Hey guys,
I need help deciding on a course to study because i am really conflicted. Right now my 2 options are:
Cyber security:
pros
>big money
>computers
>high demand
cons:
>sit inside all day
>autistic af
and
Forestsciences:
pros:
>be outside in a forest
>actually contribute to something real
>less autistic
cons:
>earn way less
>might annoy my parents who payed for my private school and probably will be expecting more
pls help
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>>18476394
bump
>>18476394
ok then
>>18476394
cyber security you fucking faggot. it is definitely more autistic to be a fucking forest scientist. Things are not considered autistic when you make a shitload of money
Going to be moving out of state and living with a friend, never lived on my own before what should I expect?
>>18476324
unless you want to get more specific with your questions we can't help you. l iving on your own is just a default state. we cant possibly throw it all at you.
>>18476324
>living with a friend
>on my own
not on your own yet, faggot.
I was out in a town about 1.5hrs from where I live last night. Due to various circumstances I ended up walking back to where we were staying by myself at around 2-3am. There was almost no one around and I happened to walk past a cute girl who said hi to me and we started having a conversation. We went our own ways after only a few minutes but I was drunk and stupid enough that I didn't ask for her phone number.
When we went our separate ways she was just kind of standing there facing me like she didn't really want me to go...
Now I'm not sure if I should move on and accept that it was just a nice moment that I got to experience or try and contact her. There are some facebook groups for the town I could post in to try and find who she is
nump
>>18476323
Try to find her, anon. If you don't find her, nothing lost. If you do, you have a chance at a qt.
>>18476572
Saying hello to a random guy alone on a street at 3am is a good sign right?
So I'm going to college soon but I'm worried that I might not be able to get good grades. I feel this way because i got 3.4 gpa in hs mainly because my grades were at a constant up and down.
Study?
kek yeah you're right... but im still worried about
Thx though
I'm horrible at talking to people after something bad has happened to them. I have issues sympathizing and I'm probably autistic so I usually just don't care and end up ignoring the person. How bad of a trait is this? Does it automatically make me a bad friend?
No. There are different kinds of friends for different purposes. You're maybe just not meant to be the comforting sort of friend. But you can be the fun friend, or the pep talk friend.
>>18476275
Just listen to them and ask them questions. You don't need to sympathize, just listen.
If you can't be bothered to do that then maybe you don't care as much for these friends as you believe
>>18476275
How many collars does one girl need
I live nine hours from Madison, WI where my grandfather is stationed on his deathbed, hospital-ridden. I just spent a week up there pretty much watching him decay; cut and dry, I know, but that's what it was. It was emotionally draining to see and the drive, there and back, was just as physically draining. He's still fighting but my family is on close watch because the second he passes, we're on our way back up there for a funeral. I love him so dearly but I can't rest easy down here knowing that at any moment, I'll have to pack up and leave for Madison again after just getting home; not to mention, I can't make plans with anyone because my grandpa's death could be a minute after posting this or weeks from now...
Is it self-centered of me to think this way? I've made commitments to friends, gf, etc. and I want to just live my life but the dread of my grandpa's illness is killing me (and him, quite literally) and will keep me from doing so. Tell me if I sound like an asshole; I just need to vent.
>>18476249
a little. but its also normal. people arent the perfectly moral beings we see on the surface. beneath every layer there is something dark. its naturaly to be conflicted.
are you asking us if its okay to /not/ go to his funeral?
>>18476249
This is unfortunately how it works. I've gone through it with 4 grandparents, and both my parents. It's fine to feel this way. No one is completely selfless. Just live your life the best you can for now, and when the time comes, do the right thing and be at your grandfather's funeral. No reasonable human being is going to be pissed at you if you have to cancel plans with them over it.
Just don't go to Madison again and skip the funeral. Who cares he'll be dead you just spent a week with him at his side spending time with him on his deathbed what more do you owe him.
So im the last one to take a shower in my apparent, my roomate (witch is also my brother) comes to me winning "that i left bathroom all wet" (i know that I didn't). He keeps winning for 10 mins straight so i cleaned with a mop; so i do it he keeps with the self righteous attitude and i lash out by swinging the mop so little drop of water fall on him.He them proceeds to get angry and breaks something.
Nigga just dry off in the tub and don't fog up the bitch.
>>18476240
You must be 18 or older to post on this site. Holy fuck kid.
sup /adv/, this is like my first time posting here. was gonna post this once but i saw how fucking scatterbrained and convoluted it was so i have condensed my problem as well as i could.
basically i gotta situation where i know this dude, we aren't friends or enemies but, we know of each other. and uh, basically, it was hard of me to realize, but i'm kinda jealous of him, mostly because he seems to be still friends with almost all of my current (online) freinds, people from the same (discord) group of friends (who i dont interact with too often), and (everything else wouldn't bother me that much but i think this part ticks me off the most for some reason) he is also friends with a couple of former-friends of mine who were complete assholes to me and others, (in fact, it seems like he's closest friends with these peeps). i follow him on tumblr, (i dont think he follows me) and i send him some funny asks sometimes, and he at least responds to those, but outside of that, i'm not sure what to do. should i just talk to him? I'm kind of afraid of getting involved with the aforementioned assholes again. I just wanna get rid of this jealousy, sometimes i like when friends of mine are better than me in some way but most of the time its only when i see they're struggling in other places/it happens over time. please help, i fucking hate being jealous.
