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>>18103298
Shave off then draw your eyebrows

I'm a male, but I'll give my 2 cents. Your picture doesn't really give a friendly vibe, but other than that I've gotta say you can probably pull chicks. Maybe smile more?

Also, you could try growing a beard/stubble.I think you could pull it off.

Get off 4chan, talk to some women and network. Just pretend you don't have any feelings other than joking.
Also pretend you have the answers to everything and are always confident. They love that shit.

>>18103291
Mods/Hiro keep a record of all posts (deletions as well IIRC) and IP information and have to report any relevant criminal information to the police

Go to the IRC channel on Rizon and tell them and email Hiro and the moderators, stressing a lot on going to the IRC channel. I went there for a mistaken ban and they helped me work through it.

>>18103300
not op but I am a newfag to here and the net in general

what are rizon and IIRC?

>>18103352
IIRC = If I remember correctly
IRC = Internet relay chat (basically chat rooms before chat rooms)
Rizon = IRC site

I'm one of those people and all I have to say is that type of illness doesn't impact social skills

>>18103251
It's not just about social skills, it should affect your ability to function in everything. I've had depression as a teen and I was shit at everything at the time - grades were bad, bullied, looked like shit. How is it even an illness if your day to day life is seemingly unaffected?

I'm schizoaffective (bipolar + schizophrenia) with undiagnosed asperger's or ASD.

My thoughts are so disorganized for the most part that I can't hold down a job or carry on a conversation.

I'm just gonna monitor this thread.

I'm asexual too. I don't understand why it upsets you to the extent that you're willing to go?

>>18103231
the problem you have is not with sexuality but with the need to follow the lead of society. Nobody needs to do what the others tell them they should. Just live your life. Meet an asexual partner and live your happy lives together

>>18103238
I'm sick of it, but at the same time I understand what you're saying. I used to say that too.
There are no other people like me that I can talk to in real life. All of my friends are oblivious to the way I am, and how they indirectly rub it in. I can't blame them, because I never speak up. But now, after my idiotic exploits, every time the topic of sex or even talking about a woman in a perverted way will put me sick to my stomach. It's recently happened, and it basically ruined the day for everybody. I just feel like a disappointment. I want to be something, anything other than what I am now.

Better get some condoms.

Just kidding. No idea, dude. She either likes you or she doesn't, and you'll know tomorrow. Good luck!

>>18103575
Thanks Anon! I'm stuck between that too, either I'm going to find out she likes me back or not. Though I'm going to hope for the first, the more I believe it the more likely it'll happen

All you can do is hope for the best and prepare for the worst. Though I'd say things are looking pretty nice for you. Good luck anon!

Also, as another hs senior chasing a crush, I'd like to ask you something. When did you start talking to this girl? Like how much time has passed since you met her. Just curious.

>>18103195
Okay, so you play with them online and one of them has spread some sort of rumor about you elsewhere which is now motivating them to chat you up outside of the game?

Cut ties, immediately.

>>18103195
You should get an adult, you're not old enough for this site

Malnutrition

Did you try google ?

>>18103199
Im aware of that but my brain got too addicted, female brains are funny i suppose. I like his personality more than i had liked the personalities of other peers and learned a bunch of interesting things thanks to him, he is cute but somewhat emotionally distant. But yeah i feel that he hangs around out of pity.
Also not meaning to bully but 4chins is age-sensitive so i wouldnt admit im underage on your place for future reference.
I appreciate your input though

Also, you shouldn't be negative towards yourself, I'm sure that ur not a bad person, you just need some confidence/hope in life

>>18103222
Thanks anon-kun for the nice words, but it is not about being horrible or anything, i just have a pretty cringy personality that wont let me interact with people normally. It is a little hard to explain, but anyway i try to work on it. It can be very difficult, especially when it comes to somewhat closer relationships.
Do you have a story you would want to share yourself?

dox them on /b/

Hello 4chan. The message for revenage, is a bit out of hand. I am running a cybersecurity risk managment class, and a simulated insider threat is part of the game (the email shown in thread) a student in the class is attempting to think outside the box here, but your assistance is not required its all planned out.

Thanks for understanding

Professor B.

Work on your personal problems and quit taking it out on people

>>18103152
Most toxic people try to be someone their not, so just be yourself

>>18103187
>Most toxic people try to be someone their not
In what sense? Example?

>>18103166
Same problem anon?

>>18103151
>talk
Like you'd talk with anyone. Either the girl you're talking to will take interest in what you're saying, or she won't. That sorta how social interaction works.
>be attractive
Every girl has different tastes, so hard to say. Obvious things like showering regularly and being a generally decent human being helps you along greatly.

This is really too vague a question to answer.

>>18103174
Yes, i get mush mouth when trying to talk, and although i dont think im the most hideous person out there i think ive aged into someone the majority of women dont find appealing

Anyone ?

>>18103143
You should talk to her about it. It's not only easier to express feelings using text but also having a conversation over chat is prone to misinterpretation.

You need to let her know how it's making you feel. Also listen to what she has to say as well when you talk about it. Good communication in a relationship is important.

>>18103143
Hey OP, I've been through the exact same thing. I had to let her go. She's demonstrating classic trust issues, and when they are that bad I promise you don't want to be the person to try and fix it all for them. It's damn near impossible to maintain a long lasting relationship. TLDR; abandon ship fast and quiet

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>>18103122
Dude what the fuck not everyone is wealthy enough to do that. People find love living under rusty bridges and being addicted to black tar heroin.

Of course there's plenty of girls who will like you for you. It's only a matter of time. Just be yourself and enjoy life. And if a pretty and kind girl is interested in who you are then just be your honest self and roll with it baby.

>>18103122

you act as if every guy is taking every girl on a trip last weekend and you're the only one who didn't pair up.

>be honest, I'm gonna be fuckign single for a long ass time because I had a lazy weekend aren't I?

only if you want to be.

If she ever finds out, you'll lose her. I don't think it's worth the risk.

>>18103439
This. The risks are too high on this one. You found the love of your life, why screw that up m8?

Thanks

Yup, im kinda the polar opposite, its just more of who do you confide in/relate with better

There are tons of guys who literally just bro out 24/7

>>18103075

It's normal, but not really what you should be looking for. A lot of guys think men and women can't be platonic friends, which is shortsighted. Having female friends is important to get different perspectives, be introduced to new women, and not be that dude that's just trying to fuck everything.

The problem is, the key here is for both sides to not be sexually or romantically desperate, so you'll probably get a lot of feedback that it's not possible, since most of /adv/ is just that.

>>18103149
Does it mean that everybody is desperate and bros just dont fuck eachother because they arent gay?