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I need a wheelchair for a tomorrow/today and i cant find anywhere that will give me the fucker some one help

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I've been talking to this girl for about a month and we've gone on a few dates, had sex once and have messed around but lately I've just been realizing I don't think I like her enough to want to pursue a relationship with her.
She's cool and a nice girl; but I don't I don't feel as much chemistry as I'd like. However she is very sexy and I think she finds pretty attractive too and I anticipate more great sex to come, but I know with sex comes feelings if things aren't made clear pretty early on so how do I go about asking to be FWB the right way?

I've only had one FWB my whole life and that was like 4 years ago and it was a much different situation so again, I'm not sure how to go about it.

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I dropped out of doing a course weeks ago but haven't officially withdrawn myself yet. Due to admin issues I was on hold for a student loan but was given the clear to start studying anyway.

The college hasn't contacted me at all about my fees. Will they forget about me? I'm worried that if I go to officially withdraw they will bring it up and I'll have a few thousand bucks on my head.

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So I went from being in a long term relationship (2 years) to dating another girl a few months later. We were together for about 4 months in total but it didn't work from start to finish. I didn't really like her but tried and in the end I felt a lack of motivation to put the effort in to get to know her (and accept her for who she was). She ended up breaking it off which kinda sucked as rejection is never nice but it's obviously not the end of the world.

Not really asking for advice but has anybody else found this to also be the case? I figure it's probably best to remain single for a while after a ltr and work up the motivation to want to be in relationship again.

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So theres a girl at work Im obsessed with but havent made a move on obviously since we hooked up 2 months ago. I think about her all the time and get anxiety when guys talk about her. Shes pretty good looking and apparently and easy slut, except in my case which is making me feel insecure. Started stalking her on facebook and instagram, stealing pics. So last night-
>Haviong intense lucid dreams
>In my room, hear her coming up my stairs, annoyed
>Barges through my door and just walks in
>Literally 10/10 tall chad bf walks in and says 'babe do you need my help'
>She says 'pfft no I can handle this on my own'
>'Hello' I say as she ignores me and lays on my bed
>Shes wearing slutty booty shorts and at first i firgure this is going to be a sex dream
>Instead she just teases me with ehr body then rolls over with my ]phone in her hand
>Shes going through it checking for pics
>I dont jump on her and rape her or fuck her eve though its my dream, over come with anxiety and intimidation
>She starts mocking me saying the reason she hasnt fucked me is because Im weak. Says that she purposely made a mistake with my pay slip weeks ago meaning I now owe the government money back for being over paid.
>Sits there and says 'Dou you understand why people like me do this to guys like you? Its because you're weak and pathetic'
>I say 'we-we-well why w-would y-y-uou do that to me?'
>Again this is inside MY dream
>She puts her leg over mine and I touch then then she snatches my hand away and says 'dont fucking touch me!'

Wake up panicked, sweating. Took me a good 5 minutes to come too and realise it was a dream as the surroundings in the dream almost 100% matched my room.

So how fucked am I?

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Back to school has got me exceedingly anxious. Does anyone have any ways I can chill and calm down a bit?

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Often told I have a sexy voice, eloquent British English, cynical sense of humour, decent face, but have ass-burgers.

Help me get with the womens, /adv/.
Can't use dating sites or go for anyone from outside my place of business.

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ello bruvs

been insecure all my life, like crazy insecure. Not sure what caused it, but I want to fix it. I just need to know how to be myself. Thing is, though, I only really know how to be insecure. How do I know if I'm doing actions out of insecurity, or doing something (the person who wants to be me) myself?

>pic unrelated

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Do I have friends? I spend time doing stuff alone everyday, while others seemed to enjoy doing everything with their friends everyday. My so called friends never called me out for anything...

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>25
>had occasional face acne during puberty
>haven't had a zit on my face since age 21
>now there's acne constantly breaking out on my chest

What's going on? It's not like I have poor hygeine, I shower daily. Is it a genetic thing? How do I get rid of it/deal with it?

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Man, something happened today or is it just me?

