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Known this girl for a year, but just started recently getting to know her. We've been talking non-stop everyday, even at school when we don't see each other during breaks and during class, we started going out places together, we went shopping once, we've been to each others places back and forth too. She's gotten a lot more physical with me, from rubbing my hair, always brushing against my shoulder, layer her head on mine, things have been getting a lot like that recently. She's told me how funny she thinks I am, how nice I am and she's told me that I'm really good at caring for my little brother, and she opens up to me a lot when it comes to her problems.
Yesterday we went to this convention, and I got to her house 20 minutes before the bus came, so we were just playing her DS and I was sitting on a one person seat, and jumped and squeezed in between the chair and she was rubbing my head and stuff when I was doing good at the game.
She forgot her jacket, so I basically gave her mine and it was like 3 degrees then, I took all of her bags for her and what not when we were there and done all sorts of stuff to make things easier for her, and at the end of the trip she silently said "You're such a gentleman" and she got pretty embarrassed when she said it
When we were waiting for our buses, she out of no where asked if she could stay the night too, but parents obviously didn't allow it cause they thought I'd end up doing her (lmao)
I sometimes pat her head, and whenever I do she sorta giggles a bit and tries to come up with another topic

Everything's been super great since we started talking more, and I wanna ask her to be my girlfriend, but idk if I should cause there's something telling me she still might say no, even though we've been getting so close recently

Can you guys give me some advice on what I should do? Should I go for it and ask her to be my girlfriend?

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>Always say no to people asking me out
>End up giving it a chance to one person that seemed special enough
>Don't truly love the poor guy 'cause autistic socio.

I keep up an act, but it doesn't change that its awfully boring and annoying, even if he almost idolize me at times.
So my worry is, if I break up with him, will i lose a lot that is to gain?
I'm thinking easy housing and easy money. And a good respectable position in society, something contrary to the virgin single loser.
Sex is unnecessary, I've never had the desire. Is there anything more, or is putting up with this useless timewasting?

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How to transition into living alone?

For the past few years, I've been living in dorms. 2 years ago, I moved in with my best friend and lived there since. In October, I'll have to move out as my studies have ended. I already have a job and can afford an apartment on my own. I was offered to live with some of my HS friends, as they'll also be moving into an apartment, but they ended up picking an apartment that has too few rooms for me to join.

So I'll be living alone. I don't have many friends, and I get cripplingly depressed when I'm alone for exposed amounts of time. Knowing what the few friends I have in this town are like, I'll probably be alone a lot of the time. On the other hand, I could move to a city a few hours away from here, where a bunch of my friends already live.

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Computer's been slow for a while.
Faped all night. Now it's really fucked.
Oops. Ran AVG and defraged. Got shit results.
How does /adv/ fix?

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I've typed a deep letter like 3 times now, but I'm having trouble with this for some reason. So I hope it's enough to just say I have no idea what I'm doing with my life. I'm worried about the world, my family, friends, and even strangers I don't know. I want the world to be a better place. I have ideas, but I don't know how to implement them. I'm just a factory worker. I'm saving, but it could take years. please help.

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Im a guy but why is it when i talk to a women i like it is hard to keep my feelings in?

And why is that i just want hugs and kisses and just be looking at a night sky with a person i love (which is currently a close friend of mine that im texting) and why do i always have this weird feeling in my chest?

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>I only respond in a pedantic, awkward way when people say hello to me.
>I am either very cool or very erratic in a conversation.
>I can't change subjects until utterly and completely analyzed.

How do I change? How can I obtain more control over these issues?

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I'll keep this simple. I'm fresh out of a all-girls' high school, and been in a mixed one this year. However, I can't ever talk to guys naturally. I'm usually very cheerful, friendly but I think when I talk to guys, I give off unintentional "uncomfortable"/ awkward vibes. Now none of them talk to me.

