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>>17958812

Gotta do what's best for you.

The company will do the same. You're best for it... right now.
Couple of years time, they've got fresh new faces, maybe too many hires and they've got to cut back. You said once you were unhappy.
They need to get rid of people, then they'll drop you like a tonne of bricks.

Shit, might not even get a severance package or a payoff of any sort. Might just be putting too much pressure on you and stressing out until you either snap and go fucking nuts and cock up on a colossal scale, or quit. All so they don't have to pay a goddamn penny to get rid of you.

Seriously, don't think the boss, or company cares about you as any more than a means to an end.
Move on.

>>17958812

how long have you been at current job ?

this is the key here, you can always get better job offers (for awhile anyway) but too much hopping around will definitely ruin your career

plan on staying minimum 1 year if you've been at your current job 1+ years who knoiws ?

another tip - whining to the boss about getting a better offer works ONCE, after that the company puts a mark in your file and the next time you try this stunt they'll say - fine GTFO

>>17958849
my boss is great and two other coworkers had left, he has a lot to deal with If I also leave I will feel bad...

>>17959009
I've been a year, it's my first job and to be honest it wasn't what I thought It would be, that's why I did an interview...

Holy shit this hit me where it hurts. I always wanted to see a concert but never had someone to enjoy it with

Which band?

Just go Anon. You'll never be able to see them again if they breakup or a group member dies

I wouldn't travel 3 hours to an airport to see anyone off. That's what goodbye parties are for.

Also, wow, half a month? Stop being whiny, OP. It's a hassle, it's a gigantic hassle and he'll be with just before you board the taxi. You really can't demand any more than that.

And to answer, in case it is not clear, yes, overreacting. 3 hours less won't kill you.

>>17958796
Okay

You both need to get over yourselves.

>tfw I am this guy
>tfw one night stands with a girl in first year colleges

my advice is to go out a lot and hit on a lot of girls , get comfortable with rejection and flirting and comfortable with yourself. once you can go out in the heart of downtown and flirt with girls with rich and jacked dudes around competing for the same chicks, college girls are like shooting fish in a barrel

In 26, balding, and I don't even try anymore. It really does seem like dad is in, and I'm hardly it.

Are you already comfortable talking to girls? Then make yourself look a bit older and just get out there, the past year has been nonstop attention from college and high school girls

>>17958797
>>17958791
I'm always getting invited to college parties and the girls seem to always want to go for a ride on my motorcycle.

hm, I wonder if I can get some alone time this way

>>17958760
There really isn't anything to be done at this point. I've lost numerous accounts on things because I created the account so long ago I can't recall what information I used to register or the account is assigned to some old email that I can't get into anymore. Emails and accounts for things need an overhaul.

>>17958790
In the old time hotmail used to check the IP address among other things, looks like they don't even care anymore, their customer service is rubbish.

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>>17958760
I'm going through the exact same thing right now OP, currently waiting on yet another form request to see if I answered enough accurately.

I talked to a rep online and this is what he had to say about the form fields.

If I can't get the form right in a few days I'm going to contact support and basically say I'm desperate and do what I can to convince them.

walk up to her and say hello and smile

>>17958746
shout "INTERCOURSE!!!!" at every girl until you find one that likes you

if that doesn't work, ease into it by shouting "FOREPLAY THEN INTERCOURSE!!!"

>>17958746
>How do I approach women bros?

Slowly, and from behind tall grass, as not to alert the herd.

>>17958709

Means she's a vapid cunt and wants you both to compete for her.

I think she felt conflicted about how to tell you that you're not the only person she's dating so she decided to bring it up this way and potentially give you the option to bow out or whatever.

>>17958709

what a whore.

>>17958638
Do introspection. Like really think why you are the way you are?
Spend every day thinking about it (not all day thought) and optionally write it down.

Or if you don't mind drugs, take 5g of shrooms. But make sure you or someone in the family isn't schizo.

>>17958655
No drugs.
But like... I'm at it again now:
I have waay too much cool shit going on in my life and I just go into brag mode talking about it.

Cool and well payed job, a great apt and know a lot of cool stuff about cool stuff due to my education..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qM-gZintWDc

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>>17958601
from the back

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>>17958601
ra[spoiler]te[/spoiler] me?

If you don't mind the hair tie, just keep the tail short.

>tfw I do and always have hair in my eyes

>>17958600
They were jerking off to it

>>17958721
No way

>>17958721

Indeed. Post the pic, op

What the hell should I do ?

She met a guy from our country in Sweden but he lives at 1000km from her (621 miles). I don't think that will work.
She tells me she still wants to see me, talk to me since I'm part of her life, I know her for 6 years and we were good friends before we started to flirt.
She says she loves me but not in the way I think of
She cheated on me
She broke up with me
And yet I'm still in love and don't understand how I can forget about her, find another girlfriend etc.

People tell me that time will do the job but I don't want to and want to fight to get her back. I just wnat to be with her. A firend told me that if I say this it's because I still got hope and knows that there's a way. I don't think so, really, but still want to be with her.

I really don't know what to do /adv/ I just feel really bad now. Whatever I do I think about her, I try to change my mind doing sport, watching a movie, playing games but I just have this girl in my mind.

