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That's quite a lot for someone who doesn't give you vagina. Do you want to establish a relationship or being her sugar daddy? I don't have enough info on her character, but if she somewhat hinted at what you should buy, even though the shit was limited supply and didn't get it by herself; well, good luck with that one.

>>18101803
She didn't hint at it. She merely mentioned how she liked the artist and how they were about to drop a new album, and I just went ahead and found out there was this bundle thing. I've never bought anything for her in the past. We're both broke as hell students, I know she doesn't expect much from me. Sugar daddy is a stretch.

>>18101828
Huh, then it's a solid case. I hope things will work out as you hope.

If I were in your shoes, the I'd give it to her when I really feel like it. Like, when you had a very good conversation and it's about to cool off, and you notice how closer you got ... AND THEN BAM BITCH! WHEN SHE THOUGHT IT COULDN'T GET BETTER YOU PULL OUT THE PRESENT! Since you're both on a trip you'll have plenty of chances like that. I'm not a fan of forced situations, this is why I'd observe if the time is right, like in my example.

You're probably not that desirable, they just want to shoot their load in something, anything

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You are reading 10 cliffnotes instead of one book. You are going to burger king every night of the week instead of saving up for a nice weekend dinner. These options are available to you because there is a market for them. Taking advantage is understandable if not practical for where you're at right now, but the guilt that made you post this suggests it isn't what you want for the long term.

What is your definition of seduce?

>>18101788

I'll tell you the truth girl, guys you fuck see right through you. If you can't form an emotional connection with them, you'll always be just a convenient hole that threw herself at them.

Enjoy the ephemeral satisfaction while still feeling empty inside, because in the end, they ain't validating you as a whole, just your exterior. Also they'll never want to get attached to someone that throws herself to the first penis in their sight at the first notion of feeling down and in need of approval. That shit doesn't make for good relationship material.

But why do you care though? Just go around, do whatever's the best decision for you in both short and long term, make mistakes and make sure to make a lesson out of them. Find what you like, what you're worth, and grow out of that phase. Being childish both physically and mentally is part of growing up, and as long as you find some meaning to the stuff you're doing and you improve yourself in some way after a mistake, there's nothing wrong or degenerate in it.

The last part it's the important one though, since many people can't grow out of the instant, short term satisfaction, and stay with that mentality for the rest of their life. Someone with that attitude at their 20's is just a normal kid fooling around, at their 30's is a bit of an idiot, and at their 40's is just pathetic, since he never gave up the short term pleasure for something more meaningful.

Do what you must, but always strive to learn, improve, and take the better decisions.

Just don't be a homewrecker and we all gud, girl.

>>18101783
A toy can be as huge as it can get, but it isn't as lively twitching and pulsating as a penis - these are your pros. And you really need to get some knowledge on female anatomy, because her pussy ain't getting stretched anywhere unless she pops out a baby.

She's exclusive with you, isn't she? So you don't need to be hypocrtical about it. Does it affect your sex lives negatively? No? Then go and eat a couple dicks.

>>18101794
>A toy can be as huge as it can get, but it isn't as lively twitching and pulsating as a penis - these are your pros.

All the more reason for her to leave OP and find a real life, bigger dick.

get a strap on

>>18101777
It's more than phimosis, even when i had phimosis i was still horny and enjoyed sexual stuff. The penis feels like 50% of its pleasure form physical pressure rather than precise touch.

He doesn't need an operation jesus christ, and if he does at least make sure they just open it up, not cut the whole foreskin off.

>>18101782
OP here, operation is necessary because he needs to open it (he's almost totally closed), but how can I do to give him pleasure?

>>18101770
Doesn't hurt to try, but just keep in mind that tinder is just a tool used to initiate dates with girls. If your comfortable with meeting girls in person immediately, then go for it.

An actual dating site would probably be better if you want a relationship.

Might as well just sign up for all the free things you can and see what happens.

>>18101781
>>18101787
Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it.

>>18101768
Learn better English and post again.

pls help me, im op and some is happening with my pc, and i cant post it like op,
>>18101772
im drunk, and im posting from my phone, pls help, or at lest tell my grammar errors

Well OP maybe you subconsciously realized that you want a real relationship with a deep meaningful connection that would give you a lifetime of happiness and random hookups are meaningless and you don't want them.

But more likely you where just nervous.

>>18101775
I actually wasn't THAT attracted to her, I mean yeah she was hot, like 8/10, but it just felt like something was missing. IDK. I managed to get hard a number of times, but not when she was touching my benis

>>18101766
Quit watching porn. Severely minimizw the number of times you masturbate. Never death grip.

>The way i see it 4 out of 5 things that come out of the media are lies

That's because if you want to make it in journalism you have to bend the truth or exaggerate or fulfill some political agenda.

If you don't then you don't get good ratings and you don't get a job.

If you think you can break this system then you are wrong.

>>18101751
Don't go into journalism. If you hate how the media lies and skews the truth, then you will hate being a journalist. People who tell the truth in journalism don't get far, companies only look for journalists who can turn any story into a clickbait one that will get a lot of views. I've also heard making money is tough as a journalist

CS is much better and will give you more opportunities in life.

>>18101759
or you could be the person who exposes everyone elses lies like ben shappiro
>>18101762
you can always write a book or make a documentary

>>18101749
Let me guess:
Are you super fat + diabeeeetus + sugar addicted person?

If yes
>>>/fit/ read sticky and start un-fattening yourself.
If not
>>>/doctor/ the worst case he will laught at you and tell you that you are normal.