Also, I have a major inferiority complex. I'm constantly comparing myself to prettier girls, people more successful than me etc. In daily life, (for example) before talking to others, I tend to think; " If my prettier friend was here, I'm sure they would just ignore me instead" or up till the extreme point of thinking up SAW-like scenarios where only one can be saved etc. it's fucking up my life. Please help

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I have been staying in the Netherlands for several months for university purposes, but forgot to register with the municipality. I will be leaving in a couple of weeks. Should I go and register and then deregister a week later, or should I just let the couple of weeks go and then go home? Not sure how the system works and if I will have issues at the border. I am an EU citizen if thats relevant.

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Alright, so I actually want advice. I have a friend who I thought I trusted with my secrets and he trusted me with his. I told him how I saved enough money so that I'm going to take vacation without my family because they were always rude and make me feel like shit. I wanted to go and enjoy things at my own pace instead of being dragged by them and how each trip had pathetic drama that ruined it.

Afterwards I was just in my room the day after the fact, when suddenly my little brother came in and said "how are you?" Told him I was fine and all, but then he asked me "so you going somewhere next month, huh?" I realized he knew about my trip. I was wondering how the fuck he knew but then it turns out that my friend probably told him. Called him and it turned it's true, reason is "it's not big of a deal man"

So now I'm pissed of the fact the one friend I was sharing secrets with just admitted to tell it to my family for no reason other "not a big deal". My dad now has the most disappointing tone and look and my family don't talk to me much because I'm being ungrateful.

What can I do to not repeat this mistake? I now swore off of telling anyone anything about my personal life and if I had to answer I would lie because fuck trusting people again. I am in damage control with my family but I'm seriously pissed off.

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>ex girlfriend is now with a 2/10 autistic guy with all the stereotypical "reddit user" traits

i have never felt more depressed in my life

how can i view this in a way that doesnt make me feel awful?

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I've been living a lie the past 4 years of my life. In school I haven't passed a single quiz, exam or any kind of test without the use of outside help. I've cheated through all my classes since the beginning of high school so much so that I don't have any knowledge of Algebra 1. I've convinced my friends that I use confidence and persuasion to get into girls pants on the reg and convinced my parents and peers that I'm a whiz kid at computers by performing basic tasks. The girl I've been trying to get recently got a boyfriend after turning me down saying she wasn't ready for another relationship, then sent multiple snaps of her and him together knowing I still had feelings for her. My mom recently divorced my dad, then got a boyfriend a week later while trying to turn him into my new father figure. I keep making excuses to not see my friends such as "I'm broke and can't go anywhere" or "I'm not feeling to great catch you next time" because I've been so depressed lately. I still smile through it though but it's been getting difficult as of late. And with school over and there nothing to do. I keep feeling like it's all going to crumble down one day and it frightens me.

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I figure 4chan is as good a place to ask this as any: How has heavy introversion affected your relationship, /adv/?

I love her so much, but whenever I'm by myself I find myself so relieved to have my alone time. I enjoy being with her, but sometimes it feels like such a burden on my soul for someone to be around... Once she's gone it feels like like I'm free to do so much. She's super-extroverted and gets that I need my time, but I have no fucking idea how I'm going to ever get this with kids around and such in the future.

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I'm a socially awkward loser, who has basically no friends and can't talk to girls. I've heard the best way to change is to push yourself to your limits, so what should I do that'd force me to be more sociable/outgoing? Preferably an easy to land job of some kind

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This is the situation my gf is angry at me ( idont know why) and on top of that she literally kisses and hugs/holds hands whit some other dude i noticed she only does that when im around (maybe to make me jealous) my friends are pieces of fucking shit exept for one but thats not worth talking about the thing is im not sad or anxious about any of these things in fact im mad about the fact that she is the only person i have ever trusted and out of nowhere she does that im enraged about the fact that i thought she was diferent until the "one" friend told me something (my "gf" and her are good friends) since that moment i knew it would end like this she literally told me that my gf was using me and cheating on me with said dipshit i apreciate her honesty its better that she told me before i found out To be honest i feel a lot better after writing this perhaps thats all that i needed.