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Should I be worried about this poison ivy? I'm already on prednisone for it. But it's been spreading and has a lot of redness around it.. is this normal?!
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Just had a massive allergy attack.
Have you showered to try to remove the oil that's causing the rash yet? If no, do so asap.
it is also pretty normal for the rash to look like it's spreading anyways. The oil covered a large area of skin and the breakout only started in the center. It will spread to the boundary of where the contact was.
You're supposed to leave it alone, not scratch it, and avoid popping the blisters best as you can. You can put an ice pack on it in order to reduce blood flow and ease itching/swelling/redness. Wear loose, soft clothing to avoid aggravating the skin further. Compression of any sort, even the slight compression from snug clothing, drove me nuts.
Sucks man, I had it all down my side and it was not a fun time.
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Yeah, have been obsessively showering and changing sheets. Thought it was probably normal.. thanks for the reaffirmation
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Looks normal to me. Be sure to thoroughly wash all clothing or surfaces you may of come in contact with after you were exposed to the ivy: steering wheel, shoes, door knobs. That shit can stay on surfaces for a very long time if they aren't washed off.
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I absolutely despise my summer job 2017-07-03 04:28:17 Post No.18481318
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I absolutely despise my summer job
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I'm 18 and work in a pub. When I started, I thought it would be a good way to make money and gain some customer service skills.
>the managers are nowhere to be seen
>when they do appear, they're surly and rude
>one of them barely speaks english and accuses me of not being able to understand English when it's just him I can't understand
>I can't maintain a relationship with them, they barely return my calls and texts
>I don't even know what days I'm supposed to be working this week because of the above
>the supervisors always shunt me into doing menial tasks when I want to be doing at least a bit of customer interaction.
>when I am told to do customer service, I can't actually do it because they don't let me have access to the fucking digital order logging system
>have to pester someone else to log me on to it every single time
>chaotically run environment, always receiving complaints from middle-aged who have a stick up their arse about muh no parmesan on chicken caesar salad, has terrible google reviews
>I hate the unsociable hours (5pm-1am but it's effectively 5pm-4am because my coworkers will think I'm a cuck if I leave early instead of staying till 4am to drink and chat) - sleeping patterns fucked because of this insane expectation
>minimum wage, haven't been paid yet because 'I didn't get my credit card details in on time' (I gave them in a week in advance?)
>generally introverted, loud environments are painful
I dread heading back to the job every waking hour that I'm not doing it, and if I continue it'll make my entire summer miserable. The only redeeming qualities about it are my coworkers. Yet everywhere I look online, there are blogposts telling me that I shouldn't quit. Give me (1) good reason not to quit. Heck, I don't even know if I'll be able to, given that they don't even answer my calls.
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its only for the summer
wait untill you grow up and be stuck at a place like that forever
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Have you tried looking for another job? A job like this shouldn't be so be stressful with such unprofessional management. Also, it seems like the work environment will not correlate with your introvert experience which will be problematic for the next remaining months.
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Is it a scam?
Should I propose?
I've been with my girlfriend for 7 years. I think for out anniversary this year I was gonna buy her an engagement ring.
How does this work? Is the ring just a promise to eventually get married? Do I get a prenup signed?
Any recently married or engaged anons have any tips?
Or even bitter single people? I wanna hear both sides.
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>>18481311
If you have to ask people on 4chan whether or not you should make one of the biggest decisions of your life, the answer is simple: you shouldn't get married.
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It depends on the context man. It depends also on what you need to remain sane and somewhat content.
Personally I enjoy and am so used to isolation that I could never marry anybody, nor do I ever want to force further conscious life into this world. But this mentality probably does not apply to you, so it's best to look within.
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>>18481328
We are essentially married, we've lived together for 7 years.
I'm just curious if anything changes overnight. Or if there's new expectations.
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How to write a Bully-type novel? 2017-07-03 04:24:07 Post No.18481309
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How to write a Bully-type novel?
