relationship, and may leave if i don't ask her to be soon
>now, girl A seems to be coming around again
>telling me how much she misses me, we should hang out more, etc.
>still really like her

What should I do? I've never felt the same way about anyone else as I do for girl A, but I do really like girl B and she's totally into me as well.
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Girl A is going to break your heart. Go with girl B. You cannot control your feelings for A. This places her in a position of power by default. Most importantly, she either has commitment issues, or she only wants you when she thinks she can't have you. Or maybe she's a little jealous that you're into another girl, and she's back to "claim her property," and keep you orbiting her.

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