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>>18476237
So what are you jealous about? that he is friends with a lot of people?
>>18476364
kinda, i'm jealous that he's friends with, like, all of my friends, even the ones who arent my friends anymore, and even the ones who i want to be friends with, i just feel like he's funnier,
>>18476487
sorry this cut off, i meant to put i just feel like he's funnier, more pleasant to be around, and people might think he's "cooler"
Just watched that 'everything everything' movie, and even though I think it was a kinda bad movie, it still made me feel lonely as fuck. How can I cope with that?
>watching media to be even more miserable
lmfao
watch a comedy you retard.
>when ur black but ur not a nigger black
do these guys have it hard as it seems?
>>18476152
>i watched a movie and it made me kinda sad
>how do i cope?
if you have to ask how to cope with watching a movie you are not old enough to post here. go suckle mommies teet.
Are there any downsides to whoring myself out and descending into alcoholism until I kill myself when I inevitably killing myself when I contract an sti?
>>18476107
yes. namely whoring your self out and descending into alcoholism and all the obvious negative downsides that has to your life.
>>18476107
For money? If you don't want STI's just use a condom
What you just listed ARE the downsides
I hated every job I had so far, and now I'm unemployed.
Last time I had a job, I promised myself that this is the last job in my life. I want to be self employed so badly but have no idea how
I have 0 savings
what to do
I want to have some passive income coming so I have rtime for myself
>>18476075
You're most likely one of the thousands of idiots who think they know better than the system and their minimum wage job owed them more with 0 skills. Get a fucking job or go to school and network well, stop being a bitch, grow, learn some skills that are applicable to the real world, and then launch from there. Anything outside of that is pipe dream bullshit someone read in a book from 1974 once and still thinks applies to current day.
>>18476075
>I hated every job I had so far
Stop quitting every job you have because "I hate it" you fucking retard
Work sucks. That's why you get paid for it. That's just life.
I want to be the one for her.
I think by her confirmation my life would turn 180 degrees and I could be happy again, solely for knowing I she wants me.
Now I'm very sensitive but I can't even open myself to my closest, therefore I am terrified to death of the answer I might get if I ask her what she thinks of me.
I think I've shown enough of me to get her attention, to say the least, but I want her interest. Online she never initiates any conversation and I hope it's because she considers herself modest enough to not seem desperate or interested in any guy. Now I know she has rejected a lot of guys, stupid a$$ guys who think they can get her in a whiff, but all I want is just something in the right direction. Even by her reaching out a finger will make me grab the whole arm.
I can make her talk and respond to me but even tho I see her name on my phone it feels like she isn't shedding any light with her messages. Jealousy kills me and I have a hunch she either has the kicks for some other guy or at least does not feel what I feel.
I don't want to be the one giving 100% of me to just get small replies which might not even mean anything to her. Tho I'd more than gladly invest 200% of me in her given the condition I get something back. It doesn't have to be much, but it has to say I want to keep talking you. Because right now I'm slowly deteriorating knowing my efforts and the one I've always aspired to be isn't enough.
So what I'm asking is; can/should I make myself the one for her? Or has she, like most people, already made up her mind and I'm chasing a phantom that could only be persuaded by someone with the right look at the right time?
I don't want to feel like this about a person. I want it to be straightforward but right now it feels like I'm getting laughed at or totally neglected.
>>18476068
stop being a bitch
>>18476079
I know but I've been neglecting this shit thing called feelings for the past 10years but now it's all hitting me at once and I don't know what to do to make it feel right.
>>18476079
But I do know time will take care of this. I just need to hear something to numb it until then
Laptop screen btfo by clothes pin any tech savy anon here who can give a estament on a cost for a new screen?
Model 15-r132wm its a hp
>>18476043
>HP
lol
But also how the fuck you got a fucking clothespin crammed in your screen
>>18476047
Idek i shut it when i was half asleep earlier today proly from a chip bag
>>18476058
Have you ever considered NOT to be a woman?
How do I explain to someone that I have very limited time for new friends without being mean?
>Last week
>Meet a very nice girl with my friend
>She'd just moved to the city
>Have a fun night, we don't know most of the people at this thing so meeting new people is cool
>I say we should hang out again sometime
>Next day get some texts from her
>She asks me out, I decline
>Nothing wrong with being friends since she's new to the city
>Keeps inviting me out to things, clearly disappointed when I have something planned
>I have a lot of friends and social commitments, plus work and needing some time to myself
>But I feel like my excuses are running out, I just don't feel like putting in the effort to someone new at this very moment, maybe in a few weeks/months
So how do I manage this without hurting her feelings? I enjoy texting with her, but I don't want to date, and it takes a lot of energy to go out and get to know someone new as two pals.
I have a lot of different groups of friends... if I had just one, I'd invite her to come hang out. But she can't get to know every group I have and still fit in.
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0fmrPmAT7Yy
>>18476097
thanks anon you have a nice voice
>lots of friends and social commitments
get out normie REE
I swallowed the opener part of the can, what do?
>>18475969
If your first reaction to a medical emergency is to ask 4chan, you don't deserve to survive it.
Go to a doctor or ER
>>18475969
The latch, or the whole thing?