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Howdy /adv/. I enjoyed playing Bully on my ps2 and have always wanted to write a novel as well. How would I write a novel that incorporates elements from the game? (Reply only if you have played the game so I dont waste your time)
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You should:
1. Read more books related to the subject
2. Watch more (realistic) films related to bullying, especially those with sad endings.
3. START WRITING FAGGOT
4. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3ogrx6d9oohf6D42G44j1A
Watch EVERY video of this channel & understand the sarcasm.
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hey guys, should i invest into cryptocurrency like Peercoin, which is rising fast, or stay away from it? dont advise BitCoin since that is way too unstable at this point in time. thanks in advance!
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What should I do if I am scared of marijuana?
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>>18481236
Smoke some
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>>18481236
On the off chance this isn't bait, what specifically are you afraid of? Are you feeling pressured by your friend group or something?
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My Ex is using her friends to harass me 2017-07-03 03:56:48 Post No.18481235
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My Ex is using her friends to harass me
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Hey guys, I broke up with my ex about a year ago. A couple weeks after I had an incident where random numbers would constantly text me at all hours of the day not exactly life threatening or anything but just annoying and telling me how I'm a shitty person and I deserve every bad thing that happens to me. I blocked the numbers as they came in and cut ties with all her friends that would have any kind of info on me. I've switched phones multiple times since and finally stepped into the modern age with a smartphone a week ago. I made the mistake of texting one of her friends(they share a name with another friend of mine) and they didn't respond, but a few days later my phone started blowing up again. I know for sure it has to be them, but I don't know what kind of recourse I can take to get them to stop. I'm pretty sure they use a proxy or some VOIP or something because they just switch numbers any time I block them. Should I go take the offensive? Should I confront my ex and tell her to stop her shitty friends from harassing me? Is this something I can get cops involved in? Or should I just post their number on reddit or some shit and let them have a field day?
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Text you ex tell her to knock that juvenile shit off or you'll post her number all over the Internet. Then start blocking numbers.
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what do the texts say?
I'd just block the numbers. seems a bit weird because if any of my friends asked me 'hey can you harass my ex for me?' I'd probably ask them to get over it, and move on with life.
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The Texts range from inane shit like
>Where's the food Delivery boy? I'm hungry
to
>Still haven't left town yet huh you dead beat?
and
> Hows that show of yours going I miss your cute friend(In reference to a failed podcast I tried to do)
I've been blocking them as they come in but they message from a different number after a few hours.
>>18481265
I got rid of my ex's number but I messaged a mutual friend of ours on FB to confront her and tell her to stop. Hopefully that does something
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So there's this guy who I've been hanging out with for the past couple of months or so. At first we hung out once a week, then he started asking me out twice a week and it's kinda just been stuck at that.
I actually like him a lot but I try not to impose anything on him, like I try not to text him too much and if I've asked him out once then I let him do the asking out for next time, and I don't ask things about other girls.But when I see like tinder notifications make a sound on his phone when he's with me it kinda bugs me.
But I don't think he's actually seeing other girls, because he spends every weekend with me and if I ask him out any day during the week he's like sure, I'm free.
We have had sex but sometimes he will come over and we will just lay together in bed, talk, make out and then fall asleep. Sex doesn't seem to be a necessity for him. Last time we hung out I heard him whisper very quietly "I love y-" then sort of stopped himself.
The only thing is I'm leaving this city for 5 months temporarily then I will come back next year. He mentioned something about visiting me during that time. other than that we don't seem so serious, like we don't call each other or anything. And we don't text that much, like sometimes we don't talk for 2-3 days at a time.
Does this seem potentially serious or he's just fucking around? Because I feel like it's too soon to ask him anything and he'll think I'm crazy maybe
I'm also confused because usually I don't have feelings for guys that easily...
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Why do you think he'll find you crazy? Why do you find it necessary to keep your feeling to yourself? Also sounds like what ever you have with this guy isn't clearly defined he might have commitment issues or maybe you do to. But nothing going to be solved by sitting on the side lines. Take action and seek what you want. It never falls in your lap.
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Don't get into a long distance relationship. Keep it casual and keep it fun. When you come back in a year, he will probably still be around. You can keep the contact but believe me, getting invested in something serious while having to move away is a very bad mistake.