I'm in the worst mood I have been in some time and I feel like absolute death, I work in tech and might lose my job, I also overate a bunch today even though I'm on a cut

I think the only thing that will help me dig myself out of depression will be to wake up early everyday and go to the gym

7 days a week, the point is i can spend 30-1hr on the treadmill just walking or hit the stairs

I'm not in a good spot right now, and really have nobody to talk too

I'm about to go eat a huge meal in a few minutes even though I'm on a cut

I have been through a lot and usually can get better within days but today it is different

I'm losing it fellas, I'm losing it

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So I've started dating a girl who I've liked for the majority of the year now, she admitted she's liked me for a while but hasn't been in a place where she wanted to commit to a relationship that could actually go somewhere until now.

We decided we want to take things slow and are dating until we are sure we want to label it. Both of our previous relationships were fairly controlling and we want things to go slower as it makes for a healthier relationship.

Because I've had feelings for this girl for a while now I feel like we are further into this 'relationship' than we are. This isn't a problem but something's cropped up that I think I'm worrying about for no reason.

She has a very good male friend who I know, they've been friends since kids and nothing is going on there whatsoever, however he's recently asked her to move in with him, as they are both currently living with parents but as am I, looking for more independence post university etc.

One thing I want out of this relationship is to not have any anxiety is relation to trust issues or worrying about anything like that with her, however I can't help but feel slightly uneasy about this situation. We have only been seeing each other for a few weeks now and I don't feel like it's my place to mention how I feel about this, and I definitely don't want her to think I'm being too full on. On the other hand I am slightly worried about it from the view that in 6 months I'd assume maybe we would have wanted to do that but she possibly isn't thinking that moving in with this other guy?

What are your thoughts on this situation and how do you think I should react? Questions welcome.

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So I just need to tell someone about this dream I had last night.

The past few months I've been thinking a lot about death. No so much in the sense of my own (I am not too worried), but in the sense of taking a life.

I've imagined that it would feel strange to rob someone of their dreams, chances, hopes, and everything that comes along. To make someone into dirt. Lifeless. I've thought it would make me feel guilty. I don't want to lose all that.

But last night I had a dream. Quite a long one, in fact. Most of it was just a weird fantasy where we had to push trees in order to let a giant skeleton giraffe pass through. After pushing trees, we meet some bandits. I have a buddy with me, and our only weapons are javelins. We engage and I manage to pierce a bandit's shoulder and get in a fist fight with another.

Now comes the really vivid part of my dream. I clearly remember punching him in the nose, making it bleed heavily. I remember how it hurt my knuckles. He falls to the ground and I go down with him, sitting on his chest, locking his arms with my knees. I grab his throat with both my hands and start squeezing. I remember feeling the puls in the neck, his desperate attempts to breathe, my sweat running across my forehead and my tired arms straining to hold his throat closed.

At that moment, I remember thinking in the dream: "I am squeezing the life from another human being. How am I feeling about this?" to which my thoughts were: "I feel nothing. In fact, this is kind of exciting. A thrill to make such a change in someone's life."

I woke up shortly after. All day I've walked around thinking about this, recalling it clear as day and becoming more and more curious about taking someone's life.

Don't know if anyone can relate, but I am not really shure if this means something or I can just let it go.

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why dopes getting drunk only make me sleepy??? i domt get it, i dont have any other effect, it literally just make me sleepy, why is that, help please

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My mom was diagnosed with brain and lung cancer last year and I've felt admittedly rather blase about the whole thing. Even recently it's just gotten to be an annoyance, and I'm more irritated than I am sympathetic regarding her constant pain and suffering.
Anyways, she just got taken to the ER in an ambulance. Everyone in my family is being optimistic (or naive), but I know that she'll probably die soon. The last interaction we had was with me and my dad carrying her naked to her bed after she wet herself, while she babbled incoherently. Frankly it left me disgusted, not sad. I didn't even say goodbye to her because I thought I recognized one of the paramedics from highschool and didn't want to talk to him.
Afterwards I made myself lunch and jacked off to Japanese rape porn, as per a usual Thursday afternoon.

Why can't I have interpersonal human feelings? It's not that I can't feel either (I cried during the Westworld S1 finale for fucks sake), It's just that anything involving me hits a brick wall and nothing gets through. I tried imagining everyone I knew in the same situation as my mom and it all turned out the same. Nothing. The only inkling of feels I got was when I imagined my dog in place of her.