Anyone else feel like they enjoy the chase of liking a girl, getting her to like you back and speaking in that kinda way rather than getting in a relationship? I always follow process of:
>like a girl
>speak to her
>flirt
>get her to like me back
>get bored of her immediately
Am I bad person? How do I grow a soul? It's like her desiring me back is super unattractive.
>>18708564
I feel the same with guys. I enjoy making them develop feelings for me more than actually dating them.
Yes, we're pretty bad people. To grow a soul, I think I should work on getting a self esteem and stop needing validation this much.