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>>18481233
Why don't you figure out what you want or don't want, and then have a conversation with him about that, and about what HE wants?
I mean shit, I won't stick my dick into anyone without first having a discussion about expectations and what sort of relationship I'm looking for.
From the way you describe things, you're not "serious" in large part because YOU want to pretend to him that this isn't anything particularly meaningful to you, and you're not willing to be an adult and communicate with him.
Being long distance can be a pain and a lot of relationships don't survive it, but 5 months isn't really that long.
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Help me /adv/...
I'm 27 y.o. guy that still have chuuni fantasies.
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Leaving my past behind 2017-07-03 03:30:36 Post No.18481173
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I'm leaving for the US soon.
I got an acceptance letter from a maritime security company for a place with one of their crews and I was pretty happy that my hard work paid off and the pay is very very good.
Long story short I told my now ex-girlfriend that I was moving and told her well before that I had handed in an application. We had a massive fight about it and broke up.
Anyway I said my goodbyes around my area (No family I've been fostered since I was 2 and my dad's side are junkies who I will never consider family ever. Changed my last name to stop them from finding me) and everyone seemed pretty upset that I'll be gone for months at a time.
My question to you /adv/ and please I'm looking for serious answers. I'm confused to everyones reaction about me leaving but they were never here for me when I was home and I'm probably never going to come back.
Should I leave it all behind or stay in contact ?
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>>18481173
If you were never that attached leave it all behind and start a new chapter in your life. Make it what you want.
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>>18481173
> I'm confused to everyones reaction about me leaving but they were never here for me when I was home and I'm probably never going to come back.
Some people liked you. Is that hard to believe?
> Should I leave it all behind or stay in contact ?
Really, do what you want. I personally don't see a point in forcefully breaking contact in this situation.
Any advice on how to recover gmails that were deleted from trash?
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You could waste alot and i mean alot of money so google somehow could get it back but if you cant do that then there is no way back.
Watch what you delete and what you are doing while on the computer so you wont f**k up.
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Hey all,
First a short introduction, I am a 23 yo student (m) from a north-western european country. Met a girl online about a year ago, and we are now in an LDR for almost 10 months. She's 26 year old, from Japan, has had one previous relationship (in real, maybe it is relevant).
Of course I love her a lot, so I did a lot to come see her. After saving up for a ton of time, I finally managed to buy tickets to visit her this summer, and stay at her place for 43 days. The costs are over 2500 euros even though I am not rich at all. After this I plan to study abroad in Japan, and if everything works out well maybe even emigrate.
Anyways, all was fine and we were both super excited until something happened. It made me realize that there might be a bigger problem lying underneath our relationship, namely it feels like i love her more, than she loves me. The problem being, that I am making a huge commitment to come see her, not only now, but also longer term. Meanwhile, if i am brutally honest with myself, I have not seen anything of the sort from her.
But it wasnt this that made me realize this, but another thing that happened. After talking on skype about her friends and stuff, i mentioned that i'd love to meet them. She said, that I cannot meet her friends. The same happened when talking about her sister. We did talk about meeting her parents, but she only wants me meeting them as a friend, not as boyfriend.
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how do i do tinder, I get matches easily but what do I even say to them
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Broke up with my girlfriend, do I immediately start looking for new girls or take a while to let things settle
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Depends on how you feel. If you feel ready to find a new girl, go for it, but if it feels wrong for you to date a new girl right after breaking up, wait for it to settle and move on
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It doesn't feel wrong,but I am sad that my previous partner fucked things up, not sure if I should wait till I feel good again or if forcing myself to move through this the best way to maneuver it
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I'm usually a happy person but this summer I feel extremely depressed. I already cut the contact with my friends. I'm not sure what to do, killing myself would without a doubt hurt a lot of people in my life. I'm not sure really. This indecision is the worst, I want either get better or go, but as for now I'm suspended in this limbo of empty sadness and hopeless.
How do I get rid of that?
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>>18480692
If you can't decide that means you don't want to kill yourself a part of you wants to live.