>>18101749
You have autism, sorry OP

do you use a heated blanket if yes did it get too hot and melt you

because that happen tome

>>18101718
You already got it, senpai.

>>18101718

>a unique, original experience.

What the fuck does that mean?

>>18101718
Become a night shift taxi driver. You will experience a lot of crazy shit.

Are you paying your own bills? Working? Going to school?

You can always move back in, right? Or is that not an option?

Honestly at 19 you could get addicted to hard drugs and go through rehab, and still emerge with tons of time to get your life sorted out.

>>18101724
>Are you paying your own bills? Working? Going to school?
Part-time working, and doing a bit on the side to make ends meet.
Overall I am not saving up money, mostly just spending time recovering from years long depression, through cooking healthy food, hitting the gym, and getting proper sleep.

>You can always move back in, right? Or is that not an option?
Nope, room already turned into home office

>Honestly at 19 you could get addicted to hard drugs and go through rehab, and still emerge with tons of time to get your life sorted out.
Never been a fan of recreational drug use. It's enjoyable but not so much I would spend much time or money on it.

That shit was the norm a few years back.

>>18101716

You are fat unless you are a muscular male

>>18101723

This, and to add he means really muscular with no layer of lard on top of it.

>>18101716
It's not overweight, but I wouldn't say it's healthy.

Get a tinder account and look for hookups.

>>18101687
I'm on tinder. How do i organize a hookup? What do i say?

One day he says he wants to break up, and because we are good friends he tells me about his new crush. I'm jealous, but supportive. By evening I'm expecting some friends and he's going to the party to meet this girl. I have my old friends coming over and one extra, Adam, a guy I went to middle school with. I had randomly got in touch and invited him over. I dunno what I was thinking. He was the definition of a douche bag, the guy my boyfriend would have hated. He had plugs, tattoos, drove a classic car, posed really stupid pictures. My friends came over and he did too, and it was immediate to everyone that something weird was going on, cuz I would never associate with those kind of guys. Domino 3

Adam went to school with me and my friend, and so it was kind of a reunion. My friend and I used to really like him, he was a lady's man, but nothing ever happens. So when he came over there was a lot of chemistry between all of us, something my friends boyfriend did not like. He has to be a drug dealer or something. He comes over with weed, smokes us all out. I went into a kind of shock, as I hadnt smoked weed in years and never like that before. He was being douche, my friends wanted to leave, and they left me alone with him.
Domino 4

We were on the couch, I felt really dizzy, and I just remember telling about how my boyfriend left me for someone else, I started to cry and he comforted me. That's when it began. I gave him a blow job right there. We ended up naked on my bed and I said no, told him to stop and he fucked me anyway, no condom. I cried and he comforted me again. I didn't know what plan b was so I thought the worst. Anyway, I don't know why but I kept him over night, smoking weed and sucking his dick through the night. Domino 5

(Contd, below)

I wake up in the morning and he's gone. I'm scared, confused, blah. I meet up with my boyfriend at the mall and he tells me him and his girl only kissed. I told him I had a friend over. He asked what happens. I just told him I blew him, nothing else. This devastated him. He pathetically demanded we get back together. I said no, I don't know why, but I said I was with this guy now? Anyway he demands we have break up sex or whatever. I'm like ok. So we go back to my apartment and do it. Adam calls and he wants to come over. I'm happy cuz I am not a floozy and liked the idea of him. I don't know why.
Domino 6

Adam comes over and finds out my boyfriend was here and puts me through a guilt trip, very psychologically messing with my head like I had done something wrong. This is the beginning of the most sexually charged and fucked up 6 days of my life. He spends the night every night. My boyfriend didn't even do that cuz his parents were worried I'd get pregnant. Adam wants to get me pregnant. He's crazy. Tells me stories about meth and extacy, says he's gonna to buy a trailer and drive up north with a girl and raise a family. He really messed with my head, tried making me feel there was a future. He just wanted to drug me, and use me for oral. He didn't want sex, saying we should take it slow- he respects girls, having sex means a lot to him. I am out of my mind at this point. I'm stoned, naked, sucking this douche bags dick for a week in my apartment. My boyfriend is blowing up my phone and it seems like I am leaving everything behind to start over with this new guy.
Domino 7

By the end of the week Adam shows his drinking side, and I don't like it. Tries to fuck me but I'm like No, what about what u said. So he's like whatever, come met my parents then. Cuz the whole idea was having sex meant I was his girl, the girl he would impregnate. I go over to his house, his family are totally oblivious to the fact that their son is a sociopath. I ignore the obvious. Like that his room is covered with posters of naked girls, or that his drug dealer is over and has cocain for him. He offers it to me but I never have never will. He doesn't care, snorts it. In retrospect I see his whole warped plan: he wanted get me high on coke, have unprotected sex throughout the night, and the. In the morning tell me he was moving to Vegas and that I could visit him from time to time. What ended up happening was that the moment we started, I asked him to stop again, and he did. Perhaps the idea of getting me pregnant and the leaving was too unethical. He got off me and confessed he was moving. I left, never saw him again.

I ended up get back with my boyfriend, but I had to tell him. I told my mom too. They tried to press charges but the cops told my mom "it takes two to tango". I realize it doesn't make sense, but he did rape me.

seek treatment for your mental illness. sell your car and rent a real apartment walking distance from work.

>>18101641
Just get on with your life and try to get over your crippling bitterness.

>>18101644
What exactly is my mental illness?