I already told her my feelings, that I wanted to be with her, and wanted to make her fall in love with me another time. She don't talk much, never tell me how she feels about what I say.
I'm sorry for writing so much but when I'm not feeling okay all I want to do is write.. write a lot and say everything I got in my mind and hearth. All my friends told me to fight and keep hope about this story if I could forgive her and still want her, but I guess I need more /adv/ices

>>17958588
You need to cut her off

She cheated you. It's not like she spoke to you first and told you that she wanted to end it. She disrespected you and disregarded your feelings as a person.

You have to tell her the following: she cannot build the foundations of a friendship on disrespect. Tell her how much she meant to you. Tell her that she definitely did love and respect you once, but that she doesn't any more, regardless of whether she believes that she does or not. Tell her that even if she doesn't respect you, you still respect yourself and spent the time apart trying to better yourself for her. Tell her what you did and what you achieved. You make it clear to her that a friendship built on disrespect and lack of regard for the other person cannot last and just doesn't mean anything. Maybe you can be friends again one day but if it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen.

The following is for you, OP

Girls want to offer friendship in a breakup but it doesn't mean the same to you as it does to them. This girl sounds like she was pretty great once but she is still the sort of person who would cheat on you.

You have made yourself into a better person. Even if she doesn't get to see it, you are still a better, smarter, fitter man than you were before. Go out into the world with the same attitude, live your life, gain new experiences and you will continue to build and grow. You sound like your lifestyle changes have made you happy. Keep doing that- keep making yourself happy

>>17958585
>Went to sweden
Your gf probably got raped by a Hazara "underage" 30 yr old and is too embarrassed to admit it.

Seriously, who the fuck wants to even go to this shit country?
I bet she went to KTH on Erasmus and KTH is shit tier compared to many American unis so why?

>>17958584
Start being physically active TODAY if you don't want to die you fat fuck.
Start counting calories and start lowering your food intake SLOWLY. Don't just go from eating everything from mcdonalds to munching on kale.
SLOWLY.

If you are american tier fat don't run or anything similar because you will fuck up your joints.
Walk at least 1h per day, it usually amounts to around 10k steps.

Oh and blood clots are pretty serious so I don't know why you are on animu board instead at a fucking doctor.

>>17958584
Doctor-faggot here

Tell me more about your leg. I need to know:

>When it started hurting
>Does it hurt constantly or intermittently
>Where do you feel the pain
>Is the leg red?
>Has there been a fever?
>What makes the pain better/worse
>Is the leg swollen? What is the circumference of the calf compared to the normal leg.
>Are the veins standing up on the leg?
>What other medical problems do you have, if any?
>What medications do you take, if any?
>Have you undergone any recent operations, suffered a broken limb in the last 3 months, ever been treated for cancer, or have a close relative who has suffered a clot in the leg or the lung?
>Have you been on any long trips/airline flights recently?
>Can you post a picture of the leg?

If this truly is a clot in the leg veins (known as a Deep Vein Thrombosis or DVT), then walking on it could be potentially dangerous until the clot has broken down. Please post info and I will try to advise.

>>17958629
>2016, i'm pretty sure
>it comes and goes at random
>thigh
>no
>no
>moving it? Not really sure
>no
>no
>well, my chest hurts when i sprint or even just run, my breathing is a little stuffy.
>i don't take medication
>no
>no, although i spend most of my time sitting down and i do cross my legs frequently.
>I don't feel comfortable doing that, besides, there is nothing note worthy about it

>>17958567

Try to be positive if either of you want to mend your relationship. If you are always fighting then she's going to associate a feeling of anger toward you.

If you're always positive and happy around her then that's what she'll reflect.

I know little about your relationship to know what to tell you, all I know is that I don't fight with my girls, not even when I have to set their asses straight.

Her nipples are all cross-eyed.

>>17958571
Its hopeless. We both have our fair share of issues. We broke up before and tried again. It felt amazing for a short period of time when we got back together, then back to our same old ways. I think its just who we are, and we are incompatible. It really sucks, because we do love each other, and we are very much sexually compatible.
So we are going to bang for the next month, be sexually exclusive, and then go our separate ways. It hurts to know its done, but goddamn the sex is good. I guess i cant ask anyone if its a bad idea to have sex even if we plan on separating, its going to be different for each person.

Thanks for replying btw

>>17958567
Stop. Stop fucking her. End it now. It's not worth it trust me.

You'll only get hurt in the end. Don;t do fwb with your exes

I was in similar situation. She choose guy with big dick.

Is this a "I legitimately have a micropenis" thread, or a "I'm insecure because I watch too much porn" thread?

Wait, this is /adv/, I already know that answer. But I went through the effort to type this, so fuck you, I'm posting anyways.

>>17958573
Everyone watches porn, including women, that's part of the problem...

cont.

She went like "Yeah sure, would be great :)" and that's it for now.

So what do I do? I don't want to scare her off more if there's still a chance that she wants to get closer to me in the long run but just got cold feet, or she is too shy and insecure and our making out so wildly made her afraid, I have not a single clue.

Am I too fixated on it anyways? I really feel like I might lose the chance for finding someone really sweet and kind to try to date and stuff.

>>17958560

I think you should try to chill with her without expecting anything like last time to happen. You might have too much focus in the wrong area and that's worrying about what could be.
It seems she may be uncertain herself so there's a fair amount of stuff to be cleared between you two.
My advice, don't show you're worried but ask her about it if you have a good opportunity to bring it up. If not then wait til after you see her so you have more to go off of.

Where do you work that you have 19 year old coworkers?